When things go south

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Hey Everyone!  I have been having of string of bad luck where everything is breaking around me and now the list keeps growing to fix.  I think multiple things on this and thought maybe an interesting topic to discuss.  My friends and family may not see it this way.   Was curious to know what your thoughts are if this happened to you?  How did you stop it?  I'm currently trying to figure this out myself for this moment lol.

These are things I think...

1.) Am I off my path in life?

2.) Is my energy messed up now from all the chaos?

3.) The higher above only gives you what you can handle?

4.)  Is this a spirit causing this?

5.)  Is this the negative energy lingering in the house that is causing this?

6.) What else am I missing?

I have saged several times and put crystals around the house.  Selenite, black tourmaline, jet, and shunghite.

Uncontrolled crying

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@layla I have anxiety as well. Lavender essential oil helped me. It would calm me down enough to stop panic attacks, I did dab a lot of it on the carpet, sit on the sofa, and let the scent take over. Within 15 minutes I was chill again.

The liars

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@chesire-cat I did this to this person about 2 months ago. Repeated a lie back to them and called them out on something else. Deer in a headlight look. It was great! Lol

@Layla I have no issues cutting out people in my life. This one is my baby's aunt. I avoided her for a few months after she broke trust and said many negative things. But yet I am the bad one LOL.

@illimunous-ops thank you for the PDF. I am not sure i would want to expose them for who they are, through telepathy. I think as empaths we see this already. Rest of society doesn't. Although, this would be an interest topic of discussion...

Uncontrolled crying

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The covid lock down was almost a blessing to me. I am able to work from home, and garden outside. During covid I was pregnant and had a baby, and became sad not being able to enjoy fully the pregnancy as it is a life event you want to share with loved ones. It was a blessing to not be around qlot of people during this hard time. I still struggled with picking up on fears and anxiety, but the gardening really helped ground me. Maybe being pregnant and concerned about my unborn baby put president over anything else.

I had to minimize social media alot! But I did comment back to people who were complaining about covid and remind them of all your questions above. For them to hopefully feel empathy for those struggling with living alone, trapped in apartments, no outdoor space etc. After a while I couldnt do it anymore.

I have had uncontrollable crying for years, it feels different than things going on in my life that would fall under uncontrollable crying.

The liars

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Days like today I struggle with the liars.  We have a gift to know when people are lying and just negative in life.  This constant lying to cover up and make themselves look good, I nearly threw up.  I pretty much learned all my "hunches" about this liar is coming true.I am still uneasy about it.  I want to just cleanse everything I feel so disgusted right now.  On top of that, these liars have such a strong influence on people around.  

 I am not sure how to rid this person in my life except keeping a distance, and loading up on crystals when this person is around.  

Newbie!

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Welcome to the empath family! :)

Grounding is essential to release everything. Sometimes its not easy and it can be time consuming. But, when you are, it feels amazing! :)

You can try being in nature more often, walk barefoot outside, eat a well balanced diet, exercise, yoga, meditation, stones/crystals, salt baths, to name a few. Try to stay away from negative situations, negative people, maybe even social media keep to a minimum.

We absorb emotions and energy like a sponge. It is very possible you felt your neighbors energy before passing. Also good you can recognize that as well. Sometimes it is hard to pinpoint who's it can be in heavily populated areas or environments like work or a store.

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@gothceltgirl that is alot you are going through. I don't know your financial situation if you can move out?

That energy in her house will always be there with kids. The home would need to be cleansed regularly and you need to do alot of grounding. Her mom worry will not go away and kids are just exhausting to me with their energy. Are you able to deep clean the house and get in corners? Then sage after? If you can't use smoke you can try this spray. I personally love it.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078G7N8W7/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_KW52VMB3QH1YJCEHC4KH

I dont know if you can escape outside in the yard and just stare up in the sky. This helps ground me. Or if any parks with walking trails are open, just to get out of the house and in nature? You can even just sit in your car if it's to cold out.

Pregnant Empath/newborn baby

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@hop-daddy thank you! I managed to sage once. :) The baby goes to a relatives house for care during the day. A friend of mine said she would sage and open the windows some time after saging to let the smoke out when she had a baby. She still does this with her kids young, as long as they are not in the house. I did do a light sage and what a difference it made. I even felt cleansed! Lol.
Nothing happened in the house for a week and it felt mine again and just overall happy :) 2 of the spirits here just have a negativity about them as they were negative in life I gathered and depressed. It feels like a trail of negative. I would ultimately like for them to go period. I believe it has caused many problems in my relationship with the father of my child, work, and the costs in the house are building as things keep breaking and the house had a good inspection. I tried explaining some of this but his mind is made up. I may get a shaman in here soon to see if he can banish the few lingering in here.

Favorite crystals

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Thank you!

When you grid, you are just putting it in corners? I read about putting it on window sills and wanted to see if that would work too?

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I just figured out a few spirits in this house that will come and visit is my b/f deceased family.  I also feel 2 others, not family, that used to reside in this house.  90% of all the activity that happens is in the family room, which was an addition to the house before I bought it.  I'm not sure why all these spirits like that room lol.  

I saged last week for the first time and the house just felt empty and mine again.  The energy felt good for once in a long while.  The energy felt depressing and stuffy if that makes sense,, like a cloudy hazy day I had a feeling to sage again today and didn't.  

Does anyone have any good stones they like to place on windows in a room that gets activity like this?  Non of these spirits are negative in any way.  Only 2 were negative in life that I know of.  I was reading about jet, shunghite, amethyst, selenite, and black tourmaline.  Any others?  I already have labradorite, onyx. Obsidian, and several amethyst stones.