Forum Activity for @windwolf

WindWolf
@windwolf
05/09/16 06:27:47PM
117 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

I don't get it, real love should bring people together. Why do they feel unworthy of it from us?
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/09/16 04:24:28PM
117 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

How can people think they aren't worthy of love from someone like me? It doesn't make sense to me. I'm just an empath, I'm not above them.
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/09/16 02:47:39PM
117 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

I not understand this. I know that people feel comfortable around us and without knowing why will tell us their life's story or some deep secret. They feel we can be trusted or just that we understand. Has anyone else had the problem where you tell someone you love them and they say they aren't worthy of it. Not just romantic love, friendly love. Then they become distant always busy. You begun to hurt because you know they they are worthy, it's not like we are above others, then the pain turns to anger and you begin to believe that they aren't worth you time or love. Is it just the pain and loneliness talking? Why does everyone tell me I'm great then say I'm too good a guy? This is who I genuinely am. I'm not too good for anyone, so why don't I have anyone I can open up to and just be me with?
updated by @windwolf: 05/23/17 02:08:41PM
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/04/16 09:23:18AM
117 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

Thank you all for your help. It's still tough and the pain isn't gone but I know this isn't the end.
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/04/16 09:21:38AM
117 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

Thank you
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/04/16 12:31:22AM
117 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

Thanks I'm doing a bit better just a little weak didnt eat at all yesterday, just laid in bed. Talked to a friend a slept
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/03/16 10:01:22AM
117 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

My friend does play a part in the pain I went through, but it was much more than her. My problem isn't loving myself, it's the loneliness I feel. I love myself and others. I have lots of friends and family, and no matter how much time I spend with them I feel lonely. I meditate and try to connect with the spiritual but even then the connection fades. I fell in love with my friend but before I knew that, I wasn't alone with her. I saw her as just a friend and the loneliness was gone. I know it's possible to be alone and not lonely. But I'm not ready to reach that point. I'm 26 and feel like I've been searching multiple lifetimes for a way to end this loneliness. It doesn't need to be romantic love. It just turns out I fell for her. She is an empath and very new to it. Anyway loneliness is my problem, making me feel incomplete, swallowing my soul until I'm just a hollow shell.
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/03/16 07:14:36AM
117 posts



Maybe the reason we are attracted to broken souls is because we are meant to heal them. But being so close is bound to cause other feeling to show up. After breaking up with me one ex told me my next girlfriend is the luckiest girl in the world, the next ex told me I'm someone's blessing and she can't keep me it wouldn't be fair. The last one was my ex fiance. We heal them then get pushed away, being told we are too good. I stopped loving and helped people from a distance for a while. It was fine but life sent a broken soul to me, had her approach me. My heart knows love again, to another empath. But she is still trying to make sense of all of this. And she won't take the chance with me. No reason for loving those who are broken other than we are healers.
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/03/16 06:43:56AM
117 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

It wasn't always this bad. I was ok being single before, not happy but not as bad as it's become. I had fun. That changed a little over a year ago. I met someone and she's physically beautiful, but more than that there's this fire I feel inside of her. When I first felt it, time seemed to stop everyone around disappeared. After talking to her and becoming friends I felt like my heart worked again, I fell in love with her. When I told her she told me she already knew. And that's where it stayed. We're friends I've seen her through some tough times, I'm there when she needs some words of wisdom even when she doesn't want to hear it. She's helped me understand spirituality more after I gave up religion. We're there for each other. She told me that since I told her I fell in love with her, she felt she's not worthy of my love. That's why she didn't explore that path with me. That fire in her soul is worth more than I could ever give her and she feels she's not worthy of my love? It hurts that she thinks so little of herself. I stopped looking for love and the universe throws a light in my life that I can't help but love and she thinks my love is too good for her. I feel like part of some sick joke. I was ok now I want to be happy. Something is torturing me and I want it to stop. This gift puts me through so much pain that's not even my own, and when I feel my pain it's multiplied by ten or a hundred. If I can't be happy I don't want to continue living a life of pain. I hurt two people last night by telling them what I did, and I feel horrible for it. Why are we like this? What's our purpose? I always end up asking is this punishment for sins of a past life.
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/03/16 12:52:06AM
117 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

Thank you both
WindWolf
@windwolf
05/02/16 09:58:52PM
117 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

I tried to take my own life tonight. Why can't I do it? 10 attempts, and I'm still here. I help others, I use my gift for good, but I feel empty and incomplete. Why do others get to be happy? Why am I alone? The people I talk to don't understand me. I prayed to whoever is listening and asked them to kill me, to stop my suffering. I have friends and family that love me but I just need that one love to make me whole. Why can't I find her? How can I love so many so much, but can't find love to heal me?
updated by @windwolf: 03/02/17 11:55:04AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
04/25/16 04:27:35PM
117 posts

I'm a CHRISTIAN and I believe with all my heart in CHRIST and I have this Gift!


Empath

I used to be Christian, born and raised Baptist but for personal reasons I gave up religion, one part was what I felt from others in the church. But I've learned that grounding yourself will help with that. A grounded empath is less likely to be drained by others around them, it like negativity just passes right thought and don't leave a trace
WindWolf
@windwolf
04/25/16 04:20:23PM
117 posts

What do you think triggered your empathic abilities?


Empath

I remember strange things from when I was young, like my out of body experience. But I was born with spina bifida and club foot, so I was in the hospital a lot, I remember feeling a lot more pain than I should have. Even today it's hard for me to go to a hospital because of that. But I don't think trauma gives people empathy, I believe you are just born with it, and some of us never lose our connection to the other side so we remain empaths.
WindWolf
@windwolf
04/25/16 04:09:23PM
117 posts

What do empaths do for a living?


Empath

I work as a cook, well most of the jobs I've had were cook jobs. I've also been tech support over the phone thank God I got away from that. I love helping people but it was too much and I'd say about 90% of the people that called in had an attitude a treated me like I wasn't even human. Cooking helps me because there are normally good vibes when food is involved. And in my spare time I write, I've always wanted to be a famous author. Helping people escape reality like books helped me when I was younger
WindWolf
@windwolf
12/02/14 06:28:56PM
117 posts

Superheroes?


Empath

Does anyone else ever feel like a superhero? Both positive and negative. We can help people but sometimes we aren't able to get there fast enough. When it comes to relationships we don't always get the happy ending, we're protectors, healers and it's hard to find someone that understand all the thing that happens to us. Who else feels this way. Please share your thoughts.
updated by @windwolf: 04/02/17 09:08:13AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
12/01/14 03:29:56PM
117 posts

Help me


Empath

I need positive energy, prayers whatever I can get. I feel alone, all the time no matter where I am. The loneliness is blocking out some of the emotions I'd normally pick up from others. I feel incomplete. How do I fix this? I'd rather end this existence than keep feeling like this. How can I feel happy again?
updated by @windwolf: 06/11/17 11:19:30AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
10/03/14 05:58:48PM
117 posts

Annabelle The Movie


Psychic and Paranormal

I haven't seen it nor do I plan on seeing it.
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/11/14 05:52:59PM
117 posts

Over whelming sadness


Empath

I felt the pain before finding out he was the one that died. I cried and the tears felt like death, like I was being pulled back to a suicidal state
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/11/14 05:19:25PM
117 posts

Over whelming sadness


Empath

I woke up today in pain, which I'm used to, nothing that should have effected me too much. On top off that I was yelled at by my mother, again nothing new. But for some reason I was reduced to tears, I couldn't understand why. I asked for help from a friend which just started a fight. So once I managed to compose myself, I went about business as usual. While at work around 4 or 5 hours later I find out that comedian and actor Robin Williams died. Was this the reason I cried? I felt a heavy presence of death in my tears. I'm just really confused, and I have no one I can talk to that will truly understand. Do you think an empath like me that isn't that strong or grounded could feel such sadness from his many fans, or just from his passing? Did you feel it? Help me out with this please.
updated by @windwolf: 08/19/17 01:12:17AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
12/24/13 05:49:08PM
117 posts

Help


Empath

I feel so lost, in a way I've lost my son. The way things are going he won't remember me when he gets older. His mother moved on and I can't see him. I feel cut off from the world, like an empty shell. I haven't stopped crying since I got off the phone with him and he didn't recognize my voice. Sad to say my son was the biggest source of love in my heart, I can't keep feeling like this. I can't go on like this. I can't feel the love of the holiday, I just can't feel anything but overwhelming pain.
updated by @windwolf: 01/13/17 02:47:09AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
12/09/13 10:19:48AM
117 posts

Truth during the holidays


Empath

Thank you
WindWolf
@windwolf
12/09/13 07:24:15AM
117 posts

Truth during the holidays


Empath

During the holidays, people come together and "forget" the issues they've had all during the year. So I sit through this in my room, because their real emotions that they're holding back don't hit me as hard, until I'm called antisocial and forced to go out and endure the hell that is the holidays. I understand about shielding but it's much more difficult with family, and in such high quantity.
updated by @windwolf: 05/12/17 06:05:30PM
WindWolf
@windwolf
10/26/13 05:19:00PM
117 posts

Changes staying the same


Empath

Thank you I'll give it a try
WindWolf
@windwolf
10/26/13 05:17:23PM
117 posts

Changes staying the same


Empath

Well I don't have a doctor, medical or otherwise. I want to go back to school and study psychology and I guess work my way through my issues, as well as one day help others because I can already feel their pain
WindWolf
@windwolf
10/26/13 04:48:55PM
117 posts

Changes staying the same


Empath

I've shown signs of having clinical depression in the past, I've suffered from depression off and on for years now. Most friends and family have told me out the group I'm the depressing one.
WindWolf
@windwolf
10/26/13 01:00:35PM
117 posts

Changes staying the same


Empath

I try to meditate but I just can't bring myself to do it I get distracted from it easily
WindWolf
@windwolf
10/25/13 01:00:04PM
117 posts

Changes staying the same


Empath

It's been a while since I've been on the site and things have not been going well at all. Dealing with the womanI feel is my soulmate getting married has been taking a toll on my health, both physical and emotional.I fell into astate of depression, and closed myself off from people that can't understand all thatI deal with not just the broken heart, which is just about everyone around me.I have made a few changes to myself recently, for oneI shaved my head. not know where that came fromI just felt likeI needed aphysical representation of a weight being lifted from my shoulders. I've began writing again,I'm currently working onfour stories simultaneously, one of which deals with the Angel of Death. A personI feelI may have been refered to as in a past life. Now I also want to go to school to study psychology. But I still feel stuck for some reason,I still feel emotions from other people and it's not joy.I can see people being happy around me but all I pick up from people are negative emotions. Am I justwired to pick up negatives? Things around me are changing except that one thing. And I still get the feeling like something major is coming.

Any help or thoughts that youhave are greatly appreciated


updated by @windwolf: 05/12/17 06:04:49PM
WindWolf
@windwolf
09/24/13 03:14:41PM
117 posts

Life Colors Questionnaire


New Age

Blue, Violet, Crystal
WindWolf
@windwolf
09/10/13 08:01:57PM
117 posts

The pain


Empath

Thank you for your replies
WindWolf
@windwolf
09/08/13 04:18:31PM
117 posts

The pain


Empath

I don't know what to do now. I've tried to share with those closest to me about my gifts. There are very few that believe me. Some just dismiss the idea, then there are those that call me a liar. Saying that I became a creep, saying that I became a dark being that bleeds depression. Telling me that I went through things but that I blew them out of proportion. And these are the people I love most. I'm single now, alone constantly. I can feel compassion from the other members on this site, but after I log off I'm alone. It's not like people can reach through their computers to give someone a hug, to be a physical shoulder to cry on. It's not like there is an empathic group in Columbus Ohio holding meetings full of understanding people. Hell I can't even find someone willing to go on a date because of these gifts. How do I deal with this pain, this loneliness?
updated by @windwolf: 05/14/17 08:59:38AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
09/05/13 11:26:54AM
117 posts

Is this a general empath thing?


Empath

I have a problem putting myself before others. People tell me that I need to do something for me but I can't help but feel extremely selfish not considering others. I take time to myself to center or ground myself and keep from going to an emotional extreme, but even then other people and there issues enter my world. I can't help but feel for them. I know that everyone has their limit and will do something for themselves. But I just wonder is it an empath thing to put others first, until that sanity breaking limit is reached?
updated by @windwolf: 01/13/17 02:23:02AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/28/13 12:07:42AM
117 posts

Horror movies


Empath

As an empath, how do you feel about watching horror movies, specifically the ones based on true stories? Movies like the conjuring.
updated by @windwolf: 05/14/17 08:59:26AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/24/13 09:08:55PM
117 posts

What kind of empath are you?


Empath

Getting feelings from tv is the main reason I rarely watch it anymore
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/24/13 09:06:27PM
117 posts

Fading


Empath

Thank you, not only for your words but for this site as well
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/24/13 01:27:32AM
117 posts

Fading


Empath

Have you ever felt like your abilities were fading away? If so how did it affect you? I've felt it before and nothing seemed to go right. I was already feeling incomete after losing the woman I feel is my soulmate and feeling like my gift was fading felt like I was slowly dying.
updated by @windwolf: 01/15/17 03:17:22PM
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/23/13 10:59:28PM
117 posts

Do you like being photographed?


Empath

I'm not a fan of having my picture taken.
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/21/13 01:44:35AM
117 posts

What kind of empath are you?


Empath

Do you mind my asking about your name? I've always had a connection with wolves and wolvesrain is very intriguing also your mention of your pack in my other post.
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/21/13 01:40:06AM
117 posts

What's it to you?


Empath

In not so many words, I agree with your statement. My answer is that it's just me. It is my gift, curse, joy, sorrow, who I was, and who I have yet to become.
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/21/13 01:27:48AM
117 posts

What kind of empath are you?


Empath

I understand what you are saying. This is just something that has been on my mind, I just wanted to know what people were told from the test. I see us all as different branches on the empathic family tree. It's not my intention to classify anyone and turn it into a negative, and I apologize if my post has offended you in any way.
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/20/13 06:32:17PM
117 posts

What kind of empath are you?


Empath

Ok, I've looked but couldn't find a group to post this in. I'm just wondering what kind of empath you are. I've taken both tests when I first joined and one of my results was that I'm a universal empath. While going through the comments on these discussions I saw that another person identified himself as a universal empath. So just trying to get to know everyone better, what kind of empath are you?
updated by @windwolf: 05/13/17 05:15:54AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/20/13 06:02:49PM
117 posts

What's it to you?


Empath

Empathy, being an empath, what does it mean to you? Is it an explanation for confusing times throughout your life? Why you can't do or see certain things? Does it explain how one can be lonely and connected to everyone and everything at the same time? Do you see it as the first stepping stone to psychic abilities you want? Are you born with it or can anyone develop it over time? Everyone has put stories of their past on here, I'm just asking what is it to you. I hope that you'll do some soul searching before answering. Because from the first time you've searched the meaning to the word and how you use it to identify yourself to now you've grown and perhaps the meaning has changed or your understanding has. So really what's empathy, empathic abilities, being an empath to you?
updated by @windwolf: 01/21/17 09:14:10PM
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/06/13 03:33:32PM
117 posts

What is your strongest connector?


Empath

I understand that as empaths we are naturally more sensitive, but how do you connect best? Is it just proximity, or is it by touch? Personally my strongest connector is the eyes, so much so that I try not to look in people's eyes so I don't "see" them. Not that it's an invasion of privacy, it's that I don't want to "know" them. Normal contact with people give me enough of a feeling from them. But the eyes are my problem, and I'm afraid that if someone looks into my eyes they'll "see" me. Even if they aren't an empath, there's been an incident where I've projected the result of my actions/feelings onto others. So if they can't "see" me in my eyes I fear I'll project myself onto them. And I honestly don't know what I am. Like all the pain and negativity I've feltfrom others is still in there, things that have made me continplate suicide many times and attempt it eight times, forming some kind of monster. So I refuse to make eye contact, it's not being disrespectful it's just better for everyone involved. So back to the question what is your strongest connector?
updated by @windwolf: 05/15/17 01:19:59AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/02/13 11:00:26PM
117 posts

This connection


Empath

Ok I'm having a serious problem with my connection to my son's mother. Not the fact that I feel her heart will be broken when she finds out her fianc is cheating on her. Something is wrong with her but I can't tell what it is, and she won't talk to me about anything anymore. I want to sever this connection but at the same time I don't. This problem is affecting my health, both mental and physical. What do I do?
updated by @windwolf: 03/13/17 11:24:21AM
WindWolf
@windwolf
08/02/13 09:22:00PM
117 posts

who is a people watcher


Empath

Though I hate crowds I am definately a people watcher. I find that it sometimes calms me and helps me focus. I kind of tune-in to whoever I'm watching at the time(I know that sounds stalkerish, it isn't), it helps me identify whose feeling what.
WindWolf
@windwolf
07/27/13 12:16:23PM
117 posts



I would have to say that for me, figure.09 by Linkin Park, before discovering that I am an empath. I couldn't understand why I felt all the pain and that led me down a pretty self destructive path. Doing things I hated just to numb myself, in the end my third eye closed and I stopped using most of my gifts. Like the song says I gave up a part of me and let myself become like everyone else.
WindWolf
@windwolf
07/25/13 06:31:20AM
117 posts

What's you culture?


Empath

I kind of envy your love for the culture you were born into. I just don't feel that pride in America, and being a young black man, I don't even feel I big connection with my African roots. This lost feeling has been I part of me for as long as I can remember
WindWolf
@windwolf
07/24/13 09:47:32PM
117 posts

What's you culture?


Empath

I understand wanting to go to a different time.
WindWolf
@windwolf
07/24/13 11:54:08AM
117 posts

What's you culture?


Empath

Do you sometimes feel that you belong there instead of Canada?
WindWolf
@windwolf
07/24/13 11:52:43AM
117 posts

What's you culture?


Empath

Yeah I know about today's Japanese culture, I still would like to go there. I meant to say that the values and traditions of Japan is what I connect to. I feel like I was born in the wrong country in the wrong period in time
WindWolf
@windwolf
07/24/13 11:26:37AM
117 posts

What's you culture?


Empath

Yeah I think so. I would love to visit many places on Earth and learn more, but I just feel this deep connection to Japan in particular
 
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