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Lavinia
@lavinia
03/13/11 04:46:34AM
212 posts

Thought of the day


Empath

"The world is a dangerous place. Not because of the people who are evil; but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
Albert Einstein
Lavinia
@lavinia
03/10/11 09:53:35PM
212 posts

Thought of the day


Empath

If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~David Carradine


Happiness is an unexpected hug.

How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. ~Wayne Dyer


Lavinia
@lavinia
03/10/11 04:59:09AM
212 posts

Thought of the day


Empath

I was inspired by someone to open this thread. A post where we can write one inspiring thought everyday ...something to start the engine with...an idea to remember thought the day...maybe a challenge that will helps us grow...a push to make a difference in someone's life...or something to remind us why we're here...

I'll go first:

Imagine that every man you meet today has sign on its forehead that says "Make me feel important"

Have a wonderful day!


updated by @lavinia: 05/02/17 10:11:29PM
Lavinia
@lavinia
03/09/11 07:46:38AM
212 posts

Help!


Psychic and Paranormal

Oh I'm so relieved there's an explanation for the fogginess and it does make sense that they are more in the morning and evening. Sometimes thought they last throughout the day. I wish my body would get used to their presence and the awakening and stop behaving like this :P Either way, I'll be patient; it can't last forever.

I've noticed that hands on healing makes it worse for a while and then better. But doesn't seem to take it away completely. And it's strange cause it works just fine on anything else. Maybe it's because there's no real problem, just an adjustment.

Thank you for the link; I'll check it out now. I'm crazy about crystals and have several of them. I don't know where it's better to keep them; i just keep them all in a pyramid shaped box on a little altar i made with candles and incests. And a black tourmaline at the entrance of the house.

Thanks and God bless you!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
03/09/11 01:22:37AM
212 posts

Help!


Psychic and Paranormal

Wow Heather, sounds like you had some frightening experiences yourself. It's strange that your doctors didn't find anything in your case...I guess it really is isn't related to anything physical.

I haven't had anything similar happen since...but something else has been happening and apparently there's no medical explanation for it. I feel a constant pressure in mu head; some people call it head fog and ear popping, like when you change altitude ( in the mountains or on a plane). It's more frequent in the mornings and evenings and it goes away if I take a pill. I just don't really know how to explain it.

Thanks for sharing your story!

Blessings!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
03/09/11 12:49:03AM
212 posts



Wow, what a wonderful experience Ashley! You are so lucky to be able to communicate with them. I only get glimpses of them. I'm still working on getting a better relationship with them.

I saw Archangel Michael once too. He came to protect me once. It was soooo nice.

You can practice on me too if you have the time. I would really like to know more about them. I will pm you the questions.

Blessings!

Lavinia


updated by @lavinia: 01/13/17 12:16:30AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
03/06/11 10:53:33PM
212 posts

Empath/lightworkers movie recommendation


Empath

Check it out and tell me what you think: http://www.axyy-filme.com/filme/the-sunset-limited-2011/

I think you'll be surprised. It's based on a play and they are not so "happy end- predictable-hero saves all- Hollywood".

Thanks for the movie titles. I'll check then out! :)

Lavinia
@lavinia
03/06/11 10:51:22PM
212 posts

Empath/lightworkers movie recommendation


Empath

I'll check it out. thanks! :)
Lavinia
@lavinia
03/05/11 08:13:15AM
212 posts

My first Reiki class, any advice?


Healers

I live in Bucharest, Romania.

I'll let you know how it went when I get it.

Blessings!

Lavinia
@lavinia
03/05/11 06:38:52AM
212 posts

My first Reiki class, any advice?


Healers

I LOVED your story! I love the AHA moments and seeing how the universe conspires to give us what we want when we want it bad enough.

Keep me posted about how your initiations went!I wanna hear all about it :D I'm having my level 2 in 2 weeks.

Namaste!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
03/04/11 09:46:21AM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you Brian for your concern and advice. I am indeed doing better and nothing like that has happened since. As for things changed, I did notice on weird thing. One of the wall tile in my bathroom broke in half..just like that..I found the broken part on the floor. I cant imagine how that happened. It was a tile behind the toilet that I couldn;t have broken myself..and it's a brand new bathroom ( 6 months). I found that reeeeallly strange.

Everything else was pretty much the same. From what I can remember.

I did have a weird dream during the blackout where I was sitting with some older men trying top make a decision together about my life..somehow. Something about what I had to do..do it or not...how to do it..I just cant remember what it was.

From what I read right temporal lobe seizures ( cause medically that's what it was) are responsible for "God experiences". That's where we have our spiritual experiences. so maybe that's what it was. Maybe my "soul family " or guides just had to have a "talk" with me and did this. I just can't imagine why they went this far and not just use a easier less hurtful thing. Or maybe it was me who triggered it, subconsciously. I also read that this happens in kundalini too.

Thanks again!

God bless you!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/25/11 09:49:05AM
212 posts

A Love Song To God


Empath

Beautiful Bing! Thank you for sharing! :)
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/25/11 09:48:06AM
212 posts

To be there or listen


Empath

It happens to me often too. Sometimes it seems they don't want me to say anything, just be there and listen. As I'm typing this I'm listening to a friend on the phone who's talking. She doesn't want advice..just to talk :)

It's good to know we can help, even if it's draining sometimes.

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/24/11 12:14:22PM
212 posts

Empath/lightworkers movie recommendation


Empath

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0MSitTAYyA

Two men trapped in a room with their opposing beliefs. The words of Cormac McCarthy. The direction of Tommy Lee Jones. The powerhouse combination of Samuel L. Jackson and Tommy Lee Jones. Two actors. One room. Big Ideas. Emotions run high. The essence of Drama is Conflict.

This 90 minute look at two men's opposing beliefs is strong and will resonate with the viewer long after it is over. It's the story of a man who wants to end his life and another man who wants to save it. What rings true is the direction of Tommy Lee Jones. It gels so well with the words of Cormac McCarthy.
updated by @lavinia: 01/17/17 05:04:38PM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/24/11 04:26:29AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

LOL, your comment about the dollars made me laugh :P

You're right about everything you said...and how that little voice is always there in the beginning of some relationships and yes, i do ignore it sometimes and i'm always wrong to do so. I have to listen to it more often...

Thank you Merrick!

Namaste!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/23/11 10:14:44PM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you so much Ashley!

It was scary at the moment, but it's fine now. I've taken good care of myself and haven't had any problems since.

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/23/11 01:44:22PM
212 posts

Help!


Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you so much Maria!

Namaste!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/23/11 12:52:32PM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

I just did the same thing today, with a friend of mine. And she hasn't called back since. I don;t know what will come of it but at least I'll know where we stand.

I know what you mean about letting the do succeed on their own. I just hope I will know the difference between a friends help and when it's too much.

Thank you Stephanie! I wish I was little tougher on them like you. Some could really use that! :)

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/23/11 12:46:07PM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

You're so right Robert; perfect word...cycles. That's exactly how I feel; like I'm running around in circles, and they're not even mine. Well, I broke one with a friend of mine today. I finally had enought today and told her I'm done talking about that subject. She'll have to deal with it herself. She hasn't called me since lunch today, when I told her, which is rare for her ( she calls 4 times a day with the SAME problem; like a broken record). I'm curious to see what got from my backing out.

Thank you Robert!

God bless you!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/23/11 12:42:26PM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

That's very interesting Bing, thanks for the description;' I didn't know much about my name, other than it was Latin.

I've checked out that site you gave me..I just love those videos. I've also signed up for the newsletter. That was what you were talking about, right? Is this your site?

I 've recently started communicating with my guides and angles and you're right, it does give you chills...the things they do...I'm so sorry I didnt start this before. I wish I would have known them sooner. I've also contacted some of the Archangels and they are so quick and loving, it's amazing. Thanks for telling about the others; I was only in contact with Michael and Raphael. I didnt know what the others did.

Blessing Bing!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/23/11 12:28:01PM
212 posts

Help!


Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you Ashley!

Thankfully I have found the answers in the meanwhile. It turns out it WAS a medical reason behind all that, but that is not mu main concern. I know that every disease has a deeper meaning inside. Somewhere somehow I did something wrong that resulted in that seizure. I asked for guidance to know what it was I was doing wrong. And got it. And now I'm working on solving the problem. And luckily I have a few very loving and wise guides that are helping me every step of the way. I am so grateful for them! :)

Blessings and love!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/22/11 01:05:10PM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Oh Bing thank you so much! And you're so right. Hopefully I'll be able to stay on course and not go back to old ways. Cause It's pretty much what I'm doing. I said NO, felt guilty, went back, drained, said no again and so on. I loved the Jesus and Buddha comment you mane..I was told that several times by my guides and well..God too ( sorry if anyone finds it a blasphemy but I like to go straight to the source) , that I cant do everything and I cant most certainly not do it alone. I must always ask them for help, which I rarely do actually...my ego tends to be very independent, but I'm working on that too.

Thank you again and for he videos too. I love watching these king of inspirational videos. They really make my day.

Bless you and lots of love and light for you!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/22/11 06:43:44AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Wow that is a really touching story. I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I feel sorry for the little girl. But luckily you managed to get away from it. And you know, even though what you told her may have scared and hurt her at that moment, I think you did the right thing. Some things just need to be told no matter how much they hurt. Maybe one day she will realize it herself and do something to correct it rather and hit her head in the sand or run away.

Thank you for sharing that!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 11:46:20PM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

Yes, that is a a possibility Maria. I too make many vitamins, sometimes I think too much. And I had recently stopped taking painkillers which I took for years before.

The truth is, it could be any number of things, Even the doctor I saw said there is no known cause for epileptic seizures. cause that's what it was.

The thing I found interesting was that the seizure originated in the right temporal lobe and when I did a google search on it I found that people with right temporal lobe epilepsy have GOD experiences during seizures. Apparently that lobe is responsible for our spiritual believes and experiences. And God only know, I;ve done so many of those lately. ;)) I'm guessing that might be the cause. An imbalance. I neglected "real" life for too long and it was time to get back to it and manage both. At least that's how I took it.

Thanks again for your post!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 11:39:22PM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

I like that approach Kristin. Thanks for the tip. I've tried something similar a few times but they seem fixated on "ME ME ME" and they either just take the discussion back to them or..the friend that stopped talking to me..she would just bluntly say it "Hey, we were talking about me"... But I;ll work on it more!

Thanks again! :)

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 10:40:26AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Yep, very true. Very selfish. She's not a bad soul..I know that...she's just got so many (self made) problems that she rappered herself around then so much that she cant see further than her nose.
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 10:36:31AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

It doesn't sound harsh at all. We have to take care of ourselves and be in good shape before we can attend to others. I just forget to put myself first sometimes and other times when I do, I feel guilty. I just have to get over it.

And the truth is...it has all gotten much better since I've found I am an empath and found this site.But I also have a natural tendency to get bored 5 minutes after completing a task and when I get over one obstacle I just move on to the next one..or find another "mountain" to climb. This is just another one: how to get off the glue that gets people stuck on me and STILL help.

Thank you so much for answering! And I love your last comment about not having a shortage of people who want to our friends :D That sure is true.

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 10:05:11AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

People can be so lazy sometimes, don't they? I understand it so well. The more I see people do that the more I back away..that's actually what I've been doing lately; hence the loosing of friends. Progress isnt done in words but actions; Stop complaining and get to work, get your hands dirty.

I'm torn between that and...my ideal of an utopic world...kind of unrealistic, I know. Working on it :D

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 09:59:22AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

I know...hard to take though, you know?

Well at least I know who my friends are :)

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 08:25:49AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Oh I could never stop helping people...It's what I do :P I just hate it when it turns to this..there's a difference between help and a being a doormat or a napkin or a ..crutch..you get the point ;) I need to establish some ground rules for my "job"; for me first of all. Like I said a minute ago, I sometimes don;t know when to stop. I have a habit of given them "tools" and when they dont use them or they dont works..I give more tools...that is when I dont help my doing it myself..

Time to get to work I guess! "Back to school" :D

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 08:21:22AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Thank you Jamie! I guess it's half my fault..cause I like to help people so much that I dont know when to stop..I'm not always aware when helping becomes impairing. I'll have to pay more attention and know what my boundaries are and not cross them.
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 07:59:19AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Thank you Jamie! I'll state my ground a lot better from now on. hopefully I wont loose all my friends..but hey, it's like you said..if they don't get it , they are trying to control me and that's not a very good friendship to have ( if one can call it that). They have to learn somehow...and I need my sanity :)
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 07:53:18AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Thank you Sleepy. Btw, good to have you back with us!

I do do that quite frequently...tell them I'm busy, which isnt actually a lie most of the time. I am pretty busy.

They just keep coming back. Or are very pushy sometimes when I say I'm busy. I have this friend who calls me while I'm at work ( I usually dont answer but sometimes she calls from a dif no. so I think it's a client) and even when I tell her load and clear " I cant talk now. I'll call you back in an hour. Bye" she just starts talking ..Just like that. It's incredible..like she doesnt hear me. I hung up on her once :)) I was driving, didnt have my hands free on and there was a policeman around the corner. Told her I gotta go NOW and she kept talking. And I hung up.:)) Some of these things are just... beyond me.

Thanks for the advice Sleepy!

Blessings! :*

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 07:46:15AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

"Hmmm, I'm not getting anything. What do YOU think?" - I love that Sandy. I think I'm gonna use that next time.

"I dont know what you should do. No clue. What do YOU think?" kind but firm like you said. Let's see what happens.:D

Thank you so much Sandy!

Blessings and love!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 07:31:21AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

Thank you Misu. I totally agree. As a matter of fact I have said no and lost a friend over that; and had numerous fights because of it with another. I guess that's my main concern with it...They take it so personal that...sometimes I wonder if we are really friends something else... I don;t want to losse them and at the same time, even I do loose them, I want them to understand why I say NO. But they dont.

I guess that;'s not my decision to make , is it? What they understand and what not...

Thank you again Misu!

God bless you!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 07:08:59AM
212 posts

People who leach on?


Empath

The people that come to me for empathic help or comfort after a while, have a tendency to leach on to me I feel like they become addicted to some degree. I'm not sure if this is the right term but it's the only one I can think of now. They seem to "use" me as a crutch and after a while aren't able to stand on their own; they always need to to encourage the, advice them, listen to them, even with the smallest things. And I KNOW that's not healthy for them; it's not what I want to be and not my idea of "help" ( it turns against them eventually).

What I'm asking is, I guess, how do I make it stop? How do I get them back on their own feet and not leaning on me for every little thing? And how do I prevent this happening in the future with other people?

I've tried telling this to a friend once in the nicest manner possible at that time and it turned against me. Now she not only doesn;t talk about things but she makes me feel guilty every time she has a problem, for abandoning her and letting her deal with it on her own. And I can't go to her with my stuff cause well...I "left" her. It's just so childish...

Any suggestions? Anyone else with this kind of behavior around them?


updated by @lavinia: 01/16/17 07:47:33AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/11 05:27:14AM
212 posts

Angel in the Vatican


Psychic and Paranormal

Taken during the funeral of Pope Paul Joan the II nd.


updated by @lavinia: 07/02/17 12:10:28PM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/19/11 01:12:04PM
212 posts



I'm an actress and I love it! As far as going through so many emotions that aren't yours, it's really like a catharsis ( for me anyway) because I do it consciously. I know we all have different opinions and I wante dto say mine on the matter, coming from this background. :)
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/18/11 10:35:34AM
212 posts

Who Am I Meant to Be


Empath

I got creative and a leader. Pretty cool test :) Thanks for sharing Bing!

Blessings!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/10/11 03:21:30PM
212 posts



You're not horrible Jeanie! I'm sure there a good reason you don't like kids, even if you don't know why yet. Not everybody does and that doesn't make them horrible.

There are some kids that can be really annoying :P I see so many a day and there are places I go where most kids are annoying... They're people, just like us..only smaller and ..raw in emotions and behavior :D

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/10/11 10:25:02AM
212 posts

Help!


Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you Jamie. I think I will be doing that. I'll be needing lots of that if it really is epilepsy. Thank God for the Reiki class I took :D
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/10/11 08:57:23AM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

I'm 27. I'm surprised too. I've never had anything like this ever happen to me. I'll find out more when I go to the doctor to read my results. I was just told by the lady who did the EER that it's epilepsy. But i don;'t know what kind, why it happened, etc.
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/10/11 08:32:02AM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

I went to see the doctor yesterday and had some test done today to see what's up; I promised to write back when I know something. It turns out, it was a mild episode of epilepsy. Meowski and Jamie, you were on the spot with your hunches. They still have to run more test to get to the bottom of it.

Well this is all the news I have. I'm gonna start reading on epilepsy now cause I don't know much about it or what could have caused it.

Thank you all again for your support! Thank God it wasn't a demon :D

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/09/11 12:02:44PM
212 posts



I feel like that most of the time.I envy the "ignorance" in others. I wish I could be an empath ONLY when needed and the rest of the time be normal... I pick up on so many emotions during the day and when i get home I feel drained.. It does get exhausting, doesn't it?

Hang in there Wolf...there's gotta be a reason for all of this and we'll find a way to get through it.

For me, just knowing I'm not alone, that there are other people like me out there, has helped a lot. Knowing that I can write here and say what happened to me and get an "I understand" back,..it means a great deal. It's more than I ever got from others up until a few months ago.

Keep your head up and your heart open!

Love and big bear hugs for you!

Lavinia


updated by @lavinia: 01/03/17 11:17:01PM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/09/11 10:48:19AM
212 posts



...or ..you make room for greater things to fit into your world..perspective...

I know saying is one things and applying is another...but it just takes one foot in front of the other, not the entire journey in one jump.

Keep the faith!


updated by @lavinia: 01/21/17 08:09:25AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/08/11 09:32:34PM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

Thanks Mush! :) I've got a bunch of methods for getting rid of negative energy..never tried this one though..I'll give it a try.
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/08/11 01:36:53PM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

I think i am. I've also been practicing meditation...so yes, i think so.

I'm keeping on God's side and i have faith that He will get me through this, whatever it is.

Bless you!

Love and hugs! :*

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/08/11 11:34:46AM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you for the link. It's very helpful! Although it doesn't exactly describe what happened to me..it's an option. Even though, i gotta say, demons or got know what other creepy things are not exactly something I'm excited about, epilepsy isn't either. I've never had anything like this happen to me EVER. And I wouldn't like to start now. But we'll see.

I'm going to the doctor's office tomorrow and see what comes up. I will bring up epilepsy too.

I'll keep you guys posted.

Thank you again si much for your concern and for the link!

Sending you lots of love and a big bear HUG!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/08/11 08:22:53AM
212 posts

Help!


Psychic and Paranormal

That's a great point you make Jamie. i think I will be going to the doctor tomorrow. My arm and shoulder still hurt like they've been broken. There must be something there. Maybe that will shed some light.

Blessings and love to you!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/07/11 11:52:13PM
212 posts

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Psychic and Paranormal

Oh Meowski, I wish it would have been an intestinal virus..but I'm pretty sure it wasn't. I had my share of stomach problems i the past, some worse that a virus and nothing can compare to what happened yesterday.

I had a good night sleep last night...no dreams..no pain. I woke up pretty ok..my elbow still hurts though. I'm guessing it will take a few days before it gets better.

I didn't think to record last night...but I will have a camera ready today when i get back from work..just in case something else happens. I sure hope it doesn't though..it was scary and painful enough the first time.

I does feel like i was knocked out..that's exactly how it felt... If it weren't for the pain in my arm, i probably would have thought it was a good "energy", but not with that pain. And thre is no way i could have caused that myself.

Thanks for the links..I've posted requesting a reading. Maybe someone can shed some light as to what that was.

Thank you again for everything!

God bless you!

LOVE

Lavinia

 
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