Forum Activity for @crownite

Crownite
@crownite
06/30/15 08:41:40AM
107 posts



Yes, I think you should stop.

I'm not sure if you can because I think you enjoy the attention that comes along with it and because of this need I keep perceiving in you. But I think it's something that as you grow up you're going to have to learn and realize that you can't control everybody and twist things around to get your way all the time. But that's something that comes with depth and maturity.

Crownite
@crownite
06/03/15 06:29:42PM
107 posts

Martyrs


Empath

This is beautiful. Thank you :)
Crownite
@crownite
06/03/15 04:12:14PM
107 posts

Martyrs


Empath

Anyone here a martyr?

I work as a registered nurse which I think plays on my feature of martyrdom. It's a lot of self-sacrifice and I think many empaths and many people fall into this state of victimization where they make themselves victims of life and their circumstances. We keep perceiving life and things as "happening to us" or as some force that is really out of our control. And I think in a way it was from that place of martyrdom (and yes care and seeking experiences) that I chose to do what I do.

That said, has anyone here come to embrace their martyrdom and found a way to not let it push them into feeling like then life was completely out of their control?


updated by @crownite: 01/20/17 06:49:57PM
Crownite
@crownite
06/03/15 03:42:52PM
107 posts

Counselling/therapy


Empath

Hi!

Yes, of course I had that experience. I don't do counseling now, though I'm not opposed to it, but I did cancel a counseling session with this one counselor because I felt we weren't seeing eye to eye.

I don't want to say it's hard to find someone. I've learned that part of finding someone you trust is that you have to give them a little of your trust to work with. Keep open (use your wits too) and I think it's possible to get someone who fits your life.

Crownite
@crownite
05/28/15 04:48:22AM
107 posts



Sometimes we can project images of ourselves onto others and suck ourselves down into an even further hole. Iv contrast is eliminated from the body through urine or bowel movements. It leaves your system so now all you have to do is give yourself space to recover from your perception of the experience.
updated by @crownite: 10/18/17 05:27:19PM
Crownite
@crownite
05/01/15 05:12:44PM
107 posts



I really like, "It matters not how strait the gait, how charged with punishments the scroll. I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul."

I like the entire poem really. But that one sticks the most.

Crownite
@crownite
05/01/15 03:33:30PM
107 posts

positive/negative-what's the difference? It's just emotion.


Empath

Yes, everything just is. That said, most people want to feel good about what they do and who they are and so allowing yourself to be aware of those emotions and how they affect you and how you react when in that state is a pretty important factor as it can cause a ripple effect to others and so forth and so forth.

Crownite
@crownite
05/01/15 02:22:11AM
107 posts



Many men hide their issues because they want to "be strong" and just haven't learned to access the tools needed to deal with their emotions surrounding the matter.

But honestly, I have learned that some people don't want our help which is part of why they hide the issue from us. We might be the one they don't want to know their business. I have a cousin who is an empath who tried to pinpoint my then "issue" and when she did I became irate because that was not her issue to discuss with me. I didn't share it with her for a reason. So I had to tell her, "I don't want to talk to you about that." And it broke her heart but she was not the one I felt comfortable talking to, empath or not.


updated by @crownite: 01/14/17 03:35:07PM
Crownite
@crownite
04/27/15 03:29:50PM
107 posts

any other empaths in their twenties?


Empath

I'll be turning 24. I wouldn't call it chaotic. I've been this way for as long as I can remember and I tend to have a pretty calm life.

Crownite
@crownite
04/21/15 11:14:06AM
107 posts



I think that I have this ability not only to bring life and clarity/insight into other's lives if I choose to do so, but also to help me to navigate this life.

Crownite
@crownite
04/19/15 02:44:15PM
107 posts

Your Younger Self


Empath

It sure does. Because nothing stimulates an economy and growth like greedy and dissatisfaction. lol

Crownite
@crownite
04/19/15 09:10:21AM
107 posts

Overwhelmed by Energy of Others


Empath

Pull back. If you notice this in yourself, pull back and talk yourself out of it. Let yourself know that the same light you see in them is in you and that you have no need to grapple for theirs. Or, you could just give them a compliment. I've found this helps. I don't know why, but for some reason it helps me to recognize the goodness and positivity in myself when I do this.

Crownite
@crownite
04/17/15 10:42:55PM
107 posts

Dealing with envy


Empath

That doesn't sound the least bit like envy, but that you feel overlooked and underestimated. Abandoned? Possibly even outcasted?

I think you'll be okay though. You joined this site and you're expressing yourself and people are offering you their support so you have a support group somewhere. You're not exactly alone even if you feel that way from time to time.

Hope things shape up for you!

Crownite
@crownite
04/17/15 09:03:27AM
107 posts

What is your 'range'?


Empath

That use to happen to me when I was deeply attached to technology. I could just sense when my phone went off or if someone posted something on my wall or on some social site. I could time it perfectly to check and I knew what would attract people. I knew their patterns and how it all worked. My range is what I'm focused on.

Crownite
@crownite
04/17/15 08:29:08AM
107 posts

Your Younger Self


Empath

In addition...

I'd also inform her that it's okay for her to feel happy and to be sincere. There's nothing wrong with feeling complete or good or connected despite not having a lot of friends. That's okay.

Crownite
@crownite
04/17/15 08:26:18AM
107 posts

Your Younger Self


Empath

Hey Guys!

What would you tell your younger self?

I would tell my younger self that you are a co-creator of your life and you ought to make it how you want it.

I would also tell her not to doubt herself so much as a lot of what she perceives is quite accurate (despite threats to its validity). Some things take time to manifest (so she needs to learn to be patient).


updated by @crownite: 10/20/17 12:18:12AM
Crownite
@crownite
03/31/15 02:29:48PM
107 posts



Use it to become self aware and to control yourself. Not others. You also need to learn how to be responsible. But like I said, that's why I avoid people who do that because they can mess up your life if you invite them in and they'd just say "it was all fun". You don't know what's best for another person. And I don't think anyone knows what's best for me, but me and my maker.
Crownite
@crownite
03/30/15 07:56:37PM
107 posts



Sounds like an abuse of power.I get angry when I meet an empath who does this. I tend to avoid those people because I tend to think something is wrong with them that they feel the need to control others or treat others that way. What if it was done to you? I know for me, when I notice an empath trying to get under my skin and control me, I just get especially livid. I'm big on my personal freedom and don't need that kind of influence.
Crownite
@crownite
03/29/15 05:59:41AM
107 posts



I love having the gift of foresight. trusting my intuition has kept me from many a hardship.
Crownite
@crownite
03/25/15 07:14:59PM
107 posts



You know, to be very honest with you, I went through similar experiences growing up. I kept slipping into depression over it and kept isolating myself because I didn't want to deal with other people are their emotions. I felt like I could see the phoniness, and the lying and the everything else and it use to make me feel overwhelemed. I definitely isolated myself a lot and cut off a lot of friendships and potential relationships because I could feel all their emotions and cords and didn't want the entanglement. In college, I made the mistake of doing the exact opposite where I found myself overly involved in other peoples gunk and I almost had a breakdown.I had to find balance in learning to enjoy my alone time but seeking company when I need it. I also had to learn how to cope. If you know someone isn't good for you, trust it. Proceed with caution.I'm saying that more than anything it sounds like you need to strike balance. I had to reboot by starting off friendless in order to find my core. Might not be the same for you. But I empathize. You gotta work on being stronger. You have an amazing gift. Learn how to make it work for you.
Crownite
@crownite
03/24/15 10:26:23PM
107 posts



You're a very strong empath if this has been your reality for so long.
Crownite
@crownite
03/24/15 08:33:12PM
107 posts



No, not offended. I'm a nurse. Where I use to work, my patients use to lie to me all the time. "No, I've never done drugs. Can I get 2mg of dilaudid though? If they give me morphine, make sure it's about 6mg of it because that's the same equivalen cy as dilaudid 2mg." Like really?
Crownite
@crownite
03/15/15 10:54:19PM
107 posts



I often associated this with my introversion. It's just this feeling of being able to relax and I often get the chance to feel ny own emotions and experience ny thoughts at full force which makes me happy.
Crownite
@crownite
03/14/15 05:12:46PM
107 posts



I think you clarified. Lol I learned about the term when I was in my mid teens because of someone I had met online who identified as such. Before that, everyone I knew would ask how I knew what I knew who say that I was intuitive or perceptive. I just figured that was it because I see patterns and pick up on things very easily. I did have a brief period in middle and high school where I couldn't seem to escape the sight of suffering in everyone but yeah, I think I'm college I realized it wasn't going away and turned further inward and towards self improvement.
Crownite
@crownite
03/13/15 06:31:50AM
107 posts



I guess that's why I'm not sure I'm an empath. I never learned any grounding techniques but somehow I can just detach.

Crownite
@crownite
03/11/15 08:38:45PM
107 posts



Maybe give them some space as even though they want love, or even a love like what you want to offer them, it isn't from you per se that they want it. No love can be forced on a person, no matter how strong. Give them space and let them be.
Crownite
@crownite
03/11/15 07:31:42PM
107 posts



I'm not 100% sure I'm an empath or if I'm just claircognizant/clairvoyant but I work as an RN in hospitals. It's great! It taught me how to be strong and nursing really requires that you rely on your instincts which helped me to develop confidence in myself and in my inner knowing.

Crownite
@crownite
03/04/15 03:57:12PM
107 posts



You can't just accept the emotion as being there, feel it, and allow it to leave when the time is right? The feeling might be there to teach you something about you. The feeling won't kill you. It's yours.
Crownite
@crownite
03/04/15 12:17:21PM
107 posts

Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience, and Claircognizance


Psychic and Paranormal

Hey everyone, thank you for the feedback I received on this thread. I've found that in my daily life, the two senses I use the most are my clairvoyance and my claircognizance. I just know things and I might get a quick picture of something. Like many of you said, I realized that I don't have to jump through a whole lot of hoops in order for these gifts to develop. I just needed to pay attention and to develop my self-awareness a bit more. I wanted to thank you all because as my life continues to come together, my gifts are improving and I'm finding my center again.

So thank you. :)

Crownite
@crownite
03/02/15 12:23:39PM
107 posts



Sounds like you need to set some distance between the two of you.


updated by @crownite: 04/11/17 11:48:22PM
Crownite
@crownite
03/02/15 09:33:05AM
107 posts



I think it's the difference between empathizing and being empath that makes me not want to identify with the title of "Empath" anymore. I empathize. I understand where a person is coming from and I can perceive (either just a knowing, a flash picture or insight, a subtle change in the energy ripples around the person, or some kind of internal message) that lets me know what's going on with a person. But I very seldom feelwhat another person is feeling to the point that it affects me. Never again. Not anymore. There are some people who I have in the past over identified with because they resonate with me and I've found myself taking on there mannerisms and perceptions, but it's such a rare case scenario and those people have to have a certain kind of energy vibration for that to happen. In fact, it was my over identification with another person that led me to claim the title of empath to begin with. (^_^) But I think I'm just more claircognizant and clairvoyant than anything else. Maybe even somewhat of an energist.

Crownite
@crownite
03/01/15 07:39:19AM
107 posts

11:11 / Lightworker


Library of Light

I think I found this at just the right time. I have found the importance of focusing and working towards what I do want as opposed to my fears and doubts. I see lots of 1s and 3s as of late. Thank you. I feel like I'm finally understanding the meaning of faith.

Crownite
@crownite
02/28/15 02:33:33PM
107 posts



No. I don't have narcissistic parents. I'm 24 and I feel guilty for still living at home. For me, I'm big on independence and I dont think that I have any right to name call my parents when I still live in their house. I don't need to be there and they are kind enough to let me stay rent free, no guilt acquired.

My mom is far more selfless than I am and very motherly in nature. She has the best personality to be a mother and is the reason I don't think I can or should be a mother. I'm not and don't want to be that self sacrificing and I think a good mother should be. I don't mind calling myself an empath but perceiving other people's behavior makes me less compassionate and selfless in my behavior.

The only self centered parent I know in my life is my cousins dad. He is terrible.


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Crownite
@crownite
02/27/15 07:10:04PM
107 posts



In my experience, things happen when I least expect it. It makes me more open to the possibility that things can be different from what I imagine them to be. Allows for more flexibility. :)
Crownite
@crownite
02/27/15 06:57:48PM
107 posts



Simply put, I try not to feed into it. You can't change people and realizing this has changed the relationship I've had with a lot of people. I put a little distance between me(healthy detachment) and them so they have space to be who they are and want to be and I have space to continue growing.
updated by @crownite: 10/18/17 10:18:11PM
Crownite
@crownite
02/26/15 08:23:59PM
107 posts



People like that just stand out. They radiate. :)
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Crownite
@crownite
02/26/15 06:11:22PM
107 posts



I think I'm more indoorsy lately. It's because my new hobby is audio books and I rediscovered my look for reading so I tend to enjoy doing those alone in a private place like my car or my bedroom with the lights off. Outdoors has a lot of action and I can easily get distracted, exhausted, or ovwrstimulated when outside. That said, if I had to work out, I prefer the outdoors because of the effect it has on my mind. The workout goes by quicker because I can distract myself with the way everything affects me or the patterns I notice, etc. It's just easier to get through a workout with all of that.
Crownite
@crownite
02/25/15 07:32:19PM
107 posts



I saw an angel once as I was ascending during meditation. Her name was Gabrielle (or Gabriel). She was encouraging me to communicate and to speak my truth. This was in the days when I lost my voice and felt a large lump in my throat preventing me from speaking. it was clear as day and undeniable. I had fallen forward in tears and despair during meditation and she caught me and hugged me. Her energy was androgenous (angels don't really have a gender) but she manifested as female.She spoke to me telepathically and empathetically. After that, I only felt them. They spoke to me in dreams but they took the form of people I knew or felt comfortable with.I don't keep a diary, but I trust the information I'm being given now. They don't speak to me telepathically anymore, but in dreams, which works. What I tend to do is if I have a question I want answered, then I deeply contemplate that question just before bed. I feel it and allow the energy of that question to enter my heart area. When I go to sleep, they'll talk to me and answer that question. Sometimes the message isn't the clearest, but I've found that the part of the dream I remember the most is usually the part that carries the answer to my question.
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Crownite
@crownite
02/23/15 09:21:17PM
107 posts



Im an introvert. I get overstimulated at parties. Idk if I'm empathic or mostly just claircognizant. I perceive a lot of different things which makes me tired faster. It's a lot to take in but the music and the food tends to be nice :)
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Crownite
@crownite
02/22/15 10:44:42AM
107 posts



I think you'll be okay. I personally think it's a bad habit. Maybe others will have more feedback for you.
Crownite
@crownite
02/22/15 10:08:13AM
107 posts



It sounds horrible to be honest. lol Kind of manipulative. Are you young? I think a lot of times young people (in their teens) aren't fully secure in themselves so they think they have to jump through all these hoops in order to get a partner.


updated by @crownite: 10/22/17 02:53:31PM
Crownite
@crownite
02/21/15 10:12:15AM
107 posts



Working in healthcare, I've learned the importance of taking time for myself to rejuvenate. If you give and give and give, you will be one out because your energy is outwardly focused. Sometimes we have to turn that inwards and nourish ourselves.
updated by @crownite: 02/22/17 02:42:15PM
Crownite
@crownite
02/20/15 05:43:14PM
107 posts



Lol we can thank social media and the misinterpreted form of self love for the rise in "narcissism".
Crownite
@crownite
02/20/15 03:51:49PM
107 posts



Hey Dwayne! Welcome :)I have similar experiences though I don't see demons, I sense the state of people's souls. It comes on like a feeling of inner knowing and then I get a visual image in my head of what that is. It's like playing charades really. I tend to keep most people at arms length nowadays because I feel as though they'll take me in a direction I don't want to go. I did encounter a person who was possessed though and I had to cut him out of my life as whatever it was he chose to invite into him(due to loneliness) use to drain me faster than most people do. In the span of 2 hours I'd go from incredibly happy to feeling down and fatigued all from an online conversation. Not okay. Most people aren't narcissists or psychopaths though. They're just misguided people who are caught up in their own webs of deception. It's safer that way.
Crownite
@crownite
02/16/15 08:38:05PM
107 posts

I have more male friends than female friends


Empath

I found that a lot of my guy friends were attracted to me and so it was easy to control them or lead them on. As I grew up, I stopped liking the feeling of their underlying motives. I'd like to believe that guys and girls can be just friends but I've found that if I make the first move to take the friendship out of the friend zone, then things speed up very quickly.

Crownite
@crownite
02/15/15 11:57:28AM
107 posts

Does anyone ever see you for you?


Empath

I don't think I have to be 100% a part of the collective reality. I don't think anyone really is without losing a good chunk of their connection to their own soul and true source of happiness. I need to know how to function in the world and thrive in it without it controlling me and dictating my life's course and I think that can be a challenge at times. Don't worry so much about what other people say or how they perceive you. No one can perceive anyone fully and so their perception is skewed. Just do you and be you. I think in an attempt to prove who we truly are to the world, we can actually lose that sense of self.
Crownite
@crownite
02/15/15 09:42:29AM
107 posts

Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience, and Claircognizance


Psychic and Paranormal

Thats understandable. I'm not complaining! I'be been keeping back from my mom because even though she's self sacrificing and caring, if I open up to her she somehow always has this way of controlling me and draining me and making me feel stuck and unhappy. I use to talk to her about this to try and improve the relationship but I stopped because I realized it's not changing. There's nothing "wrong" with her and she certainly means well, but talking to her leads to me feeling weak and incapable. Tbh, my family wouldn't know what an empath is if I brought it up to them and I wouldn't bring it up to them. Some things I dont talk about with them because I don't crave that kind of support. They acknowledge that I have the gift of discernment or that I'm "intuitive" but they won't hear what I have to say because I'm not an elder part of the group. They listen to me more than my other cousins because of my tendencies, but meh....I'm not their go to lol.
Crownite
@crownite
02/13/15 06:18:12PM
107 posts

Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience, and Claircognizance


Psychic and Paranormal

I prefer not to talk about my family to respect their privacy. But the hierarchy is that I'm female and I'm not am elder and so they don't take me as seriously. They think I'm mature, they think I'm level headed, they think I'm insightful. But I think people have their own paths to walk and I'm very uninvolved in my family life compared to the level of entanglements they create.Yeah, in families, there's things people don't want to talk about because they don't want to talk about the family "shame". Maybe one day you'll learn about it. I was told that my grandmother on my dad's side was crazy but if you ask him he would never acknowledge it and would rather say, "she was ill." None of her kids will acknowledge it. I only know this because of one time when my dad slipped up and mentioned it to my mom.
Crownite
@crownite
02/13/15 04:31:32PM
107 posts

Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience, and Claircognizance


Psychic and Paranormal

No, it's okay. I don't mind. :)It happens to me all the time but most dont listen to me. my family mostly. I don't stress out about it anymore. K just joke around. The thing is, there's a hierarchy not only am I not an elder, but I'm also a female so I am not heard as often. That said, I have been acknowledged as having the gift of "discernment" which they kind of had to recognize when it came to light that my dad was lying about some things.But I don't guilt them. I realize that people don't like acknowledging things when it's not positive and I am not really am exception. Lol people killed prophets back in the day because they seldom reported good news.
Crownite
@crownite
02/12/15 06:04:59AM
107 posts

Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience, and Claircognizance


Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you for this :) I've been doing more meditation and getting a lot of internal guidance and that's been helpful. It must be very interesting to have that experience and share it with others and see their reactions lol. What use to get to me was when I was a kid, and I'd warn my family of some occurrence and they'd look at me funny, then disregard what I said. I always wanted the credit when stuff actually happened but never got it. lol

 
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