you are so right...
I can relate to your words so much.That brutal honesty has backfired at me too because I also thought that it was what they wanted. it turnt out it wasnt...all people needed is someone to listen to them..but I thought they wanted the truth in order to move on and transform and learn themselves...not everyone is ready to go through that journey Dan...we see things so deeply and we forget that not everyone is like us.
thank you for your replies...I am a person that cannot live without close relationships, I could never have the kind of friendships and relationships that werent "all in"...
but now I am in this path...I try to keep some distance because I havent still learnt how to control this gift all the way...we have to search for people that are good with themselves and they are so rare
The last 5 years that my empathy started to develop more I have been experiencing the same pattern in my close relationships...everyone except an empath friend is having identity crisis a few months after they get to know me close...do you have any similar experience??I think that I amplify the things they already have but its getting really tiring...because they treat me not so good I have to say
My mother might have parkinsons disease and she is also a breast cancer survivor, she is struggling to accept now this new obstacle and I am struggling to keep her positive....I am struggling because I have been feeling her depression so much lately and I have also had physical symptoms....pls send me some good energy...I have been exhausted
its an energy drain to listen to someone's lies.....that is the point!I dont take it personally but my energy field does....now when I hear lies I leave or I change the subject, I need to protect myself from this and when and if they tell me the truth is their problem like my inner balance is mine
for example....a few months ago I went for a coffee with a friendly couple, my best friend and his girlfriend....I left feeling so drained from the way they tried to convince me that they were so happy..probably trying to convince themselves..I started crying in my car not knowing why...a few weeks later they had broken up and the truth came out that she was cheating on him and it had happened a few days before we had that coffee. At the time I didnt know I was an empath, I didnt know that what I was had a word....now that I have read and understood all this things I know I have to look out for myself because all the previous years my energy was very low because of this.
thank you for your kind words..I love horses too as all animals but I still havent fulfilled my dream of riding one...the situation I am referring to has happened to me with friends and others, I only care for friends though because if I cared for every lie I heard in my life I wouldnt do anything else
I have come to realize and accept that I need fo let people help themselves and let them grow and I succeded in this but sometimes I believe they also lie to themselves and at these times I am a little lost. your words are very helpful and I will try them next time!I believe it will work
How do you deal with the information you receive??When you know that someone is lying to your face although you cannot prove it?When you know that someone is dealing with a problem he doesnt want to share and tells you all kind of lies?Different situations but I get very frustrated and I dont know how to handle it...especially the lies...
you know it would be fun to see what they see in us!if we could see ourselves from outside....yesterday I was leaving from a restaurant and a woman stared so much,like she was frozen that my friend asked her if she wanted something!I think she hadn't realised that she was staring and she felt really embarrassed.
Sometimes though the looks arent good....I have seen people stare like something is wrong, like I am making them unconfortable...maybe they are unconfortable with themselves
Hello everyone!I have been noticing weird looks from complete strangers at the past year, women and men. Sometimes they stare like I am an alien....I dont have any distinct charecteristic on me... Many times friends that are with me and see them ask me if I know them and when I say no they ask again and think I dont tell them the truth! Yesterday someone looked at me like he's seen a ghost!
Do you get these looks too???
I have the same problem many times and then a strong empathic experience comes along and I stop doubting myself.this is not our problem it is because all this gifts are considered with much doubt from the people around us.
I want to say to my friends I KNOW WHAT IS WRONG but wheneever I say sthing like this I get the feeling that they dont believe me, and then when I am confirmed they think ok she just has brains...or she made a lucky guess.
the thing is society will not accept all of this soon...we have each other thank god
Very good topic!I started yoga and I do a lot of walks in nature...however I smoke a little and I eat a lot of meat....I cannot live without meat its like I need it to stay grounded.I really hope I could become vegan but I think it is not for me.I cut out on sweets years ago due to stomach issues.Sleep is essential for me too, 7-8 hours every day or else I am exhausted.
This destroyed my previous relationship because I felt everything so amplified. I didnt know I was an empath at the time and this intense feelings drove me crazy. Now I know that I have to set boundaries and try to focus on myself....you should try that too...focus on you and lower your antennas if possible....oh I dont know, intense relationships are so hard on us and yet we attract these only!
The last couple of weeks have left me feeling totally exhausted and drained..many problems have made me lose my balance and now nothing is working.Shielding doesnt work at all because I dont even have the power to make it work, I have been sleeping a lot but this doesnt help either...please send me some good vibes..I need them so much
to tell you the truth I thought last night when I wrote this discussion that maybe someone close to him is sick, or maybe is going to get sick!I dont know I just thought of that!I reaaly hope this isnt the case, he has a little girl. I really hope its something between us only. Maybe a past life or even only something simple as an underlying flirt from his side