She is my friend, she is special to me but not in that way. I've never hit on her or made advancements in her direction before. Even one time when we were drinking with her other friend who I helped build a table for. I had seven shots and four beers in me and I still didn't try anything. I'm just so confused by all this and why it was so sudden. Literally over night. She hasn't made any effort to talk to me about it or tell what happened and why so sudden. I mean normally we would talk about this stuff facr to face. Not now.
She doesn't communicate with me hardly any now unless its about the car which she just gave me the title back and I told her I would reimburse her for the repairs she paid for. So the car is going to mine but I'll likely sell it because I only bought it to help her out so she had transportation. She was excited about it.
I never thought of her being a narcissist or anything. I feel she fits the empath profile pretty solid but I could be wrong I suppose.
My biggest frustration is the fact that it feels like I have lost my best friend due to a misunderstanding (assuming) and she just shut me off so suddenly. I mean how are you so open to someone for so long and then just switch and go the other direction? I can't comprehend it.
To my knowledge she hasn't went back to him but I know she has been spending some time over at his house and staying the night. I saw where he came and got new washer and dryer yestersay since she took hers out and we put them in storage. I'm assuming she is still going to move to this place she has been waiting on to get finished. She filled out the application the other day and all. Plus she said she might habe found something else for a vehicle so I'm assuming she still wants wheels where as she didn't when she was with him.
Lord this is so overwhelming! I feel paralyzed inside from all this happening like I was blind sided.