Awe, what kinda things you have in common?
What you said about your kids being brainwashed don't worry about that, kids overstep boundaries and stuff all the time, sometimes it's the norm, I know a few kids from a healthy presumably normal background and I gotta be a pain and look like a baddie to all my neighbors cause I have to teach their kids manners and discipline when they come over to ours, sometimes being too soft and lenient can damage they're understanding.. my husband does it all the time, he's very compassionate towards kids yet he needs learn that always trying to teach positivity doesn't always get you any favours..
And where I do know a friend who has a close relative with children from abused backgrounds the family dynamics impact they're understanding and how behaviours influences how that are towards other children or in they're development as part of growing up.. the woman is pretty narcy, but you'd never suss it, people post and share what they like to give an illusion of the life they live or want others to think they live, what goes on behind closed doors people will be surprised.. I'm pretty blatant and don't like to put my laundry out, if I feel I need to I do it with humour, and sometimes it is just that, why I never let him in that part of my life because it's all the freedom I have to express whatever I want without being scrutinised for it all the time.. and what I share with people ain't that bad, but it's like when we don't know how to keep outlet egos in check people can be controlling and the person won't even realise... Do you think there's a link with the different number combinations of 11's? I'm not really faffed about number unless people are interested then I don't mind exploring them