Forum Activity for @boubou

boubou
@boubou
07/16/14 01:13:02AM
159 posts

crisis


Empath

you are so right...

boubou
@boubou
07/15/14 07:58:51AM
159 posts

crisis


Empath

i have started smudging again every day now....I have gone through a lot and I feel so heavy

boubou
@boubou
07/15/14 12:14:57AM
159 posts

crisis


Empath

yes I am a bit confused too

boubou
@boubou
07/14/14 03:06:55PM
159 posts

crisis


Empath

I will check it out thank you!

boubou
@boubou
07/14/14 03:06:20PM
159 posts

crisis


Empath

I can relate to your words so much.That brutal honesty has backfired at me too because I also thought that it was what they wanted. it turnt out it wasnt...all people needed is someone to listen to them..but I thought they wanted the truth in order to move on and transform and learn themselves...not everyone is ready to go through that journey Dan...we see things so deeply and we forget that not everyone is like us.

boubou
@boubou
07/14/14 10:08:31AM
159 posts

crisis


Empath

thank you for your replies...I am a person that cannot live without close relationships, I could never have the kind of friendships and relationships that werent "all in"...

but now I am in this path...I try to keep some distance because I havent still learnt how to control this gift all the way...we have to search for people that are good with themselves and they are so rare

boubou
@boubou
07/14/14 03:19:53AM
159 posts

crisis


Empath

The last 5 years that my empathy started to develop more I have been experiencing the same pattern in my close relationships...everyone except an empath friend is having identity crisis a few months after they get to know me close...do you have any similar experience??I think that I amplify the things they already have but its getting really tiring...because they treat me not so good I have to say


updated by @boubou: 06/21/17 04:39:58AM
boubou
@boubou
06/19/14 12:45:59AM
159 posts

Question about my chart


New Age

I know some things about astrology but I cannot understand this chart...if you can find a program that gives you the angles of the planets more elaborately I would be glad to help

boubou
@boubou
05/31/14 06:48:22AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

YOu have helped us so much!we have been feeling a lot better!especially my mom!
boubou
@boubou
05/31/14 06:42:36AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

Thank you so much!I will definitely get the book!
boubou
@boubou
05/30/14 02:23:06AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you Layota!

boubou
@boubou
05/30/14 02:22:55AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you!

boubou
@boubou
05/30/14 02:22:45AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you very much!

boubou
@boubou
05/30/14 02:22:14AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you dan!

boubou
@boubou
05/30/14 02:21:56AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you all so much!you 've been a tremendous help...both me and my mother have been feeling so much better!

boubou
@boubou
05/29/14 10:58:54AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you!!

boubou
@boubou
05/29/14 12:52:36AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you Lightworker....I dont know but today I woke up feeling better and my mother also!It really works

boubou
@boubou
05/28/14 07:50:20AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you Carolanne

boubou
@boubou
05/28/14 03:29:07AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

thank you Pillar

boubou
@boubou
05/28/14 12:02:01AM
159 posts

need your positive vibes


Empath

My mother might have parkinsons disease and she is also a breast cancer survivor, she is struggling to accept now this new obstacle and I am struggling to keep her positive....I am struggling because I have been feeling her depression so much lately and I have also had physical symptoms....pls send me some good energy...I have been exhausted


updated by @boubou: 03/01/17 08:33:37PM
boubou
@boubou
05/14/14 03:58:17AM
159 posts

feeling the truth


Empath

it is very complicated. White lies are harmful and sometimes needed, the other lies though are not...if someone wants to live a life of lie is their decission but I wont be a part neither as friend

boubou
@boubou
05/14/14 12:19:43AM
159 posts

feeling the truth


Empath

its an energy drain to listen to someone's lies.....that is the point!I dont take it personally but my energy field does....now when I hear lies I leave or I change the subject, I need to protect myself from this and when and if they tell me the truth is their problem like my inner balance is mine

for example....a few months ago I went for a coffee with a friendly couple, my best friend and his girlfriend....I left feeling so drained from the way they tried to convince me that they were so happy..probably trying to convince themselves..I started crying in my car not knowing why...a few weeks later they had broken up and the truth came out that she was cheating on him and it had happened a few days before we had that coffee. At the time I didnt know I was an empath, I didnt know that what I was had a word....now that I have read and understood all this things I know I have to look out for myself because all the previous years my energy was very low because of this.

boubou
@boubou
05/12/14 03:11:46AM
159 posts

feeling the truth


Empath

white lies we all say, but sometimes people create a whole other life!

boubou
@boubou
05/12/14 12:27:34AM
159 posts

feeling the truth


Empath

if the lies continue I will get mad and I will tell them, I mean enough is enough. Sometimes I think we are too good because we understand people and feel sorry for them but I dont think most of them deserve it.

boubou
@boubou
05/11/14 04:11:04AM
159 posts

feeling the truth


Empath

thank you for your kind words..I love horses too as all animals but I still havent fulfilled my dream of riding one...the situation I am referring to has happened to me with friends and others, I only care for friends though because if I cared for every lie I heard in my life I wouldnt do anything else

I have come to realize and accept that I need fo let people help themselves and let them grow and I succeded in this but sometimes I believe they also lie to themselves and at these times I am a little lost. your words are very helpful and I will try them next time!I believe it will work :)

boubou
@boubou
05/10/14 07:19:54AM
159 posts

feeling the truth


Empath

thank you for your replies!i need to remind mself that people need barriers and sometimes especially from us because we read them too well..

boubou
@boubou
05/09/14 01:28:11AM
159 posts

feeling the truth


Empath

How do you deal with the information you receive??When you know that someone is lying to your face although you cannot prove it?When you know that someone is dealing with a problem he doesnt want to share and tells you all kind of lies?Different situations but I get very frustrated and I dont know how to handle it...especially the lies...


updated by @boubou: 02/05/17 08:57:19AM
boubou
@boubou
03/25/14 02:27:40PM
159 posts

Send No Rain Vib's our way!


Empath

I was watching this at the news half an hour before and the images were frightening.My heart goes out to you!Good vibes sent your way asap!

boubou
@boubou
03/20/14 04:02:23AM
159 posts



sent!

boubou
@boubou
03/18/14 06:48:47AM
159 posts

weird looks


Empath

metoo...lol

boubou
@boubou
03/17/14 01:16:05AM
159 posts

weird looks


Empath

you know it would be fun to see what they see in us!if we could see ourselves from outside....yesterday I was leaving from a restaurant and a woman stared so much,like she was frozen that my friend asked her if she wanted something!I think she hadn't realised that she was staring and she felt really embarrassed.

Sometimes though the looks arent good....I have seen people stare like something is wrong, like I am making them unconfortable...maybe they are unconfortable with themselves

boubou
@boubou
03/16/14 05:23:13AM
159 posts

weird looks


Empath

Hello everyone!I have been noticing weird looks from complete strangers at the past year, women and men. Sometimes they stare like I am an alien....I dont have any distinct charecteristic on me... Many times friends that are with me and see them ask me if I know them and when I say no they ask again and think I dont tell them the truth! Yesterday someone looked at me like he's seen a ghost!

Do you get these looks too???


updated by @boubou: 05/11/17 03:20:56AM
boubou
@boubou
03/13/14 03:51:30AM
159 posts



Welcome Nat!I am new here too and since I joined my mood and my health have improved so much.It was the missing puzzle like you said.We are here to learn and live our life as empaths as better as we can.

boubou
@boubou
03/11/14 05:10:03AM
159 posts

MUSIC


Empath

I love music, it has helped me release my feelings and I dont have a special kind either. I love classical music though, it is just devine!!

boubou
@boubou
03/10/14 02:31:30AM
159 posts



you are so right!I had plenty of women friends but I found out that they made me really nervous...their energy...I cant stand them anymore..only the ones that are away. Male friends calm me down

boubou
@boubou
03/09/14 06:34:52AM
159 posts



same here....i need a lot of sleep because of this...when i am tired I feel so many things and I cannot shield at all.

boubou
@boubou
03/06/14 11:35:47AM
159 posts



such a great post!you said all those things I have been thinking.to add to your thought I too have problem with my hearing...only one ear works and problem with my eyesight many many degrees. I have an extraordinary smell however and taste too.

boubou
@boubou
03/05/14 12:25:22AM
159 posts



I have the same problem many times and then a strong empathic experience comes along and I stop doubting myself.this is not our problem it is because all this gifts are considered with much doubt from the people around us.

I want to say to my friends I KNOW WHAT IS WRONG but wheneever I say sthing like this I get the feeling that they dont believe me, and then when I am confirmed they think ok she just has brains...or she made a lucky guess.

the thing is society will not accept all of this soon...we have each other thank god

boubou
@boubou
03/04/14 02:38:27AM
159 posts



Very good topic!I started yoga and I do a lot of walks in nature...however I smoke a little and I eat a lot of meat....I cannot live without meat its like I need it to stay grounded.I really hope I could become vegan but I think it is not for me.I cut out on sweets years ago due to stomach issues.Sleep is essential for me too, 7-8 hours every day or else I am exhausted.

boubou
@boubou
03/01/14 11:58:52AM
159 posts



it is very hard to tell what feelings are yours and what are from the other person...especially when you are a struggling empath...but once you set some boundaries maybe it gets better...I dont know I hope because I had a lot of problems with relationships...

boubou
@boubou
02/28/14 11:56:54AM
159 posts

Help needed...


Empath

Thank you!!much appreciated!!
boubou
@boubou
02/27/14 12:28:50AM
159 posts



This destroyed my previous relationship because I felt everything so amplified. I didnt know I was an empath at the time and this intense feelings drove me crazy. Now I know that I have to set boundaries and try to focus on myself....you should try that too...focus on you and lower your antennas if possible....oh I dont know, intense relationships are so hard on us and yet we attract these only!


updated by @boubou: 04/11/17 07:32:45AM
boubou
@boubou
02/27/14 12:14:06AM
159 posts

Help needed...


Empath

yes really weird...I really look forward to the summer nowthe sea is unbelieavble rejuvennating

boubou
@boubou
02/27/14 12:12:08AM
159 posts

Help needed...


Empath

thank you to all of you!These days are a little weird for all of us I see!The sleep is a bit difficult also.Maybe it is the change of season, maybe the winter was very hard.

boubou
@boubou
02/26/14 01:43:57AM
159 posts

Help needed...


Empath

I really hope it will be somthing good. I havent joined the experiments, it is a good suggestion inlanddan, I will join!

boubou
@boubou
02/26/14 12:32:02AM
159 posts

Help needed...


Empath

thank you very much...I have been so much better

boubou
@boubou
02/25/14 01:17:15AM
159 posts



you can do this to yourself too, when I sage I do it around myself also


updated by @boubou: 01/06/17 02:37:45AM
boubou
@boubou
02/24/14 09:08:31AM
159 posts

Help needed...


Empath

The last couple of weeks have left me feeling totally exhausted and drained..many problems have made me lose my balance and now nothing is working.Shielding doesnt work at all because I dont even have the power to make it work, I have been sleeping a lot but this doesnt help either...please send me some good vibes..I need them so much


updated by @boubou: 01/11/17 08:24:16PM
boubou
@boubou
02/21/14 11:23:43AM
159 posts



he is beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

boubou
@boubou
02/19/14 12:36:51AM
159 posts

strange energy


Empath

to tell you the truth I thought last night when I wrote this discussion that maybe someone close to him is sick, or maybe is going to get sick!I dont know I just thought of that!I reaaly hope this isnt the case, he has a little girl. I really hope its something between us only. Maybe a past life or even only something simple as an underlying flirt from his side

 
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