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@4peace
09/03/14 01:29:21PM
187 posts



Yep. I was bulliedmercilessly from 1st to 12th grade. Everything from name calling, to being held down and baby powder poured in my hair to being nominated Halloween Queen with the Quarterback of the football team - as a joke against him. Then the usual gym locker room break-ins where my clothes would be stolen and threw into trees outside. It was hell.

But you know I'm a better person for it. I don't hate them anymore - but I did. I also have NO desire to go to a class reunion, lol. I know that if I see someone being bullied I put a stop to it - immediately and as a teacher I'm always aware of anyone trying to bully someone else in class - although it is college :) However, I'm still trying to learn to defend myself.

I believe the suffering that I suffered during that time - and believe me I suffered - crying myself to sleep at night - makes me understand the suffering of others. It made me a stronger empath. If there is such a thing as reincarnation- I probably chose this path so I could understand others better.

Sky - sending you peace and light and love -

4peace

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@4peace
09/02/14 02:00:34PM
187 posts

Butterflies and dragonflies


Psychic and Paranormal

I know the butterflies are migrating right now, but I've never noticed them like this before. I had a yellow butterfly land on me right before I walked into work and I kinda brushed it away so it wouldn't get trapped in the building, but I ended up seeing butterflies all day as I was driving, at work, everywhere. Not in groups, but kinda one or two in a general area. Then the next few days I would see a butterfly and or dragonfly almost every time I went out.

The cool thing is I looked it up and it has a symbolism of transformation :) Just wanted to share this, because I thought it was wonderful.

I've been noticing a lot of synchronicity in things that have been happening to me lately :)

Peace and light

4peace


updated by @4peace: 07/27/17 11:06:20PM
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@4peace
09/02/14 01:49:19PM
187 posts



Hi Skyshadows3 :)

Ok, my interpretation is this... usually not being able to breathe has something to do with not being able to completely let yourself go (to be yourself?). The edge of the beach is a transition zone - so possibly a change in your life. The crystal ball is something (your abilities?) that has appeared in your life and is getting stronger and stronger - but you are a little (actually more than a little )afraid of it- or unsure of it. Maybe your friends are witnesses in your life to the change that is happening to you.

Of course you are the best interpreter of your dreams :) Don't worry about the strong dreams, nothing is wrong with you. They are showing you things. Youare connecting to something greater than yourself. I started having them also, extremely colorful dreams full of symbolism - night after night. I have a dream journal - that I don't record enough in :)

Hope that helps a little,

Peace and light

4peace


updated by @4peace: 03/12/17 12:05:36AM
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@4peace
09/01/14 03:32:42PM
187 posts

Extreme Negative Reaction


Psychic and Paranormal

Hi Ecila,

An intuitive I worked with last week told me to take a piece of black tourmaline with me when I had to deal with people who hate me. She said it transformed hate into love. It was like the person would still hate, but I would feellove instead. Maybe you could try something like that.

Wouldn't the empathy stuff be sensitive to spirits too? I've sensed stuff before - I thought empathy and the sensing thingy were the same things????

I keep thinking jealousy over and over, but I'm not sure why.

Take care and I hope that problem doesn't continue. It sucks when we have to deal with relatives who aren't very pleasant :(

Peace and Light

4peace

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@4peace
08/31/14 06:42:32AM
187 posts



You know you were probably meant to go this path to help the people that work with you in the non-profit organization :) Maybe it's training for something greater :) I feel like I've learned from all the mistakes I made and it has made me a stronger person.

As an empath we (or I do anyway) want to please people and sometimes do things that are not good for us. I mean let's face it, if I say no, not only do I have tofeel my guiltbut I also have to deal with the anger that person emits, lol. And if I say yes, that person emits acceptance and approval - which I may interpret as I made a good choice. So don't feel bad if you made some careerchoices based on what other people wanted you to do :) The great thing is now - you are "listening" to yourself and what you feel you are supposed to do!

Oh and Emmy made a good point about what type of degree you should get. You have to have a Master's degree in psychology or counseling to do counseling- and there are different requirements in every state - where I live if you have a masters degree, but are not licensed you can work for an organization on their license - but you are supervised for a while. If you already have a bachelors or masters in accounting - you can still get into a psychology grad school, you just have to take some pre-requisites - sometimes 12 hours. It's a lot easier though than starting from scratch.

Peace and Light

4peace

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@4peace
08/30/14 01:24:22PM
187 posts

Too many questions


Psychic and Paranormal

Wow, thank you Nocturnes Angel :) I wasn't expecting one person to answer all of the questions, but thank you so much for taking the time to do so :) I've been on the site for a couple of weeks reading and reading :) Thanks for the video - I will definitely do it tonight! You know there is tons of information available on this site and on the internet and it's just a lot to go through. Thank you thank you thank you!

Sending peace and light...

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4peace
@4peace
08/30/14 09:00:15AM
187 posts

Too many questions


Psychic and Paranormal

Right now I've got so many questions about how things work and why, not only that but I'm trying to help my daughter too because she hears, feels and sees things. I went to an intuitive yesterday and that seemed to help. But I have so many questions I can't expect someone to just sit and explain everything to me. So I'm going to throw out some questions and if anyone feels like they should say something about one of them I would certainly appreciate it :)

1. If my daughter is like this - spirits are attracted to her light - and I am like I am - does my son have some type of ability? I sorta feel like his abilities are more like mine.

2. If I go deeper into these beliefs of energy, psychic abilities,etc - will I bring dark energy into my family?

3. How do I know that my daughter is not suffering from some type of mental illness? Schizophrenia runs in my husbands family. What if schizophrenia is not what is wrong with his family - but they are psychic instead?

4. How do I develop confidence in my abilities? Supposedly they are really strong, but what if I tell someone something wrong?

5. Has anyone been told that they were one of the "ones who will change the world?" What does that mean? I had a stranger years ago- tell me that she was psychic and she breathed in my ear and told me I'm one of the ones who will change the world. Was she talking about the empathy thing or something else?

6. I have been trying to see my aura, what I see is blue with a thin green layer over it, sometimes I see red zigzags coming out of it. The intuitive said she saw a lot of dark red around my sacral chakra. Do people see different things - was I even seeing my aura???

7. A man was murdered in my apartment a long time ago. I don't feel him - the intuitive also told me he isn't here, but she said there are visitors here. I'm going to do a cleansing with sage - mostly to help my daughter. Should I do anything else or will that be enough?

Ok, I'm going to stop. I got some answers yesterday from the intuitive so I have a starting place - to start learning and healing. Is it normal to feel so much confusion and a lot of excitement because things make a little more sense :)

peace and light

4peace :)


updated by @4peace: 07/02/17 12:12:23PM
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@4peace
08/30/14 08:08:05AM
187 posts



GoodKarma,

I kinda did the same thing. I went to college, wanted to be a conservationist and ended up being a transportation planner. So instead of saving the world I was paving it. One day I was in my gray cubicle, with a gray chair, gray printer, gray phone and gray computer- no windows - I would go days without talking to anyone.- and I could not take itanymore. I ended up quitting. Moving, getting a job in a nursing home, going back to college for a degree in Psychology. Honestly if I had stayed in the other job I would have been making close to $100,000 a year by now, but would have been totally miserable. Now I barely make ends meet - but the point is I do (with help from God) but I'm much happier than I was. I help people now, I teach because I wasn't able to finish the degree so I could do counseling.

It's scary as heck, but I'm sure you will do great! If you can get a job where you can help people and go to school online (American public university is one of the cheapest ones out there) you can put meals on the table and help others at the same time :) Many many blessings on your new endeavor! Sending you light and peace :)

4peace


updated by @4peace: 04/02/17 08:55:00PM
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@4peace
08/30/14 07:52:42AM
187 posts



I love the fall too! I'm so excited about apple picking and pumpkins - the cooler air! I live in the mountains and they have a different mood every day, butthe colors you see here in the fall take your breath away. I love going to a cabin in the fall. The airfeels and smells different :) When I was younger I would get sad because the trees were dropping their sap and their energy goes down, but now I'm like Pat and see it as a last hoorah before going to sleep :)

4peace
@4peace
08/29/14 06:12:01AM
187 posts

Protection.


Empath

Hey Dan,

I think the world is in great pain right now, or it feels like it. I know a lot of us do not like listening to the news, but I do on the way to work (think I'm going to have to stop) - it's awful - so much hate, anger, pain, fear and confusion. I love the zip up technique too, but dang there is a lot going on and it seems like stuff is seeping through.

I hope you find a technique or combination of techniques to help.

I don't know if this helps, but I just tried to send you some white light/energy to help - obviously I don't know what I'm doing, but my intentions are good :)

4peace

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@4peace
08/28/14 08:39:03AM
187 posts



This may sound crazy, but do you think your gift is changing a bit and now you have to figure out a way to change with it?

I hope you feel better soon

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4peace
@4peace
08/27/14 01:06:19PM
187 posts



Willy, that is awesome! I love this site too and the people on it :)

Keep on keeping on! :)

4peace :)


updated by @4peace: 04/12/17 08:19:55AM
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@4peace
08/26/14 12:48:37PM
187 posts



I'm so sorry you are going through this. It hurts when someone rejects us, especially if we don't pick up on the signs they are giving us and are not expecting it. One guy I broke up with ( a long time ago) I was so connected to himthat when he was gone I screamed in pain. Yet, I lived. Later (about 2 years) I loved again. But you have to give yourself time to find out who you are again - and that's hard. As empaths it's doubly hard because we feel everyone around us - when someone leaves, not only is your heart broken, but that energy that has been entangled with your energy is gone too. I guess it is like losinga limb would be. Take care of yourself and remember it gets easier- in time :)

4peace......

4peace
@4peace
08/26/14 12:30:41PM
187 posts

Crazy dreams! Purple triangles and blue elephants!


Dreams

Thanks bill and Ecila :)

I'm reading a book by Carl Jung and he was a psychologist who came up with the term collective unconscious - one of the dream interpretations I read about mentioned the elephant representing the collective unconscious, blue may behonesty, spirituality, etc. I think it may have something to do with awakening spirituality or something :)I can still see the elephant, it was very pretty :)

I have been listening to binaural beats too at night for opening chakra's. So that may have something to do with it too.

4peace
@4peace
08/25/14 01:49:31PM
187 posts

Crazy dreams! Purple triangles and blue elephants!


Dreams

I have been doing more meditating lately and my dreams are super colorful lately. I had never dreamed shape dreams until the rectangle dream and now I've dreamed about 2 triangles. They were equilateral triangles purple, pointy side up, flat bottom and the other angled and to the right of the other one. They were not solid, but like they were drawn 2 dimensional in purple.

My other dream was of trying to get food at a religious gathering, but there wasn't any dessert, so I found some blue "candy" or cookie that was disgusting looking and since I didn't like it a man gave me a little blue elephant statue, about 12 inches tall I guess. It was electric blue and very pretty. I went to another religious gathering and ended up leaving and going back to the first one. I think part of the dream had to do with me craving chocolate the last few days, but the blue elephant seemed more significant.

I don't ever remember having my dreams be this colorful night after night. Is it the meditation?

Thanks

4peace :)


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@4peace
08/24/14 09:29:29AM
187 posts



Wow, I hope you are able to get some relief from all the stuff you are picking up! Definitely try some techniques for protecting yourself, I love the zip up technique.

It sounds like you did have something switch on :) The thing is if you have this gift, then you are supposed to help people in some form or fashion. Or that is my belief. But you have to help yourself to be healthy and sane again first by controlling your gift. Do some grounding and some protecting and study and ask questions :)

I hope that helps a bit, I'm still new to the site, but trying and learning :

Peace.....

4peace
@4peace
08/21/14 04:41:58PM
187 posts

New here :-)


Empath

Actually I'm new to the forums, so I would be the absolutely wrong person to ask :) I love rocks and minerals though, I used to collect them - the only one I know about is pink quartz crystals - they are supposed to help with healing.

I've been thinking about getting a few crystals for meditation, but I would have to figure out what the heck to do with them. So I think we are in the same boat here.

May 21st/ Gemini/Taurus

Peace :)

4peace
@4peace
08/21/14 02:51:25PM
187 posts

New here :-)


Empath

Hi Krissy,

I laughed when I read about you starting with the two books and a bag of stones. Then I stopped and wondered how they worked for you :) How did you use them? Were they crystals? Oh, and greetings from another Gemini :) - but I was born on the cusp.

Peace

4peace
@4peace
08/20/14 05:41:04AM
187 posts



I think subconsciously I've been trying to get other people to feel.I teach psychology and I spend a lot of time trying to get my students to see things from different perspectives - and they resist. I rant on facebook often about people not caring and if only we would listen to each other. But that is a great suggestion. Maybe it is a call.

Food for thought :) Thanks.


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@4peace
08/19/14 06:38:30PM
187 posts

Dreamt of stacked rectangles


Dreams

That's actually the words I said to my husband about what we needed in our lives a few weeks ago:) Thanks!

4peace
@4peace
08/19/14 06:37:16PM
187 posts

Does anyone have a hard time "reading" other empaths?


Empath

skysshadows3 - Thanks for the comments :)

So you are aware that you are deflecting other's "scans" or "reads"? If I was deflecting her, I was not aware of it. I hadn't use any blocking technique for a long time when I met her.

Honestly, I wasn't aware that I was acting differently with differently people until recently. And it is a problem because I'm totally relying on the empathy thing to interact with others. I don't think that is healthy.

But how much should we use it?

Peace :)

4peace
@4peace
08/19/14 06:32:15PM
187 posts

Does anyone have a hard time "reading" other empaths?


Empath

Roy Brian -That's kinda what I was wondering. If our moods are so flexible, does that make us hard to read. I only know of the one friend who is empathic so that's all the experience I have :)

The blocking others' reading us theory sounds pretty logical to me.

DoorMA49- that's pretty cool isn't it :)

Thanks!

4peace
@4peace
08/19/14 06:30:13PM
187 posts

Does anyone have a hard time "reading" other empaths?


Empath

I haven't actually deliberately tried to read people, it's something I do as soon as I get in visual distance with them - unconsciously. Do you think people can rely too much on their abilities on how to act with others?

Oh, and thanks for the comment :)

4peace
@4peace
08/19/14 06:22:14PM
187 posts

Dreamt of stacked rectangles


Dreams

Bill, good observation! I didn't see it! I didn't recognize the connection :) I don't really understand guides or how they work, so I'll look more into that. Thanks!

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@4peace
08/19/14 06:18:35PM
187 posts

Dreamt of stacked rectangles


Dreams

Wow, great insight :) Thank you so much. My life the last probably 8 years has been very unstable, and I'm just now starting to feel things come together. I used to do Tai Chi many many years ago, and since I've started meditating I started thinking about my Chakras. I'm sure they are blocked or weak. So my energy work is probably dissipating the negative energy and opening the chakras. Very cool. Thanks!

Honestly, when I saw the rectangles - right before I work up this morning - my first thought was "What the Heck!" Lol! Then I got curious :)

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@4peace
08/19/14 06:51:24AM
187 posts

Dreamt of stacked rectangles


Dreams

There was nothing put these black rectangles, stacked on top of each other, the bottom was the biggest and it got progressive smaller as you went up. I think there were either 3 or 4 rectangles total.

Never dreamed shapes before, it was very strange. Rectangle means stability wealth and represents the number 4. But why stacked?

Thanks


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@4peace
08/19/14 06:28:37AM
187 posts

Does anyone have a hard time "reading" other empaths?


Empath

I was talking with one of my friends the other day. I had just embraced my empathic self (my new terminology- heehee) the day before. So I asked her if she believed in empaths. She said yes, I'm one. So I asked her if she could read me when shemet me and she said no, you were really difficult.

I knew she would say that, it's why I asked. I liked her when I met her two years ago, but I was watched her from a distance for a bit, because I couldn't figure out how to act around her. I know now that I act different for different people because I'm reading and responding to them.

So, my point- is that normal- to not be able to read other empaths? Read to me is to interpret what a persons feelings are. And does that mean if I have a difficult time reading someone that it's a sign they are empathic?

Just trying to figure out how all this work :)

Thanks :)


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@4peace
08/15/14 03:25:34PM
187 posts

Hello, new here :)


Empath

I found out what the thing is called that happened to me about Robin Williams - it's called synchronicity! My favorite psychologist Carl Jung discovered it and used it in therapy! That is soooo cool!

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@4peace
08/15/14 02:02:57PM
187 posts

New Group Contineued/Other Common Traits


Psychic and Paranormal

I recognize 7 of the 13. I have a thing with cats and have been able to tame wild ones. I also have had emu's and giraffe's follow me at the zoo :)

Career wise, I teach psychology. I've always been attracted to the paranormal. I think maybe too after reading everyone's posts - a lot of people seem attracted and respectful of nature in all it's forms.

Thought Provoking :)

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@4peace
08/15/14 01:46:56PM
187 posts

Hello, new here :)


Empath

Lol, I read it. Yeah, I have felt cursed too :) I think it was my husband's feelings I was picking up at the timethough.

That must be hard to want to be around people (i.e. extroverted) and yet not really be able to without some effort. I'm an introvert and I love people, but boy do they tire me!

You have basically been on a journey toward this. I think that's great :)

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@4peace
08/15/14 01:30:51PM
187 posts



done :) I hope it all works out for you. Wishing the best for you........

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@4peace
08/15/14 01:26:09PM
187 posts



Hi Forgotten Mystic,

I had to re-read your post. I read a lot of people's posts while I was lurking :)

I'm glad you seem to have found some balance in your life and purpose. I hope it all works out for you! I love photography too :)

Take care,...


updated by @4peace: 03/28/17 08:15:01PM
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@4peace
08/15/14 01:21:56PM
187 posts

Hello, new here :)


Empath

Nice to meet you too ForgottenMystic. I saw your post earlier and was a little embarrassed so I didn't respond. I lurked for a while :)

I can't remember exactly why I looked into being an empath before. I remember being overwhelmed by feeling like I felt other peoples feelings - mostly my husband who is extremely emotional. I have to turn off my feelings around him because he is just too dramatic.

Was being an empath a journey for you or a sudden insight?

Thanks for the warm welcome :)

Take care,

4peace
@4peace
08/15/14 01:14:33PM
187 posts

Hello, new here :)


Empath

Thank you so much Lightworker. I've never thought about the elements being healing, but you are completely correct. I live in the mountains right now, it's one of my favorite places on earth! Every day the mountains have a different mood and it always takes my breath away :) My family lives in another state and can't understand why I want to live here :)

It's nice to meet you

Take care,

4peace
@4peace
08/15/14 01:11:24PM
187 posts

Hello, new here :)


Empath

Hi Amy, nice to meet you too!

I wonder if it could be also a combination of the N and F - intuitive :)

I wonder what it is about water that makes us feel it is healing? What made you think that you might be an empath? Was it something gradual or like a light bulb :)

Take care,

4peace
@4peace
08/15/14 01:08:51PM
187 posts

Hello, new here :)


Empath

Thanks DoorMA49

I've reviewed the techniques and actually used the zip up last night when my son was really upset. I think he may be an empath too. :)

I will definitely ask questions it's one of the best ways to learn.

Take care....

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@4peace
08/14/14 01:53:02PM
187 posts

Hello, new here :)


Empath

I have lookedat mybeing an empath before, and then kinda drifted away from it. Lately I have been feeling very unsettled, very upset - mostly by some of the horrible things that are going on in the world. About 2 weeks ago, I started saying Na noo na noo to myself when I was working, I would laugh and go on. When my family was on a trip I told my kids about Mork andMindy and they laughed about the name Mork. Later, Itold my co-worker that that phrase was stuck in my head and told her about how I loved Mork and Mindy and asked if she remembered. Then Monday I found outRobinWilliams was dead. I ama littlefreaked. Why would I remember a show from 30+ years ago - 2 weeks before the main character died? I don't really believe in coincidence. I feel such a profound loss - doesn't make sense.

I am not really sure, but perhaps when I learned about putting a bubble around myself last time I looked into the possibly I could be empathic maybe I was somehow able to cut off some of the feelings I get and maybe something happened that triggered it again recently. Maybe there istoo much pain in the world right now and I can't block it anymore. I just don't know. Not sure. I'm very uncomfortable with it, but if it's the way I am - it's the way I am.

I took the empath test and scored 48 out of 50. I love animals and have some extremely strongweird belief that water is healing - cold water especially. I also feel some places in the woods are healing. I teach and I think I mentally feel each person as they come into the room. I feel like I "read" people. And I'm an INFP -does that have anything to do with how I'm feeling.Ok, I just don't know where to go from here. Well I guess that's all I have to say. Sorry for the long ramble. Any suggestions on what to do now?

Take care all...


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