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@gardentiger • 19 hours ago • comments: 5
Commented on @gardentiger:
"Hi there, I think you are right, we need to talk about this topic which we both avoid at all costs at the moment for some reason! I’ll see him in person..."
GardenTiger
 
@gardentiger • 20 hours ago • comments: 0
Responded to "How does it feel 'from the other side'? - Dumping Emotions on me" in Empath
"Hi all, First of all, thank you for your answers, you helped me a lot to make sense of this situation @trevor-lewis: Thank you for your answer, I did not..."
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@gardentiger • 2 days ago • comments: 5
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"Hi there, Sure, take your time, would be interested to hear what you experienced, I felt so awful and shattered after this recent encounter, it took me a..."
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@gardentiger • 2 days ago • comments: 0
Started a discussion "How does it feel 'from the other side'? - Dumping Emotions on me" in Empath
"Hi all, Trying to keep this short I am relatively new to this, I only found out I’m an Empath few months back, after opening my first topic in this forum..."

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aaliyah
11/21/17 08:37:24AM @aaliyah:
Something strikes me about what you shared I don't know who you are but it sounds similar to what iv experienced and I'll get back to you when I can compose myself. I cant stop crying like a baby, felt like iv lost the love of my life..
GardenTiger
11/21/17 08:44:37AM @gardentiger:

Hi there,

Sure, take your time, would be interested to hear what you experienced, I felt so awful and shattered after this recent encounter, it took me a week to recover and I still feel the aftermath, even though there was no tangible reason for it as we are not even together and that's not even what I want?! It happened to me before but with a relative stranger, not with a friend. And I seem to be getting the same kind of pain from them every time regardless. Very strange but I guess there must be a reason for that.


aaliyah
11/21/17 09:09:53AM @aaliyah:
I'm too overwhelmed to even process your expressions in ur post, I just feel the need to talk and I feel like I've been emotionally sucked dry 🤔.. I'll have to re read what youv written and by god do I feel relieved!! And this is defo not my energy.. Bear with me
aaliyah
11/21/17 12:14:35PM @aaliyah:
From what I gather on what youv expressed; perhaps you both need to communicate and resolve whatever misunderstandings have taken place. This article pretty much sums up what it's like as an empath for me (https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/05/loving-understanding-an-empath/), but for the person I knew he never really told me so I always queried it, I guess in pursuit of determining whether what I would sense was true I resorted to some lows never to hurt this person but just trying to play psychic I guess, as a result it backfired and all the doors he kind of had opened closed. From what I used to gather he never intended to hurt me. To this day I sometimes feel he wants me back and leaves cues but I don't really buy into it as explained in the article. On a personal level I despise liars with a passion so if I suss someone's not being truthful I diassociate myself in anyway possible. I tend to catch energies from pictures/posts/ etc so when I read urs they were very close to home and bitter sweet, I take people's word for what they say because that's how I am and where intuition is concerned I have to put immense pressure to block out. Sometimes from what I experienced he was trying to tell me he was an empath but I am a bit slow so I guess ill never know. If he did ever pick up from me if he's an empath, I guess I'm envious that he's in love, like he has the lifestyle that I used to fantasise about and as much as im in a relationship but not in love its all I really wanted, it's complicated for me because im numb so I can get lost on my head to evoke emotion to 'feel' sometimes really dark places and unpleasent scenarios. Other times if I feel other people emotion I tend to find the best situation that matches what im feeling and it's like re living past scenarios again and again. If it's ur energy i caught from ur posts it's really intense you really need to speak with this person.
GardenTiger
11/22/17 01:56:52AM @gardentiger:

Hi there, I think you are right, we need to talk about this topic which we both avoid at all costs at the moment for some reason! I’ll see him in person again quite soon and will try to talk about it and see where that goes and what we do from there..

Yes, you are describing exactly the feelings I had at the time when all this mess started, this is what I picked up from him I think! So I believe this is his ‘stuff’ you are getting, not mine (or a combination of both?). It got a lot better for me in the past days, after reading online, grounding myself and cutting emotional ties, but maybe this echoes still through me and my posts online, whenever anyone reads it :(

Thank you for the link, I read through and it is eye-opening, much of it applies to myself as well!!

That’s exactly also it for me.. I envy his lifestyle because I feel now that I could never be the person leading it. But I think the universe is trying to tell me something it cannot be a coincidence that I met him, perhaps I need to come out of my shell a bit as I was quite reclusive a few months back and am now slowly opening up to the world again. This is what attracts me to him, but it was more on friendship level so far and now it looks like it’s turning into something else/more and that is when the emotional bomb kind of went off! I’m sorry you had to experience a similar situation in the past. Much strength to you and take care!  


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