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Phyllis
@phyllis
01/07/16 11:19:40AM
37 posts



I'm in Kawartha Lakes, Ontario
Phyllis
@phyllis
11/11/15 06:48:59AM
37 posts

Is this my past life


New Age

Hi Rose I would love to help if I can. When you had this dream were you watching or participating? Did you feel like you were standing there and getting shot or doing the shooting or standing beside the woman? Or were you watching from a short distance?What I am getting at, is were you one of the people in the dream? If you were and felt their emotions etc. You could be having a glimpse of a past life. It could also be a way of helping you get through something that is weighing on you now. Your subconscious may be giving you information to work through. I'd be interested to hear what you think?
Phyllis
@phyllis
01/29/15 06:18:23AM
37 posts

Lets try something different: Emphatic Experiment #1


Psychic and Paranormal

As I sit here in my comfy chair, I am visualizing the scene. I see flakes falling in front of evergreen trees landing on a bed of clean white snow. I see my breath as I venture outside then feel the cold on my face as it travels down to my shoulders.

I feel exhilaration and then visualize people shovelling the driveways and walkways feeling cold and tired, but yet still exhilarated.

I can feel the stress as people are driving and the concern of sliding into the person in front of them. I feel the ground vibrating with the snow plows in front of me, clearing the snow from the highway. I feel the frustration of some drivers as it is taking much longer to get to their destination, because they are "stuck" behind the plows. I feel the relief of others behind the plows feeling much safer on the road because it is cleared in front of them.

I feel the excitement of young children as they pick up the snow and throw it and lie down making snow angels. I feel the happiness of kids tobogganing down the hill and catching the snow on their tongues as it falls from the sky. There are so many emotions and energies flying around but I do feel that even though there is concern, most of the feelings and emotions are positive.

I don't know if that is what you are looking for, but that is what comes to my mind right away.

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/21/15 07:25:26AM
37 posts

Death Force?


Psychic and Paranormal

I think for the most part we are all very fortunate to have found like-minded people here in this group. Even among my friends and family I have been told a number of times that I have the option to put mom in a nursing home. I just can't do that.

It's funny some of my friends have parents getting to this stage and they say they are lining up for me to care for them. Of course that won't happen, but I will be taking care of my MIL when the time comes. I see this all as a choice but one that is a natural progression. I am able to do it and I see it as an honour. Mom cared for me, so why wouldn't I in turn care for her?

So few of the people I know would do it, but they all respect my choice even though they don't really get it. I think many of us are "old souls" with things to learn, but not as much to learn as some of the "younger souls". We are teaching others by our choices as well.

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/20/15 06:25:54AM
37 posts

Death Force?


Psychic and Paranormal

I make sure my mom has plants in her room, but she can not care for them. I know they give her a brighter feeling in the room, but I don't see them decaying at all. Mind you, she is hanging in there, healthy in heart but not in mind.

I do find it very stressful at times and it helps to know that others understand. I don't want anyone to have to go through this but if we do, I think it's part of our life lessons, or perhaps what we have to do this help the person we are caring for, in their quest. I often think about this.

I do wonder how much "spiritual energy" and activity is caused by the situation though. There is nothing that I feel is negative, but there is definitely activity in our home.

I'm also glad this topic has opened up for the support of our group members that would otherwise have no where to share.

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/19/15 07:08:48AM
37 posts

Death Force?


Psychic and Paranormal

I too am taking care of my mother. She is now bedridden with dementia. It is a tough struggle. I love that I am able to care for her and give her the best care she can get. It feels like I'm on my "path". I find that being home most of the time and unable to get out is the most difficult.

I don't see plants having trouble around me, but I am taking care of them. They are actually something I really enjoy. I wonder if I am getting energy just from the simple task of caring for them and seeing them grow.

I also have a son who requires 24 hours supervision, but I don't find him draining at all. He seems to be the one that takes away my stress, just by looking at him or kissing him. It is quite amazing.

Both my children are spiritual in their own way and I find the energy in our home to be very good. It wasn't always that way, but we have worked together to clean it up.

I think the reason some people develop the diseases for which they were caring has to do with the mental state. The power of the mind is probably the strongest factor. When one is caring day in and day out for a particular illness, they are getting tired and worn down, but also thinking about the illness all the time.

I can't help but wonder if just breaking away for short periods and clearing the mind and re-energizing may be all it would take to keep the illness at bay? I try to meditate every night before going to bed, when I have some peace and quiet. I have been able to keep up a positive attitude and be relatively happy in general.

I find the hardest part is when friends don't understand that you can't make the party or get-together. They understand but are noticeably disappointed. I find that (as an empath) more difficult to protect against than the situation at hand.

I had a near death experience as a teenager and the thought of dying is not decay at all, in my experience it is a transition to an envelope of love and compassion. Leaving our body is not draining at all. It is just like a dream filled with wonder. The hard part is being alive and keeping our body strong and healthy.

Best wishes

Phyllis
@phyllis
11/17/14 08:59:35AM
37 posts



I have never taken anyone's pain away, but on occasion I have had ailments that made no sense to me. Usually I will find out a close friend or family member is suffering with the same issue and then it will go away on it's own.

A few have been a bit scary and it's difficult to figure out if I am infact having the issue or picking it up from someone else. It hasn't happened in a while though.

I'd be very interested to hear of anyone else ever experiencing this type of manifestation or connection.


updated by @phyllis: 04/05/17 05:30:18PM
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@phyllis
04/14/14 03:11:46PM
37 posts



I have never been very good at this, but I get the feeling of sports. Something like horse racing? I don't know why? I feel like he is a fun loving fellow. He looks serious in this pic but I feel like he is about to start laughing?

I get mixed messages with this picture. I am also getting the feeling of losing money? I don't know if it is on a bet or not? Hmm? I'll be interested to find out the answer.

Phyllis
@phyllis
10/23/13 05:02:11AM
37 posts



I have the feeling this is in fact a man. I don't know why but I get the feeling he is an historical figure. Perhaps a leader in war times? A Colonel? A leader of some sort? Initially the picture creeped me out, but then I took a second look. I feel torn like the pic was photoshopped or he has a heavy personality conflict. This person has a heavy burden to carry.
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@phyllis
02/23/13 04:19:54PM
37 posts



You do have abilities, we all do. You just don't trust yourself yet. It may be you we're picking up on their electrical field and it wasn't purposeful touch. Sounds like he just wants to connect but not scare you. It's funny you mention the fear part. The first time I felt it around me I was so scared I cleared out the condo of any entities and the place was dead or empty or stale feeling. It gradually improved with the help of my son who explained not to be scared but to work with it. It helps that I've had some important dreamsabout love and understanding. I'm now able to acknowledge them and learn slowly how to deal with my perceptions.
Phyllis
@phyllis
02/23/13 02:00:40PM
37 posts



Why not visualize a white bubble around your bed to keep them from touching you. You have the ability to do this. We all do. Then you can just listen to them when you feel comfortable. Ask them to speak clearly and one at a time. It may be you opening up to your guides. You will know when you get the messages. If they are positive and love filled the are from higher 'good' vibrations. If you don't like the message or it makes you feel uneasy ignore it and block it. There is nothing to fear it is just the unknown that makes us nervous. Blessings Phyl
updated by @phyllis: 01/21/17 11:51:23PM
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@phyllis
08/05/12 01:34:18PM
37 posts

Homeopathy??? safe or dangerous???


Tools for Empaths

Hi Yin, I think there is good and bad in everything we do. I believe it depends how it is used. I don't necessary think it is good advice to discontinue traditional medicine because of a Homeopath's suggestion. I believe that is irresponsible medicine.

It is widely believed that our bodies have the ability to heal themselves depending on the treatment and the intention of the person who is sick. If given the chance to heal itself, the body can do some remarkable things.

I personally would not forgo traditional medicine for homeopathy unless there were no other options. I think the two can work together as long as the homeopath and the doctor know exactly what is being given. Medications are based on natural ingredients and if you get too much of one thing it can be dangerous. An example is bark for an aspirin substitute. If you take both, you have the danger of thinning blood and bleeding.

I don't think anyone can really say which is better, and if homeopathy is good or bad. It all depends on the ailment, the treatment and the doctors or homeopaths involved. One also has to consider allergies when taking anything internally. Another consideration is the dosage. Just because it is natural doesn't mean too much won't hurt you.

If you want to know what works on you, and you want to go a more natural route, may I suggest you find someone that really knows how to muscle test you and determine your best medicine, dosages, food etc... based on that.

Just my humble opinion, but I do suggest talking with your doctor and homeopath to decide what works best for you.

Blessings, Phyllis

Phyllis
@phyllis
05/17/12 05:27:31AM
37 posts

Empath and passed spirits vs. past lives


New Age

Hi Renee, Well...You are not weird at all, unique perhaps, but definitely not weird. Think of it this way...Life and energy is a highway that goes back and forth and connects everyone and everywhere. If you are lucky enough to have the sensitivity to tap into that highway, just like a driver who can drive here and there and back and forth, you can travel (for lack of a better word) to those times and places. I believe there are no coincidences and very little is impossible. There is a reason you have this wonderful gift and there is a reason you experienced what you did, when you did, as part of your life's purpose. I can't tell you what your purpose is, or why but I can say that you have to trust in yourself. The mere fact that you had this information so easily, and it was verified as accurate, should give you confidence in your gift. Please believe in yourself and enjoy these wonderful experiences. You are truly blessed.

All the best, Phyllis

Phyllis
@phyllis
03/08/12 05:13:03AM
37 posts

Attachments


Psychic and Paranormal

Why not just sit quietly with your eyes closed and ask him who he is and see what you get? I don't believe it is demonic at all. What you are describing sounds like either a haunting or your spirit guide. When you sit quietly feel his presence and go by your gut instincts. It is possible that you are just now starting to become more aware of him. I know there are more and more people that are just starting to become aware of their link to the spirit world and this happens in many ways. If he is bothering you just stand firmly and tell him (don't ask him) tell him to go. If you don't mind him around then set the ground rules. From what you are saying you don't seem to mind him, except for

your fear based on what others have said. It is very important in these areas for you to trust yourself, not just others. Some others may be legitimate, but there are so many that are not. You have to trust yourself first. If you feel uncomfortable then I would ask your G-d to surround you from head to toe with the white light of his/her spirit. Visualize the light coming in the top of your head and going down all your body to the floor (lighting up your body) and then coming out so that you glow. Once this is done visualize it as a bubble that will protect you. You can also call on Archangel Michael to protect you. (if that is what you believe).

You also mentioned the Ghost Hunting group. I would stay away from that group you have had nothing but problems with them. I don't trust their information or intent.

Blessings, Phyllis

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/24/12 04:58:56AM
37 posts

Is my experiment with auto writing(typing) real?


Psychic and Paranormal

I agree wholeheartedly. If we are given information that we can share, it would be just wonderful to hear other's messages. Often the messages are meant for us on our path, but perhaps they could help others too? As you said, I would ask before sharing though.

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/23/12 04:27:48PM
37 posts

Is my experiment with auto writing(typing) real?


Psychic and Paranormal

There you go! What more can one ask for?

Blessings, Phyl

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/23/12 04:11:38PM
37 posts

Is my experiment with auto writing(typing) real?


Psychic and Paranormal

You go ahead and type any way that works for you. I don't think it is important how you type, just that you do it and get results.

I have a tendency to look at the keyboard occasionally and also the paper if I am writing. It keeps things straight and clearer. Otherwise I can tend to go on a messy angle and have trouble reading what I write.

There are a lot of things in this life that would be easier if we could do them perfectly or flawlessly, but with practice we all improve. Whatever works for you is the way to go.

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/23/12 08:36:04AM
37 posts

Is my experiment with auto writing(typing) real?


Psychic and Paranormal

As I understand it, different guides and supports come and go as needed, and as we call for them.

I never expect all or any of my guides to be beside me every minute, but they seem to be here when I need them. I wouldn't worry about the number of guides that are with you, I would just thank those that are when you need them. I definitely think you are on the right track and you can feel confident that your skills in auto writing (typing) are improving all the time.

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@phyllis
01/23/12 08:09:29AM
37 posts

Is my experiment with auto writing(typing) real?


Psychic and Paranormal

You should always trust your instincts and stick with it. When I don't think about it, things come through clearer. If I start to think about it, it gets messed up. Just relax and go with it and trust that you are doing the right thing. You will eventually "know" that it is real and that you are doing it correctly. It is a very good feeling when you know you have connected. You will know when what you are reading is different than what you would normally write.

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/05/12 02:17:28PM
37 posts

So frustrated!


Psychic and Paranormal

When I have trouble relaxing I will use a guided meditation cd. I find Brian Weiss' to have the best voice for me, I have also used tones in the background. I have had some luck with Silvia Browne's cd also.

I tend to meditate and try to get to past life regressions. This helps me also to connect with guides.

Perhaps someone else in the community can shed some light on their successes?

Phyllis

Phyllis
@phyllis
01/05/12 01:51:20PM
37 posts

So frustrated!


Psychic and Paranormal

Don't worry, no one has left you. The holiday time is busy and stressful for everyone in different ways. Now is the time to regroup and relax. It will all come back to you when you least expect it and when you aren't trying.

I find the more I try the more frustrated I get. I don't get the things I expect. When I have no expectations and just meditate and relax, I have much more success.

Happy New Year to you and be well. Blessings, Phyllis

Phyllis
@phyllis
12/12/11 01:03:58PM
37 posts



I had a lot of trouble meditating at first, but with practice it gets easier. I have a few guided meditation cds and what I do (when it's not working well) is listen to the cd and try meditating but then when it is over I start it again right away and listen again. The second time I'm very relaxed from the first time and then it works for me. The only problem is that you need about an hour to do it twice. I don't have to do this all the time now, but I find it is especially helpful when I have a "busy mind". I should add that this works very well with my past life guided meditations. blessings, Phyllis

Phyllis
@phyllis
12/06/11 05:15:37AM
37 posts



Wow! How well you describe the busy mind. I really find that breathing helps me with all of this. I can't agree more with the saying "If you have no control over it, let it go" which is very similar to Is it something you can fix? No? Then forget it. Move on. This has helped me so much, since I adopted this phrase.

I can really connect with the feelings of frustration and panic associated with a parent who had developed alzheimers. I am currently in the same boat and I get soooooo sidetracked that it is difficult to remain in tune with my spiritual path. I find that this is the time I need it the most though.

You have really nailed this perfectly! It is really an amazing description of a busy mind that needs to rest, or live "in the moment". Love and light, Phyllis


updated by @phyllis: 01/09/17 06:24:36PM
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@phyllis
12/06/11 04:56:25AM
37 posts

Tarot Cards


Psychic and Paranormal

At the risk of sounding a bit crazy. You could tell him your intentions and then gauge how you feel afterward. He may wish you to use them with his blessings. The extra energy may be a good thing?

Just a thought? If you still feel burning them is the right thing to do, then I would do that for sure. No matter what you ultimately choose, it has to feel right to you.

Love and light, Phyl

Phyllis
@phyllis
12/04/11 04:54:49PM
37 posts

Tarot Cards


Psychic and Paranormal

I would clear them before using them yourself. Tarot cards belong to the user and the user only. Just run them through the smoke of white sage, while handling each of them and ask your husband to support you with their use.

Phyllis
@phyllis
12/02/11 04:15:01PM
37 posts



I really think this energy is trying to annoy you and knock you off balance. I think if you stand strong and flood yourself and your surroundings with energetic light, you will banish it. You can ask the angels to come and take it to the light. If you are feeling particularly overwhelmed or you want help with it, you can ask Archangel Michael to come and clear yourself and your space of any lower level energies and thank him for his protection.

This actually seems to me to be more of an annoying spirit that can be banned from your space, not so much attached to you. They can tend to come and go, if they find a way in, or if they find someone that is intuitive that can amuse them.

Keep us posted.


updated by @phyllis: 12/14/16 08:27:17AM
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@phyllis
11/29/11 01:58:27PM
37 posts



I can't answer your question directly about why you can't see an image, but I can share my experience. There are a number of ways that we pick up on spirits, guides etc... some of us are clairaudient (clear hearing) as in hearing spirit, others are clairvoyant (clear seeing) as in seeing spirit, others yet are clairsentient (clear feeling) as in feeling emotions, pain etc... some of us have one or more of these abilities. If you are hearing music (clairaudience) and getting numbers either by seeing them or feeling them then that is your ability. You may not be able to see spirit in a visual way. I know I have not been able to see spirit, just feel presence and occasionally I can hear a message.

If you ask for specific messages, and relax during your meditation, without any preconceived notions, then you should be able to get the messages the way you were meant to. What I find works is to write down how I feel when I get the message. Even if I don't understand what is being conveyed, if I write how it makes me feel, I can often find a pattern. I hope this helps a bit.


updated by @phyllis: 01/12/17 09:54:16AM
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@phyllis
11/06/11 09:54:22AM
37 posts

My first actual experience with a Past Life, done while meditating.


New Age

Thank you Amaya, This is very helpful information. I always wondered about grounding. I thought I was doing it correctly but it looks like I need more practice in this area. All of this is so new to me. I am finally able to put into perspective whats has been going on with me all my life. I can now understand and accept it and actually enjoy it. My son keeps telling me that I have to protect myself. My energy is strong, but unless I actually take the time to build a 'bubble' I really am not grounded. I will work on it and let you know how it goes.

Thank you so much for your support!

Phyllis
@phyllis
11/05/11 08:28:27AM
37 posts

My first actual experience with a Past Life, done while meditating.


New Age

What I did was clear my chakras, then went to a comfy place. For me it was on a hill under a tree overlooking a stream (all imaginative visualization). Then I asked my guide to join me. It took a while. I asked to go to a previous life that would help with healing. I relaxed some more and visualized a door and stepped through it. I just saw what I saw then. As it all appeared, Itried to look around and see more detail, but I didn't want to start thinking with my head, so I just got the feel of it all. When it faded away, I thanked my guide and woke up, very weak and dizzyish. I had a nap.
Phyllis
@phyllis
11/04/11 02:43:40PM
37 posts

Trust


Psychic and Paranormal

I know it's hard. I question everything too. It has taken me so much time finally to be able to meditate. I finally had a breakthrough today. It is slow but steady. Keep with it and keep posting for support. We all need it.
Phyllis
@phyllis
11/04/11 02:17:16PM
37 posts

Trust


Psychic and Paranormal

I have a million questions too, but I now realize that the information is only going to come to me one at a time and when the time is ready. Sometimes we don't get the answer because we are not ready for it, or the answer doesn't matter, only the outcome or realization. The fact that you heard Trust is huge. I recommend you trust that it will come to you and thank your guides, angels and higher self for allowing you to share this information. Keep in mind that time is not an issue. We have an endless amount of time to work through our lessons etc..

The best you can do is try to relax and don't overthink any of this. Just "Trust"

Phyllis
@phyllis
11/04/11 12:14:01PM
37 posts

My first actual experience with a Past Life, done while meditating.


New Age

I have had several dreams throughout my current life time and a few I believe to be memories of past lives. This is the first experience I've had while doing a meditation focused on retrieving a past life.

I followed some of Amaya's suggestions and started by clearing my chakras and then asked for my spirit guide to join me. It took a bit of time and concentration and letting go to focus and not get bogged with other things.

I actually believe I saw my spirit guide, it was neat. Then I showed up around a large wooden table. It looked like pioneer days. I was feeding a boy at the front left side end of the table, I was standing, the boy was about 4 or 5 and his name was Connor. I cared for him, but don't know my connection? (sister, mom, cousin etc). There were about 5 or six children around the table all of various ages, but I couldn't make them out. I don't know who the Mother or Father were, or if I were the mother? I just know that I wanted to take care of this sweet boy. Looking around the girls and possibly me? had on white bonnets and longish dresses. Much like what I would think of as pioneer days. I couldn't hear any accent? It was a meal time. That's all I got from this one. I was surprised by the detail of the young boy and his name "Connor" I don't know anyone now by that name. He seemed familiar, but I can't place him now? I plan on continuing with my quest to get more information, but I really wanted to share this, it is a huge breakthrough for me.


updated by @phyllis: 07/02/17 12:33:56PM
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@phyllis
10/18/11 12:56:18PM
37 posts

New here. A hello to all!


Psychic and Paranormal

Hello, and welcome. I have been here myself for a short time, but I love the information and the support from the group's members. I too have a son who is helping me on my journey. It is amazing what our children can offer as far as insight and support. My son is now 22 and he is working on his abilities as well. I am trying to help him with grounding and calming so that he can get back to meditating. He is helping me with energy work and concentration.

I hope you have a wonderful experience here. I know there are a lot of people who can help. I look forward to your input.

Phyllis
@phyllis
09/11/11 08:38:33AM
37 posts



You may have something there. I have had unusual occurrences when there was tension etc... in the house. So many of these things can't be seen by the naked eye. You may have just been lucky enough to pick up on some negative energy drawn there.

I can't say one way or another, perhaps someone else in the forum may have some insights.

I'm glad you shared your experience with us. I wish I could have been helpful.


updated by @phyllis: 12/14/16 03:55:25PM
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@phyllis
09/09/11 04:39:24AM
37 posts



Wow, I wish I had an explanation. I have had that happen to me on a few (very rare) occasions and I was unable to explain it either. I tried to clean the lens and it made no difference either. Hmmmm?

I just like to be sure. Another of the many unexplained occurrences? There is so much we have yet to learn.

Phyllis
@phyllis
09/08/11 09:52:02AM
37 posts



Before you jump to any conclusions or get scared, wipe the lens and take a few pics against the dark sky again with the same camera. It may be a fog or condensation or such on the lens of the camera when going from inside to outside.

I do notice that the shapes of the clouds are similar in both pictures. If you look closely where the most dense part of the cloud is and the least dense you will notice similarities. There is also a mark on the second picture in the far left part of the cloud that looks like possibly part of a fingerprint?

I don't doubt these things, but I like to debunk what I can before jumping to any conclusions. Let us know what happens when you clean the lens and take more pics. It is fascinating, isn't it?


updated by @phyllis: 01/20/17 12:20:33PM
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@phyllis
02/10/11 12:16:51PM
37 posts



Thank you Lauren, This is an excellent exercise. I use it often, though lately not nearly enough. I will be using it to clear out all of my latest "clutter" and negative energy and exhaustion. Thanks for making this available to us. Best wishes, Phyl
updated by @phyllis: 01/21/17 05:54:09AM