Forum Activity for @lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/07/15 08:50:18AM
212 posts



Thank you MoonGirl! I'll look into it! <3

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/07/15 08:49:21AM
212 posts



Thank you very much for this SnakeMedicine! Sorry it took me so long to write back.

I'll look ore deeply into it now that you pointed these aspects out.

Withe the chart I made I didn't see these. Where can I get such a detailed natal chart like the one you sent me?

Lavinia
@lavinia
01/18/15 10:56:59PM
212 posts



Here they are:

Chiron Taurus 28.47 R
Ceres Pisces 2.11
Pallas Aquarius 4.48
Juno Taurus 3.07
Vesta Gemini 19.08 R
Fortune Aries 0.00
South node Aries 0.00
Lavinia
@lavinia
01/18/15 10:56:00PM
212 posts



Thanks Snakemedicine!

I know I have a lot of lessons and challenges in those areas. Relationships mostly.

I haven't really paid much attention to the asteroids but I will.

Thanks!

<3

Lavinia
@lavinia
01/18/15 10:54:41PM
212 posts



Here it is. It was attached to the message above.

Lavinia
@lavinia
01/18/15 08:48:12AM
212 posts



Can anyone tell if I have any unusual configurations in my chart? I'm not looking for a reading, if there are any, just to know if there are and I can look it up. I looked at my chart but I have no experience with this so i'm not sure.

Thank you to anyone who can help!


updated by @lavinia: 01/30/17 11:46:01AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
09/29/14 12:33:10PM
212 posts

Composite chart? Help!


New Age

Thank you SnakeMedicine! I'll check them out now. I didn't have any specific question in mind, just wanted to know how compatible we are according to that chart. :)

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/29/14 09:22:09AM
212 posts

Composite chart? Help!


New Age

Can anybody read a composite chart or direct me to a site where i can learn about it?

I made this online for me and my bf. but I don't know how to interpret it.

Thanks!


updated by @lavinia: 04/23/17 05:51:07PM
Lavinia
@lavinia
08/29/14 06:29:20AM
212 posts

Past life in natal chart?


New Age

Is it possible to get info on my past life from my natal chart? As in lessons that i need to learn, issues left unsolved, etc? I did get a a natal chart reading once from a very kind lady here in EC but I would like to know more. If anyone is good with this and would like to offer some help.

Thanks!

Blessings!


updated by @lavinia: 03/01/17 08:45:03AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
08/21/14 06:37:54AM
212 posts

What crystal is this?


Tools for Empaths

Could it be a moss or a tree agate?

Lavinia
@lavinia
08/21/14 06:37:39AM
212 posts

What crystal is this?


Tools for Empaths

Thank you Krissy!

Lavinia
@lavinia
08/21/14 06:18:19AM
212 posts

What crystal is this?


Tools for Empaths


updated by @lavinia: 06/07/17 02:06:43AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/13/14 10:03:02AM
212 posts

How do you handle being "in the closet"?


Empath

It's starting to be a drag for me and it's getting harder having no one in my life to talk to about how I really am versus what they see or would like to see in me. My empathic gifts and all others that came with it have become stronger and I think that's what makes it harder that I have no one to relate to. Not in my "real" life. And Anyone I open up about anything empath related, even it's just small stuff, people look at me like a freak. I just feel like a fake going on pretending I'm "normal".

How does everyone else handle it or "survive" with it?


updated by @lavinia: 05/18/17 08:46:36AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
05/31/13 08:50:21AM
212 posts

Sensitivity to Food


Empath

I'm very sensitive to food too and it's gets harder during stress periods. I think the reason we have a sensitive stomach and it could be related to empaths, it's because the power center, the area where we feel emotions is located in the stomach area and with so much energy going in, no wonder we have trouble with it.

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/22/13 02:55:30PM
212 posts

Moldavite


Tools for Empaths

Very interesting Lightsharer. Thanks for sharing! I'm gonna check it out now.

Love,

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/22/13 02:53:49PM
212 posts

Moldavite


Tools for Empaths

Very interesting about the loosing thing. I haven;t lost any of my crystals yet, but I have broken a few, well they sort of broke on their own. I guess they weren;t for me or I wasn;t ready cause I felt really drawn to them.

I understand your experience of "aren;t they coming back for me?"; I've always felt and still feel that Home is somewhere else. Maybe that's why me and my moldavite stone get along and I feel at peace with it...I just let it take me where-ever it wants to. LOL

Thanks!

Love,

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/22/13 02:49:26PM
212 posts

Moldavite


Tools for Empaths

That's very interesting George!

I didn't have that experience with it the first time I touched it but I did feel tingling in my hands and I can feel how strong it is.

So far I've had a good connection with it. No many important visions or messages from TS's LOL, but I feel it as being powerful and working.

I'm gonna check out Kyanite as well. I could use a peaceful stone right now. :D

Thanks!

Love,

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/06/13 12:07:37PM
212 posts

Moldavite


Tools for Empaths

That's a very interesting and beautiful stone. I didn;t know about it, like you with moldavite LOL I guess we both learned something today.

Blessings!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/06/13 06:04:51AM
212 posts

Moldavite


Tools for Empaths

I haven't found this stone discussed in this group. If there is a discussion already, my apologies.

Have any of you worked with Moldavite before?

I just got my first one and I heard it's very powerful in working with the other realms. I guess because it's considered to be of extraterrestrial origin.

I haven't worked with mine yet, but I can feel it's strong and I had a strong pull from it to buy it. And I was wondering what your experiences are with this stone, if any.

Blessings!

Lavinia


updated by @lavinia: 02/27/17 09:13:31PM
Lavinia
@lavinia
09/17/12 11:30:14AM
212 posts

Can empaths be masters of manipulation?


Empath

I don;t like him! There's something very odd in his eyes that sends chills down my back.

He feels more like an energy vampire type. That's the feeling I get form him; like an energy raper...the kind with strong energy that seems to take over others and make them do what he wants them to. LOL, manipulator indeed.

On another note, i think empaths can be manipulators if they want to. We def. have the skills and advantages for that. But it's ll in how you want to live and who you choose to be. Empathy and our sensitivity is just a tool we are given, like any other. We use it how we choose.

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/15/12 03:53:18PM
212 posts



Believe it or not, judge me or not, I'm a skeptic.

And an emapth and slightly psychic.

To me, being skeptic is as natural as being an empath. It's not really a choice, it's just how I am. The moment I hear something I question it and I won;t believe it till I have proof of it. Of course, proof is good enough or not depending on the person.for example: As far as I'm concerned God does exist and although i have no physical evidence of his existence I have other things that to ME prove he does exist; while if someone tells me garlic can cure cancer, I would need prove before I believe it, I would need to see at least 1 person cured by garlic of cancer. Does my example make sense?

I consider myself to be a very open minded person while still being a skeptic. Meaning that if i don;t have prove of something ( life on Mars for example or someone seeing dead people) I won;t believe it WHILE i still keep an open mind to it being true but not proven yet.

I hope I'm making sense here and I won;t be judged too harshly LOL

Of course there are those skeptics that go very deep and new rock hard evidence for everything. And are mostly closed minded but not everyone is like that. Proof means different things to different people.

Love,

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/10/12 02:18:22AM
212 posts

Beginning to get more sensitive


Empath

Whatever you feel is best for you Jonny, Go with gut. It is never wrong.

Bless you!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/09/12 03:56:14PM
212 posts



I'm an actress, got a BA in Acting and now I work in theater and also work with children a lot; interactive theater for children mostly.

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/09/12 03:50:41PM
212 posts

Beginning to get more sensitive


Empath

I have been getting a lot more sensitive as well in the last months, both emotionally and physically. Everything is more intense. But I'm also getting stronger and better equipped to deal with it...if that makes sense. It's like something is taking over me guiding me every step of the way and my intuition is through the roof. So it sort of compensates. I guess as we're getting closer to the end of a cycle, things change even more.

Lavinia
@lavinia
08/05/12 02:38:05AM
212 posts

I think I've finaly figured it out!


Empath

I know what you're saying Scooby and I've been thinking like this for a while. It's actually one of the reaosns i've been isolating myself from them, I refused to help anymore after the first try if i saw they were either getting too attached and dependend on my help or not wanting to change aything at all about their problem.

But this s not enought for me. It still leaves a very important question unanswered: what is the point of me feeling others feeling if i can't do anything about it?

So this answer was given. I can only hope something good will come out of it.

Thanks and blessings!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
08/04/12 03:47:56PM
212 posts

I think I've finaly figured it out!


Empath

Thanks Natasha!

I realize that it may not always be right, the kind of help i am giving. I expect for that to happen :)) But then again, it has happened many times before with my own ideas of help, I'm hoping it will happen less if i just listen to what they need, what their feelings are telling me. Either way it's worth the try.

I'm so tired of feeling their feelings and having the sense that there's no reaosn for it..juts pure pain with no gain. I wanna try to get SOME good out of it ;)

Blessings and LOVE!

Lavinia

Lavinia
@lavinia
08/04/12 01:47:50PM
212 posts

I think I've finaly figured it out!


Empath

After a few months of empathic isolation when I was getting more and more tired of others people's energies and their frustrations making me tired by noon everyday, not being able to figure out what is the point of me feeling what they are feeling since I can't help them ( cause i do try but it seems like most of them dont want or arent ready to be helped), I had an insigt today fter a fight in the family.

Thanks to my angles ( or whoever is guiding me from the other side), i found or was told, that the reason I'm feeling their feeling is because that's the only way of knowing what kind of help they need in a particular situation. If I just feel their feeling and dont act or act like i would want others to help me in that situation, it won;t get me anywhere. But if i let those feeling guide me, I will know what kinda of help they really need. Does that make sense? It make perfect sense to me LOL

Of course, now I ctaully have to experience it next time and see if i find an answer to the kind of help they need.

Blessing all!

Lavinia


updated by @lavinia: 01/13/17 02:17:06AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
03/24/12 02:18:35PM
212 posts

Facebook user? Need your help for my PhD dissertion on Empaths!


Empath

Done! Great job on the page btw! <3

Lavinia
@lavinia
03/08/12 02:29:58AM
212 posts



Agreed! With all you said!

It's sad that not many people think like this. It's even worse that they don;t realize how much harm it does to deny the past and bury it like it didn;t happen. All the people we met, all the realtionships we had and everything we went through is what made us who we are now. Dening that is like saying I'm not ok the way I am now...

All we can do if spread thw word and hope people will want to see that and stop expecting us to change out truth to fit theirs!

Lavinia
@lavinia
03/07/12 10:49:23AM
212 posts



I so get what you're saying...It does seem like a third enitity. It's so hard when people tell you " you'll meet someone else, someone better"...it's like trying to replace someone that died, you can't.

I never looked at it like this before but it makes so much sense.


updated by @lavinia: 01/15/17 10:53:23AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/21/12 10:37:05PM
212 posts



Thank you for the reading! tI actually fits what my intuition has been teling me to do ;)

Bless you!

<3

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/16/12 11:53:39AM
212 posts



Hope. It's the only things that still keeps me going when i fall. Hope that something will change for the better, hope that i will be ok in the end, hope that i get to go home when life is over...hope for anything better.

An God...He keeps me going, pulls me up even when i don't want to get up, stands by me even when i don't even what Him around...

Hope this helps.

<3


updated by @lavinia: 01/03/17 10:45:40AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/16/12 09:13:33AM
212 posts



Leave!


updated by @lavinia: 01/14/17 05:06:48AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/14/12 09:29:14PM
212 posts



My question, or better said, the situation i'm interested in is the relatonship btween me and Alex. :)

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/12/12 01:21:32PM
212 posts



I want one! :D Do I have to ask the question here or just know it for me?

Thanks!


updated by @lavinia: 01/20/17 12:51:26AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/12/12 12:56:18PM
212 posts



Wow! I'm so glad. I haven;t dome his in a while. I guess it's not lost after all :D Thanks for posting the challange!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/12/12 12:31:19PM
212 posts

How do you know?


Empath

Wow, this sounds fascinating! I'v never heard of this before; it does remind me though a bit of animus and anima from Jung. I'm not sure if it's the same theory or close but I will look this up.

Thank you Amy!

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/12/12 04:15:38AM
212 posts

How do you know?


Empath

You're right Annabelle! I need more self analyse. Once I know how I feel, I should be able to tell the differnce. And it seems like a posibility that my feelingns are a combination of all thos ethings I mentioned.

Thanks!

<3

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/11/12 11:42:51PM
212 posts

How do you know?


Empath

How do you know the diference between you own feelings and someone elses? Sometimes it's easy yes, you can see your mood or feelings change suddenly when in the presence of someone, or you can tell they were not yours when they suddenly dissapear after you have leftt the proximity of that person.

But is that always the case? How can you be sure or tell the difference between someone elses's feelings and our own feelings possibly trigered by that person (for various reasons; eg. they remind you of someone who left a big mark on you).

How do you guys tell the difference?

And in short I'll give you my situation now ( maybe you guys can make better sense of it that i can) : Ive been dating this guy for about a month now; he's the kind you can;t read, I can't anyway and he's also very closed in himself; he has a lot of bariers. I can read a few things about him if i try really hard sometimes...And when I'm with him, except with very few ocasions, I feel very anxious, i feel my heart really heavy, I have a knot in my stomach and I can get angry very fast and suddenly sometimes for no apparent reason or for very little. ( don't ask what i DO like about him, lol). So I'm wondering if it's his feelings that i'm picking up or if it's just my frustration with him having so many barriers, being hard to read and,...yes, he does remind me of my ex, just a bit.


updated by @lavinia: 01/14/17 07:38:19PM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/11/12 11:31:23PM
212 posts



You said it yourself Peter! Educate! Bring up our kids to believe that and try to help the grownups see that as well; the ones that are willing of course ;)

Lavinia
@lavinia
02/11/12 02:10:33PM
212 posts



Anything is possible and everything that should be heale will/can be healed.

Either way it doesn't hurt to try, you never know. :)


updated by @lavinia: 01/07/17 01:12:20AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
02/11/12 03:05:17AM
212 posts



I'm getting fish or fly ( or some f in the word ) :)); confusion; joints ( elbows or knees); strech.

I'm so rusty, I haven;t done anything like this in a while. ;)


updated by @lavinia: 01/13/17 03:15:08AM
Lavinia
@lavinia
12/30/11 03:51:06PM
212 posts

Is it just me?


New Age

I feel very atracted to anything about egypt and WW2, these 2 are major. Africa too and the natives sometimes. I'm pretty siure I was part of ww2 in my previous life. I even had a dream when i was a kid about being shot in the war, very very real.

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/24/11 09:06:52AM
212 posts

What do you do when...


Empath

Life Path, your words have really helped me not to drown into the trap of self hate and self doubt. I am still doubting some stuff but mainly I trust myself to be strong enough to get through this and wise enough to tell when i am wrong. Surprisingly, after getting over the first few days, now it's not as bad as I thought it would be. And that is thanks to God ( ! who I though had left me) who is holding me through this and thanks to you guys with everything you said. It has all helped me more than you can imagine.

It's still dealing with the pain of it all but I'm trying to take it one day at a time and hope that one day it will pass.

I'll try to be gentle on myself and not beat myself up for being so foolish; it's not easy, but at least I'm doing the bast I can.

Thank you so much for all your kind words and thank God for sending you back to EC to answer :D

God bless you Life Path!

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/24/11 06:42:48AM
212 posts

What do you do when...


Empath

Luna your words have been so helpful in learning and understanding this situation, I can't thank you enough. I went to see him after posting here and reading your responses and I realized just what you said, among other things. Since finding out about being and empath and how to cope , I learned to make the difference between certain things and I'm still learning. Finding new things about me. And I was surprised to see I was still seeing him that way but also seeing more clearly the difference between his soul and his "armor" like you said, and seeing how much he identified himself with it. I also learned to react to people and situations based on the reality of what they do and say rather than on the potential of their soul that I see in them. That is what I did all my life and I see how much that can hurt me. It was even more clear in his case because with other people sometimes they lived up to their potential.

This has been a valuable lesson for me since I know now in practice rather then theory that all people have free will and choose what and who they wanna be and I have to accept that for what it is and not interfere with their freedom to do so, unless asked.

Thank you again so much!

God bless you Luna!

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/24/11 04:55:36AM
212 posts

What do you do when...


Empath

You're describing exactly how I feel. And after reading what you posted I started thinking about how he treated others too. The truth is I didn't see him treating others badly many times but there have been many people that told me " how can you be with him? how can you love him like that?"; and the truth is, he wasn't like that with me; or maybe he was sometimes, in small portions, there where red flags now that I think of it, I just chose to ignore them. Until now when they where impossible to ignore. You helped me open my eyes even more but mentioning that. Cause I thought about it since you posted and it has helped me a lot.

I know ( and hope) I will come out of this stronger. And what you and the others said has helped me lot. So I thank you very much for the insight and great advice!

Love and blessings!

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/24/11 04:47:29AM
212 posts

What do you do when...


Empath

I suppose I had to learn my lesson too on reading people the wrong way. It was my first experience of the kind, but I guess in the long run it has it's benefits. We''re not always right. And yes, the more I think about it the more I see the little red flags that you're talking about , flags that I ignored.

Over the past few days I've been trying to make sense of all of this and trying to find my balance again and all the things that you and others said have helped me a lot. And you are so right. I did let my emotions get in the way ( I'm a newly found empath and it's a skill I have to work on, learning how to differentiate, that is) and I did second guess myself and my faith. I'm starting to see clearly now and I have you to thank for that. :)

And God! I may not always understand why he does certain things ( or maybe it's not even him, maybe it's me and my fee will he gave to me) but he sure is always there to catch me when I fall and I am so grateful for that.

Thank you again for your insight and help!

God bless you!

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/24/11 04:40:58AM
212 posts

What do you do when...


Empath

It seems like you were right, I got pulled out of the dark hole very quickly. I guess He hasn't abandoned me yet. Once more He is proving he's always there to help ( even when I don't ask). Sometimes I just wish I coud have a break from all the trails...just once in a while.

Thanks so much for the insight Faith Spirit Love!

Blessings!

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/24/11 04:37:43AM
212 posts

What do you do when...


Empath

Thank you Kiote! Love is blind, very blind in my case and I sure hope God had a good reason for pushing me towards some people. I'm still working to find out what my lesson is.

Bless you! LOVE!

Lavinia
@lavinia
09/17/11 04:50:45AM
212 posts

What do you do when...


Empath

you realize that everything you saw and felt in some people ( on empathic and non empathic terms) is not real? Can you still consider yourself an empath? Or is it just a matter of bad reading and refusing to see the bad side of people that is staring you right in the face?

I have been very disappointed by "friends" and people I've known for years, all recently, all within this last year. And I'm talking radical changes in them, in their attitude, in everything they were before. Most recently was a guy who I've known for years who I always felt I had a strong bond with, who I loved and thought he did too, who I felt had a very good soul and...it turns out he's none of the things i thought he was, there were never any feelings at all and all of it was in my head. But I felt something in him, I saw his soul just lke I saw it in all of the others that changed in the last year.

So now I'm in a state of shock, not understanding what happened? not knowing what it was that I saw in those people, reconsidering my abilities in reading people, wondering if I'm an empath at all and even considering just being plain crazy.

I'm doubting God too as well, like I've never done before. I know it's not right to blame him but I can't understand why he didn;t warm me when I asked him for help and why he even pushed me to these people when I asked what to do. Why he said it would be ok and that I'm right in what I see. Maybe I was never "talking" to him...?

Please, if there's anyone that can explain this to me, or anyone that has gone through the same thing or similar...I would really appreciate some help. I'm at the bottom of the dark hole ( again!) and this time I'm wondering what , if any, is the point of coming out.

thanks for anyone who took the time to read!

Bless you!


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