Both parties are empaths - suspecting Twinflames
Psychic and Paranormal
@ladygirl86 hi, I find your post really interesting; I cant help but feel part of you doesn't want to let him go or that you kind of took a step back to respect his wishes to move on with someone else? and he somewhat feels at a loss of possibly letting you go, the fact that he keeps coming back perhaps there's more beneath the surface that should be addressed between the two of you?
being an empath myself on a continuous learning experience I find myself caught in synchronicity with some people that I'm connected to on a spiritual level and I too see particular numbers that stand out to me, especially concerning the very first moment someone I met. I don't know much about numerology and its association with empathy aside they may play some significance to some extent but cannot determine as to what. Having said that I did at one point look into more detail the difference between soulmates and twinflames and as much as there is a spark, I cannot determine if its meant to be short-lived or something secure in the future. but what/how do you feel in your situation?
in terms of relationships its tough especially that you mentioned you were never able to feel fulfilled on a more intimate level, is that on an empathic level in terms of relationships with someone who is non-empathic or with empathic partners? just want to try and understand your situation more.
Thank you for coming by and the input. I have been away to the other side of the world trying to clear my head on the whole situation. I tried to stay as far away from him as possible to prevent him from feeling me - he's a clairsentient. His ability has been proven to me many times. I was absolutely shattered learning of our connection - I didn't want it to be true. As I explained, it is very very hard for me to accept such a man on the principle level in the 3d world, and I told him this already.
Since posted my initial posting, he has reached out to me again twice inquiring my return date to the States - this was 20 days after he had told me he had started seeing someone and I broke it off with him . I finally responded to him 7 days post his last inquiry telling him my return date. He asked how my trip was going and I told him it was amazing (i kept it short.) I asked if he needed something from me, to which he quickly responded saying how I deserved an amazing time, without answering my direct question or addressing what he wanted from me via the outreach.
I met someone (let's call him B) this past week. We have a strong connection (but nowhere as close to the level of my other one), but not energetically. We talked for hours and hours and it's been crazy to have met someone with whom I get along so effortlessly. He checks all of my 3d boxes: handsome, hot (really nice body), charming, compassionate, honest, loyal (from what I can see - he asked to commit to me even after I told him about the TF guy), Amazing SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY... However, again, nothing compared to the energetic connection I shared with my suspected twin-flame. With my TF, just looking at his picture sends chills down my spines. I can still feel my TF, like he banged the chick or something (or maybe it's just in my head). Perhaps, he could feel me banging the new guy too. Sex with my new guy is WAYYYYYYYYYY better than with my TF (because my TF seems to have ED, his hardons are sporadic).
To answer the your last question, Violet, I have never been with an empath before. I have or now had never met anyone who is sexually compatible to me (well, until this new aforementioned guy came along these past few days.)
I feel like with my TF, we still have unfinished business, which is why I feel like a crucial conversation is impending. I know he will come around in the future, I want to nip that in the butt. I never suffer from the lack of male attention (sounds snobbish but factual.) So what my TF did to me was the ultimate offense, no gray areas. I am still very strongly connected to him, I can feel it.
I am contemplating having a conversation with him if he reaches out again to tell him of this special spiritual connection that we share, at the same time telling him that it is OVER between us as I cannot accept a man who is so confused and insecure. Is that too cruel?
When I met my TF, I can keenly sense his anxiety from miles away and that he was very insecure. I even told him what I sensed. This was unusual to me because I normally find insecure man unattractive. Again, the whole TF concept has been strange. He is aware that I am of a higher social status than he is, how other men always double take me out in public which he had also witnessed. I think his insecurity took the best of his judgement when he decided to pursue the other chick. He stated that because he was moving to Florida for work in 6 months (we are in the Northeast) (a decision that I helped him make, btw) that he didn't see a future for us. (raised my eyebrows - so the chick is already in Florida? and how exactly does it differ from what we had, given we are now still closer in distance for the next 6 months than he and the chick are?! But I didn't care enough to ask.) To me, this whole thing smells like B.S., which is why it is unacceptable to me. This would have been the 3rd time that he run away from me, he came back every time. Thing is I am exhausted and do not want this to continue. I already let go given the ultimate offense. I was never going to take him back given what he did to me.
Now that I let go of my TF, B came into my life almost immediately it seemed. He has all the qualities I have been looking for in a partner. I am not confused, still keeping B at armslength. But I need to ensure my TF will never come back (it is ironic - I know) before I advance further with B or other relationships. Advice?
updated by @ladygirl86: 02/04/18 07:40:27PM