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Nea
@nea
05/28/17 05:15:55PM
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Opinions on Medicine and Herbal Remedies


Empath

I agree that it is unfortunate that we sometimes have to resort to using medicines because we can't find another way. Sometime the support we get with the medical expertise is the most important part rather then the medication itself. It can be really scary to be sick or need special treatments and help. As some one that only last year stopped using ssri's after 3 years of using them, I think for me it was necessary to go through it, but I always knew it was temporary and that to get better I had to eventually get off them. For me, they were a crutch I needed, because I knew of no other way to get better.

Not to say that I don't love natural remedies and always look for them. I think being careful what we eat and how we live is the most important natural remedy! Even the doctors say that eating and sleeping well and taking care of your stress levels is a big part of getting better. Ofcourse all this varies depending on what kind of physical problem one might have - and knowledge aswell as intuition is important to listen to.

Nea
@nea
10/01/16 11:56:07AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

I good book about emotions is The Language of Emotions by Karla Mclaren.

Nea
@nea
10/01/16 08:10:39AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Goodenergyhealing:

@nea - could not have said it better myself ;)

Thank you Laugh


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Nea
@nea
10/01/16 08:00:59AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

@goodenergyhealing I'm not saying we shouldn't feel negative emotions - but that we should love ourselves even when we do. Even when we do feel fear, we can judge ourselves and breed more fear. It's okay to be afraid. It's okay to fail. I think one of darkness' weapons is to use our fear against us, and make us judge ourselves and not forgive ourselves, so we don't grow. People can end up in a never ending spiral of negativity. Sometimes loving yourself is about accepting that you do everything you can at the moment, and not let fear take away that love.

Nea
@nea
09/30/16 09:34:10PM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Lotusfly:

Question about the dark entities...Can they drain a person and increase their negative emotions? In addition to fatigue and a bad mood, can they create physical pain too? This is how I've been feeling lately.

Also, can they be seen in waking hours? If so, what do they look like or come across as? In addition to sparks of white light, I also see dark sparks in my peripheral vision and was wondering if the dark ones were spirits or dark entities?

Thanks!

All I know is that negativity breeds negativity. I wouldn't focus on what lurks in the darkness, but instead on growing and finding beauty in what you do have. There's so much that can drain us tbh. We have to be extra careful and practice love towards ourselves and everything around us. Love spreads faster than the speed of light. If you spread it around you, nothing else will be able to be close to you. Ofcourse nothing is about it is easy, I struggle on the best days to love myself unconditionally.

I don't know what the darkness can do, and tbh I couldn't care less. It can't do anything unless you feed it. True, sometimes you have to fight, but mostly when you fight, you're fighting yourself. I'm not saying warriors aren't necessary. I'm saying that you better be sure you have to. There were so many nights when I was sweating, terrified under the covers, and all of it was so unnecessary.

I still got a lot to learn, and I believe we sometimes 'hurt' to grow and learn about ourselves. Sometimes fighting is about staying on the path no matter what and trusting in yourself and your own instincts.

Nea
@nea
09/30/16 07:53:11AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

My shielding is very intuitive. When I try to be more 'technical' it doesn't feel right - maybe I have to find the right technique. I'm not even sure it's shielding I am doing tbh, but it does seem to work for at least a while. I usually have light imbue me from above my head and from earth at the same time, like beams, and then meeting in my core, it's hard to explain, but they sort of combine and fill out my immediate aura.

I used to have a lot of fear at night, but after I 'woke up' I am not anymore. At the beginning after waking up I visualized pure light enveloping every corner of my apartment, light with pure love. If anything was there, pure loves scares them off so fast it's ridiculous. It's what I've found, that the opposite of negativity is love.

I can't say I know what is out there, I just know it can't touch me for some reason. I can feel the power inside, and it's there if I need it. I remember feel this power even as a little girl, even though I didn't understand at the time.

One time I had a dream which I was attacked in that is similar to what you guys are describing, and I don't know if it was just a dream or something else. But in the dream I fought whatever it was off with a light ball. I found it funny actually, because I said 'kame hame ha' when I did it. haha :D

So yeah, I don't claim any knowledge at all, I just know that fear paves the way for darkness.

Nea
@nea
09/27/16 04:31:19PM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Cbxjohn:

It's very plain to me, if I dont't filter, I hurt. So it' easy to remember.

For me, I don't realize what is happening until later when I hurt and basically have anxiety attacks. It's like when you slam your toes into a door, and at first you don't feel anything, and then everything is pain. It's a defense mechanism that I have trouble getting past, this disassociation from reality. If I just could be more aware in the moment, maybe I could do something about it.

Nea
@nea
09/27/16 06:48:49AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

@cbxjohn

That's very interesting. Setting intention is something I've heard about but I'm never sure if I succeed or not. There are many techniques I could try, but I think I need a better awareness first, because I get 'numb' and distracted and forget to do techniques. I have a hard time doing basic stuff like taking a walk every day. Clearing chakras and cleaning cords certainly helps, and I assume I have to keep it up for a while until I get bigger results. But I get the same problem then as anything else I try to do, I get distracted and exhausted and it slips away.


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Nea
@nea
09/20/16 04:40:34AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

@cbxjohn How do you shield to filter? I'm interested in your shielding technique. I try to train to shield, but I'm not sure I do it right because I rarely feel any difference, and when I do it's only for a little while. I have a problem with being aware aswell, and since I dissociate as a survival mechanism, I don't always notice that I am not shielding anymore and become overloaded. It's not until I get exhausted and feeling like crap that I realize something is going on.

Nea
@nea
09/14/16 02:06:05PM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Thanks so much for your suggestions, I know what I need to do now, even though I'm not sure how yet.

Nea
@nea
09/14/16 01:23:06PM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

@karen2 yes I am definitely tired of being afraid, I'm even tired of being tired all the time, if that makes sense. ;)

Nea
@nea
09/14/16 01:13:44PM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

@karen2 I've heard about that in the past, but it didn't do much for me, possible because I didn't actually believe in my ability to do it. It's an issue of mine, my self trust with these things is pretty bad. Although maybe there's a way to do it that I missed. 


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Nea
@nea
09/14/16 12:48:47PM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Yes dissociation is what my therapist calls it, even though she can't understand the reason for it. It's funny how you go your entire life not understanding what is happening to you. I so relate to not being able to concentrate on things aswell. I've always thought I was lazy because I couldn't get things done, mostly because I couldn't concentrate on it because so many things were under my skin as it were. I've felt so completely lost, like there were something wrong with me.

Carrying stones help me, or it used to, but since I've gotten off my ssri's a while ago, it's like I take in even more than I used to. The first weeks off the meds I felt like I was going insane. It's gotten better, but I still need to be more aware, so I can realize what is happening to me in the moment - it's the hardest for me. I can't do anything about it if I am not aware, you know?


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Nea
@nea
09/14/16 10:57:06AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

I often feel disconnected and ungrounded, like I'm overloaded, which leaves me unaware in the moment so much that sometimes I can't function.  I feel like I am floating away, not having any control. I find your theory very interesting, but I honestly don't know where to begin to have control over what I'm 'doing'.

Nea
@nea
09/14/16 09:50:24AM
201 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Interesting theory. Would you suggest that maybe we get exhausted because when we try to do what is natural for us? Also do you get tired after a while? I can feel incredibly strong in certain situations, happy and sociable. But later I'll start to feel drained and exhausted afterwards. I wonder if you do aswell?

Nea
@nea
09/14/16 01:40:07AM
201 posts

Welcome New Web Site Early Birds!


Empath

Looks great so far, great job Elise :) I'll have a look around.

Nea
@nea
07/29/16 09:51:58AM
201 posts

Coming off ssri's


Empath

Yes, I first started to get really sick 3 years ago, I officially quit my job a year later - and now it's been a couple of weeks since I quit my meds. Basically I didn't feel like I was getting anywhere on them, not getting worse and not getting better, and I really need to get better. It's one of those things - you can't stay sick forever or you're just gonna get worse because of a ton of reasons. Not being independent and having a stable income etc. is one of the great sources of depression and anxiety for me. The withdrawal symptoms have all but dissipated at this point. I do think I'll probably feel vulnerable for a while longer, both because I no longer am numbed by the meds, but also because my brain have to adjust to not being on them.

Not knowing what I'm supposed to do with my life is really a big anxiety inducer for me. I'm also not sure what I will be able to do without getting sick again. I'm hyper sensitive and I feel this looming feeling of needing to do something meaningful. The thought of doing a repetitive job makes me sink into a hole of depression and anxiety, and especially thinking about being stuck where I am for the rest of my life.

I'm in therapy, but my therapist have a hard time to grasp and accept how different I am - she always want to explain away or dismiss parts of my experience with the world. I know why it's hard for her, but it's not easy always dealing with her skepticism every session - she doesn't even understand she is doing it, I think.

I definitely need to time to adjust, but I'm not sure how long I've got - I feel like I need to figure out what I'm supposed to do.

Nea
@nea
07/24/16 08:20:12PM
201 posts

Coming off ssri's


Empath

Thank you, I am indeed starting over in a way. I know patience is key, but I guess after several years of being patient, it's starting to frustrate me. Thank you so much for your input. :)

Nea
@nea
07/24/16 07:21:28PM
201 posts

Coming off ssri's


Empath

Hey everybody, I hope you're having a wonderful day!

I need a bit of advice right now - bear with me this is gonna take a bit of explanation. It was a several years ago that I found out I was an Empath (and found this place), and following that I made strides in grounding and feeling more like 'myself' for the first time in my life. Understanding some of what it going on inside me really helped me in many ways even though i still don't know or understand everything about myself.

About 3 years ago I started to realize that I wasn't feeling well, and in retrospect the hard things I had to go through in the years before I even knew about Empaths really had taken its toll on me, and I was slowly unraveling, or so it felt. I've always had problems with anxiety and depression - I just didn't know that's what it was. But that's a whole other story in itself. Anyway, I wasn't living a meaningful life, and the job I had was basically obliterating my will to live and draining me on every level. I had no energy at all, and I started to get really bad anxiety attacks and depression periods. I soldiered on far too long before getting help. It's funny how that works - you don't realize how bad it is until you literally can't move. But I did get help and I had to quit my job to even start healing at all. That place was way too wrong for me.

It's been about 3 years now, and it's been a slow road, but I finally took the decision to stop taking my medication - mostly because I felt they weren't making anything any better anymore, instead they were holding me back from healing more. It was quite scary but at the same time I've held off for quite some time, and I know it's the right decision.

Now for your advice - it's been about 2 weeks now, and the withdrawal symptoms are going away and I'm starting to feel better. The problem is, it seems these past years of numbing myself - which I know was necessary - has made me take steps back in my empathy skills and I'm suddenly flooded and overwhelmed by the surroundings. It's not as bad as it was before I knew I was an empath, it feels different, and I still have the basics down, but it feels like resolving all the things that needed resolved through my illness have made me more aware and also vulnerable aswell as stronger, if that makes sense.

I wonder if any of you guys have any insight in how I should handle it and how I should know what path to take - it definitely feels like I could get further than I have before. I've learned ALOT about myself these past years and I've come to accept and love myself on a new level. At the same time I'm so frustrated because it's like I suddenly have no clue what I'm supposed to do with my life. I'm sure that's nothing unique, even though we all are.

I hope I'm making sense

Nea


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Nea
@nea
04/25/16 11:50:01AM
201 posts

Hello, I hope everyone's day is smiling


Empath

Hello :) I hope everything is ok with you. :)

Nea
@nea
03/01/16 07:50:24PM
201 posts

Where are we all from?


Empath

Sweden :)

Nea
@nea
02/23/16 02:28:50AM
201 posts



You're welcome - I am confident things will get better. :) Ask if you have any questions, and I'll do what I can to help.

Nea

Nea
@nea
02/22/16 04:31:02PM
201 posts



I used to be incredibly frightened of being alone in the dark - what helped me was partly a decision to not be afraid anymore, and I started to trust my own instincts while using crystals/stones. IN the beginning for me it was VERY helpful to have stones at hand, because it helped focus my energetic 'strength' and intuition. I sleep with obsidian, amethyst and yellow jasper under my pillow. I'd recommend starting with one stone, obisidian for starters, and see how that effects you. Maybe another kind of stone works better for you, or maybe something else entirely. Now when I am afraid I usually 'sense' the room and visualize a protective energy field around me, fused with pure love, while simply trusting my own feelings. It's been a long time since I've been afraid like that. I hope that helps.

Remember that you are in control of your own home, and being afraid is the worst thing you can be. Fight fear with love, and know that you are not alone.

Love & Light

Nea

Nea
@nea
10/27/15 03:41:05PM
201 posts

Anybody have a morbid fascination with celebrities? Anybody find them horribly depressing?


Empath

Sometimes it's incredibly easy to pick up things from public figures, because we're exposed to them alot. But it's good to remember that what we pick up is definitely not the whole story. They are people like everybody else though, and it can be very hard on people to be in the public eye. I get a 'vulnerable' sense of many celebrities, but part of it is definitely that they put themselves out there and/or is put in situations they cannot really control.

Now, I have a much deeper connection with fictional characters than with actual people alot of the time - but that is another story. ;)

Nea
@nea
04/21/15 05:13:59AM
201 posts

Being a guy


Empath

I certainly welcome more male Empaths to be more active, because I think all perspectives are needed - for better understanding and for teaching and learning about ourselves. I think we all have a need to discuss and learn with both our own gender and the opposite. Especially since we feel emotions from everyone, no matter the gender. :)

Nea
@nea
04/13/15 12:47:43PM
201 posts

Why (some) empaths experience social anxiety?


Empath

The way I experience it, when we are ungrounded and unshielded in a group of people, we're like a leaf in the wind, it feels like having no control, like there are no ground beneath our feet. I have realized I get bombarded by other people's anxieties, emotions etc. It literally feels like there are no room for 'me' and that I am about to disappear. Just like you, I am a reasonably confident person when I am grounded - but when I am overwhelmed and/or feel like I have no control or don't know what am expected of me, when I don't know the rules, that's when I 'freeze', like I am trying to make myself invisible.

There's a way that we feel what others are feeling that might not even be about us - it's about them - but we feel it so intensely it's hard to remember they don't really mean anything. If we get a room full of that, it's hard not to be anxious. :P

Breathing and bubble-shielding works well for me. But it does take practice - sometimes I just am not aware, it's a bad habit I am trying to work through.

Nea
@nea
04/13/15 10:52:21AM
201 posts



Ah, I think I am starting to understand what you mean, somewhat at least. :)

If I understand you correctly, you are confused by the emotions that Jesus evoke within people. Well, friend, it's usually comes from something very personal, deep and profound that can't be explained unless you have actually felt it. Simply; it's a miracle.

The holy spirit shows you something about God that is so overwhelming and absolute that becomes a part of your very being and literally your soul.

You don't have to worry about them feeling 'more' for Jesus - the Father wants us to love Him and wants to give us all with Him.

See it as this: The father needed a way, a language to reach us, so he sent his only son. Meaning he presented himself in a way that builds a bridge between humanity and Himself. The holy spirit sort of translates for us and guides us, while being both Christ and The father. The same way, The father is both the son and the holy spirit.

We are talking about the Creator here, he can be everywhere at once, can perceive everything and be everything. He is pure love. I think you're selling God short in a way.

Just because we can't understand How doesn't mean it's not true. He's a being that perceives (at least) all 11 dimensions. Think big picture. Think pure unadulterated unconditional love. When one feels even a smidge of that, one tends to get caught up. ;)

Christ is a love letter from God, in form of himself. ;)

Nea

Nea
@nea
04/13/15 07:51:35AM
201 posts



I've been trying to understand what it is I am misunderstanding from your posts - since you didn't agree with what I said previously - and I am stumped. I feel like it is we are speaking different languages.

As for people ascending 'before' Jesus - as I said before, Christ exists outside of time, and what he did reached just as much back in time as it did forward in time. There are many mentions of Christ in the Old testament as there are in the New testament.

And Christ himself said that nobody can reach the Father if not through him. He is the way the truth and the life. He is the stumbling stone. You cannot say you know God and not know Christ.

I hope you can appreciate my frankness. It's all there in the Bible.

I can't quite grasp what your disconnect with Christ is, but it's clear there's something you have against him. Ofcourse it's your right to believe whatever you want, but I'm sorry to say, you are probably in the wrong place for validation of those beliefs. I haven't met a christian yet that could say they were anything without Christ. May God bless you and your home. Amen.

Avic amare a santum

Nea

Nea
@nea
04/13/15 06:40:12AM
201 posts

Re-grounding When You Can't Remove the Issue


Empath

Something that helped me before I learned to shield more etc. was to carry a small stone with me. Obsidian is good. I personally use amethyst too, aswell as obsidian. (I have both of them under the pillow when I sleep because I used to be so afraid when trying to sleep - it has really helped.) Tourmaline can help too.

I don't know if you are used to stones, but it might be a good crutch before you figure things out - it's very personal though, so you have to feel what is right for you.

I can feel your pain because every time I go home to my parents, I always have to be extra careful grounding and shielding - I usually have my little arsenal of stones with me. But also if you manage to ground yourself and remove any negativity you yourself are feeling about the situation, and fill your heart with compassion for yourself and for her, then it will get immensely easier. Love conquers all, as they say. I know it's no easy to get there though.

May your light fly on holy wings

Nea

Nea
@nea
04/02/15 03:48:41PM
201 posts



I understand what you are saying, but Jesus is truly God. Jesus is the 'language' that God uses to connect us to him, where we couldn't before. You owe your connection to the Father to Jesus. But they are truly the same being. Talking to Christ, you communicate with the part of God that can show us he truly can relate to us, because he has been there.

But it doesn't matter if you 'call' him God or Jesus. It's the same. You keep praying and talking to him, and it's all fine. I think maybe he is challenging you to go a step further, and it might feel different - but ask God to show you who Christ is - I honestly believe you will get an awesome answer. :)

God Bless

Nea

Nea
@nea
04/02/15 03:06:46PM
201 posts



Well, those two things are intimately tied together. Maybe the easiest way is to imagine yourself tied off from God, not believing you are worthy of his love, and then being freed, through Christ, to connect to God - completely and without shame. It's hard to describe the process, because to truly appreciate the connection we get through Christ, we have to miss God on a deeper level - we must need him and understand why we need him. It's why it's easier for people that has gone through alot of hardship to follow christ than it is for someone that has gotten everything in life to do it. It's something that cries out inside, reaching out for God, and God answering. Through the holy spirit we also have access to everything God is, which we get when we accept Christ in our hearts. And that unconditional love is the most powerful thing a human can feel. :)

I hope you find the answers you are looking for

Nea

Nea
@nea
04/02/15 02:29:54PM
201 posts



Jesus is like a light that shows you the way, a man like us, but also God, that shows us the way to God, and he shows God to us.

See it as what Christ did affected not only the future but the past aswell - it went beyond time itself. Christ existed long before he walked the earth.

If you really wish to understand why what he did was necessary, ask God for an answer and he will give it to you. :)

Avic amare a santum

Nera

Nea
@nea
01/30/15 09:31:29AM
201 posts

Empath versus HSP


Empath

Thank you! It's something I've been thinking alot of myself, so I thought it would be interesting to others aswell. I'm glad. :)

Nea
@nea
01/30/15 08:29:10AM
201 posts

Empath versus HSP


Empath

It's interesting, because I grew up in a Christian home, but also in a very scientific-loving society, and while my Christian upbringing also actually made me more open to the energetic world - the scientific part of me also doubt my abilities at least equally as the spiritual one. For me both world views plays a part, both in accepting and in doubting. It's definitely complicated.

Nea
@nea
01/30/15 07:04:28AM
201 posts

Empath versus HSP


Empath

I dunno, I think HSP as a concept is easier to understand and accept coming from what we've been taught growing up. I think many Empaths tend to have problem accepting that what they are sensing in others is not just 'in their heads', as they were taught growing up. As changes in world view goes, the empath concept is not as accepted as a scientific truth - while HSP is an accepted psychological term. Psychology is already on the 'murky' side of science, and Empathy certainly has ways to go before being accepted, despite the discovery of mirror neurons etc.

I do believe there are Empaths that aren't HSP, but they are as rare as Empaths themselves are among the HSP.

I have known for sometime now that I definitely am HSP, but not all of what I go through can be explained by that alone, so the article I posted is definitely one of the things that will help me understand myself more.

(although I inherently become suspicious of sites that charge for knowledge in these areas, it doesn't mean they aren't genuine in this instance)

Nea
@nea
01/29/15 06:25:37PM
201 posts

Empath versus HSP


Empath

I thought this might be interesting for people that like me sometimes have a hard time accepting the Empath term. This article delves into the differences between HSP and Empaths.

http://thehappysensitive.com/being-empathic-versus-being-empath-crucial-differences/

Personally I believe I am both HSP and Empath - what do you guys identify with and what differences do you feel there is between the two?

I recently have looked more into the HSP label, and found that for me, it's been an area my knowledge have been lacking in.

Here's another article about the subject: http://www.rose-rosetree.com/blog/2011/08/21/empaths-hsp-psychopath-inspired-quiz-highly-sensitive-person/


updated by @nea: 10/20/17 06:09:12PM
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@nea
11/07/14 01:48:24AM
201 posts

ON BEING AN EMPATH


Library of Light

Despite being on this site for quite a while now, this is the first time I read this list, and it's spot on for me. Oh wow.
Nea
@nea
03/05/14 05:58:28AM
201 posts



I think part of the problem is that it can be hard to get confirmation of what you're feeling is correct. I get alot of information about people, but it's not like I can read minds, so even if I feel like I understand people, I very rarely tell them what I feel. So much of the time they might not even know what they are truly feeling. Emotions and the state of any human being is complicated and it takes alot of practice and skill to actually know where what we as empaths are picking up on actually fit in.One might pick up on surface emotions or something deeper or a quirk in someone's perception on something specific. To actually see more in a context one has to do an actual reading, and most empaths don't do those.

Personally I think it would actually help me alot to do them, but I am terrified of the idea for many reasons, and I really don't have anyone I am that comfortable with trying it on.

I've had strong Empathic pickups where I know I got something from another person, but even then I at some point later struggle to come to terms with it being 'because I'm an Empath'.

Also, because we automatically shield alot, meaning we dont' really have control over it, we dont' always pick up on things, especially since we are so immersed and overwhelmed by so much inside and out, it's impossible to be even close to objective.

I sometimes ask my sister which I am really close to what she feels, and I think that comparing what we feel to what another feels is a way to understand the difference.

Nea
@nea
12/09/13 06:50:00PM
201 posts



I can relate to a lot of what you are saying, and yes, knowing you're an empath will definitely help. ;)

Nea
@nea
11/22/13 02:41:14PM
201 posts



For me it's easy to change the direction. I just concentrate for it to change, and it does. :) I think it's just a matter of practice for most people. You can switch right away if you just look at her in the corner of your eyes and see her as a pendulum swinging back and forth, then just decide which direction you want her to go. :)

Also, the article in the link does say that it's not an actual test for right or left brain dominance, it's just an optical illusion, although an amusing one.

Nea
@nea
09/23/13 11:17:17AM
201 posts

Using supernatural powers in dreams


Empath

I too has always been drawn to stories etc. about people that are different with 'special skills' that are driven by something larger than themselves. It's like it's in my dna.

Nea
@nea
09/23/13 06:49:18AM
201 posts

Using supernatural powers in dreams


Empath

I just wanted to add that this night I had a dream where I used remote viewing - and I remember it clear as day - the feeling when I pushed myself out to another location and then popped back. It was an amazing feeling.

Nea
@nea
09/23/13 06:44:14AM
201 posts



It might help to remember that people feel alot of conflicting emotions and especially with a close relationship like sisters, there are usually alot going on on both side of the spectrum, emotion wise. She might be protecting herself with the hate to not feel inferior or unloved. Since you can tap into her world like that, you have an opportunity change it.

As Empaths it is incredibly cruel to see that otherwise invisible world that is closed to other people. And the thing is we don't even have to be satisfied with the emotions that show the most, we can dig deeper and understand people on the most fundamental and complicated levels. The reason we don't do it often, is because it hurts like hell.

When I feel thing from the people closest to me, I always try to remember that their emotions are theirs and they have a right to have them, and it's not about me. Sure, I have to face my own fears and hurts, but the fact that I can feel theirs aswell can be an incredible blessing and opportunity.

I believe in setting boundaries and not being afraid of communicating what you feel about what someone did to you in a compassionate way that doesn't judge. For me it always helps to realize I can't control them, no matter how frustrating it is, and realize that both my own and their emotions are there for a reason.

In the end, all you can do is love her and be a strong, compassionate human being.

Much Love

Nea


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@nea
09/11/13 10:25:33AM
201 posts

Using supernatural powers in dreams


Empath

I've had some really cool dreams, but I don't remember much of my dreams, even though I'd love to dream lucidly. I do remember healing people in my dreams though.

Nea
@nea
08/25/13 05:30:08PM
201 posts

Being treated like a celebrity at times


Empath

Haha, it's funny because I kinda get the opposite reaction from people - sure they notice me, but they seem to be intimidated more than anything else. I think it's because I block most people out - the people I do open up to I get a reaction similar to what you get, but it's very few people. I'd love to be able to control it, because I love being a help to people - wouldn't it be great if we could swap some of our energy? LOL! :D I do relate to not understanding what they feel about me - it's like there's an elephant in the room that is invisible to only me.

Nea
@nea
08/05/13 07:41:51AM
201 posts

The heightened senses of an empath


Empath

Yeah, some noises really get to me - it's like I can't think. ;)

Nea
@nea
08/04/13 07:00:34AM
201 posts

The heightened senses of an empath


Empath

The other day, I was walking in a shop and they played music, and this song just starting screeching, like a high pitched noise of pain, in my ears, and I just wanted it to stop...I almost wanted to RUN out of the shop, because it was almost unbearable. It was weird.

Nea
@nea
08/04/13 06:57:15AM
201 posts



From what I have gathered, alot of people here feel the same way - even though we feel other people's emotions, we can't really step into another person shoes, so we still have to make a judgement about who we are from being aware of ourselves. Don't worry so much about labels, just learn about who YOU are, because who YOU are is fantastic, and you matter labels or no labels. I can relate to the frustration of wanting to KNOW and get answers, but the truth is, nobody can tell you who you are, only you can find that out. But we can help each other on the journey and inspire courage and love. :) I've felt the same as you, so THANK YOU for sharing and helping me feel at home. :D

Nea


updated by @nea: 01/12/17 07:11:57AM
Nea
@nea
06/04/13 02:01:54PM
201 posts

ON BEING AN EMPATH


Library of Light

I especially liked the part about work because I am at a place right now where I really feel a strong need to find something that doesn't make me bored out of my skull. So many great descriptions here. :)

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