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Mez
@mez
03/18/20 01:17:56PM
27 posts

Intuition


Empath

That's really sad; I can imagine some of the situations she must be going through. I worked as a health care assistant many years ago and it's very saddening having to watch someone go through end of life knowing there isn't much that can be done. For the family and friends also. Even as a health care assistant we would build attachment and relationships with them. I remember the first time I worked with one lady who had alzheimers, she was very lovable but mean at the same time. I loved her nonetheless and just out of nowhere she deteriorated and passed away weeks later. Still remember looking into her eyes and I couldn't hold my tears back the day she passed away. I've never been like that towards my own grandfather which was odd.

And yeah as an empath it must be really draining.
Mez
@mez
03/18/20 06:50:08AM
27 posts

Intuition


Empath

@crystalsage

Thank you so much for your response and apologies for the late reply, I completely forgot.

I agree and understand with alot of what you wrote.

Inwas very sensitive to some peoples thoughts and emotions when I was new as an empath. I literally could not ground. There was times as if I could hear some peoples thoughts clearly and out loud; I still dont know why that was. When I was around them whether inwas writing or talking; I just couldnt seperate my own from they're and I got judged alot for being a completely different person to how everyone once new me. It still happens but it doesn't matter as much since I found support in this forum and and another and this old empath that I kind of hot to know because I though the only way forward was going to be to just go with whatever I'm inclined with and let time itself break the chord.

Having said that sometimes people expectations and judgements would form an energy and I'd get caught up and act out of character sometimes and on the worst experiences I'd get delusional.

Having had gestational diabetes, 3 kids and sleep (lack of) would affect my perception of reality also and make the situation worse. I'm forever grateful that, that has so much stopped. Sometimes I struggle with the sexual energies mostly, and energies around love in relationship contexts, I kind of really like this empath I got to know, and it was weird. Sometimes people were telling I dont have feelings for this person and it really upset me because I do know my own thoughts and emotions. During my second pregnancy I was so hormonal, i couldn't even look at this guy; he was making me physically nauseous and I couldn't stand one of his photos just looking at it and him in green would make me nauseous. I never told him or the person I'm committed to. But I confided in a friend who knows I'm an empath that I'm going through something really strange and it doesn't make sense. Then she explained to me that the same happened to her towards her husband during one of her pregnancies. It was so weird like this guy wasnt even my spouse and yet that's how my hormones and body naturally responded.

I dont want my energy to affect his though when I'm getting on with stuff and trying to move forward. And hoping to be a better person from this whole experience.

I love herbal teas also and fruit flavoured, I'm not too fussed about having fresh ingredients but its lovely that those are the things that help you stay balanced.

You mentioned stones and that you understand the science behind them and that helps you which is great, I never understood science, failed miserably in school, only understood the basics after having 1 = 1 support from my teacher he was called mr crowley; I still remember him he was one of the best teachers we had in school. ๐Ÿ˜Š

I do have jewellery though with moonstone and turqoise I think it makes me feel positive rather having them to shield etc. Sometines o just think its placebo which can also create a protective shield around just from thoughts or beliefs.

Has anyone ever had any experience with zultanite? I'm so drawn to it and looking for a ring of I can find a nice one..

Hope everyone is ok during these difficult times
Mez
@mez
03/14/20 05:21:56PM
27 posts

Intuition


Empath

Thanks Hop; I do agree with you. I'm gonna go for it because 1) it's always been in my nature to give back more in whatever I could; even if I was in the wrong, and I am sorry. 2) I hope they dont hate me since that will taunt me but if they do I guess I deserve it for being a pain in the a** to them.

Your mom is a chaplain! Wow, for how long? I'd live to do something like as rewarding as that, I have been looking into it also as maybe some voluntary work in the future when life and kids give me some opportunity for more time to myself.

That's what I want to advice (about what you said in living in regret etc). I want to live a life of trying to bring truthfulness and building relationships rather than dismantling from the negative/low energies that I cannot ground from and on top having Mental Health issues is not helping me be an easy person to be around sadly
Mez
@mez
03/14/20 05:13:00PM
27 posts

Overcoming fear of the news


Empath

It's been around 4/5 years since I stopped watching the news on tv. I just found it was making me more angry and aggressive.

Any news shows I followed on social media I also stopped following since it was making me very depressed; all that would show up was really traumatic life events.

I can say putting the empath stuff aside and relationship/friendship complications aside; my life has been somewhat more peaceful and at ease. And ur right Matthew. Its just deaf mongering and population control
Mez
@mez
03/14/20 08:03:59AM
27 posts

Intuition


Empath

In response to the last bit if advice you gave; how do I know it wont make them more angry or what if they assume I'm being more a nuisance to them?

I really do feel my soul and mind will be at least knowing g that I've lifted a huge burden off of myself by letting go of a dark time in my life where I felt hopeless. I'm just worried I dont want it to backfire because of the implication and complexity of the situation i was in.

On the other hand you suggested lots of useful holistic and therapeutic strategies that I'm sure will do great and benefit hopefully.

I think I might try gardening! I actually love the idea but have never taken that up and I think it would uplift the mood of the neighbours since my gardens are pretty dull.

Friend wise I've tried in the past and it gets nowhere, I actually feel really sad that some of my friends thi k I'm still in connection with this person and that I'm lucky I have a friend as such.

I wish I was as lucky as they assume and I wish the situation was better. I wish him all the best; I've been trouble enough as it is since I dont feel like a normal/regular person. I find pleasure in talking in the weirdest of subjects; far from a halo on my head...

And besides this other person didnt want to talk about anything that was personal to them so doesn't really leave much to talk about.

And ur right I'm mindful about grounding as in talking to others and offloading..

Hope you have a great weekend and thanks for the quick response.. really needed that ๐Ÿ˜Š
Mez
@mez
03/13/20 12:39:19PM
27 posts

Intuition


Empath

@hop=daddy

Thank you for taking the time and read; I'm lame at grounding; I have tried some stuff that worked and some that didnt. The great support I usually find to help me through is talking to people who can relate and somehow it just gives me the courage and strengthen to plough through.

But your right; knowing when and where in my life I need to put the brakes on will help I guess since neglecting self care and time to relax can sometimes trigger more stress than desired.

I have however been going out more just not having alone time and I think that's all I need.

There was stuff I was unable to disconnect from in the past, one particular person I got caught up in a chord or empath connection that I was unable to break free from, gave somehow managed to and I dont know whether to be in awe and proud of myself or what I should be doing next.

Dont think this person wants anything to do with me anymore since my last words to them were I hated them.

I still think of them, miss them. But just fear going back since they supported me through alot also and wasnt sure if I should send a gift as closure to those chapters in my life or ate they going to hate me more for it?. Though they shouldn't know since I'm intending to keep it anonymous..

Thoughts/advice appreciated ๐Ÿ’›
Mez
@mez
03/05/20 07:30:39AM
27 posts

Thought I was awake but wasn't total black saw dark figure


Dreams

Maybe you bumped into a spirit, as empaths we are one foot in the real and another in the spiritual. Perhaps your dream state made you more aware of it?

Try meditating on your fear of darkness? Allow your self to be comfortable in the dark and use relaxation techniques/music to help with that
Mez
@mez
03/04/20 01:30:04PM
27 posts

Thought I was awake but wasn't total black saw dark figure


Dreams

Thanks @womanwhowalks; can diet trigger lucid dreaming?

Iv'e been eating a diet of diff lentils this past couple weeks and I've been seeing more in my dreams.

They're healthier alternatives and quick and easy to prepare; so wondered if there was any link...

Matthew; are you picking up someones fear in a dream state? And this how its appearing to you?
Mez
@mez
03/04/20 06:23:42AM
27 posts

Thought I was awake but wasn't total black saw dark figure


Dreams

Sometime ago I felt like I had my first out of body experience. It was strange but I didnt know if it was or not; since I haven't ever experienced this before and forgotten about.

I was asleep and I dreamt of someone that I guess developed feelings for ina romantic sense after talking to them and getting to know them.

It was a lengthy dream, and I felt so deep in it, like almost lost, but he kept calling me, was helping me in someway, kept reaching out his hand and then letting to, I remember he was wearing black and in a gathering, seemed caring etc; I remember as I was waking from the dream; i felt dizzy waking up, like i was another room/place, and it took a few minutes to come around; I was wondering where i was when i become aware if my surroundings again.

Was this an out of body experience?
Mez
@mez
03/04/20 06:17:43AM
27 posts

Confusing negative thoughts towards loved one


Empath

@kate; hi and hope ur ok and In a better place; iv'e been in a similar situation to you and noticed odd things that didnt add up and I suggested the same to one of my care providers in regards to my own relationship. It could be a possibility that sometimes negativity arises from an underlying mental health issue that has been brought to light.

Hope your situation improves for the better.
Mez
@mez
02/25/20 08:54:06AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

If I went off on a tangent because I also have a panic disorder*
Mez
@mez
02/25/20 08:51:25AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

"Buckets if s*" that made me smile haha..

Glad your finding ways that work for you. And hope we all can. How do I cut cords with this person? Just dont want anything to do with them anymore. Feel like I'm being or have been a nuisance more than anything. I understand things around chords etc but it never worked for me before. It's not intentionally I'm assuming, it's just we be reminded of each other in everyday life and then I just give in and go back.

As for the book you suggested I have heard of it, someone mentioned it to me a couple years ago but never really looked into it. Might see if I'm willing to give it a read. In terms of this relationship I dont think I'll be using any suggestions or insights relationship wise but if it helps with changing vibes and projection types of energy through careful wording then I'll def have a read.

Not sure who the characters are but will have a google.. thank you.

O used affirmations to disconnect from animals etc I did feel at a point I could feel the emotions of cows on one holiday, a dog, and a cat. Sometimes I've felt from one mountain, if that wasnt even possible? Its linked with the holy place of makkah from the islamic aspects.

Rocks as in Crystal's etc hop=daddy mentioned to me last time that they help with healing, but never really worked for me I did go into a store to try them out, i found a store and held the crystals in my hand to see if i noticed anything, not much besides they were fascinating to look at and reflect on. My sister has some from a museum that are so beautiful and she let me try them to see if anything helped energy wise but failed in that also.

Mentally sometimes I panic; because I will pick up someones sense of humour and how funny they are, I wont be able to disconnect from it but i"ll continue on one of my blogs to be humorous then start reflecting is this going to get me into trouble . I just assume people must hate me or think people must be very curious to see what goes on behind closed doors.

But I try to remain hopeful that I'm trying to inspire others and help them relax and just saw an opportunity to blog instead of run it as a business page.
Mez
@mez
02/24/20 10:44:24AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

Mez:
Thank you @matthew=elsey. They are coping strategies (even if u healthy) and as much as it's a shame to have to utilise methods as such it's difficult to get others to understand how we are not always the problem but others have a part in what they have done to us or have caused us to resort to or become. Self bashing is something I used to do alot, being around the wrong person and leaning on someone I thought was a friend a lover only taught me how blind inwas to how much more mental trauma he put me through, at a age where insecurities I was riddled with. And the fear if how family would respond. I learnt about relationships from magazines and tv shows and books thinking i knew what one was or how go handle. Clearly not as years have gone by.

And from the eyes of someone sorry to say but ignorant as f*. Because he was, each from different parts of the world, young and wanting to be in love yet only conditioned by what "love" and how "love" was being taught.

When i was around 18 I was self harming, attention seeking in this relationship where i was getting nothing but he was loving all the attention. I regret freaking out when he said he was going to tell my family; i was hiding an eating disorder. And forced him not to tell. I understand he must have felt trapped also.

And yes your right it is something I will re=visit (the clinic) once I have more time. Right now just busy with lots of appointments etc and not enough me time.

The time I did have; spent talking someone i thought wanted to be friends also; clearly not seeing he blocked me. Hes an empath also but doesn't really like talking about it or avoids the subject; can anyone help me understand what that means. He said I said things that weren't nice, I thought I was being nice? Example telling my insecure partner I'd pay for his hair transplant if he goes bald or knee extentions because he's short by 1 inch than me. This friends knows I find him attractive but not as much as what I did in the beginning. He knows I'm an empath also.

I guess he never really considered wanting to be friends or was just curious in personal stuff of which I dont mind talking about, but he clearly did?

I may look into what I can do meanwhile in terms of accommodation. I just really dont want to be with this person anymore and i dont think that that's anyone else's energy/thoughts/feelings/vibes but my own. That that's how i feel and it's not going to make anything any better.

Believe it or not I was bulimic for almost 10yrs, which turned into a binge eating disorder as I tried self help methods. Then back to purging from the high of the sugar and how purging releases "happy hormones" it is pretty much like a drug in itself.

And just as any drug can make anyone restless etc so can this from old habits like timing from consumption to the digestive process and absorption etc. Can create adrenaline, panic like emotions, fear and so forth. Groggy mood, and constant mood swings are usually tell tale signs someone is affected by body image, and insecurities, and anger if not being able to achieve the object of envy..

I'm between 85=89 kg and 5'4 I think.

People class me as over weight, and I'm aware how it affects my health but that's the thing when we seek a solution from something that's going to create more problems "a quick fix or shortcuts".

I should have seen a psychologist when I was told that's what I needed on one self admission to the hospital for an overdose. But hey trying to undo all of that un healthy behaviour.

What are your struggles around knowing whether feelings are yours or not?

How sensitive are you to others' emotions? Energy?

A movie I used to love watching around trying to recover from bulimia, that I thought others might be interested in? " sharing the secret" it's available free to watch on youtube.

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Mez
@mez
02/24/20 08:13:47AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

Thank you @matthew=elsey. They are coping strategies and as much as it's a shame to have to utilise methods as such it's difficult to get others to understand how we are not always the problem but others have a part in what they have done to us. Self bashing is something I used to do alot, being around the wrong person and leaning on leaning on someone I thought was a friend a lover only taught me how much more mental trauma I had through through.

And the eyes of someone sorry to say but ignorant as f*.

When i was around 18 I was self harming, attention seeking in this relationship where i was getting nothing but he was loving all the attention. I regret freaking out when he said he was going to tell my family i was hiding an eating disorder.

And yes your right it is something I will re=visit once I have more time. Right now just busy with lots of appointments etc.

I may look into what I can do meanwhile in terms of accommodation. I just really dont want to be with this person anymore and i dont think that that's anyone else's energy/thoughts/feelings/vibes but my own. That that's how i feel and it's not going to make anything any better.

Believe it or not I was bulimic for almost 10yrs, which turned into a binge eating disorder as I tried self help methods. Then back to purging from the high of the sugar and how purging releases "happy hormones" its is pretty much like a drug in itself.

And just as any drug can make anyone restless etc so can this from old habits like timing from consumption to the digestive process and absorption etc. Can create adrenaline, panic like emotions, fear and so forth.

On between 85=89 kg and 5'4 I think.

People class me as over weight, and I'm aware how it affects my health but that's the thing when we seek a solution from something that's going to create more problems.

I should have seen a psychologist when when I was told that's what I needed on one self admission to the hospital for an overdose. But hey trying to undo all of that un health behaviour.

What are your struggles around knowing whether feelings are yours not?

How sensitive are you to others' emotions?

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Mez
@mez
02/23/20 10:46:20AM
27 posts

Intuition


Empath

Thanks @womanwhowalks and @trevor=lewis I do understand and agree with u both on what you've said but in think I'm partially to blame for some of the situations I've allowed myself to be caught in.

I feel like I've lost all dignity and self respect I ever had or even thought I had.

Like I'm just on a rampage to destroy myself in any way possible.

I will try what you suggested @illuminous=ops.

Just feel unappreciated.
Mez
@mez
02/23/20 10:42:26AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

Thank you for sharing this. Really appreciate it.

I have experienced some of the things you mentioned and have tried similar techniques in the past (cant remember what they were but something around reflecting)

Does it not vary based on the dynamics of the situation where the anger is rooted and what contexts its applied in?

Relationship wise, knowing it's come to an end, just not having the courage to walk out due to not having anywhere to go.

Anger because I was proud of myself for so long I worked on trying to not be angry about the eating disorder I've had.

I'm upset, guilty and angry that iv resorted back to purging and the temptation and addictive elements of the hormonal changes is drawing me back.

Except this time around I'm not fixated on body image. But triggers that trigger mentor respond this way of dealing with emotion because I've never really had any reliable support.

I'm wondering if it's worth contacting an eating disorders association that I sought help from from a long time ago, it infuriated me that when I told my practitioner about this I was told I was "too obese" to receive any help because technically the way they are dealt with is flawed, meaning a person has to be a particular weight to receive help.

I'm so tempted to purge even now and not being able to let go of someone I've fallen for isn't helping.

Everytime they walk out my body naturally goes into regurgitation mode and I just cry because I dont know how else to deal with the fact nothing is in my control.

Just feel miserable. ๐Ÿ˜”
Mez
@mez
02/21/20 07:45:28AM
27 posts

Intuition


Empath

Can anyone help me understand why I am no longer able to use my gut instinct since becoming an empath?

Just feel so drained and tired; it's like I forget how much I occupy myself in and dont know when to put the breaks on.

Hope all are ok?

Having one of those miserable days including miserableย  empath day

Mez
@mez
02/05/20 12:04:23PM
27 posts

Under his light


New Age

Thanks @womanwhowalks I thought so once too similar to what you said but I didn't dwell on it. Maybe I still feel the connection from his side because he probably still wondered why I was crying and felt helpless.. Either way I'll see if I can find any affirmation or something that would help disconnect. Is it possible to have secret admirers or someone whose energy is strong enough to over power on a more intimate sense. Meaning at times I cannot tolerate being physically touched because I feel like I belong to someone else? Like I can almost karate on someone even if they tried, he's not in hospital just yet (my partner I'm referring to)... I know when it's his energy sometimes so could it be something mutually shared because ofcourse he's the same as most men would be in a relationship?..ย  or even in a friendly loving/ protective aspect ๐Ÿ’›


updated by @mez: 02/05/20 12:06:15PM
Mez
@mez
02/02/20 04:17:39PM
27 posts

Under his light


New Age

Hi all; I have a question to ask around past life; past life as in a memory from the past. (Not a life from another dimension/time).

Around 14yrs ago or something; I had a somewhat good relationship with a male colleague. As someone whose suffered Mental Health related complications from a young age; I was around early adolescent.

Being young, naive and a worrier; I never really knew how to form/maintain relationships not how to set, develop and change boundaries when meeting the people I felt comfortable with.ย 

People I could trust for sure. This male colleague anyway I just saw his fb acct and while I was going through with whatever he has shared publicly, it took me to a memory I had with him.

I was at a peak with an eating disorder, and being around food/unable to deal with emotions maturely I remember I wanted to tell him that I can be strange sometimes around food/emotions. Since most social interaction is based on these.

Iv'e been an empath around 4yrs now (clairscentient mostly) and Around 2 yrs ago I was engulfed in a strange light, bright yellow, warm yet heavy; was this his soul energy still interacting with mine?

When I visited his fb page I just followed a natural thought process and began interpreting; I remember crying my eyes out in front of him; he never touched me out of kindness and respect. But I re =lived that memoryย  again, except this from his perception?

I cried but as 8f I was watching through his eyes/ yet very subtle; his inner eye? And that light was around me again; it was friendly; open

Anyone have any clue on what this may be? Or experienced anything like this?

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Mez
@mez
01/30/20 11:37:15AM
27 posts

Confusing negative thoughts towards loved one


Empath

Hi kate, hooe ur feeling better; i skimmed through some of ehat you have shared; i xan understand yiur stress; but it seems that you just need tye tine and space to be alone with yourself and see how you feel. Do what you love and what brings you inner peace and happiness and maybe you'l feel better.

Whatever tou do; dont use as an opportubity to give yourself another chance only to give him another chance. If he cant be there for you in the ways you need him to be it wont do you any favours long term. Though it will be difficult gtting over something that brought happiness and conentment to you.

(Thats if things haven't resolved already).

Im just personally tired of being with someonw who expects all the changes in myself yet is unwilling to chnage his own mentality. He gwts narcier by the day, useless and exoects tge world to chase after his problems while he can live a "comfortable life" and the people we are around are mostly favour for a favour type.

I want to be happy; i want to move on and i need someone who reciprocates that also; most if my life i have spent inside my own head hating myself, i want to learn to accept myself whhich i partially do; loving is a long way away yet.
Mez
@mez
01/30/20 11:27:01AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

**posted in the wrong thread

How did you deflect anger? Thats the one that irritates me the most. Especially when i know ot's not from my own self im reflecting from. Theres times i'll feel an energy where in situations people might expect me to be angry, and I have to remind myself not to respond to that emotion; sometimes i will forget and There have been times where iv'e been the abusive partner; not in a serious way but more like he wont take me serioysly and thinks im joking or just having a "moment" when in factual fact im serious. Lots of times people consider me to be insignificant even my opinions on anything; that's around family dynamics and in contexts of relatives. They Dont care about anything where im concerned just gossip. But its frustrating when my partner gets pulled into that because i can what they're doing plenty ego rubs and he will be oblivious to it. So many times iv'e tried to help by indirectly telling them I know what certain people are upto yet they never seem to care and consider themselves to be more powerful, important and what not and so many times karma slapped em back in the face. Thats not to say i havent had any karma i have but its not really anything that would break me or give them an advantage in taking pleasure from my downfalls. I dontvwant to be a doormat for anyone, and there have been lots of implications relationship wise but iv'e made it quite clear im not happy and dont want to spend the rest of my life in a miserable relationship just for the "sake of it". It me im putting first for the last couple years. Just stressed about moving with kids and new home etc and finances.. hopefully will seek advice around that from my assigned care workers which would be the most sensible way and then to finally start breaking it down to others.. Thank you though; really enjoyed talking to you
Mez
@mez
01/28/20 02:45:14AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

Wow, didn't know techniques as you described existed.

I am more of a free=will pereon and I like people to have that choice and to use it as they wish.

But even what you said about hurting someone back through this technique; I think that's attainable naturally if a person has always been in a warm loving way. All it takes to change a cinversation or the focus from "me" to them. And a person can hurt themself (emotionally) by making them acknowledge they're saying/doing something to cause upset.

Ot doesn't change the person in anyway but it does make them reflect and it does mean they might increase in they're silly shennanigans but thats pathetic people for you.

For me that would mean they would have to raise the bar to do that to my face and not behind my back, which im aware of. But also lets them know I have a voice and im not afraid to use it where i feel like i need to defend myself. Because the moment a person gets a negative or undesired response; its usually an indication that they have been provoked several times until the final straw I suppose.

Im tempted to try the technique but i dont think i have the mental stamina to stay focussed. I get distracted very easily as an empath.

Mostly like to stay away if i feel i havent been successfull in grounding negative emotions because it makes me feel like a bad person. And im the only one that gets picked on about it.
Mez
@mez
01/27/20 01:55:40AM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

You said there is temptation after mastering the 5 words of power; what would the temptation be around? Is this something you have had success with?

I thought about it some more around emotional telepathy; and my conclusion is it takes me linger to mive on from a situation if its concerning a particular individual; one because i may be thinking of them more in a reminiscent way and i cant really speak for the person on what they may be thinking but that people who know me and how this person (just as an example) has been there for me may also be thinking of the same person which clouds my perception alot.

I havent told anyone im an empath for a long time now; besides the people that already know. My siblings laugh about it alot and still want substantial proof to suggest that i am and when i cant come up with something hardcore enough they get all skeptical (1 sibling in particular).

People whom i have had involved in my care around personal matters (health care professionals) actually want me to open up about it some more; they want to understand how i diffrentiate between my mental state of being and reality as of or when those empathic instincts are stronger; and how do i perceive the world around me and what its like to be an empath and manage my mental health.

Most of it just comes naturally to me; snapping at (family= partner/kids mostly) is what gets me and i never thought about it but i tend to feel guilty afterwards and i just thought maybe thats not always my regression for yelling at them, maybe its there's also from a subconcious aspect?

I dont usually allow people to influence my emotions, i got better at that, but people i feel happy/safe/close to i just let it happen naturally with whatever feels comfortable.

When i talk to people like yourself i know its mutual that we're empaths and that compketely changes my vibe and mood in a more positive sense; but when other empaths arent around i guess i feel like i go to a place in my thoughts where i feel lonely or alienated because the people around me aren't empaths.

i'll have a look at the yoga u suggested.. thank you
Mez
@mez
01/22/20 09:40:20PM
27 posts

Empaths and Emotional Telepathy


Tools for Empaths

Thank you for the PDF I very much enjoyed reading that and it gave me lits of things to think about; some of which i felt like i could relate to. Sometimes i find myself in a thought bubble and forget in that moment in time whether those are my own thougts or not; i forget what reality is and the situations im in. Sometimes i could have really pissed someone off or they me and id forget perhaps space is needed to think things through and im not sure if emotional telepathy is the cause for it? I'll continue talking and maintaining some form of connection with the people concerned untill I remember oh yeah you really hurt me also but dont reflect on that aspect and then i'll tell myself it doesnt matter just screw everyone and carry on being me best i can but not the softie; but i still am perceived that way. And yes you are correct; we cant turn nasty people into nice nice ones but the option of manipulating a situation is still there. Is it rewarding in anyway? I find it mental torture


updated by @mez: 01/22/20 09:43:06PM
Mez
@mez
01/16/20 04:27:16AM
27 posts

Pet Spirit Stories Wanted


Psychic and Paranormal

Can anyone tell me why the cats in our family home dont like me (not just me entirely but others also) they ignore me all the time, and ive lost count of how many times iv'e almost nibbled on kitty treats which my sister always laughs at because i forget im picking up they're vibes and almost nibbled on them mistaking them for chocolate.. doesn't help that the treat bag resembles a brand of chocolate also. What can i do to get the cats to be more approachable?
Mez
@mez
01/16/20 04:15:48AM
27 posts

Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year...


Empath

My condolences to you and what you've gone through @mike=simpson=rogers. Been reading your posts and heve felt your emotions many times as i read them.

Belated seasons greetings to you all
Mez
@mez
01/16/20 04:12:17AM
27 posts

Just Joined- Sad Movies


Empath

It can be normal but it can also mean growth in your emotional responses and how tou respond to situations. I cried at someones funeral which i didnt expect to, ive never been a person emotionally expressive externally, but more internally.

That was weird for me but i thought about it and i thought alot has changed me and i have changed how i respond to people so maybe Ive'e begum to express emotions that i didnt i'd ever feel again. (Been numb for many years by unintentionally supressing them for many years.

Hello everyone; not new here was formerly known as spiritualskies ๐Ÿ’›