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07/01/14 09:25:50PM
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I too love to just lay in the back of the elky in the back 40 and watch the moon n stars or out on the lake on the boat. I too hear op thoughts random like you say now I know what it is it makes me chuckle some times welcome
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07/01/14 01:36:20PM
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is it easier to give sound advice then use it your self


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Thanks I'm working on it inland
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07/01/14 01:32:54PM
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is it easier to give sound advice then use it your self


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Brought a tear to both eyes thank you. LL back to you!
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06/30/14 02:25:56PM
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is it easier to give sound advice then use it your self


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I find that people come to me with problems and its easy to look in and give sound advice but very hard to have my own issues and use my own on my self any one else have this?
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06/25/14 10:04:57PM
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Happiness


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Thank you for sharing it lightened my mood I've had a rough few days and I need some grounding and I felt like you were driving my el comino and I was laying in the back so not to bother you :-{)}
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06/17/14 07:03:02PM
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Serendipity


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Lol you got my drift. But it is strange that things have been reveild to me that allows other things to happen. I could go on for hours on how that word has poped into my vocabulary and events to fallow have come together
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06/17/14 12:23:25AM
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Serendipity


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This word keeps popping up in my life over the last year. And has been happening to me also. I think like lightworker its the universe just working. But my question is how many blre cars did you see yesterday? Who knows but now I've asked how many will you see tomarow now your on the "look out". Like I said that word has popes iny life more in the last 365 than my previous 30 years
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06/14/14 10:00:12PM
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Check out the empath survival guide on the main page hear. We all know what you are going through. It will take time and practice and at times I still don't know why I'm angry sad or overly happy when I just wake up with a big smile I just go with it and never have questioned it but with time you will be able to deal. I think it will always linger but you'll develop the tools you need that work for you and it gets better. Glad you found the site. And welcome
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06/12/14 08:16:43AM
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What I ment was my nature is to be happy and to make others smile around me so to walk up to a group I try to set the mood with a smile.
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06/11/14 10:35:28PM
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I have always done the same. Some how we as empaths seem to have a calming vibe that people feel at ease dumping on us. All the time people say to me I feel like I can tell you any thing. And they do and what I do is just listen and give them the most logical answer that comes to me. Now at times I either don't get the full story or not a full truth story and with that its hard to give the most logical answer but most times just being that person to hear some one vent can be huge to them. I am a jokester so if no one is hurting I like to lighten up all moods with Limericks. That is my contributions to society.
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06/09/14 11:15:57PM
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Hey kid feelen ya on so many levels. I'm new at this revaluation my self only a year in. Welcome this place is like church in the way of every one is nice to you. We all have been where you are. Inlanddan is spot on. Now you can see why you are the way you are then practice the tools set forth in the empath survival guide find what works for you and then you can manage. As I said I'm new but the help and guidance I've received coupled with others stories and a place to vent that other don't judge helps in ways that can't be bought. We are hear for you ask away and we'll help in the best way we can.
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06/09/14 10:41:34PM
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For dubstep Lindsey Sterling is amazing
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06/06/14 11:06:14PM
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How did you know you were an empath?


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I've touched on this before but as a youngster I would cry at happy gatherings and departures. In school I had a hard time focusing. I have always known myind works differently than most. A year ago I was going through a emo break down. A dear friend that is also an empath helped me through that spot and said she was an empath. I looked the word up and low n behold that's why she n I are so connected because I am too. Just didn't know there was a name for it and there are others.
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06/06/14 06:45:42AM
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IvE heard of many Of and do like some just haven't got any in my play list Besides kimbra she is jazzy
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06/05/14 11:04:24PM
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I am across the board from classical to Abba to ac/Dc Gordon Lightfoot volbeat George straight Johnny cash kid rock ez E nwa rhyanna to Frank Sinatra lindsy sterling. Journey Kimbra I could go on all but jazz I guess jazz seems a bit all over the place for me
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05/07/14 01:52:02PM
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my wife is a narcissist. Talk about trying.
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05/07/14 01:45:14PM
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As a kid I would space out for a few seconds not focused on any thing and not hearing any thing some one could tell me I won a million and it would not register then in a blink be back but it felt like an hour.
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04/11/14 03:23:41PM
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Why are you here? The story behind the Empath Community...


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Yes thank you. Seems we are a small part in the world that perhaps haven't been professional studied. I would never see a head shrink for my own reasons not that they might help some. But for others to have similar thoughts and feelings as I it helps me that I'm not alone.
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04/09/14 12:08:20PM
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Christina love your responce
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04/08/14 11:43:27PM
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Yip happens to me all the time too. Idk how to shut it off . I just go with it and enjoy the show. I'm silly like that. Just before I fall asleep its nuts in my head
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03/19/14 06:16:49PM
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I met my first empath in Oregon


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I lived in eastern Oregon baker and la grande back in the 80s love that part of the world. I agree the people are different from the east coast I still have many good friends out there. Nice story. I can tell a empath with in a few moments of talking to them. After my awakening I called all I had this feeling about to find they all have " special powers" or are empaths. Its a very comfortable feeling. Like you've known them your whole life.
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03/19/14 06:02:41PM
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Done!
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03/18/14 05:28:11PM
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MUSIC


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Primus isn't really on my play list. Probably for just that reason I know of them but never really got into them
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03/18/14 02:29:16PM
252 posts

MUSIC


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I think I'm with you on the bag pipes also always seems sad to me
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03/18/14 02:27:08PM
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MUSIC


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Flyrobinfly I'd like to see that study I do like vlobeat and Metallica disturbed also. Like I said I'm all across the board.
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03/18/14 01:54:53PM
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Yes and I am a empath. I don't go digging to get in to things they just seem to fall in my lap but I don't turn away from the situation
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03/17/14 10:16:31PM
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MUSIC


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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kr1EJar5zGY&feature=youtube_gdata_player let's not forget bluegrass another of my faves
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03/17/14 10:05:06PM
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MUSIC


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Has anyone started a group yet I am the most eclectic person I know most of my close friends like either classic rock or country or dance I like all but jazz there is a couple of jazz tunes I like but for the most part it sounds like 3 or 4 people playing different songs at the same time to me. I think I could turn some of you on to some music that you won't hear on the radio good stuff Celtic mountain country and rock or instrumental. I'm all across the board.
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03/17/14 09:28:30PM
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weird looks


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Yes me too. I always thought it was cause I am a people watcher and that I got caught watching them. If you watch people you'll see that not many look at each other but I look directly at people. Not creepy stare but aware. Last week I had two strangers come up to me and lay on me 1/2 there life troubles I should get paid for listing. I'd be loaded lol
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03/16/14 12:47:55AM
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A friend of mine told me she had a feeling of 3things that were troubling me that I had never hinted to her and she hit it out of the park.she said she might be wrong and was a bit of an empath.I Googled the word and found that is why she and I were so close but never hung out cause I've had the same issues as most on this site. I too am grateful. welcome aboard
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03/13/14 12:04:07AM
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I drive for a living and there is a name for what you both explain you must have a lot on your minds and you are in a hypnotic state try changing your rout up a bit and see difrent roads every now and then break up the motony
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03/09/14 11:23:28PM
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Today I made a wine glass sing. My roommate asked did I not know that could be done. I said I knew it could but was trying to find the freequince that my ears are playing all the time. I was unsucsesful
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03/09/14 11:16:49PM
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I don't think I'm an Alfa but am a mans man and am discusted of most men and how they think. You know the old joke I finished first and as long as I got mine. I'm so out of the loop when it comes to all that
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03/08/14 01:07:34AM
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Idk Mathew I was in engine room but have seen this topic come up alot
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03/04/14 05:01:49PM
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Thanks kids I'm ok like I said flat line I get nothing from her some times we all need a walk with solidarity
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03/03/14 04:24:53PM
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Thanks for the idea but I think its to far gone for that it has been shown her game is more important then her family. As the drink is to an alcoholic. Sad really
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03/02/14 08:02:53PM
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Melissa in my thing is kind of like inlanddan my wife has told me she doesn't like how some women want to get with me not so much that I'm interested. now my wife and I are in rough waters. She knows nothing of this revelation of me being a empath. I tried to go into it with her and it turned in to a argument so I've not told her of this.we have been together 15 years and I get nothing off her flat line 0 zip. She is addicted to a online game and I think that has her distracted from real life so she is not projecting any feelings. But I catch vibes from people a thousand miles away to me its like trying to teach some one to whistle.
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03/02/14 12:50:34PM
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I have seen two . First one my father and the owner of the ford dealership was with me driving on a back road at night I was very young like 7 neither of the adults knew what it was my dad called the radar statioin in the aria they saw "nothing" 30 years later I saw one go faster thing than anything we have of this world. No loss of time I don't think I've been abducted. And yes I think if xxxxxx has interplanetary travel surely they can be camouflage or invisible. They are meant to be seen. Unless its like us looking at a ant hill we are like what are you gonna do to the ants
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02/28/14 09:23:31PM
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crowds


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Update folks. I went to wally world to day most least favorite place exsept funerals first I ate so I didn't buy everything they have. But when food shopping I had a fun tune in my head playing. Yes I did hear in the background from a parent we don't have 30 bucks to there kid but went back to the fun tune in my head and made it out with every thing I needed and some e Clare's . It was not fun but Barrable. Thanks for yalls in puts
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02/28/14 09:05:29PM
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Great post inlanddan I'm the same. Its like I'm supprized someone is interested in me my blinders go on and I'm in deep and I don't see the other is not as into me as I am them. Idk? I have a lot of work a head of me to figure this all out thanks to all on the EC for all you post. It helps
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02/25/14 05:16:20PM
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crowds


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I've been seeing a lot of posts about crowds and this has been on my mind so I will share.I was at a service aria on I95 in Maine. There was a large eatery in it I went in to use the rest room and grab a bite to eat. It was Sunday so it was mobed going south. Any way I am a people watcher but the buzz of everyone was so distracting I couldn't even think of what I wanted. I felt like every one was looking at me like I had a clown out fit on. (I didn't) then they were doing a shift change as it was my turn to order at the burger joint. The stress level amplified. And I started to giggle that's what I do or cry and I just couldn't bust out in tears cause the shift change wasn't going smooth. Lol I made it out of the place. It would have been a great place and time to use some shielding but I didn't think of it do to being pounded by all others vibes. Just creepy. Next time I'll go in with my armor on.
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02/19/14 08:00:57PM
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Star that's what I do too but my judgment gets clouded then I'm stepped on then I'm done. Guess I'll have to listen to the inner voice closer thanks.
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02/19/14 04:50:37PM
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I'm the complete opposite I'm am an open book and that doesn't work either its either on or off for me.
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02/18/14 12:05:40PM
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a fun story


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So today I'm in kind of a blue black day, cause of my own selfishness. Not really a big deal. At a traffic light I see one of them tinny small electric cars and my face showed my mood and opinion of them death machines as it passed at the red light I was at. I noticed a young girl in a car to my left looking up at my big rig and saw my look and smiled I looked forward and the light waiting for the green as it went green the car to my left pulled away and that girl was looking up at me doing the Elane bennis dance at me. It made me smile and turned my mood. I'm thankful that there are other people in the world that can tell some one is having a off day and do something silly to make them smile. I shared this story so some one else having a rough day may smile too love and light to you all
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02/10/14 12:33:38AM
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You will know it. Just hang in there when it happens you will smile and have that warm feeling of love fill your heart. Don't look for it and it will make its self known.
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02/08/14 07:56:23PM
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Thank you for posting this. I too have never grieved or learned how to yes I've been sad at loss and cried of the loss of compainions but normally my grief comes from others grieving. I don't think there are any words for comfort besides we all understand your pain. When I am not from this earth any longer I don't want anyone to be sad but glad they had the chance to know me. My belief is that my soul is going to a better place full of love.it will never be easy just less hard you can still communicate with her and she will. My mom still gets a hold of me and loved ones and she left this land 4 years now. In cosmic ways I can't even explain but I know its her.she is at peace now and I'm sure she would want you to be strong and this may be a way for you to get stronger and be more complete. The body is just a vehicle we are given to get us ready for the next plane. Is the way I see it. If we don't use it for the good our soul gets to try again till we get it right. As a empath I can see good and evil in people we can only be fortunate to know all the good we can in our time in our lives.
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