Being more understanding
Being an empath is very confusing. So much happens that we question and try to make sense of. There are those who have achieved a level of peace with oneself because that's what they were able to achieve. There are many of us here, including myself who struggle with that immensely because of the chaotic reality of being a being of light. In my personal experience, there are those on EC who aren't being empathetic and not placing themselves in the shoes of someone who only sees the bad and the negative of life. Understand why we only see the negative instead of assuming we only see things one way.
You can't deny that being an empath is extremely difficult. It's hectic, chaotic, confusing, lonely and makes you feel as if your reality is being warped. We come here to share our experiences and gain support from like-minded people who understand what we are going through. I've observed, not just with myself but with others, people telling them to stop looking at things from one point of view and stop making yourself into a victim. No one is making themselves into a victim. We see what we see and we respond based on our observations. There are a lot of people on this site looking for support and people to hear our stories when we don't have that in our real lives. Be more supportive and mindful of how you respond to someone. Just remember that while you see things from your perspective, so does someone else. My own existence is daunting because of what I observe on a daily basis. If I can't rely on the support of people in my life, at very least I can get that from those who are going through similar experiences on EC.