Hello guys and girls. Need a little help looking for a crystal for a friend whom needs a little calmness in her work environment. Shes feeling fuzzy mentally and anxious. I'm terrible at selecting crystals for others as I end up choosing one for myself instead. TIA
Best Crystal for calming.
Hi...I find Howlite to be a wonderful calming stone....I have a stone and I wear a bracelet to work most days...bring your friend along to make the purchase...or include her if your making the purchase online as the stone she's looking for will resonate with her...that way you won't be tempted to keep it....lol
updated by @womanwhowalks: 03/29/18 10:47:38PM
what calms me down the most is probably my hematite sphere. I often hold it when sleeping - gets me through my heavy dream phases. For some hematite it has too much masculine energy though.
Or perhaps a nice chunky rough rosequartz? inexpensive and and good at spreading some Love(energies).
Also started playing around with grounding/earthing mats. They do seem to have some effect, though too early to tell if just temporary and more placebo. If I were still working in a office, I'd definitely get myself one though. Either as a kind of place mat (under keyboard and mouse) or under the feet. Earthing mats are connected to the earth in an electrical outlet, and help ones body to get rid of positive ions from surrounding electrical equipment, Wifi, etc....
I am an avid crystal user so I'm happy to lend some advice. They do work well, especially for empaths.
For women, rose quartz is a terrific calming stone. It actually works on both sexes, but most experts proclaim that it does best as a female energy crystal. In fact, a great combo is amethyst with the rose quartz. I find they really change the dynamic in a room to make it more tranquil and take the edge out of high strung people.
But the above stones are more like taking an aspirin for a reoccurring headache. The above stones will help calm her, but won't solve the root problem that is causing her troubles. If she is an empath or sensitive person working in a group environment, she may be feeling ill from everyone's heavy low vibrational energy. For that I would suggest she start using some protection stones like what and suggested. Hematite, black tourmaline, black onyx, and malachite are terrific examples of protection stones that create a shield and limit what low energy reaches her. The 4 stones that I listed work terrific together as each one has a slightly different function.
The protection stones will help limit the negative energy that she takes in each day. And that way she won't be as impacted daily by what goes on in her office. What I do is wear protection stones by day. And then I keep relaxation stones like rose quartz and amethyst under my pillow at night.