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@shelly
10/20/16 01:05:44AM
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Binaural Beats


Empath

I have been using them for relaxation as well.    Very effective.  :)

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@shelly
10/04/16 11:44:46PM
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Claircognizance


Psychic and Paranormal

I just now stumbled upon this posting.  Thank you for feeling inclined to post this here.   All of what you have described, I can relate to.  I appreciate your coping mechanism and do the same for myself.    It really does help.   Take care :) 

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@shelly
06/16/16 01:25:45PM
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Ending up alone


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Hi Karolina,

I know what you mean about this fear of being alone. I have really been going through this myself. As an Empath, we see into others so easily but it is easy to forget that not everyone has the ability to do this. I believe that this is why I have had some tough relationships and why I am in a place of solitude right now. There are times when I enjoy my solitude. There are times when I have to have it just to recharge and clear things out. But life is very special and our experiences are very special and I do have a desire to have that right person to share it with. That is a fear that haunts me sometimes, not being able to find that right symbiotic relationship but I refuse to give up hope. I believe that God wants us to be happy and fulfilled and be with others in order to give and receive unconditional love and partnership.

That said, I also know that now is probably not the best time. I must go through my inner work. I must allow my own healing and restoration. I have had my heart broken very badly.... but it was not until I learned that I was an empath that I finally understood why I chose such relationships to begin with. I really was confused by everything I was feeling and not knowing I was picking up other crazy emotions that were not my own. After having learned that lesson, I am now very much aware of my gift and I know that in the right time, the right man will appear in my life. I have not lost hope and will not lose hope.I must be whole first. I must be healed up first. I must clear out all of the old scars and pains and buttons so I can truly have a fresh start. I would rather be whole and find someone who is also whole than to be half of a person... and find another half person. This motivates me to really dig deep and allow the healing in my own life.... especially as I am aware that I will be involved in healing for others.. but I am no good for others until I am whole.

These are the things that I think about when the depression hits.

One more thing I would like to add... I want to address what your colleague said about never being respected as a single person. That was a very limiting and self serving kind of thing for one person to tell another person about a life that is not even theirs. I would dismiss that stupid statement immediately because I know that MY life is what I will make of it and I will be respected, and it will have nothing to do with the status of my personal life. That is such a ridiculous thing to say to someone.

I hope that sharing part of where I am at helps you. I really do. It is so easy to feel alone but if we just look around, we will find that we are really not alone. There are many kind and understanding people here at this site. :)

Hang in there. :)

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@shelly
05/09/16 01:41:38PM
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Eye Floaters


Healers

I experience this too. I welcome any feedback on this. I also get swooshes of tingles throughout my body. Thoughts?
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@shelly
02/13/16 11:59:09AM
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Lost connection


Empath

When I read your message, it was like reading my own words. I do understand where you are. You are not alone. I do battle these feelings on a daily basis as you do. One thing I do know is that we are here during this time for a reason. You do shine a light in the darkness of this world. I agree with you that you need to seek solace with Source. God loves you and KNOWS your pains. Source is your strength and can replenish you when you feel empty. You are a conduit of light and love in a dark world. The people around you are really just deceived. I will send light and love your way. In the mean time, be kind to yourself. Go outside and into nature and really breathe it in. KNOW that it is no accident that you are here and living during these very dark times. Your gift is no accident either.

Take care and know that you are not alone.

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@shelly
04/10/15 08:35:15AM
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Timelines and possible Outcomes


Empath

I do keep a dream journal due to dreams that seem to support what you are saying.
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@shelly
03/13/15 08:18:11AM
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The Struggle


Empath

I also want to add this. Churches are filled with people. Human beings. They are also where they are in their own personal journeys. It is human nature to judge and condemn things that is not understood.Ask Jesus. He, Himself was judged and condemned. Beaten and tortured and killed because they did not understand. That isn't to say that they will always be this way. People wake up and learn every day. Do not lose heart. Do not put people on a pedestal. They are simply human and do not understand. I hope this helps.
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@shelly
03/13/15 08:09:51AM
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The Struggle


Empath

You are ready to study the bible cover to cover. For now, go read in the book of Joel (a prophet) verses 28 through 32. This time has been foretold.
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@shelly
10/16/14 08:48:30AM
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I am right there with you. It's been really rough. I have been at a low for the last couple of weeks and I have had old memories resurface that I haven't thought of or dealt with for years.I have been using this time to lay low. To get a lot of rest as needed. Get a lot of exercise as I can. Yoga. Hiking. Meditate. Write in my journal. Digging deep and allowing old things to be released and healed. If I need to deal with other people, I take appropriate shielding precautions before doing so because it is really difficult right now. I feel it is ok to embrace some solitude right now.I am very interested to know how others are coping.Hope everyone is doing well.Blessings to all of you,Jar
updated by @shelly: 02/04/17 08:37:37PM
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@shelly
10/12/14 12:37:53PM
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I know I've had this all my life. Some of my earliest memories involve feeling pain of others and being able to see through their eyes. I remember being extremely sensitive in kindergarten when I would witness kids picking on or shunning one of the other kids in school to the point that I just couldn't bear it anymore. I have always felt protective of those.
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@shelly
10/09/14 01:34:49PM
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Ocean, mountains, mountain lakes, wind (sailing or being on the water).
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@shelly
10/08/14 01:07:13PM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


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Have confidence in that inner voice of wisdom that you were given. There are many in the world and online who will want to give you their well meaning advice but I have always found that your inner voice knows you best. :) I am happy that you are feeling more peaceful about where you are now and what you can do. Sending you lots of peaceful, confident and happy thoughts for what is in front of you.Jar
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@shelly
10/08/14 12:45:53PM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


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Absoulutely! The double mirror effect. :)
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@shelly
10/08/14 08:18:25AM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


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I want to caution you about trying to influence the situation empathically. It is important that when the time is right, it is because the time is right and both of you are really ready and not because any manipulation has occurred.
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@shelly
10/08/14 12:15:52AM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


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I feel compelled to share something right now. The timing of where you are and where she is right now is not by accident. You are here now and your purpose is to check yourself. Let go of your insecurities and fears that create blocks and barriers. She is where she is now for reasons you may not know. This cannot be forced. Two people with free will involved here. Letting go of this situation (and the need to force this) and trusting that all things will be at the appropriate time is a big step closer to your reunion.
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@shelly
10/08/14 12:04:12AM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


Empath

So good to hear!
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@shelly
10/07/14 11:59:15PM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


Empath

You strike me as a spiritually aware kind of person. I hope this helps.
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@shelly
10/07/14 11:52:08PM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


Empath

Strongly urging you to research "why twin flames run" and "what is a twin flame".
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@shelly
10/07/14 11:33:18PM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


Empath

You are feeling this deep connection with her and she is also an empath? Maybe she is running due to fear. The whole "empath" thing creates a different dynamic than other connections. What do we feel? Is it theirs or ours? This mish mash of emotions will escalate into confusing and scary territory. To have a connection with someone who really sees into them would make them feel so vulnerable and this fear of being seen so deeply can make a person choose to run. Deny. Or even choose a less vulnerable kind of relationship. Think about it. We live in a very unforgiving time where all of our flaws and mistakes... and insecurities could easily be exploited in a very public way. Maybe there is fear of rejection if you see the real her? It is so hard to feel so much.
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@shelly
10/07/14 10:44:51PM
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Listening to My Heart/Confusion


Empath

Have you ever heard if this whole "twin flame" phenomenon?
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@shelly
10/03/14 10:04:05PM
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Are you an empath living with another empath?


Empath

My son is going through this as well... feeling it is a curse rather than a gift. I did too. I think we all do. It seems that the waking up process comes in waves. I am stunned. Now I am mad. I didn't ask for this. Now I am freaked out. What does this all mean? Now I am desperate to shield myself. How do I make it go away? Now I see this could be a gift. Now I need to learn. And it goes on. I will just say that I am happy he has come around after years of society and schools that tend to label these things as disorders. My son has suffered greatly with the schools and society. Now I see him blooming to the possibilities. He is rising above all of it now. I can't wait to see what he does.
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@shelly
10/03/14 05:55:02PM
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what is with humanity


Empath

I know what you mean. It has been really difficult for me these last couple of months. Sending you some happy thoughts. Loved those songs by O.A.R. and Dirtypaws. :)
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@shelly
10/03/14 11:29:37AM
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Are you an empath living with another empath?


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My son is also an empath. I am learning that being an empath is like being a mirror. You are talking with someone and pick up things inside of them and you can reflect back to them who they are or what they are going through. If you are an empath and you live with another empath, you might be wondering why your relationship seems volcanic at times. Think about it. If an empath is a mirror... then 2 empaths living together are 2 mirrors facing each other. What happens when 2 mirrors face each other? The image bounces back and forth and escalates into infinity. I had this epiphany after a discussion with my empathic son escalated into a screaming match. My son picked up my frustration and returned it while adding his frustration and there you go! Kaboom!So what do we do now that we realize that there is a special consideration we must embrace when we must communicate difficult things to our empathic loved ones? How can we express our frustrations or anger without triggering the double mirror effect?I am still working on this answer but I do know that it starts with me and my extra sensory ability to understand others before I even speak. I think it is human nature to be more blunt and less filtered when we express our anger and frustrations towards those we live with on a daily basis. I think it all comes back to treating others the way we would want to be treated and giving our empathic loved ones some extra love and kindness when we have to address the hard things.I hope this helps others as it is helping me. It was a big eye opener for me.Blessings to you all.Jar
updated by @shelly: 08/06/17 05:01:09AM
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@shelly
09/25/14 09:09:56AM
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I have had a similar reoccurring situation with some of my dreams only a little different. My voice was gone when I was trying to scream out for help or to warn someone else of danger. I felt the same sensation where my throat closed up and I could not get a sound out at all in a moment of panic where I needed to scream at the top of my lungs. It was as though something else was was stopping me. I wake up feeling distressed and want to know who would do that to me.I don't really know what it means but as I study about the chakras, I get the idea that I need to find my voice and make sure all of my chakras have been cleared. For me, this has been an area in my life where I need to find strength. The message to me is that someone has taken my voice. What am I going to do about it? I need to find my voice.Those are just my personal experiences.Looking forward to reading what others might have to say about it.Blessings to you,Jar
updated by @shelly: 03/18/17 03:09:39PM
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@shelly
09/04/14 03:20:01PM
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Angel Numbers


Psychic and Paranormal

I have been being chased by these numbers for the last couple of months too. 11:11. 12:11. 1:11. 2:11... all the way around the clock. Additionally, I see 111, 222, 333, 444, 555, etc. I see them on street signs, buildings, computers, I even came across an 11 on a hiking trail recently and it made me laugh out loud. I also feel that this is a spiritual thing where my attention is being called. I am interested to hear if anyone else deals with this too. You are not alone, Jonny :)

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@shelly
08/15/14 01:24:14PM
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Releasing doubts happens automatically when you stop putting all of your energy into them and start putting your energy into what lies ahead... gifts coming to you on the horizon. Look forward to those and doubts get dropped onto the ground and forgotten.
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@shelly
08/15/14 10:13:49AM
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You must listen. Observe. Trust. Have faith. You are being given very miraculous insight here. How blessed you are to receive guidance.Release your doubts. Embrace the gifts. Keep a journal. Ask for guidance when you need it. You will get it.Blessings to you,Jar
updated by @shelly: 02/03/17 04:34:35PM
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@shelly
08/06/14 04:51:33PM
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Question on 11 11


Psychic and Paranormal

It does! Thank you!
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@shelly
07/25/14 04:30:47PM
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question


New Age

What does it mean when you were born at the exact moment of sunrise during peak time of the full moon cycle?
updated by @shelly: 02/22/17 02:56:10PM
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@shelly
07/21/14 09:29:24PM
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Question on 11 11


Psychic and Paranormal

I have been seeing it a lot. A LOT. It sometimes occurs when a friend of mine reaches out from a long distance in email or instant message or text msg. Right on the dot. It makes the hair on my arm stand straight up and my heart pound. Has anyone experienced the 11:11 thing in conjunction with another person? We do have a very spiritually strong connection.
updated by @shelly: 07/15/17 12:24:31AM
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@shelly
07/21/14 08:35:47PM
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Going through something similar. It is intense at times.
updated by @shelly: 02/13/17 12:33:01AM
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@shelly
07/19/14 06:55:23PM
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I think it won't be long before it is discovered that this can be found in our genetics.
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07/19/14 06:51:22PM
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Love this idea.
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@shelly
07/18/14 11:16:37AM
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Need a mentor


Psychic and Paranormal

Hi, I am looking for a mentor who can guide me and help me learn how to cope with being empathic. I am finding that the gift is more intense than ever and feel very out of control and it is exhausting me and driving me to break down. If anyone feels compelled, please let me know. Time for my next steps in this journey.
updated by @shelly: 07/05/17 06:25:31PM
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@shelly
07/16/14 09:40:10AM
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It hurts.


Empath

Emmy, this is such a great approach. I will practice this starting now. Thank you
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@shelly
07/16/14 09:39:00AM
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It hurts.


Empath

Thank you, Trevor, for your encouraging words. So needed right now.
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@shelly
07/16/14 08:33:15AM
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It hurts.


Empath

Hammer, thank you so much. That means a lot to me.
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@shelly
07/16/14 08:31:48AM
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It hurts.


Empath

Mary Anne, thank you. Your words sink in with me. It is very clear .that I need to get some mentoring on how to hone all of this in so it doesn't run me over. Thank you so much for everything you said.
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@shelly
07/15/14 11:57:26PM
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It hurts.


Empath

Being an empath hurts. It is mind boggling how much pain and turmoil surrounds us. It seems like each day is getting worse.
updated by @shelly: 02/06/17 04:28:18AM
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07/15/14 06:40:50AM
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Thanks Keller and same to you. I have to say that I am learning so much and this community has been amazing. Hang in there Keller. :) we are not alone.
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@shelly
07/14/14 07:01:25PM
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Oh Mary Anne. THANK YOU for sharing this. I so needed to read this tonight.
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@shelly
07/14/14 06:41:40PM
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I am also going through this and it is becoming unbearable for me. My husband is a big ball of negative energy and trying to control everything around him. He is a reactor. He reacts before thinking and before causing destruction around him. I have to ground myself every day when he is around. So glad I am not alone.. and thank you for your words Great Mother Bear. I will try what you suggest. This is increasingly difficult for me.
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@shelly
07/11/14 08:23:59AM
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What is the movie that resonates with you?


Empath

I LOVE Somewhere in time too.
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@shelly
07/11/14 08:20:40AM
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What is the movie that resonates with you?


Empath

I know it is like asking what your favorite food is and it changes with the times. Right now here are mine.The secret life of Walter MittyThe Lake HouseThe Truman ShowThe MatrixThe Philadelphia Story (Kathryn Hepburn)Say Anything.the AbyssSense and sensibility.WindLove my Star wars movies.There are more but this is for today.
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@shelly
07/10/14 10:35:39PM
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What is the movie that resonates with you?


Empath

I didn't see all of those but loved Forrest Gump and Fiddler on the roof. :)
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@shelly
07/10/14 08:39:00PM
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What is the movie that resonates with you?


Empath

Age is just a number! :) I love love love "it's a wonderful life". I am compiling my top 10. By the way... City of angels is huge on my list too... but it does hurt so much.
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@shelly
07/10/14 08:23:22PM
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What is the movie that resonates with you?


Empath

The movie I am watching right now compelled me to ask. I am watching a not so hugely popular movie called "the Lake house". This is prompting me to ask. My extended list to follow.
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@shelly
07/10/14 08:12:20PM
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What is the movie that resonates with you?


Empath

I am definitely going to list mine. Still compiling my list.
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@shelly
07/10/14 07:21:22PM
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What is the movie that resonates with you?


Empath

I saw someone ask about music. I am curious about other forms of entertainment that you connect with. As an Empath, what are those movies that make your soul sing?
updated by @shelly: 06/15/17 04:49:50AM
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@shelly
06/21/14 02:05:44AM
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Has anyone had experiences with citrine?
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