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A path less traveled

2017-05-28
By: mypath
Posted in: Selfcare
A path less traveled

let's talk,  my world has always been of a helper and to  be there for everyone else's emotional sounding board. I'm the one that takes the edge off  that  listens to reason and lead you to a better place. But in doing this I am drained  physically and emotionally. My brain is scrambled like a ball of yarn. I find myself  enjoying the solitude more than I should. Because the solitude is less chaos. I can unscramble the ball of yarn and work towards my own needs and self-care.  

I find that most aren't comfortable being alone and that they have to have others to help them and work through their  emotional baggage. Here we talk about triggers,emotional, managing, protecting but what about detaching? The more I read the less I understand.  Are we to find ourselves in a cold callous prison meant to protect ourselves,  do we detach from our family members that don't understand or have trouble conceiving the idea of an empath.  Do you label it and then talk in circles do we really need 1000 words?  Some are truly struggling  We need the now help, not the 25 steps to protect yourself. We need to know it's real, we need to know solutions, we need answers.  How can we put ourselves out there if there's no real concise answers and solutions to our emotional well-being .  Are we overwhelmed or just lonely and need another club so that we can you chat with others  tortured souls of misfits.

Soothsayer4
06/18/17 09:30:04PM @soothsayer4:

MyPath,

It's been a while since I logged in. However, I noticed your blog and just have to comment on it.  Yes it's true we are caregivers - those that have come to come grip on their ability and accept it is a way of helping others. Some fall short of utilizing this sensory awareness to it's potential, others completely break down because they cannot handle the bombardments of material coming their way. Some people in the middle are able to find a balance in order to utilize this extra-sensory perception that Empaths share.  Then again it can be used for the benefit of others or in a completely different direction. 

In the midst of the above complexity, we all are given a gift that is meant for us to use wisely.  Though I come from a spiritual viewpoint, it is still a tool to use ethically, as it can be to our own detriment as well as those around us when used in impure ways.  If you find the balance there are several directions you can take it, experiencing things daily that, people without the ability would be completely overwhelmed with. It is a powerful tool that can be harnessed to both receive and give, pick up on energy waves from living and non-living sources, magnify and discern whose thoughts and feelings you really have, and ride on a perpetual energy wave that will always separate you from others because you are never really alone.

 Therefore, taking all this in account, this is something to digest before deciding to "come-out." The decision is your's alone and websites like this one allows us all to be free in expressing what I have to you.  I hope at least I relayed some clarity that what you are experiencing is real. The solutions and answers are here on this site - the rest is life experience.  Thank God sites like this exist. Although we are never really alone, when I peer into the window of a person contained, I still feel sad that that is the only world they know. Sometimes I get a little jealous too. Either way, being an Empath is what I am and making sense of it all is part of the journey. Hang in there.


mypath
06/20/17 02:01:04PM @mypath:

Soothsayer4:

MyPath,

It's been a while since I logged in. However, I noticed your blog and just have to comment on it.  Yes it's true we are caregivers - those that have come to come grip on their ability and accept it is a way of helping others. Some fall short of utilizing this sensory awareness to it's potential, others completely break down because they cannot handle the bombardments of material coming their way. Some people in the middle are able to find a balance in order to utilize this extra-sensory perception that Empaths share.  Then again it can be used for the benefit of others or in a completely different direction. 

In the midst of the above complexity, we all are given a gift that is meant for us to use wisely.  Though I come from a spiritual viewpoint, it is still a tool to use ethically, as it can be to our own detriment as well as those around us when used in impure ways.  If you find the balance there are several directions you can take it, experiencing things daily that, people without the ability would be completely overwhelmed with. It is a powerful tool that can be harnessed to both receive and give, pick up on energy waves from living and non-living sources, magnify and discern whose thoughts and feelings you really have, and ride on a perpetual energy wave that will always separate you from others because you are never really alone.

 Therefore, taking all this in account, this is something to digest before deciding to "come-out." The decision is your's alone and websites like this one allows us all to be free in expressing what I have to you.  I hope at least I relayed some clarity that what you are experiencing is real. The solutions and answers are here on this site - the rest is life experience.  Thank God sites like this exist. Although we are never really alone, when I peer into the window of a person contained, I still feel sad that that is the only world they know. Sometimes I get a little jealous too. Either way, being an Empath is what I am and making sense of it all is part of the journey. Hang in there.


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