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Angel
@angel
12/28/16 03:43:32PM
607 posts

Spirit Animal Guide?


Psychic and Paranormal

Even though I believe we have certain totems that are with us throughout life, we also have animals that come to us during certain times of our lives to help us out during certain situations. So, it sounds like the wolf is your actual or "life totem" but the snake has come now to ask you to pay attention to something specific in your life.

For example, my life totem is the Raven however, when we first bought our house we had alot of jumping spiders. I nicknamed them "Ninja spiders" because everytime I was near then they would come running towards me and try to jump on me. But if it were my husband,kids or anyone else that was nearby, they would run the opposite direction. Those things reminded me of arachnophobia,lol, but I knew they were trying to simply get my attention. I haven't seen them lately. So, even though the spiders aren't my designated spirit animal, they did come during a time of transition.

I am assuming the snake is probably doing the same.

Angel
@angel
12/28/16 03:26:08PM
607 posts

Has Anyone Had Ghosts Mimic The Voices of Loved Ones?


Psychic and Paranormal

Mimicking spirits can be a pain in the butt :( I had one that masked my voice during an EVP session and called me a b@tch. When I had my husband listen to it, he swore up and down it was me!  The voice was identical to mine. I'm like, "why would I call myself a b@tch?" But he swore up and down it was me until one morning he heard me calling him from the bathroom. He walked in and I wasn't there. Yet, he swore up and down I called him. He finally realized that a spirit was mimicking my voice.

I had another one who mimicked my son. We were in our bedroom, but the door was open and heard our 14 year old son at the doorway, yet our son was in his room playing his DS. The same spirit also mimicked our daughter a few hours later. 

I don't know why some spirits do this, I know the first one was demonic and reaked alot of havoc, but the second one felt more human and wasn't really a problem child, I just felt like it was trying to get our attention.

I would go with what you are feeling. If it doesn't feel good or safe, get rid of it.

Angel
@angel
12/28/16 03:14:22PM
607 posts

Why was it deleted? :(


Request a Reading

Try searching your posts on your profile page, if it will let you. If not, I am sorry. Elise had alot of material to move and though I have no doubt she tried to move it all, it may be possible that some things got lost during the move :( You can try reposting a request and see if anyone else will pick up new messages from her. I have no doubt your beautiful mother is still with you and watching over you from above :)

Angel
@angel
12/28/16 08:06:39AM
607 posts

A shadow figure


Psychic and Paranormal

I haven't had any experieinces with ET's, however, I would suggest to notice the feelings you have when you have these experieinces. My personal rule of thumb is, if they may me feel nervious, I  can't read them, or not a great feeling, I get rid of them first, ask questions later:)

Angel
@angel
12/28/16 08:03:03AM
607 posts

Twin Flames! Runner or Fake Twin?


Empath

And one more thing, if he didn't want it, he wouldn't have brought it up and he wouldn't be acting like this :) . Guys who don't want to marry avoid the conversation like the plague. Ask any guy here :) But, the reason why he say's he's not interested is merely because you said it and...yeah, it's a whole pride thing. :) But actions speak louder then words and his actions,though come across mixed, these are action of love, pain, and hope. :) Again, no pressure, seriously,  just some insight to where he is at.

Angel
@angel
12/28/16 07:55:27AM
607 posts

Twin Flames! Runner or Fake Twin?


Empath

Thanks for the feedback. I understand your stance on marriage and I totally get it, but I think he places a different importance on it, and this is where the conflict arises. You don't need a psychic to tell you this, but even though his "marriage proposal" wasn't official, it was his way of asking you. That part is obvious.

It's kind of cute though, because when my husband proposed to me, it was through a conversation we were having about soul connections and combining of soul. Because the conversation was spiritual in nature, I totally missed it, until things started going downhill. It was like he got rejected and started pulling away. After about three weeks, it finally dawned on me that he was asking me to marry him. Combining our soul=marriage...duh...right? Man, I felt like a complete moron for not getting it! hahah.  I talked to him about it and my intuition was dead on, he was proposing. God, I felt so bad because I could only imagine the thoughts and feelings he was feeling for three weeks thinking I didn't want to marry him, when, the reality was I waited 3 years for that proposal,lol. (That's ok, I totally made it up to him with a very intimate wedding :)) I think girls often expect the dinner, down on one knee and a ring, something concrete and black and white, like... "will you marry me?" Can't miss that!  but some men try to do things diferently to show meaning behind it or something deeper and someone like me misses the point all together!

The point is, either he was proposing in a round about way or getting ready to do it officially,he don't think he got the answer or reaction he was anticipating. I'm not saying to not be true to yourself, if this is how you feel, then you need to follow your heart and your beliefs on the matter, but I would put a million dollars on this being the reason his emotions are so up and down now. It's not to make you change your mind or make you feel bad, it's just merely giving an explanation on why he is acting like this now. The whole " I love you, I don't love you", ect. What can I say? He's crazy in love with you, your crazy in love with him, and if that piece of paper means that much to him, and you can't see yourself with anyone else, I say then, just give it to him. Even if the paper doesn't hold the same significance to you, for some reason it means everything to him. My husband's the same way. I was no longer his GF or fiance, I became his wife, morally, legally, and we were bound by all means possible. And he holds a certain pride with that. People also treated us as a married couple. It's not always about just the spiritual, but that legal binding shows a willingness to commit to that deeper commitment,lol. You can't run away as quickly,lol. Even though on a spiritual level it means nothing, on a physical realm, it solidifies the union to everyone.

Anyway's no pressure!!! HAHAHA. But just  being honest. If you know in your soul of souls he is the one, and you have no desire to be with anyone else, and the ONLY thing stopping the two of you from living that beautiful spiritual union you have, I say, just give it him. But, if there are more deeper things going on, then take the step back and work on some of the deeper issues first. Blessed Be.

Angel
@angel
12/28/16 05:19:58AM
607 posts

My 3yr old is seeing Orbs


Psychic and Paranormal

Since he is so small and obviously is still very connected to the spiritual realm, his "light" attracts many different entities. The more fearful be becomes, the more energy that have to feed from. So, in order to lessen this, he needs to feel safe in his room. Because he is so connected to the spiritual realm but lacks the understanding of ghosts and spirits, I would focus his attention on more higher realm beings, such as angels or whatever/whoever he connects in spirit that is higher realm. Dieties such as Jesus or Buddah, whatever your beliefs are, to focus attention on these beings. You might want to start an evening routine as well that involves him saying a prayer, ritual or something that draws in the energy and protection of the higher realm. So, if Grampa is in spirit,then he can ask his grampa is stand by and watch over him while he sleeps. Not sure if you are a magickal practioner or not, but you can also program a favorite toy to help protect, something he feels safe with. The more positive things he is exposed to, the more his mind should shift towards light things. If that makes sense :) So, instead of looking in the closet and seeing a bunch of shadow people (usually lost souls), he will train his third eye to see the angels blocking the door or surrounding his bed. He'll program his body to pick up on more positive energies and hopefully gravitate towards these things. The more he is exposed to these things and the less energy or thoughts he gives to the shadows, the less they will manifest. This shift in energy will help keep the more negative ones at bay. This will also teach him descernment, because he will already program himself to know the light energy. If he does pick up anything negative and get's scared, then you will already have things in place to help revert that attention to a safer and calmer place in his mind.

The females in my family are also Mediums and these are just a few things we learned along the way. The dark can get really dark, but our minds and emotions have a way of creating a safe haven if we create it, so safe that it doesn't matter what entitiy is around, we know we are safe because of where we choose to focus that  attention.  Surrounding him by the things that help him connect to light energies and entities will help revert his attention to those things in time. I don't know if this makes sense, but I hope it helps.

Angel
@angel
12/28/16 04:33:36AM
607 posts

Twin Flames! Runner or Fake Twin?


Empath

(This response will probebly come across more practical then just spiritual, I hope that is ok) It sounds like most of this started happening when you denied his marriage proposal. Relationships usually can't go backwards after that. You both had a connection that evolved into something deeper and more beautiful so the next step for him is marriage. Your happy with the situation where it was at, but he needs more,that your not really willing to give at this point. And there is nothing wrong with this. The back and forth on his part is more of a reflection of the emotional struggle he is going through. He thought everything was going wonderful and then you said no, so he feels rejected. And then you left. He figured that when you got back, he may be able to try again, but you have consistantly told him your happy where your both at now, so the same issue keeps coming up. He doesn't want to give him full heart away if there is no certain future. Yet, he can't seem to tear himself away from you and visa-versa. So now there is this wall. The wall is part confusion on what to do,continue and be happy with this and see where it goes, or move on, confusion and where he stands, ect. Then there's the "can't get to close emotionally" wall, because emotionally he is already there, but it hurts because in his mind, your not or what you have to give isn't what he is looking for,ect. So, this is the jist of it.

And this is where you need to do some serious soul searching. I would try to place the understanding of your connection with him on the back burner for now, and spend that time trying to understand your own wall, the one that prevents you from fully opening up and committing. Even though you have an idea that alot of it revolves around fear, there is something deeper that makes you stop in your tracks from moving forward. I'm assuming it has to do something with vulnerability :) But deeper love always comes at a price. Love and trust doesn't come from playing it safe, it comes from taking risks for the right the person. There is never a guarentee in love, you are never guarentteed the love you have will be the same in 10 years, in fact, I can guarentee it will change. But into what? who knows, it can be a total "eclipse of the heart" (pun intended) or it could go to deeper levels that you never thought imaginable. It's also unrealistic to believe that everything will always be wonderful. It's through conflict and struggles at times that we learn to not just love the light but to accept the shadow, or not so pleasant side,of the other person.

There is alot of hype about twin souls and literally being the "other half" of ourselves, or one soul split in half into two bodies. Though romantic, I personally don't believe in that. I believe it's the molding of two souls into one. But each soul is individual. We must evolve our own souls as individuals and together if/when we find that one. Some souls help us during a time to evolve, while others are part of our "soul families". But with each souls there are two sides, light and shadow. The idea, I believe isn't to get rid of the dark, but to balance both sides. The connection you have with this man seems to be a very close one, but connection isn't enough. It needs to be evolved if it's going to grow but only you can make the choice to do that. Though, whatever choice you make in this lifetime isn't a forever choice, more opportunities will come later, I do believe this is a crossroads for you. What is stopping you from moving forward, is it fear or is it more? Is it intuition telling you need to work on something more internal first? Perhaps not all the information about this person has been obtained yet. I don't know, I can't answer that, only you can by searching within yourself. Is love what  you are truely seeking? Or are you looking for something else? Is it worth the risk? Or are you willing to take the risk for love? If the answer is no, ask yourself, why not? And write all this down. Have a question and answer session with yourself, like your two people. And be honest. Noone else will read it, so no worries there, this is a conversation between you and yourself :) Ask yourself the difficult questions. If the questions are to broad keep narrowing it down until you finally get an answer. And I would also suggest you stop sleeping with him until you can get a better idea of where you want to take this. And let him know this. Tell him your doing some serious soul searching because your confused. You need some time to figure this out deep inside before making a decision. And this will benefit you both. Suggest he do the same. If it's meant to be, it will all work out in the end. And if not, either way, in order for you to move forward in any relationship, this needs to be addressed and resolved. You may find out it is worth it, or you may find that something deeper is stopping you from moving forward with him. But you need this time to take a step back and get to the core of the issue I think. 

The only real red flag I see at this point is that you talk about how much he has shown you and you learned from him. This is not a bad thing in general, but are you two equals? Or is he more in the teacher role and you in the student role? This could be where some of your hesitance is coming from.  We all learn something from our spouses, and we also teach things to our spouses, but if the tables are tipped to much in one direction or the other, then it should be looked at to see if what we think we are experieincing is done in the right capacity. Many Empaths often mistake love for other needs that are needing to be fulfilled. Not saying this is your case, just food for thought, but for example alot of Empaths may get into abusive relationships because they feel like they can save them. They often mistake saving the underdog as love, when in fact, on a deeper the level, the need isn't love at all, it's the constant need to to save that soul. Do you see what I'm saying? Are you drawn to him as a man or are you more drawn to the knoweldge and experieinces he has given you, but not necessarily the man? This is just another aspect to look deeper in. When you visualize true love,, is what he is giving you, is this your vision for love? Or are the tables tipped and feel that you are not truely on equal ground? This is where you find out what your soul is desiring at the moment. Maybe you have no real desire for enternal love, but maybe your soul is desiring knowledge and discovery of self.

Anyway's, I ramble alot,lol, but this is just some food for thought, and some things to think about while trying to sift through all the thoughts and emotions concerning this relationship. Usually, if things are moving forward at full force and then get halted, there is a reason for it, and it's time to get some clearer answers. It's not always a negative thing, it just means we need clearer answers in order to make a final decision. I hope this helps and wishing you many blessings on your path. 

Angel
@angel
12/27/16 04:55:36PM
607 posts

Empath - Soul Level?


Empath

I wish I could contribute with an answer, but quite frankly, I have never heard of this before.My beliefs on the soul is that the soul is basically the collective or storage unit for all that we are, and usually makes us sift through in order to find the deeper meanings.

However, as a reader myself, I can tell you that each reader will give readings and advice that also reflect their spiritual belief systems. So, for example, if the reader you went to beliefs in different dimensions, or chakras or whatever, then their readings will reflect this belief system. There are alot of great  responses here that also may reflect a similiar belief system. What I would suggest is this, take the parts that you resonate with, look into the things you are not sure about, and disreguard the things that don't connect at all. Readings are not always 100% accurate because it's subjective to interpretation. 5 reader;s could read the same energy, but they will also interpret this energy in 5 different ways.

Becareful not to use one reader's info as infinate truth, there are many different angles to every situation, to every thought and emotion and what fits or works for some,doesn't work for everyone. It's meant to be a guide to help you find further insight,nothing more, nothing less.

As far as researching empath's, again, there are alot of "common features" or things that  people will argue over concerning an Emapth. For example, a common conscensus is that Empath's are always loving and nurturing or could never hurt a fly because they feel others emotions and the pain of causing pain would hurt them to much. However, this is not always the case. So spreadin your research to something bigger such as "Clairsentience" may help you understand a bigger picture of what an Empath is and the capabilities of the abilility, since the bigger term focus more on the exchange of psychic energy as oppossed to what many deem as common traits. If this makes sense :)

I hope you can find an answer that fits you and I wish you many blessings on your path

Angel
@angel
12/07/16 01:27:44PM
607 posts

Ghosts??


Psychic and Paranormal

It may also fall under something like wave lenghts, radio frequencies, and things in that matter.

Angel
@angel
12/07/16 01:26:01PM
607 posts

Ghosts??


Psychic and Paranormal

Actually,it's very logical and scientific.....energy. Spirits are a form of more pure and concentrated energy because they no longer have a shell, but if thoughts, emotions and the soul is all made up of energy, then spirits that manifest are the manifestation of that energy. 'm not scientific so I can't go into detail, I just know it all revolves around energy and the manifestation of it. :)

Angel
@angel
12/07/16 01:04:41PM
607 posts

still wondering about the glow


Psychic and Paranormal

It's sounds like you were able to pick up his light energy but also something else. I picked up a sadness from him. This type  of mixture of energy is common for Earth Angels. Angels who have left heaven and have come here to help or gain a better understanding of humans. Doreen Virtue wrote a book about Earth Angels. Other then being a little stereotypical for my taste, alot of it makes sense. It might be something worth looking into.

Here's a link to get you started :)

http://www.angeltherapy.com/blog/incarnated-angels-and-starpeople

Angel
@angel
12/07/16 12:45:18PM
607 posts

Anger...the taught emotion?


Empath

Like all emotions, there is a light and shadow to anger. One the light side, anger fuels passion and allows us to set boundaries, stand up to injustices and create life-changing changes on an individual and global scale. Anger is the cause of many laws we have in place today against sex crimes, human rights and environment issues. It is the reason why we have many of the non-profit programs we have today against animal abues/neglect or protests because Trump won :) It is the reason why America is a free country and no longer ruled by England/France. It is the what created the underground railroad and civil war that eventually paved the way for slaves to be free. These changes are huge and would have never come about without anger. But on a shadow side, it can consume and destroy. It can destroy not only the body but also the soul. It can blind us to the truth and block us from seeing the light in other people. It can be the catalyst for hatred and on an individual and global scale can cause much death and destruction. It can create apathy and a detachment towards other people. Domestic violence is anger in it's shadow. However, anger is often a catalyste for something deeper. For you, I believe it's pain. The anger keeps coming back because you have pain that hasn't been healed yet. Pain is the root cause, anger is merely the symptom. Until you work on the pain and begin to heal it, your anger will remain.

Some people say to find forgiveness, but sometimes the pain is so great and some crimes are simply unforgivable,and that's ok. This issue may never be fully resolved with him until many lifetimes or not at all,for he may never change. And you can't control that, that is his lot to deal with. But forgiveness is rarely about making nice and having fuzzy feelings about someone, it's more about accepting what the person has done and finding a way to move on from the damage they have done. Finding a resolution. The resolution isn't about finding a mutual agreement between you and that person, it's a matter of finding resolution about the person and situation that will allow you to let go of the situation that holds you hostage. But the starting point is really about recognizing the root (pain) and working through it. Many times this requires us to see recognize different aspects of the situation, recognize the full effect it had on ourselfves and many times walking in their shoes to fully gain an understanding of what it was like to be who they were. This also allows us to see the light that is within them and see them on a bigger scale of things. Alot of people aren't willing to do this because they simply don't want to, but it is necessary in order to find the full truth. I'm not quick to through therapy out there, but in your case, I think it could really benefit to have someone like that help you sift through everything and bring in an outside perspective. If your really wanting and ready to let the anger go, then working through the pain will help you do that and eventually the anger will begin to subside. It may never go away, but it will subside enough for you to move forward. I'm sending some healing energy to help.

Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
@angel
12/07/16 10:14:24AM
607 posts

We as empaths need to unite together PLEASE READ and share your input


Empath

I'm not really sure what your wanting to accomplish, specifically. It's important to be clear anytime your sending out energy for the intention is what programs the energy. If it's not clear, then to many different energies in the mixing bowl can get really blotched :)

As far as this election goes, I feel more division then anything. I feel that this division isn't necessarily bad because it sparks a fire in people and helps them grow as souls. However, when the fire burns to hot and people start getting hurt because if it, that's the point where the fire needs to be turned down a bit.  Most of the problem revolves around fear and nonacceptance of the outcome of the election. Those who are for against those who are against. Since each individual is so passionate about their stance, it's difficult to see the other person's viewpoint. The only way people are going to be able to agree is to agree to disagree and move past it. Because the issues are so extreme, noone is ready to do this yet. In their minds, there is still time to make a change or fight for what is already in place. The best advice I can offer is to look higher, if fate really does a hand in this, then no matter who is in office, the greater good will always prevail. Though much of this falls on someone else's choices (destiny) , the universe can and will intervene if it goes against the greater good. And I wholeheartedly believe this. We don't really know what has been happening behind the scenes and maybe this is a good thing. 911 is a good example of this. Though it was a devastating event, the outcome was miraculous. For a time, people put their differences aside and united as one. It didn't come from people agreeing, it came from coming together in spite of the differences. I have no doubt that the universe intervened when we needed it most. (Not the act itself, that's was the choice of man, but the country coming together, I really feel there was an extra push from the universe that was triggered by the will of the whole.) Anyway's, let me know what your plan is and if you are one of the one's feeling fear about this, then I hope this post brings some comfort :)

Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
@angel
05/03/16 12:52:37PM
607 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Create a home that you love! Use things you are connected with and make YOU feel warm and comfortable. If you fill your space with things you are not comfortable, but only for show, then you have no connection with this stuff and that is the energy your going to send out. Say you have a statue that is modern and everyone loves, but you hate it, it gives you the creeps, get rid of it because you have the heeby jebby vibe and this is the energy that will be projected into your space. Also, if it's energy doesn't flow with yours, even if there is nothing wrong with it, then it will also disrupt the energy in your home. You will know through the energy it makes you feel :)

You can look online for ideas and inspiration but make sure you connect with it. Just because someone tells you to put a purple crystal in the far back corner to bring in good energy, if you off about it, or it just looks ridiculous and you don't like it, that crystal won't do anything for you! It has to flow with you.

You can also do regular cleansings in your home with sage and protect it with salt. This usually clears the negative energy. And visualize peaceful energy coming in from whatever source you use to draw in light energy. :)

Angel
@angel
05/03/16 12:31:38PM
607 posts



It will go away. It's what us Empath's call the "Dark Night Of the Soul" , it usually comes before the "awakening" although I often refer to it as more a deeper path of self discovery. The path of the soul, if you will. It usually comes when we find out about all our gifts and abilities, which usually turns us down a deeper path of spirituality. Once we hit the path of spirituality, we are required to cleanse the soul. Basically, in order for us to move in a higher stage of lightness, we have to let go of the things we have been holding onto and prevents us from moving forward in our new direction. Kind of like a garden. If you don't tend to your garden, your garden get's overrun by weeds. This process is merely cleaning out the weeds and not only allowing for a healthier garden, but also gives us room to add more to it :)

The journey of the soul is never an easy journey. It's filled with pain and darkness because it requires us to be completely honest with not only the good stuff but, but the stuff that we don't others to know or see, or we don't want to accept about ourselves. However, you can't pick to knowledge only half the soul, and pretend the rest doesn't exsist because then we deny half of who we are.

The darkness serves it's own purpose, even though it feels uncomfortable. We don't want to dig up painful memories, but in order to move forward, we have to come to some type of resolution. It doesn't always mean extensive therapy, somethings are minor and we can look at it and go, "forget it, I don't want to hold on to this anymore" and then toss it away and forgotten. Once your at peace with it, then it doesn't matter anymore. The lessons learned will always go with you and that's all that matter's. Some things take more time and energy and may not be resolved in a single lifetime. Perhaps the lesson isn't just letting go, but merely accepting it and all the emotions it caused. Maybe the anger is used as a catalyst for something greater. For example, some creeppo does something horrible to your sister. Instead of trying to let the anger go because your trying to fill your life with only love and light energy, and trying to forgive when your hot as a volcano, perhaps that anger is channeled into creating support groups or volunteer court activists for victims while they are having to go through with it. If there was no anger, then this positive thing would have never happened. It's all about balance :)

There is always light in the darkness or the ability to create it, and there is always a shed or darkness in the light. It's not the emotions that are negative or positive, it's what we decide to do with them.

It's easy as an Empath to feel used and unappreciated because people have a tendency to take advantage of our caring nature. But don't take it personally. They often don't understand Empath's, but Empath's do and you have a support here with people who do understand. As far as your journey, allow yourself to grieve the past, for this promotes healing and allows you to release what you no longer desire and the ability to see things in a different perspective. I would suggest to keep a journal and write everything down. Yell, scream, cuss, name call, whatever. This energy will not go into the universe, just on the paper, because the intention is to release, not harm anyone, so feel free to express yourself honestly, this will promote healing. This will also promote self reflection as you may go back later and see patterns of behavior you want to change, or how much you have grown. Having an outlet is always beneficial. Releasing this will also help your physical body because it will no longer hold the tension within itself, it will be released and allow for new energy to enter.

The term awakening often happens during the dark night of the soul because you are discovering everything about you. Your literally shining a light to all the skeletons in your closet. You don't healing for the good stuff, just the stuff you shoved away and forgotten. This is why it is so painful. The more light you shine, the more knowledge you gain, and the more enlightened you become. You can use a higher power or whatever you view as light energy as your guide. During this time it's also important to balance the energy and emotions. If you have been low energy for a few days, take a break and go do something fun or spiritual and allow that light energy to come in. The deeper go, the darker it get's, this light is your lifeline and will make the journey much easier.

I also found it beneficial to use that time to do readings. Since I carried so much pain, I also connected easily with other people's pain and that is when I started doing readings. I didn't do it for money, but somehow, by connecting to them and helping them with suggestions also helped to heal myself :) Whatever your gift is, use it here. Having that feedback and appreciation will help you see how important that light you share really is. It's being able to see that end result that will also help you to see how special you really are :) .

As with every season in our lives, this to shall pass. We never really resolve every issue for life will continue to give us more, but it's meant to transform into the souls we are meant to be and who we chose to be.

It's worth the journey, I promise :) I hope it helps,

Blessed Be,

Angel


updated by @angel: 12/25/16 01:35:05PM
Angel
@angel
05/03/16 11:54:37AM
607 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

I understand the searching. I can't tell you how many times I have felt the pull of the soul, something is missing, but I have no idea what it is, so I blindly I begin digging in a haystack assuming that when I find it, I will just know and then never finding anything because I don't know what I'm searching for to begin with,lol, I literally live a life of paradox, which has left me with a very confusing life. But the gift is that I can see all angles of a situation and gain insight or knowledge from each angle.

Maybe looking at it in a different and more specific perspective will help. You said you are looking for a way to end the loneliness, yet, each lifetime, nothing changes. So, maybe instead of looking to end the loneliness, dig deeper on what is causing it. If you can find the core of the issue, the reason why you feel this way, then your longer escaping, your resolving. Once your mind understand what the soul is needing, then you can fulfill that need and live the life you truly desire. Your desire is to not escape the pain, that merely a reaction for not wanting to feel it anymore. Your desire is to feel like your a part of someone and something and that someone or something else is a part you. Connection. The loneliness is probably due to a wall that was built to protect you from pain, but in turn causes that pain through isolation. Since we are both of light and darkness, it's our job to learn to balance that out. This is how we truly choose whether we choose to walk in light or in the dark. Funny thing is, we are not meant to choose, we are meant to balance it out and create light where there is none and understand that without darkness there would be no light. We understand other's pain by experiencing our own and that's one of many way's we form connection. And it's those connections that help us understand that we are not completely alone.

I could be wrong, but my gut tells me it's that lack of connection that keeps you feeling lonely. You had that connection with one person and now that the connection is lost, you feel alone again. And it's a wall that was created to protect the heart that prevents you from connecting the way you would like to. If this is the case, your answer isn't escaping through suicide, it's breaking down that wall and reconnecting to the people you love and the world around you. It's not only showing love and strength, but showing weakness and vulnerability. This is why you had that connection with her, because you let her in. But if you walk out then that connection won't come from one source, but many sources. Yeah, it's scary and it sucks being vulnerable, but I don't know one person on the planet that doesn't feel that way from time to time :) Each connection has a purpose, whether it be with a person, place or object, and each fulfills different aspects of the soul. Each is essential to feed the soul. They don't always turn out the way we want, but they always turn out the way we need in order to help us grow.

I don't know if this helps any, I hope it does help though. We are all alone which makes us individuals, yet we are all part of something bigger, and that is what makes us connected to one another.

Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
@angel
05/03/16 10:29:23AM
607 posts

Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too


Empath

I am happily married and no he is not an Empath, though after we got married we our abilities seemed to mesh.The hardest thing about being with someone who is not Empathic is the depthness of emotions. I expected my husband to have the same depth but he doesn't. I also realized that this depthness was also part of being an Empath and had to accept that he wasn't. He used to be pretty superficial and sometimes that side still comes out, but he also has a heart of gold. We have been together for 10 years and I have known him for 20. We seemed to balance each other out very well, where I fall short, he makes up for and visa versa. Over the 10 years we have been together, we have really evened each other out.

Though he has his faults, we all do, he also has some admirable characteristics. His hands, he is a natural born healer, very innocent in nature and has a gentleness I rarely see. It's not the typical relationship I would be in. Because I am often attracted to deep emotions, I am usually attracted to emotional people. So, I don't the fierce " OMG, It's the end of the world" when we disagree, he grounds me. He has taught me to tame my emotions at certain times, and I have taught him when to show his. We can talk about anything, and there is no threat there. And that's really the foundation of our relationship, friendship. It's not always easy because at times it feels like the lines between relationship and friendship seem a little blurred, but we have learned to talk about it. For example, if we spend to much time talking and I want a hug, instead of getting upset because I figured he should know when I need one, I just walk up to him and give him a hug,which he always gives me a loving one back. That's his signal to know what I need.

Through this process, and let me tell you, it wasn't easy, but we both learned, there isn't the perfect one out there, overtime, you become the perfect one :) He started out wanting to settle down and have a wife. I was on the same page. Our differances almost ended our relationship after the first year, but we talked and made a choice. We both wanted this to work and make it a partnership. It's not about loosing your identity in a relationship or changing the other person, it's about learning each other and learning to share a life together, if your both on the same page. Love isn't a feeling, it's a partnership, working together for a common goal. Alot of that has to do with trust, respect, and compromise. If your looking for some hot, passionate fierce feeling, then you will get that for the first 6-months to a couple of years and then get ready to move on. If you want a commitment, then you will have to accept the ruts and continue to work through them. Maybe something needs to be changed up a bit, maybe life got boring, maybe the cute guy or girl at work is giving you attention and you mistake that attraction for lack of love for your spouse. That's not usually the case, usually, it;s nothing more then a desire of the heart of something your wanting fulflled that isn't being fulfilled. It doesn't mean the fire is dead or that it's a sign that you should look elsewhere, it just means that it;s time to make some changes in your relationship for the better. If your partner is on the same page, then these changes should be made to help the relationship grow.

No matter how close you are, connections between romantic partners are like the tide, sometimes the tide comes in and your close, other times, the tide goes out and you feel like stranger's. At that point, you make a choice. Do I wait for things to get better, or do I go in kiss them passionately and allow that spark to turn into a fire again.

As an Empath, it's important that not all emotions are going to be fiery, nor are all the people that come into our lives. Fiery love often results in the opposite, fiery disagreements. You usually can't have one strong emotion and the rest not be just as strong. It doesn't work that way. People inherantly are drawn to the feel good emotions, and often depend on the feeling in a relationship, but when that emotion is gone, there is nothing left of the relationship because there was no other foundation and the relationship falls apart. Happily ever after isn't the feeling of feeling happy every single day, it's defining what happiness is and working together to fulfill that. Happiness can also be an illusion because people often say, I just want a house, a spouse, kids and a dog and I will be happy, but if things stayed the same and nothing ever changes, that happiness because unhappy because can become boring, especially someone who strives for that feel good feeling only.

I hope that makes sense. If you want a long term relationship, you need to define what that means to you. Get an idea of what you expect out of your partner and envision the type of life you desire. Define what is realistic and what isn't realistic. It's realistic that you and they will be together everyday, it's unrealistic to believe that they are going to swoom all over you each of those days:) It's realistic to believe that they will share a huge part of their life with you, but it's unrealistic that they will forever wrap their world around yours and they will eventually have some part of life that you are not a part of. And then you have to accept this. You have love life, married life, parent life, work life, and EC life:)

If your looking for a relationship that only has feel good feelings, then your not looking for a relationship, your looking for a specific feeling, and then you need to dig deeper to find a way to fulfill that and find someone who is on the same page. It sucks when there is a goose with a gander :) But, that's what keeps us from being completely selfish human beings :)

I always looked at emotions as screaming children. You have a ton of them and the ones who scream the loudest are the ones we always pay attention. Not because they are more important, but because we just want them to shut up! lol. However, this is where logic and reason come in, to keep us from going off the deep end and doing things we may later regret. Or to help us decide the importance of it and push us to take care of it.

You say that your GF had alot of fears, I'm assuming one of her fears was infidelity, which probably resulted in jealousy. This is an emotion followed by a reaction. You can't control the emotion, and it sounds like, neither can she, but we all have our insecurities, question is, can something be done to help elevate that. This is where communication comes in. You already know she has it, you know why she reacts the way she does, question is, is there anything you can do to help build that trust and is she willing to acknowledged that she has a problem? If she is jealous, tell her that her jealousy is driving you further away, and if she tells you,in a calm matter, hey, I'm not feeling right about this, or, I am feeling this way, then listen to her and don't take it personal and use that time to help her sort through those feelings instead of taking offense. Miscommunication and taking offense is the biggest killer in any relationship. You can't change the emotion, but maybe you two can find a way to help her change her reaction to that emotion. It's that kind of work that is needed for long term relationships to survive. It may not take away a jealous feeling, but it does help her trust that you won't judge her for that, and help her to respect how her reactions effect you and what it does to you. At this point, pride is out the door and the common goal is to find a compromise or a better way to handle things that will bring you closer together and push each other further apart. This is where real commitment comes in.

Sometimes it's just not there, and if it's dead, or it's one-sided, then it's time to go. Anyway's I wrote another book, sorry. This is just my opinion, hope it helps.

Angel
@angel
05/03/16 09:29:04AM
607 posts



I know exactly how you feel! You feel like the world's dumping ground, sucking all your light and giving you their junk in return. I also understand random strangers telling you their whole life story in a matter of 10 minutes and then getting that "oh crap, what did I just do?" look and hightailing it far, far away from you:) I've also been attracted to the people who have problems. I realized that while I thought I was seeking love, I was unconsciously looking to save people. I had to learn to the difference between love and rescue and the best way to do that is by taking yourself out of Empath Mode and looking at the situation and person without the rose colored glasses.

For example, in high school, I feel in love with a guy. On a soul level we had this undeniable connection, but for some reason we just couldn't make it work. The last time we were together, his attitude changed and he was kind of a jerk. I left and came back 13 years later. We were excited to see each other again and went to dinner. I noticed right away one of the problems we had back in the day, we didn't talk much. I looked past it because I could still feel that connection and I knew he felt it to. After a month, he started doing the same things he did when I left back in high school. I knew the connection was still there, but the colors he showed to the world and what he decided to hide within were two different colors. I also knew why, he sabotaged alot of relationships and though he desired a deeper love, he just couldn't let the wall down to let it in. I knew all of this, on that end nothing changed. But I got so tired of the "hot and cold" attitude, I finally had to take a step back and look at him as the person he showed the world, the mask, not the person I knew within. Why? Because the mask if the person he chose to be, the person he chose to show to the world. So when I looked at that aspect, I saw that I didn't like that person. I didn't like the mask, I didn't like his destructive behavior. And I also realized that what I was trying to do was bring the real him to the surface, but ultimately, he couldn't do that, so I had to let him go. I also realized that the attraction had little to do with love and had more to do with saving him, helping him shine the great side of him, but we can't force people to do that.

My advice to you is the same, next time you find a man who you feel a strong connection with, take a look at his mask, the person he shows to everyone else,including you. Forget the potential or who the real person is for a moment, and decide if whether the person he chose to be is someone you even like. Is this someone you desire to be a mate? I'm not saying don't connect on a soul level, what I'm saying is, don't be disillusioned by the soul. Just because they have a beautiful light within, they have to make the choice to shine that light, and if they choose not to, then you might want to reconsider being in a relationship, because chances are, your in the relationship for the wrong reasons, your wanting to save them, not the equal partnership you desire.

This is just my own experience and what I learned. Maybe it might help:)

Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
@angel
05/03/16 09:08:25AM
607 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

P.s. we are like this because we are the heart of the Divine. We are the reminder's that love still exsists, both in the heaven's and on earth :) Though it's painful at times, healing wouldn't exsist without it. And you never know who's life you change by a simple word or kind gesture.

Angel
@angel
05/03/16 09:02:01AM
607 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

I'm going to try to approach this as gently as possible, but I also feel the need to approach this on a more logical level. It sounds like you feel in love with a girl that doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you love her. It could be she really does have a very, very low self esteem, or , more likely, she either has you in friend zone or she is in a relationship, or both.

Listen, when it comes to soul connections, I found this to be common especially with Empath's, is that we often love or feel connections deeper then most people. We also have a tendency to mistake the strong connection with love. I'm not saying you don't love this woman or that she is not one of many soulmates you have in this life, but that connection is not always meant to evolve into romantic love. It could be that we recognize that connection from previous lives and though we have a deeper drawing to them, sometimes the reasons not match up with our desires. Perhaps the agreement for this life was to help you break away from the comfort zone of religion and bring a different perspective in spiritually, so your soul can grow. Perhaps, you were meant to try to teach her to love herself or for her to clarify what she really needs. On her end, I don't know. But I do know, is that we can't teach someone else to love themselves if we don't do it ourselves. The greater picture isn't about finding our twin souls and living happily ever after in the spiritual realm, it's about evolving our souls and bringing us to a point where we are complete. The people that come in and out of our lives help fulfill that purpose and our lives help them fulfill theirs. You desire love, but the greatest love you can have is the love you have for yourself. When we love ourselves, we care about what happens to ourselves. The one thing you grieve in her, is the one thing you are also doing to yourself. You say you don't understand how she feel's unworthy of love, yet your post tells me you know exactly how she feels, because it's within you to. If it wasn't, you wouldn't fathom self harm. The theme that I can see in this relationship, isn't romantic love, it's self love.

So how do we find the love we are actually seeking? Self love is the first step. When we learn to love ourselves, we learn to respect ourselves, and we demand that from other's. Relationships should be formed as a partnership. People who are equal and on the same page of where they are wanting to go. Your being prepared for that, for that person. Your deepest desire is not to be in a relationship, it is to find that deeper love and connection you have been searching for. You would never have it with this woman because she is not there yet. The partnership you share would not bring you the happiness you seek, and the universe knows this. The first step is self love and being comfortable alone. Finding happiness and fulfillment by yourself. I know it sounds crazy, but it's true. The reason why is because the type of relationship you seek isn't one of co-dependency, it's one of equality. If your worth is based on someone else's emotions, which change all the time, then you are co-dependent on the other person for your own self esteem. That is what this woman has done. Someone told her she wasn't worthy of someone else's love, and she has chosen to be dependent on that and hold that as true. She will continue to self sabotage until SHE decides she will no longer hold onto that. She is co-dependent on that person until she does. The only thing you are doing is transferring that co-dependency, which isn't love, nor is it the love you seek. Your dependent upon her to fulfill that void you feel inside, which she is not capable of doing because she can't even fill her own void. She depends on that one person to keep her self esteem down, because she chooses to. And you depend on her romantic feelings to keep you alive, do you see a pattern here? You can't save her, noone can, but her , this is the part of the path only she can walk by herself.

But you can change you. This is your time to look in the mirror and ask yourself why everyone else's lives are worth living, but yours isn't. What gives their lives worth and meaning and yours not? You have dedicated your life looking for worth in even the most inferior creatures, now it's time to find worth in yours. I don't know if I can help you with this, but I know a good councilor can. Channel that energy in connecting with you and your spirituality, and channel that energy in you. Do the things you wanted to do that you haven't before. Join some social groups that involve activities you are interested in where you can meet people on the same page. If it's metaphysical, go to meet-up.com and look up metaphysical groups in your area and go ghost hunting, or energy healing workshops, or whatever it is you want to do. I guarentee,once you start investing in you and your life, without even realizing it, she will show up. But don't do it for, because then your still doing it for all the wrong reasons. Once you are content being you, other opportunities will open in the area you desire. Trust me on this!

The one guy I thought was my other half of my soul, though I had a strong love for him and I knew we had a special connection, when I needed him most, he was nowhere to be found. I was going through a separation,raising three kids on my own, and each person I met, I felt disconnected to on a romantic way. I used that time to focus that energy on taking care of my children, working and learning a new spiritual path. In two years, I was no longer dependent on other people for my own failure and self esteem, I was only dependent on me and my Divine. I was finally freed and those two years, lonely as they were, was a life changing time in my life. I was independent and I learned so much. I no longer had a need to be with someone, sure the desire if the right person came along, but it wasn't a need and I wasn't going to compromise next time. 2 1/2 years later, I found him. Noone is perfect, but we are defiently connected on a deeper level and our journies mesh. Most important, we equal partner's in this life together. Yes, we have evolved to the point of not being able to imagine living without each other, we are that close, but, if he dies before I do, though it will devastate me, I will go on and I will channel that energy into something else, like grandkids, building a metaphysical something, or traveling. I don't know. Maybe I will go to a high mountain and just watch the sunrise ans sunset until it's my time to go. People think that love is a matter of dying with that other person, but he loves me so well, I want to live. I'm 40 something :) and never thought I would find it, but I did and it started with me. I would have never found it if I was still the shell I was 12 years ago.

The love you seek is real love, and that love is within you. Once you tap into that love for you, it sends a signal out to others who are seeking the same kind of love you do. Once you love yourself, you will also find someone who also loves themselves and you two will be equal. It's the hardest lesson to learn for Empath, because we are inhertantly giving, but we often give so much to everyone else, we never give anything to ourselves. It seems selfless to do this, but it's actually quite selfish because we can't give when there is nothing left to give.

Ok, I know this is long winded, but I hope you find peace and understanding in this post and I hope you heed my advice. I wouldn't have taken the time to write this if I didn't see any worth in you.

The three main things I would suggest.

See a Councilor if you can't handle this. Some are actually really good and there are actually alot of Empaths that are councilors. Use your Reading skills and find a good match.

Take Elise's class on the Empath toolbox, and other classes on grounding/cleansing/shielding and protecting your energy.

Join a group/church or other people who are involved in some of the same interests as you and do these activities. Look at it like a soul cleansing time. A time to get to know you, Your deity and the higher self. This is your time to rejuvinate and take in more positive energy. I like to call it "evening out the scales". We are both light and dark, and when the scales become unbalanced, we need to balance it out again in order to understand.

I'm sending some healing energy your way, and I wish you many blessings. I hope this has helped. Blessed Be.

Angel

Angel
@angel
02/16/16 08:53:41AM
607 posts

Quantum Physics and Empaths


Empath

Actually, scientific terminology aside, sounds about right. When you study energy and how it works, this is a form of it. In the Metaphysical community we call it transferring, or projecting energy/receiving energy to or from people/objects, ect. (It's like channeling) We're like walking satellites, which is a basic level of non-verbal communication for everything. When your looking at psychic abilities and more specific, Empathic abilities, this makes complete sense. Many Metaphysical practitioners have an understanding of this exchange in energy because it is the foundation of everything they do. The only real differance between a psychic and someone else is their level of sensitivity to that energy. That sensitivity is more specific to that individuals beliefs, interests, ect.

The lady also makes alot of sense, because Empath's are the "feelers" of the physic world, whether or emotionally or physical sensations. I don't know if you watch Long Island Medium or Dead files, both are physical Mediums and Empaths because they both feel the physical pain of the dead. The differance between those two is that Theresa works with only crossed-over spirits (or so she thinks,lol) and the Dead files girl works more with lost souls. My younest son is also a physical Empath. It's not so bad now, but he's not a very emotional person, but when he was younger, he would channel physical pains, I mean the poor kid was a like a walking hypochondriac because he would feel the pain really bad, it would last about five minutes or so and then it was gone. He would come up to us four or five times a day, "my head hurts", "My leg hurts", "My thumb hurts" ,lol. I knew it was Empathic because it has the same signs as emotional Empathic channeling, but physical.

Anyway's, I think is a perfect post to add to this community because it's exactly what an Empath is on a scientific level. I'm working on some classes with a huge section on energy, but in the meantime, (if you want) check out some of the therories of the scientists, such as this one, and then read up on a few other metaphysical things such as channeling, energy healing, spellwork and psychometry. If you take out the spiritual aspect of all of these and focus soley on how these things work and are done and compare it to quantum physics, you will see a very strong similarity between all of it and it all revolves around energy and the exchange of that energy. It's all really fascinating stuff, and this is why I feel this post is a perfect fit for this site!

Anyway's, I babbled enough :) Thanks for sharing, It's nice to see physical proof of ancient teachings :)

Angel
@angel
02/04/16 07:50:34PM
607 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

If we all agreed, we would never evolve or grow. I feel it's through diversity that we learn all the lessons that many people obtain to reach. I don't unconditionally love come naturally, I feel it's forged, but where is the balance between unconditional love and allowing others who have no desire for unconditional love to cause harm to others? Unconditional love isn't accepting them for they are loving them regardless, it's learning to love them in spite of it. It's easy to say " I love you and see you as another human being" until they take away someone you l love. Noone would be able to get to that point without these people nor would they be able to fully understand unconditional love without actually experiencing it. At what point do we draw the line?

We are all on an individual path and at different stages of our soul development. Noone ever said that the development would result in everyone being good people. People develop according to what they choose to develop into, it's the cost of freewill. So some people will develop into the worst people on the planet, yet their life still has a purpose because these are the people who help more "light" people evolve to greater understandings of their own development.

I feel that we are both light and dark. Not all light and not all dark, we are balance between them both. The anger a murder has within is no different then anyone else, but the choices they make that is what makes them different. You can't have light without dark and visa versa. We have a light side and a shadow side that alot of people don't like to awknowledge, yet it's still there. It has to be because we wouldn't grow without both aspects. Yet, society at some point has to also protect themselves. On a spiritual level, it's a soul evolution process, on a human level, it's drawing those lines within our own selves for our own survival.

Even if someone ever did mange to learn unconditional love, has anyone experieinced the depth of what that type of love requires? Not many I would imagine. In order to learn that type of love comes from many different circumstances. If a husband was murdered, the wife may eventually find forgiveness within, but if he rapes and brutally kills her child, this would require a different aspect of that unconditional love and may or may not be able to achieve it. She may not want to.

Many people say we shouldn't judge, yet they to are guilty of judging those who judge,lol. It's a paradox :) People judge because it helps them to set their own boundaries for life in general. Do we allow those who want to cause innocent people harm? If we don't judge, we don't fight and if we don't fight there would be noone to stand up against the unjust. You fight now for peace, but it will be a continious war because not everyone wants peace. But without that fight, we would loose our freewill.

Anyway's, this is my own opinion and I don't expect anyone to agree with it, but I guess that's what discussions are for :)

Angel
@angel
02/04/16 07:21:49PM
607 posts

Share and Compare


Psychic and Paranormal

I read a few other posts and I noticed that you had some concerns on whether or not it was hallucinations. I also read that you experienced a stroke. Fibermyalia also targets the nerve endings and could create a hyperactive nervous system. Many Empath's also have severe anxiety disorders, and I noticed that this hyperactive CNS contributes to the sensitivity level of emotions, and spirits. so I have a theory. First, if you are still concerned or not sure if it's real or not, you can get some tests from your doctor to make sure that everything is the way it should be. Once you debunk any medical problems you can start investigating the paranormal.

But I do feel that if it is paranormal, then the stroke could have opened that part of your psychic abilities. It's not uncommon for someone to have a a sickness or injury and then be able to connect with spirit :) I've heard this happens alot. I think it's something about being that close to death that opens that part of them and makes them sensitive to it because they were so close to it. Or it could be, like I said, a hyperactive CNS from the fibermyoalga that continues to your heightened sensitivity to the spirit realm.

It doesn't mean that the ability isn't already within you, it just means that this physical body is the mode to bring it out with:)

The depression is what may be causing you to draw in the type of spirits that you attract. There are different types of spirits from different realms and "like attracts like". When someone is depressed there is a lower energy associated with that and also alot of pain buried within, this energy often attracts spirits that are also in pain and haven;t yet crossed over yet. Some are lost souls and some are earthbound. They all look for help :) and your right, it's like Grand Central Station! They come and when they leave another or more come in. They are drawn to your light and come to you for help. Some Mediums are advisors and try to cross them over. This can be good and rewarding, so long as they actually want to cross over :) My rule of thumb is that I ask them first, are you wanting to cross over? If they tell me no, if I feel they are not being forthcoming, If I notice they start playing games or if they hide, I kick to them to the curb. The reason why is because I learned the hard way that if I keep them around, they have a tendency of getting to comfortable and start reeking havoc. I also have a daughter who is a Medium and in order to protect her from them, I can't afford to play games with them and they know this.

The main idea is to maintain control. It's your life, your space and you dictate the rules. If they don't want to go by your rules, get rid of them!This will save you alot of grief. With earthbound spirits and lost souls, they are still bound by their lives, their emotions, their thoughts and are just as unpredictable as a stranger walking down the street. The only differance is that they no longer have a body, but they are still living human being, just no body. You tell them how things will be done, you tell them how close they can get to you, ect. You dictate everything. If they don't want to comply, then chances are their intentions aren't pure anyway's and you don't want to deal with them. There are plenty of Mediums on the planet to deal with them. Their ability to cross over can only be decided by them, either they want to go or they don't.

When dealing with these kinds of spirits, you also deal with non-human entities to include shadows and not so nice entities. They often attach themselves to lost souls and use their energy, so Mediums helping them are often a taget because they don't want to loose their feeding source.

The first steps I would take is to learn to ground and shield your energy. Then connect with your "light" source, whether it be God, Angels, Buddah, whoever you connect with on a higher spiritual level and connect with that energy first. Once you recognize that energy, it will be easier to discern the other spirits because their energy will be lower. It will also give you an anchor so when you are helping them, your not doing it solo, that light energy is your safty net.

Anyway's these are a few things that helped me out and am just sharing it it case it may help you. As time goes on, you will find your own way of doing things that will work best for you. I hope this helps, Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
@angel
07/05/15 05:27:15PM
607 posts

light worker/ light warrior is there a difference?


Empath

I'd like to make a suggestion. First, every reader will have different terms for different things according to their belief system, so it will be difficult to actually explain what she is saying. So, my suggestion is go into the picture reading group and post a request for a picture reading and then upload a recent pic of yourself in the attachments. Your profile is to to small, so having the attachment will be easier for a reading. I can tell yo from your profile pic, your project a VERY strong energy field and have no doubt this is part of the warrior energy she is picking up on. It's kind of like a tomato ,tomato deal,lol, but maybe doing this will give people a chance to see what she see's and get a better understanding of what this meant, now that you are ready.

Angel
@angel
07/03/15 06:02:45PM
607 posts

So this is new. Any advice for a unique situation?


Empath

If your talking about the voice you heard, you probebly have another ability called clairaudience. This is something you might want to research. For someone who is clairaudient, they can hear both through the physical ears, it would be a single word, whispering, voices, ect, and then they cal also hear through the mind, which is like listening to a conversation in your head. It's an interesting ability, but you may also want to check out angels and spirit guides as well, because they often communicate this way as well, and since you were half asleep, you were in a semi-conscious state, like a state of meditation, before sleep and was open enough to hear them. Just becareful about meeting people you have only met online. :)

Angel
@angel
07/03/15 04:48:57PM
607 posts

Does the colour of are eyes tell anything about empath types?


Empath

I don't know if their are certain eye color traits, but I have heard that light colored eyes or eyes that draw alot of attention come from being a lightworker.

My eyes are a little strange and have had comments on them quite a bit, usually asking what color they are. I tell them to choose one,lol. They are a combination of blue,green and grey and one has a small gold speck in it. They are also very light and changes often. When my eyes are red because of crying or allergies or something, they turn a bright aqua color. Because they are so light, if I am in direct sunlight, some people say they look almost white. It's a trip,lol. My mom and dad both have blue eyes, but the lighter blue and grey comes from my mother's side. The green, I assume, comes from my dad's because I have a cousin that had one dark blue and dark green eye. Genetics is funny like. I am also a Medium, since you are wondering if certain colors are prominent for certain abilities.

However, in many Native American cultures, it is believe that the eyes are the doorway to the soul, which I believe :) I do know that I get mixed reactions when people look at me, but more often then not, if they are not drawn to weirdness of them, they are usually afraid when I look directly at them. Accept for children, I seem to draw children in and they seem not afraid at all. But again, I think alot of it has to do with the energy behind it. Empath's not only feel emotions from other people, but they have a tendency of drawing things out of people without ever saying a word. My father in-law is a great example of this. We were having a relaxed conversation about psychic abilites, ect when all of a sudden he started telling me about a horrible childhood event that happened to him. I listen and was sympathetic, but the horror in his eyes said that he never intended to tell ANYONE that secret, yet , it just came out. I don't think I ever see anyone excuse themselves so quickly and hide out in their office the rest of the night, my entire life. People see this in Empath's and it just happens and then they get embarrassed or freaked out wondering what just happened. I guess you can call it a supernatural truth serom,lol. But, what you might want to try is to notice the way they notice your eyes when your speaking to them and see what you can feel from it. Like, for example, notice their reaction to you, and then notice what mood your in. The best way I can tell what energy I am projecting out is to look at the people around me and how they react when seeing me or my eyes. This will clue you into what they see in you at the moment. If they start telling you their life story, chances are you are open inside and feeling compassionate or non-judgemental. If you see them looking at you and they are running the opposite direction, then chances are, your wanting to be left alone, or they have something they are not wanting to share. If your like me, and you get the look of fear from them, chance are, your projecting an energy of authority or you are closed and not wanting to deal with anyone at the moment. Anyway's just a fun experiment that might help you learn more about projection and your own energy, and when and why they may come to you :)

Angel
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06/17/15 03:11:45PM
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What Would You Do?


Empath

i think it became popular with the song "I'm going back to cali",lol

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06/17/15 11:47:45AM
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What Would You Do?


Empath

One more thing, study the earthquakes, what causes them, what makes them tick, and get a feel for the more subtle energies they have, ect. This may be useful later on :)

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06/17/15 11:41:04AM
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What Would You Do?


Empath

Let's just say I can relate behind the feelings of it :) But, whether you choose to make it public news or work behind the scenes, you have enough information to know it is coming, so try taking it a step further. If you can't get a read on when or where, then ask your divine. If you still can't get an answer, then maybe do a meditiation. In your meditation you can visualize a protective shield around the area of the earthquake. You don't need a location, just focus on the vision of earthquake and whatever you see, and just place the protection around that. You can even say, ok, "no deaths and minimal damage." Then in a couple of days you will be able to get the news on the earhquake, when ,where, time and the damage. Keep track of all this information and continue to work with it. The more connected you become with it, the easier it will be to learn to control the element. Just keep in mind, your very rarely going to be revealed the reason, so just listen to your intuition and guidance you are given. You may not get the exact results you tried for, but know that there is two forces at work, fate, which is the greater picture and destiny, which is our decisions. So even if an earthquake hits and three people die, understand that in that case, those who left, it was their time, but what you don't see is possible 1o people could have died, but because you were called to intervene for them, you fillfilled exactly what you were suppossed to. I know it sounds crazy, but trust me on this one, and it is possible. If your not really sure about all of this, or your not comfortable, I would suggest getting with your guide, divine,God, or whoever you connect with and speak to them and then each time you get these feelings, write down your impressions in details and then the results after it happened. Then compare it. This will help with the confidence that the ability is there. It takes time and practice with the rest of it, because it involves an understanding of energy and manipulating it for a particular purpose and usually visualizations can help with this. Anyway's, just because you have this, doesn't mean you are required to do anything like this, this will be up to you to decide. Just remember that we are not meant to know the end result until after it's happened and that whatever does happen after you did all you could do, is part of the greater plan and can't be changed, but what was meant to be changed , was. If this makes sense :) I personal do my work "behind the scenes" and only my husband really knows what I do, so you don't have to announce it to anyone. It can be all you and your divine, angels ot those you work with. It's a wonderful gift, it's also a very,very powerful gift. One you wouldn't have if you didn't already have lifetimes worth of working with it and this is more like "contiued training."

Angel
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05/28/15 02:05:44PM
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More Interaction?


Empath

The chat has been opened a few times and everytime chat opens it turns into a dramafest with fighting, argueing, name calling, yeah, it get's bad and there is noone to moderate the chat 24/7. It should be used as a tool to help, but with all the problems it causes I can understand why it's closed, it get's ugly in there :( I remember going in there one time and I was accused of bringing in negative energy and spying on them all because I wasn't sure if I wanted to join the conversation or not and just hung out for a few.

Angel
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05/20/15 02:58:09PM
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Vision


Empath

Could be your abiltiels are growing, could be a strong energy exchange, could be alot of things :) The two things I would pay close attention to is whether or not it starts happening more frequently or of it's a once in a blue thing and the details of the vision. If you are just starting to date someone and you were wondering if she is one the one, by getting a glimpse of the future could tell you whether or not she is compatible or whether or not it's a future that doesn't include you. Sometimes these things have a reason and sometimes it's just a strong connection so we picked up on it because we are wide open :)

Angel
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04/30/15 09:27:40PM
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I get so angry grocery-shopping...


Empath

Headphones have always been my life saver. I have music downloaded on my phone so when I go into the store, I plug in the headphones and kind of retreat in my own little world as I'm shopping. It's so much easier to tune everyone else out that way:)

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04/30/15 09:23:41PM
607 posts

How do you deal with feeling sad for situations you can't control?


Empath

Are you sure you want to change it? The beauty of you is that you can connect, even when the rest of the world forget's. I read that article and we need these people just as they need us because they remind of to have love and compassion for other's and they inspire us to act. It's what makes us human. We need pain and sadness because it gives us purpose, it gives us passion. It moves the depths the soul and reminds us to care for another. These things move you and that is a beautiful thing. But with it comes a responsibility to yourself by understanding that they are living their purpose, they keep the balance of light and dark. They are hero's in disguise. When they win, we are inspired, when they lose, we are inspired. His "meaningless" life has touched millions of people in a way they would have not otherwise been touched. It has been touched by some and lifechanging for other's. And now, how many other people are going to be provided with food and shelter because many of these inspired people have decided to fight for them or open more food kitchen's. One person's selfless act inspires alot of people who do have the means to also be selfless.

We can't save them all, but each of us has a purpose and that purpose is often revealed from moments such as these :)

How do you deal with it? You feel it, you allow it touch your heart and you keep sending them the energy you send them. If you feel drawn to do more, then do more. But you must decide on how you want to contribute and focus your attention on one or two things. You can't save them all, and your not meant to save the world alone, and you must accept that, because that is what keeps us humble :)

I hope this helps;)

Blessed Be,

Angel

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04/20/15 04:02:54PM
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Being a guy


Empath

There are alot of guys who are on the forum and who are empathic. In fact, a famous male psychis also empathic, who's name is Chip Coffee. If you ever watched Twilight, Jasper is also an Empath . I think the best place to start is to understand what an Empath actually is. Alot of people have a certain view of Empath's that fall more under the emotoinal side of things, but in all reality, there is a huge difference between Empathy and Empathic. Empathic abilites is not the gift of Empathy, in fact, I have seen Empath who seem to lack alot of Empathy and Sympathy. So, what is an Empath? Empath's fall under one of their Clair's, Clairsentience, which is a psychic ability that means Clear feeling. Many channel emotions, but some channel physical feelings like aches and pain. Common traits are often more compassionate and nurturing, because they feel the emotions of other's and it literally hurts them, but those signs are not the abilty itself, it is the result of an emotion that they already are connected to. Alot of peole who are empathic also suffer from anxiety and depression. Alot of this stems off the Central Nervous System, because alot of Empath's have an overactive nervous system that actually helps to draw in psychic energy. Now there is a medical condition called hsp, which their hypersensitivity is due to this and some are also empathic, but not all, because their sensitivity are higher, they may not necessarily psychic. So I would suggest to read through the threads here, which gives you different idea's about how other Empath's deal with things, but I would also look at Clairsentience to get a better idea of the psychic end of this Hopefully you will be able to get some answers that might help you understand better the gift you have and how it works in you.

Angel
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04/08/15 09:34:04PM
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Listen, Hun,would I would suggest is to request a reading in one of the reading groups. You can't request one in all the groups at the same time, so I would suggest a request for the picture reading group. Second, you don't need a mentor. I would suggest reading through the threads and just ask questions. Everyone is different so what they experience will be different. Some will be similiar to yours and some will not but each comment still helps you learn and really is the quickest and easiest way to learn. There is no "one size fits all" because when it come to psychic abilities, the abilities usually fall into certain catagories, but how they come out will be different for each person because everyone has different beliefs, different perceptions,different thoughts. What this means is you can have 20 psychics with 20 different readings. For example, one psychic may have a more "new age" belief system, so they may give you a reading and advice coming from Ascended Masters and teach you how to reach a higher consciousness, but if you are not familiar with this, it may sound a bit strange and hard to understand. You could get a medium who only works with crossed over spirits, so if you had an earthbound spirit around you that you may be getting, they may not pick up on that because they don't work in that realm. So even though he senses you had much more, he didn't tell you what he senses specifically which may be a reason for that, but you may get 5 other readings, each with knoweldge about you. Like a puzzle. The more you learn the more you understand and the more you understand, the more questions you will have, ironic, huh?lol. Also, you will always change. What you learn now you may use when you are older, or you may no longer need it and will lean something new depending on what you need to learn during that time in your life. So post alot and ask questions. (Just make sure if you post on the main forum it is empath related. If it's psychic, do a blog or group, but just ask alot of questions and read through the answers and see what fits for you. Keep your mind open because you may find that you find you own answers through the inspiration of other's. You will learn more from many then from one :) I hope this helps.

Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
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03/30/15 09:31:55PM
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I'm really sorry you have to go through this. And this advice sucks, but may help bring some clarity to the situation that may help you make the right decision for all of you. the first thing you need to ask yourself is if there is anyone capable of taking care of all of their affairs. If they are sick enough to be in a home, someone will need to be there,k I forgot the name, but basically in charge of all of their affairs. So if you are the designated, of yeah, power of attorney, so if you are the designated power of attorney, will you be able to care for their needs going where you want to go? If not, is there someone near by that can take care of that? Alzeimer's is a progressive disease and though they will be in a care facility, support and visitation is very therapeutic for them. I know it's alot to put on your plate when you boil it all down, this is what it boils down to because someone needs to take care of them. If you have noone else who can step in, you can always request a court appointed conservater to take care of all of this, but you will loose your right to make decisions on their behalf. The second part is, can you do it financially? Do you want to do it? and are you capable of doing this for them? You can't give up your own needs, so you need to add yourself to the equation, and ask yourself the hard questions without guilt. What is going to be the best for all of you? And the last question is why. Ask yourself why with every question. Why are you doing this. This will help youprioritize your decisions by knowing the motivations behind everything you do.Be honest with yourself., If you feel guilty at least you will know and it's not about obligation it's about what will be best for everyone involved. Answer these questions and you will have a much clearer picture on what you need to do. I wish you many blessings. One more thing, if you do decide to leave, make sure you have two things , the first is a will for both of them and know who has it or where it is at, make sure funeral arrangements are part of it, ect and also get another order for "npo"status if something happens and they choose not to be resuscitated. Butt ONLY get it if it is not in place AND if you know for sure they do not want to come back if they die. They may already have one in place. Since they are so far progressed, you may want to look at the will or get with an attorney to make sure all of this is in order. Sorry to lay all this on you, and you may have already taken care of it, if you have, then the rest will be a little easier on you. It's hard decision to make. It's ironic how life gives us things during the hardest times, but your going to make the right decision, if you haven't made it already.

Angel
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03/30/15 09:01:41PM
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When you realize how precious this gift truly is and how many hearts are touched without a single word being said. When you realize how precious a single smile is and being able to see the impact it has on someone else. Empath's truly are the heart of the divine and the moment that is realized lives begin to change and there is nothing more precious then being a part of that. There is nothing more healing then tears that are cried in grief and watching that burden fall away from them. There is nothing more fulfilling then breathing life into a dead soul and watching them to finally be able to live again. There is no better thank you then one that comes from a broken heart that is ready to love once again. This is who you are and this is what you can do!

Angel
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03/16/15 11:12:12AM
607 posts

Empathy and Psychic Ethics


Healers

Understand that some will be greatful and some will not. The biggest question you should ask yourself is what benefit does it have to the person. Is it information that they are in pain and you are just recieiving it, or is it a message from spirit, which could actually benefit them. Ask your guides. For example, if you see an accident, this info may not meant to be shared but for you to maybe say a prayer for them. If you feel they are a druggie and need rehab, again, they will likely not recieive this well, so you have to ask your guides am I just randomly channeling this or is there something for me to do or say that will benefit from the situation. Is a warning for me to stay away? ect. If it is a message from the Angels, could be an answer to aprayer they had, so instead of giving them info on everything you get, you may just want to make it short and sweet and stick with just the message., ie: "the angels say not to worry, everything is working out and you are being taken care of: ect. What you can also do is is write the info on a piece of paper, keep it to the core of the information and then hand it to them and walk away. If they want more info, they will call to you. Not all information is meant to be shared. I rarely get information on death, but once in a blue, I do. I refuse to tell the person because it is destined, and by saying something like that to do them, will only make that their last moments filled with fear and panick, which causes no benefit to them waht so ever, so instead, I might say something such as "have a beautiful day" and then send some energy to help them make it the best day ever. Use your intutition and if it brings fear or something negative, then it's no benefit to anyone no matter how good your intentions are. We can get problems all day long, and they already know what the issue is, without a resolution that will touch them, is pointless, at least this is my rule of thumb,lol. Use your intution, maybe they just need a simple smile and good day to you, that will completely change them. Maybe it's a compliment that turns that "frown up side down," even if they give you that "ok, that was weird look" we often don't see the effect it has within" and it touches them. I hope this help:)

Angel
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03/03/15 03:04:04PM
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Empathy is someone who has gone through a similar situation as the person and has an understanding of that situation since they have gone through it themselves. Empath is an actual psychic ability that falls under the umbrella term "Clairsentience" which means "clear feeling". The energy is channeled and therefore the Empath can actually have a full understanding of what that person is going through without ever experiencing it. The Empath draws in that energy from the other person, usually without even realizing it, and then takes it in as their own, which is why the Empath will feels even worse then the person and then the person miraculously feels better and leaving the empath feeling like doo-doo,lol. My theory is that most Empath's higher sensativity stems alot from a hyperactive nervous system, or maybe it's the other way around, not sure, but because the CNS is more active then most people, they become more sensitive to energy, usually physical and/or emotional which allows them to draw in that energy and also project energy as well. If you notice alot of Empath's also suffer from anxiety, depression,bi-polar, ect. Not all Hsp's (highly sensative person) is an Empath , because beyond the physiology of the disorder, Empath's are also psychic and usually has the ability to read the energy that comes through. If you would like to understand more, I would research the word "Clairsentience" as this is what category of psychic abilities that Empaths fall under and see if it will give you more information. Usually though, with psychic abilities, most psychics have more then just one ability and may be worth researching. IMHO :)

Angel
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03/03/15 02:39:01PM
607 posts

Psychic Development #53


Psychic and Paranormal

That is so weird, I didn't feel or see any spiritual energy around him at all! Maybe because he is more of a thinker instead of a feeler. I did feel like he was more logical then emotional. Now your grandmother, there is alot of spiritual energy around her. This was a good one, thanks!

Angel
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03/01/15 10:13:49PM
607 posts

Psychic Development #53


Psychic and Paranormal

He feels like a dictator personality and he has a feel of some kind of political leader, some kind of politics, governor mayor, something like that. He does feel hard on the outside and doesn't seem to show emotions easily. He drank. He's a thinker, not a feeler. He analysises things alot. The wall feels like he was running from his inner demons. His father was hard on him and didn't show him alot of affection. I am hearing fair, and hearing "judge". So he defiently has some kind of status.

Angel
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01/26/15 04:28:57PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I just wanted to add a little food for thought. First of all, people grieve in many different ways. I don't know the connection between her and her siblings but if her behavior changed after the first death, then this could have been a trigger. Sometimes people will experience a tragic event in their life and never fully recover from it. The next thing might to be look at her age and overall health. If the first death was a real blow to her, then a second and now a third, there may be something more going on psychologically. Mental illness is often triggered in the teens, early 30's or after a tragic event. If she is older and it is getting worse, it would be the onset of dementia. I'm not a doctor, only a doctor can diagnose but it may be worth looking into, getting her a check up with a medical doctor and then a psychologist. Maybe get a family history and see what runs in the family. One disorder that also involves anger after traumatic events is ptsd. But I would at least talk to a professional about this and see what they say and see what help might work best for your mom and family.

Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
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01/10/15 09:31:28PM
607 posts

Waking up with bumps and bruises


Psychic and Paranormal

Dreamcatchers can also be effective or maybe place a small pouch of lavander under your pillow. Since you are getting injured, maybe you can ask your higher power to keep you grounded for awhile, or maybe try doing more semi-conscious astral projection, preferably earthbound until you can control your astral body in a way you feel comfortable.

I know this is long winded, but this can be a real blessing, especially for distant healing, ect. I hope this helps my friend:)

Blessed Be,

Angel

Angel
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01/10/15 09:27:28PM
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Waking up with bumps and bruises


Psychic and Paranormal

Good to see you again!!!

When I was 12 to 16 I played this game, ironically called "the game" lol. Anyway's it was a cross between Dungeons and dragons and astral projection. It was actually more then just a d&d fantasy world, it was more of a mission of a small group of kids trying to prevent the apocolypse by going to the gates of hell and fighting the demons so they don;t come here and start the end of the world. The way it was done is we fell asleep and played in our dreams. For the first 2 weeks, nothing happened. But I really wanted to play. Finally, I was in. I remember the first night, I didn't dream at all, and I woke up exhausted as if I had been fighting all night. The second night, same thing, and I woke up with huge scratches on my back. One time I woke up and I couldn't move for 5 minutes, some call this sleep paralysis but it felt like I was being pinned down. It got worse for two years, every night something, black eyes, bloody noses, ect. I even woke up one morning with "heathen" scratched into my back. I got tired of not having any control and not remembering what was happening, so I started astral projecting while I was awake, and some how mostly programmed myself to do it only when I was awake. I was still in a meditative state, but still conscious enough to pull myself out if need be. I gained more control. I could see, I could move I could actually bring weapons in with me! However, once I started doing that, the shadows went from one or two that followed me around to several of them! I also realized that the stronger I got, the more they would bring in stronger ones. I didn't realize the connection then, but I did start getting huge panic attacks from it. Some really crazy stuff started happening. Like one night, a friend I were playing and taking turns. I had a balcony off my bedroom and had the door open. It was a clear night, no cloud in the sky, no breeze, nothing! All of a sudden the wind started blowing really hard it was blowing my blinds all over, then it started to hail for about 15 minutes, then it stopped, the wind died, and when we went back outside it was clear, no cloud in the sky. This is when I started to realize how powerful the forces we were dealing with really were. One night I took a single match with me. When I came back, the match was gone. The next day I ran into another friend who was playing. I noticed a scar from a large burn mark he had on his leg. He always wore shorts and didn't have the scar before then. This is all true btw. The last night I played, I was laying down in bed and my bed was surrounded by several hooded shadows. They had alot of power and I knew they were bad. I asked God if he would get me out, I promised to never play again. And I never did.

This was a hard lesson to learn, however I learned alot from that experience. I'm not really sure how it is possible, but it is possible to get injuries in your astral state and it manifest into the physical realm. I also learned to do it while I was awake and to control how deep in trance I can go. I have also astral projected into a friend, though I would never do it unless I was trying to do some kind of healing and drastic measures are needed. Normally, only one soul can occupy a body at one time, so if I do a walk-in kind of thing, where are they going and how vulnerable do they become? I think the collest thing about being in astral state is being able to influance people. Again, should only be used in dire straits as we should not be going against free will unless it's a safety thing ect. I only stay on the earthly plain now, as I realized when I was younger that I have the advantage here. When you start going into unknown areas, you are now on their playing field and are if you do run into entities they will more likely be stronger because it's their home, just as you are stronger in your own home field. I realized that there are rules and the importance of projection. I also learned that it is much more stronger when I am specific on what I am trying to accomplish and I often only use it for only specific reasons. I understand now, what I didn;t then, which has saved me from attack. I would suggest the same thing. Be specific on what you are wanting to accomplish. If your not specific, your soul could be traveling to different realms and you could be running into other entites, which may be were the bruises and injuries are coming from. I also place a protection around myself and my family (each seperate) which keeps (usually) from other entites coming through. On a physical level, I haven't had any issues at all, but sometimes, they enter my dreams remotely, but I have also learned which is spirit and which is dream. Maybe try some of these things. Ask your higher power to guide and protect you on whereever you need to go

Angel
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01/10/15 08:48:10PM
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I'm feeling, and let me know if I am wrong, but feeling that recently you have been opening up more spiritual. I'm assuming that the guy you talked to is either a medium or at least a sensative, which may be why he came to you, because not really sure about all the psychic and paranormal stuff. I do feel that since you were wide open by connecting to him, they did see your light and figured that you could help. I do feel the spirits are human, that you saw, but in your dream you focused on particular one, which is the spirit that came to you and that you felt. I also feel that you are a sensative and where able to sense "things" that could not be seen around you when you were young, but possibly fear made you block it out.

It is my experience that often when an ability is trying to grow, and we are developing that ability, it will grow and will change. For example, say you get alot of de ja vu moments, there is a chance you are clairvoyant, and as that ability grows, the brief moments will turn into actual visions, ect. The same goes for mediumship. Though they don't always go to mediums or sensitives, but there is an energy around them that they are drawn to and often come to them for help.

I feel you did the right thing. When working with uncrossed spirits they are on what I call a lower realm, and can be unpredictable. Whether they mean no harm or not, you wouldn't just trust joe schmo on the street, ghosts are the same way. Many of them also have attachments and if your not developed in this area, it could cause problems.

But think about what I said earlier and go back further into childhood. Mediumship isn't always about seeing, it's really about the type of ability you have. Since your an Empath, it's safe to assume that you wouldn't see them, unless you also have clairvoyance or another ability, but would still sense them because your ablility involves channeling the energy of human emotions and just because they are no longer on this plane of exsistance, they still carry human emotion that you would be sensitive to.

One more thing, are you protecting yourself during meditation? Many times meditation seems like imagination gone a little wild, but more often then not, alot of people actually astral project, or they are opening themselves up to an experience but are not putting safeguards in place because they are afraid if they do, then they won;t be open enough to learn whatever it is they are seeking from whoever or whatever is guiding them. The problem is is that they often assume the spirit guiding them has good intentions, and so others will look for a back door in. Like in your situation, they showed you an invitation, can I come, yes or no? If you know who you are dealing with then you can decide, but if you don't know who the spirit is, you could run into trouble. It's no different then playing a oijia board and asking if there is a spirit there andplaying 20 questions. Once they start the communication process with this unknown spirit, they have no given them permission to enter in. And since the permission is also not specific, all bets are off. I'm not trying to scare or discourage you, but I would start with working with higher realm entities that you do know to guide you, such as your diety, the angels or whoever you normally work with. I would also place a protective shield around yourself before any meditation and be clear on what it is your trying to achieve, answer you are seeking, ect and who you are willing to communicate with.

I hope this helps :)

Blessed Be,

Angel

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12/30/14 11:14:15AM
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And for the signs, well, it really depends, you seem to be someone who follows the signs, but also listen to your inuition concerning the signs you are recieiving, just because you see city lights all over the place doesn't necessarily mean you should move to a large city, you already know within where you would feel good about being, so when the signs come about,pay attention to the emotions you feel concerning the sign, unless of course your on a quest of just following and trusting the signs, but only you know for sure :)

Angel
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12/30/14 11:06:35AM
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First, I think you need to be more specific within yourself on what it is you desire. For example, "I am more creative surrounded by water, mountains, ocean, ect". I do not feel creative in the city, the country, in traffic, " whatever. What this will do will open you up to the type of environment that you desire to be in. Then be specific on what it is you are wanting to do there. Example, taking photos, painting, yoga, or whatever. Now think about how far you want to go, do you have family near by you would like to stay close to, or are you able to go whereever your heart desires. Once you have decided this much, start searching for the web on locatoins, states or even countries that might suite you. You may figure out that maybe you like them all, and maybe it's not time to move, but to take a trip, like a physical vision quest per sey, and travel the states for a month or two and allow spirit to guide you. I feel this is going to be more then just a "quick start over or change" I feel this is going to be an ongoing journey and the next few months are going to be preparing you for that journey, because my gut tells me your not looking for a new home, your searching for something deeper. It's hard to explain, but this is going to be an amazing journey for you. It's going to take you to places you've never even imagined! I'm so excited for you! Follow your heart, and listen to your soul, it will guide you to where you need to go!

Many blessings to you!

Angel

Angel
@angel
12/19/14 07:56:51PM
607 posts



Listen, Hun, the best way I can help is to be straight forward. He's already been caught cheating whether he did the deed or not. He already has a history of lying to you. In your comments you already say that he is not committed. So, you already have the answer on whether or not he is going to be faithful. My advice is simple, if you can't trust your instincts, trust the facts.

Angel
@angel
12/16/14 06:07:35PM
607 posts

Winter Soltice Meditation


Empath

Thank you for the beautiful response, but I just realized something, I thought I posted this in the blogs....EEEKKKKK! HAHAHA.I'm going to close this before the moderators do and hope they will accept my humble apology :) Your a beautiful person and your post was very inspiring to me. Many Blessings to you during the Winter Solstice :)

 
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