Pregnant Empath/newborn baby
First off whenever a violent or highly emotional event has occurred; it leaves a sludge. Our ability can pick up on this sludge and we can perceive the people that were involved in it even if they are no longer around, kind of like a recording. It is often a mistake to assume anymore than that something happened. I bet when you tried to access it that it didn't know or remembered but was confused. That is because, until you accessed it, it really was nothing more than sludge. Now that you accessed it; you gave it an assumed intelligence. As long as you continue to access it; you give it power; your power and your babies. No amount of oil is going to get rid of it. You must reject it. Think about it. If it is spiritual which is above the physical; how can anything physical affect the spiritual? That is also why you are so tired because it is drawing from your energy. Reject it and, in time, it will go away. That is the best advice I can give.