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For me being an empath answered a lot of questions of why I am. Some days I'll be going on with my day and all of a sudden I'm just so happy I can't stop smiling. Other days out of the blue I'll be sad. I have a positive deposition unless something goes south for me. Good or bad idk it just is. But knowing I'm a empath and that there is a reason I feel the way I do helps
not wanting to talk
Good for you grace I'm glad you could see what was tormenting you and had the ability to get away from it. I am a lone wolf in what I do, with many hours to think( not a good thing ). Life is good and getting better each day.I'm just glad I'm not alone on this. It is said " its better to walk a lone than to fallow the crowd in the wrong direction " I think we are on the right path
not wanting to talk
Thank you all for the kind words and insight. I'm so glad to have you. You that understand how we are and don't judge. I don't get down very often but if or when I do I can always count on some one or a few to get me back on track so I can spread love life and smiles. When I'm down I wear shades so nobody can see the pain in my eyes. It's a bit embarrassing when it's dark out. So from the bottom of my heart I am grateful. It's overcast and foggy here today but the sun is shining in my world.
Empath and single
My sister and I are both empaths I have a few acquaintances that are empaths. I've never dated one but I can spot another from the moment they say hi.I'm not close to the ones I know except my sis and I can tell you it is a double edged sword. My sis and I are both Scorpios as well and very blunt with our points so it can get quite interesting in conversations between us. Seems like it might be an adventure tho. At least both parties involved would understand where each other was coming from.
not wanting to talk
Hey gang I've not been on for a bit. Been going through some stuff. Dose anyone have days that they just don't want to talk to anyone? Do I need to do some grounding or just not talk to anyone? I don't like feeling like this. I'm always the go to guy
updated by @b: 07/20/18 09:15:02PM
Dysfunctional Family - Staying Away??
I kind of knew some how that he has been a large part of there life . people don't act like that that are greatful. But ones that re use to taking things for granted do. Whether they think they are or not. Chin up and just try to be a better human each day its all any of us can do
Dysfunctional Family - Staying Away??
Sounds to me you are on the right track. Maybe shouldn't have lost your cool on him but none of us are perfect. It's hard to hear someone shit on someone you love and stay quiet but getting your point across with out raising your voice now that's a trick some times. Stop beating your self up. go forth and make some one smile. Prayers love and light to you!
from the outside looking in I would have to agree with Kayla. if you had someone in your life that treated you amazingly and you were happy would you have the same ideas feelings and the want to help. I don't know you may have someone in your life and you might be happy. Just saying. Food for thought.
Need help about whether to end a 52 year old friendship
I so feel like I know you. Simaler thing going on in my life now
From a guys standpoint I have to back up justberniegirl it's all about TIMING. Understand that the universe is on its time and when we try to mess with it it will rarely turn out the way we want it. We all understand the uncertainty of the opposite sex and feelings we get from them when they give us attention and he may in fact be an empath that doesn't mean you are ment to be together. Give him time sounds to me he is keeping his options open. It's what guys do.
updated by @b: 04/08/17 12:00:00PM
In such a funk, would love positive thoughts or tips
On the week of the 9th I had issues too! called on my lil sis she is an empath and holds the same astrology sign as I . she told me mercury was in retrograde and it would pass soon sorry to be late on the answer but when I read your post and the date it hit me.
Idk did you learn from it? Or take anything away from it besides the hurt?I wish I had a formula for the moment you can open your heart. Time,back ground check,something. I fell for a chick and spent a long time and money on her and thought it was it for her to fall into an addiction that I could not deal with.though she did teach me a lot of things so I can not call it a waist.
This is hard to hear but I think you're better off with out him in your life. I have had a similar situation,in where's you think or it was magical for you but not the other. It's chemistry. Hold your head high. Try to learn from it. Be strong and don't dwell it will not make the pain go away only fester. It's not the snake bite that kills but the venom that stays in the blood.
I wish I had a "good" answer for you. All I can do is give you a male perspective and I don't like being lumped in with all males. But being a guy I've had many guy friends. I don't think age has much to do with it. some guys if not most think you are more of a man the more chicks you've been with. I've never done what you described but I have been a booth call and that is no fun either.how long were you together? As an empath it is confusing to know if it's your emotions that you are feeling or both.
updated by @b: 04/20/17 10:27:40AM
Jennie I just pm d you with some info to help your friend with. I've found you can be there listen agree and help them see the light but it really boils down to they need to look to the light to see it. Some just need attention and by being sad they get that. But they will also get it from the reverse. You know fun to be around. I know of people that have big time physical disadvantages that have the most up lifting personality in the world. Have a nice weekend good luck with it all
Empath Gifts Being Called a Load of Crap by Loved Ones
That's what I don't like about a lot of religions that they need control. My God only needs for me to love him thank him live my life in his manor. And be saved. I do help others in need and try to spread the word and I do give to some churches when I can. One thing to remember is that because someone dosent understand empath or other healing abilities dosent mean they have to respect it. They should simply to be a good soul but don't have to. If you tell him it hurts your feelings and it's not cap to you maybe he will refrain from saying those things. Good luck
I've thought of this very thing. All if not most go to the rock show with happy vibes I've never gon to a show thinking this is gonna suck. At the sports pub you have many different people there for different reasons to get away from some one , to root for a particular team. Winning money loosing money they may even be with some one they don't like much. That's the way I see it. I feel the same way.
updated by @b: 03/23/17 03:57:11PM
Hear is a news flash we are looking for that perfect lady. But most don't recognize what is perfect. I in my past can a test to that. I've made many mistakes but have recognized them and tried to right my wrongs. And have been making progress. I'm far from perfect in some eyes but working on bettering my self every day for me and one day some one will come into my life that thinks I'm perfect. Now what is perfect? Heavy skinny black white in between. Confident shy out going. We have to be happy for ourselves before anyone can make us happy. I have settled for what I thought was as perfect as I could get. Now I'm looking to the sea of abundance and I'm showing up with a dump truck not an eye dropper. I have things that need to be worked out first but I'm on my way to being happy all the time. Not letting anyone bring me down. Every thing is perfect as it is now thought not complete yet ,it is the way it's intended for this time. Always room for improvement.Love and light to all. Be your self.
Your ears are ringing? Answer them silly!Kidding, is it like a wine glass ring. Mine have done this as long as I can remember. Idk what it would be like to not hear it. What I do is keep music on I have the ability to have sound 24/7 in my life. I always thought it was from abusing my ears in my younger years and that could be true. As I said I don't remember not having the ringing.