Thought of the day
"The world is a dangerous place. Not because of the people who are evil; but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
I was inspired by someone to open this thread. A post where we can write one inspiring thought everyday ...something to start the engine with...an idea to remember thought the day...maybe a challenge that will helps us grow...a push to make a difference in someone's life...or something to remind us why we're here...
I'll go first:
Imagine that every man you meet today has sign on its forehead that says "Make me feel important"
Have a wonderful day!
Oh I'm so relieved there's an explanation for the fogginess and it does make sense that they are more in the morning and evening. Sometimes thought they last throughout the day. I wish my body would get used to their presence and the awakening and stop behaving like this :P Either way, I'll be patient; it can't last forever.
I've noticed that hands on healing makes it worse for a while and then better. But doesn't seem to take it away completely. And it's strange cause it works just fine on anything else. Maybe it's because there's no real problem, just an adjustment.
Thank you for the link; I'll check it out now. I'm crazy about crystals and have several of them. I don't know where it's better to keep them; i just keep them all in a pyramid shaped box on a little altar i made with candles and incests. And a black tourmaline at the entrance of the house.
Thanks and God bless you!
Wow Heather, sounds like you had some frightening experiences yourself. It's strange that your doctors didn't find anything in your case...I guess it really is isn't related to anything physical.
I haven't had anything similar happen since...but something else has been happening and apparently there's no medical explanation for it. I feel a constant pressure in mu head; some people call it head fog and ear popping, like when you change altitude ( in the mountains or on a plane). It's more frequent in the mornings and evenings and it goes away if I take a pill. I just don't really know how to explain it.
Thanks for sharing your story!
Wow, what a wonderful experience Ashley! You are so lucky to be able to communicate with them. I only get glimpses of them. I'm still working on getting a better relationship with them.
I saw Archangel Michael once too. He came to protect me once. It was soooo nice.
You can practice on me too if you have the time. I would really like to know more about them. I will pm you the questions.
Check it out and tell me what you think: http://www.axyy-filme.com/filme/the-sunset-limited-2011/
I think you'll be surprised. It's based on a play and they are not so "happy end- predictable-hero saves all- Hollywood".
Thanks for the movie titles. I'll check then out!
I LOVED your story! I love the AHA moments and seeing how the universe conspires to give us what we want when we want it bad enough.
Keep me posted about how your initiations went!I wanna hear all about it :D I'm having my level 2 in 2 weeks.
Thank you Brian for your concern and advice. I am indeed doing better and nothing like that has happened since. As for things changed, I did notice on weird thing. One of the wall tile in my bathroom broke in half..just like that..I found the broken part on the floor. I cant imagine how that happened. It was a tile behind the toilet that I couldn;t have broken myself..and it's a brand new bathroom ( 6 months). I found that reeeeallly strange.
Everything else was pretty much the same. From what I can remember.
I did have a weird dream during the blackout where I was sitting with some older men trying top make a decision together about my life..somehow. Something about what I had to do..do it or not...how to do it..I just cant remember what it was.
From what I read right temporal lobe seizures ( cause medically that's what it was) are responsible for "God experiences". That's where we have our spiritual experiences. so maybe that's what it was. Maybe my "soul family " or guides just had to have a "talk" with me and did this. I just can't imagine why they went this far and not just use a easier less hurtful thing. Or maybe it was me who triggered it, subconsciously. I also read that this happens in kundalini too.
God bless you!
It happens to me often too. Sometimes it seems they don't want me to say anything, just be there and listen. As I'm typing this I'm listening to a friend on the phone who's talking. She doesn't want advice..just to talk
It's good to know we can help, even if it's draining sometimes.
LOL, your comment about the dollars made me laugh :P
You're right about everything you said...and how that little voice is always there in the beginning of some relationships and yes, i do ignore it sometimes and i'm always wrong to do so. I have to listen to it more often...
Thank you Merrick!
I just did the same thing today, with a friend of mine. And she hasn't called back since. I don;t know what will come of it but at least I'll know where we stand.
I know what you mean about letting the do succeed on their own. I just hope I will know the difference between a friends help and when it's too much.
Thank you Stephanie! I wish I was little tougher on them like you. Some could really use that!
You're so right Robert; perfect word...cycles. That's exactly how I feel; like I'm running around in circles, and they're not even mine. Well, I broke one with a friend of mine today. I finally had enought today and told her I'm done talking about that subject. She'll have to deal with it herself. She hasn't called me since lunch today, when I told her, which is rare for her ( she calls 4 times a day with the SAME problem; like a broken record). I'm curious to see what got from my backing out.
Thank you Robert!
God bless you!
That's very interesting Bing, thanks for the description;' I didn't know much about my name, other than it was Latin.
I've checked out that site you gave me..I just love those videos. I've also signed up for the newsletter. That was what you were talking about, right? Is this your site?
I 've recently started communicating with my guides and angles and you're right, it does give you chills...the things they do...I'm so sorry I didnt start this before. I wish I would have known them sooner. I've also contacted some of the Archangels and they are so quick and loving, it's amazing. Thanks for telling about the others; I was only in contact with Michael and Raphael. I didnt know what the others did.
Thank you Ashley!
Thankfully I have found the answers in the meanwhile. It turns out it WAS a medical reason behind all that, but that is not mu main concern. I know that every disease has a deeper meaning inside. Somewhere somehow I did something wrong that resulted in that seizure. I asked for guidance to know what it was I was doing wrong. And got it. And now I'm working on solving the problem. And luckily I have a few very loving and wise guides that are helping me every step of the way. I am so grateful for them!
Blessings and love!
Oh Bing thank you so much! And you're so right. Hopefully I'll be able to stay on course and not go back to old ways. Cause It's pretty much what I'm doing. I said NO, felt guilty, went back, drained, said no again and so on. I loved the Jesus and Buddha comment you mane..I was told that several times by my guides and well..God too ( sorry if anyone finds it a blasphemy but I like to go straight to the source) , that I cant do everything and I cant most certainly not do it alone. I must always ask them for help, which I rarely do actually...my ego tends to be very independent, but I'm working on that too.
Thank you again and for he videos too. I love watching these king of inspirational videos. They really make my day.
Bless you and lots of love and light for you!
Wow that is a really touching story. I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I feel sorry for the little girl. But luckily you managed to get away from it. And you know, even though what you told her may have scared and hurt her at that moment, I think you did the right thing. Some things just need to be told no matter how much they hurt. Maybe one day she will realize it herself and do something to correct it rather and hit her head in the sand or run away.
Thank you for sharing that!
Yes, that is a a possibility Maria. I too make many vitamins, sometimes I think too much. And I had recently stopped taking painkillers which I took for years before.
The truth is, it could be any number of things, Even the doctor I saw said there is no known cause for epileptic seizures. cause that's what it was.
The thing I found interesting was that the seizure originated in the right temporal lobe and when I did a google search on it I found that people with right temporal lobe epilepsy have GOD experiences during seizures. Apparently that lobe is responsible for our spiritual believes and experiences. And God only know, I;ve done so many of those lately. ) I'm guessing that might be the cause. An imbalance. I neglected "real" life for too long and it was time to get back to it and manage both. At least that's how I took it.
Thanks again for your post!
I like that approach Kristin. Thanks for the tip. I've tried something similar a few times but they seem fixated on "ME ME ME" and they either just take the discussion back to them or..the friend that stopped talking to me..she would just bluntly say it "Hey, we were talking about me"... But I;ll work on it more!
It doesn't sound harsh at all. We have to take care of ourselves and be in good shape before we can attend to others. I just forget to put myself first sometimes and other times when I do, I feel guilty. I just have to get over it.
And the truth is...it has all gotten much better since I've found I am an empath and found this site.But I also have a natural tendency to get bored 5 minutes after completing a task and when I get over one obstacle I just move on to the next one..or find another "mountain" to climb. This is just another one: how to get off the glue that gets people stuck on me and STILL help.
Thank you so much for answering! And I love your last comment about not having a shortage of people who want to our friends :D That sure is true.
People can be so lazy sometimes, don't they? I understand it so well. The more I see people do that the more I back away..that's actually what I've been doing lately; hence the loosing of friends. Progress isnt done in words but actions; Stop complaining and get to work, get your hands dirty.
I'm torn between that and...my ideal of an utopic world...kind of unrealistic, I know. Working on it :D
Oh I could never stop helping people...It's what I do :P I just hate it when it turns to this..there's a difference between help and a being a doormat or a napkin or a ..crutch..you get the point I need to establish some ground rules for my "job"; for me first of all. Like I said a minute ago, I sometimes don;t know when to stop. I have a habit of given them "tools" and when they dont use them or they dont works..I give more tools...that is when I dont help my doing it myself..
Time to get to work I guess! "Back to school" :D
Thank you Sleepy. Btw, good to have you back with us!
I do do that quite frequently...tell them I'm busy, which isnt actually a lie most of the time. I am pretty busy.
They just keep coming back. Or are very pushy sometimes when I say I'm busy. I have this friend who calls me while I'm at work ( I usually dont answer but sometimes she calls from a dif no. so I think it's a client) and even when I tell her load and clear " I cant talk now. I'll call you back in an hour. Bye" she just starts talking ..Just like that. It's incredible..like she doesnt hear me. I hung up on her once ) I was driving, didnt have my hands free on and there was a policeman around the corner. Told her I gotta go NOW and she kept talking. And I hung up.:)) Some of these things are just... beyond me.
Thanks for the advice Sleepy!
"Hmmm, I'm not getting anything. What do YOU think?" - I love that Sandy. I think I'm gonna use that next time.
"I dont know what you should do. No clue. What do YOU think?" kind but firm like you said. Let's see what happens.:D
Thank you so much Sandy!
Blessings and love!
Thank you Misu. I totally agree. As a matter of fact I have said no and lost a friend over that; and had numerous fights because of it with another. I guess that's my main concern with it...They take it so personal that...sometimes I wonder if we are really friends something else... I don;t want to losse them and at the same time, even I do loose them, I want them to understand why I say NO. But they dont.
I guess that;'s not my decision to make , is it? What they understand and what not...
Thank you again Misu!
God bless you!
The people that come to me for empathic help or comfort after a while, have a tendency to leach on to me I feel like they become addicted to some degree. I'm not sure if this is the right term but it's the only one I can think of now. They seem to "use" me as a crutch and after a while aren't able to stand on their own; they always need to to encourage the, advice them, listen to them, even with the smallest things. And I KNOW that's not healthy for them; it's not what I want to be and not my idea of "help" ( it turns against them eventually).
What I'm asking is, I guess, how do I make it stop? How do I get them back on their own feet and not leaning on me for every little thing? And how do I prevent this happening in the future with other people?
I've tried telling this to a friend once in the nicest manner possible at that time and it turned against me. Now she not only doesn;t talk about things but she makes me feel guilty every time she has a problem, for abandoning her and letting her deal with it on her own. And I can't go to her with my stuff cause well...I "left" her. It's just so childish...
Any suggestions? Anyone else with this kind of behavior around them?
You're not horrible Jeanie! I'm sure there a good reason you don't like kids, even if you don't know why yet. Not everybody does and that doesn't make them horrible.
There are some kids that can be really annoying :P I see so many a day and there are places I go where most kids are annoying... They're people, just like us..only smaller and ..raw in emotions and behavior :D
I went to see the doctor yesterday and had some test done today to see what's up; I promised to write back when I know something. It turns out, it was a mild episode of epilepsy. Meowski and Jamie, you were on the spot with your hunches. They still have to run more test to get to the bottom of it.
Well this is all the news I have. I'm gonna start reading on epilepsy now cause I don't know much about it or what could have caused it.
Thank you all again for your support! Thank God it wasn't a demon :D
I feel like that most of the time.I envy the "ignorance" in others. I wish I could be an empath ONLY when needed and the rest of the time be normal... I pick up on so many emotions during the day and when i get home I feel drained.. It does get exhausting, doesn't it?
Hang in there Wolf...there's gotta be a reason for all of this and we'll find a way to get through it.
For me, just knowing I'm not alone, that there are other people like me out there, has helped a lot. Knowing that I can write here and say what happened to me and get an "I understand" back,..it means a great deal. It's more than I ever got from others up until a few months ago.
Keep your head up and your heart open!
Love and big bear hugs for you!
...or ..you make room for greater things to fit into your world..perspective...
I know saying is one things and applying is another...but it just takes one foot in front of the other, not the entire journey in one jump.
Keep the faith!
Thank you for the link. It's very helpful! Although it doesn't exactly describe what happened to me..it's an option. Even though, i gotta say, demons or got know what other creepy things are not exactly something I'm excited about, epilepsy isn't either. I've never had anything like this happen to me EVER. And I wouldn't like to start now. But we'll see.
I'm going to the doctor's office tomorrow and see what comes up. I will bring up epilepsy too.
I'll keep you guys posted.
Thank you again si much for your concern and for the link!
Sending you lots of love and a big bear HUG!
Oh Meowski, I wish it would have been an intestinal virus..but I'm pretty sure it wasn't. I had my share of stomach problems i the past, some worse that a virus and nothing can compare to what happened yesterday.
I had a good night sleep last night...no dreams..no pain. I woke up pretty ok..my elbow still hurts though. I'm guessing it will take a few days before it gets better.
I didn't think to record last night...but I will have a camera ready today when i get back from work..just in case something else happens. I sure hope it doesn't though..it was scary and painful enough the first time.
I does feel like i was knocked out..that's exactly how it felt... If it weren't for the pain in my arm, i probably would have thought it was a good "energy", but not with that pain. And thre is no way i could have caused that myself.
Thanks for the links..I've posted requesting a reading. Maybe someone can shed some light as to what that was.
Thank you again for everything!
God bless you!