A path less traveled
let's talk, my world has always been of a helper and to be there for everyone else's emotional sounding board. I'm the one that takes the edge off that listens to reason and lead you to a better place. But in doing this I am drained physically and emotionally. My brain is scrambled like a ball of yarn. I find myself enjoying the solitude more than I should. Because the solitude is less chaos. I can unscramble the ball of yarn and work towards my own needs and self-care.
I find that most aren't comfortable being alone and that they have to have others to help them and work through their emotional baggage. Here we talk about triggers,emotional, managing, protecting but what about detaching? The more I read the less I understand. Are we to find ourselves in a cold callous prison meant to protect ourselves, do we detach from our family members that don't understand or have trouble conceiving the idea of an empath. Do you label it and then talk in circles do we really need 1000 words? Some are truly struggling We need the now help, not the 25 steps to protect yourself. We need to know it's real, we need to know solutions, we need answers. How can we put ourselves out there if there's no real concise answers and solutions to our emotional well-being . Are we overwhelmed or just lonely and need another club so that we can you chat with others tortured souls of misfits.