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empathinboston
@empathinboston
07/12/17 05:16:07PM
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Vampires?


Psychic and Paranormal

@zacharias we're all family. You "got this" - I knew it from the moment I read the first post...you are pure love. @hop-daddy may not recall, but he helped me a while back. Find you! You are powerful!!!!
empathinboston
@empathinboston
07/11/17 04:49:06PM
17 posts

Vampires?


Psychic and Paranormal

Geez - need to type slower! @zacharias ^^

empathinboston
@empathinboston
07/11/17 04:47:29PM
17 posts

Vampires?


Psychic and Paranormal

@Zacharias :) - we all have our own journey we're meant to go on, decipher info so our true/empathic/loving self can fully step into the forefront.  I hope you get to the point one day you don't have to seek the information.  As empaths, I feel like our minds/emotions/"extra feelings" create our own discord.  But every empath I've ever met is highly intelligent & analytical & out to solve problems.  I doubt that's coincidental. LOL!
Don't let this one do too much of a number on you:https://www.amazon.com/Psychic-Self-Defense-Instruction-Protecting-Paranormal/dp/1578635098 ; as mentioned, it was republished with the new forward basically saying "it's this simple".  
I'm not sure what religious practices you have, but regardless, for all of us, all of the Psalms are known to protect from external negative forces.  
Besides that - I just send you love!  Compassion transforms everything.  Even the darkest of things <3

empathinboston
@empathinboston
07/11/17 12:56:16PM
17 posts

Vampires?


Psychic and Paranormal

@hop-daddy - touche! 
And yes, beating out the attacks helped me move from a very unbalanced empath to embracing myself.  Without the experience, I likely would still be in "why me?" mode. Would love to share - some days I still wonder what world I opened myself up to during that period. 

@zacahrias -  I have a few pages of a book to share with you if you'd like (can send them to you).  You're so upfront, being a man of God and prayer, that I feel it may help you cope with all of this.  If you defer to everything outside of you and leave your own Soul aside, including veering away from God, it's what those the "interference" wants.  The most famous book of all time on Psychic Attack did a re-write after years of being the most sought book on the subject. The updated forward says:
1. Stop all personal connections with any source of considered attack
2. Don't do drugs
3. Don't meditate or connect with spiritual realms during this time - instead, focus on living a holy life and connect with your personal religious belief, regularly
4. Keep a healthy diet, get sleep, and connect with nature
5. Get a new positive hobby
After the most famous psychic attack, those 5 points are her advice; stop focusing on the attack and start focusing on you and your beliefs.  With that that said, your beliefs are most important and managing the sensitivities and angst we feel can be overwhelming many days. *I wouldn't recommend reading the whole book or it will just make your mind spin...unless you feel it's right for you!

In the end, you will be so much stronger for going through this!  All my love @zacharias 

empathinboston
@empathinboston
07/11/17 11:44:26AM
17 posts

Vampires?


Psychic and Paranormal

Does anyone else ever feel worse after reading all the opinions of everyone else and not just looking inside yourself to find the answer?  Just curious.  I feel (and noting right now that I'm writing this) - that when one person doesn't "feel" justified, the emotions go haywire.  I'm personally noting that my energy and responses will always affect others in this forum. 

Because I have been through a psychic attack - better yet, an attack that turned into spiritual warfare - that manifested demonic beings (oddly caught on camera, and yes, I feel crazy writing that) - I HAVE to agree (from my personal experience) with @hop-daddy / you can not be attacked for an extended amount of time from a human being unless they know how to get to you.  People don't just pick you out and harm you unless they know what you are. 

Understanding how to fight back as an empath really means NOT getting charged.  Feeling it, embracing you're experiencing something, and transmuting that by loving yourself, and breathing into YOURSELF. Fighting it, as I've stated before, and unfortunately learned the hard way, makes it worse and compounds the feelings you're receiving.  

As empaths, we're naturally gifted.  Don't play into the game - shut the door. @zacharias - I've even watched your entire mode of desire to "solve" transform in this thread.  Just something to be aware of. What are you picking up?  Go inside my friend...it's all within you. That is where you'll truly know how to stop whatever is going on.   

empathinboston
@empathinboston
07/07/17 02:18:36PM
17 posts

Vampires?


Psychic and Paranormal

I agree with all the above. @womanwhowalks I support all you said and your advice.  What I read into @zacharias was that you, @zacharias were looking for a solution and trying to understand the why, how, "how is this possible"...as @womanwhowalks stated, "it just is that people try to use our energy" ... it just "is".  It sucks, but we can't control others.  When I was in the state of trying to solve, I didn't go within...I wanted to solve and blame other ppl for putting me in my situation of being drained and attacked from a distance and infiltrated my entire life b/c of my own leaks in my field. @womanwhowalks - you're right on the money.
But no, never ignore it!  Discern from all the info out there within yourself so YOU overcome it and in the end, it's a lesson to strengthen the love body you're here to be.  As I said, don't listen to me...listen to yourself. Love to you both!  The brighter your light, the more you have to overcome.  Have a great wkd!

empathinboston
@empathinboston
07/07/17 10:51:07AM
17 posts

Vampires?


Psychic and Paranormal

@zacahrias - wow, what an experience.  When you're a bright light - I say it's like being the flame in "moth to a flame".  For empaths, especially if they're not somewhat aware, most would just have a panic attack and get off.  You obviously have the intuition to know when something is off - so that is awesome!
I've been dealing with some very strong energy vampires over the last year - literally crippled me and my children whom are also empathic.  I tried severing cords, cleaning my space....I tried EVERYTHING to get out of the psychic attack space.  After a year of doing all the "methods" that can work, my only true learning was that it was all because I was stuck in a negative/fear-based pattern.  Cord cutting, energy work, etc can give you some relief, but until you train your inner-self how to truly love, protect, and not spiral into fear...you're not solving the root issue, you're putting a bandaid on it.  
Energy vampires don't always know they're doing what they're doing. Sometimes they do.  As empaths, we take in a lot, but also take back energy because we process and put thoughts out there that introduce our energy as victims; the people on the plane may have siphoned your energy because they're just so miserable/and you picked up on it. That exchange of energy takes up a lot of our loved ones' energy, too - so, ultimately, we take energy as well (though without intent to harm). 
If you experience this anymore, my only suggestion is to sit back and experience it without resistance.  The resistance sets us in fear state - and that never solves anything besides really making yourself a victim. 
I read something recently. An leader/empath has a sign on their door: "Energy Vampires welcome. You will only be filled with loving energy."  In today's world, what's real and what's not is questionable.  Find your center & self-love, and energy vampires won't even be able to see you. I hope that makes sense.  
Energy vampires/psychic attacks are lessons for us...so we find our path to our strength and self-love....and how to take your power back. 
^this is a summary of a few very dark stories, but if you can keep yourself out of fear/blame/victimhood & over-thinking (we all do it & it can drive one crazy) - through love, acceptance, understanding, self-power, grounding, and forgiveness - you will be able to transmute any similar situation you come across within a few minutes and re-stabalize until you're no longer visible to energy stealers. Googling too much can be dangerous...discern what is right for you, not what someone online tells you (including me).  <3 I hope that helps!!

empathinboston
@empathinboston
03/27/17 10:05:15AM
17 posts

Has anyone done a past life regression?


Empath

@calmidwester - you will know if this is right for you.  The question itself means it is a question. Opening up that world for me personally (only a personal story, not trying to sway you in one way or another) - opened me up to more negative than positive.  If you're ready and totally grounded at this stage, go for it.  I, personally, was not. I saw too much, too soon. Ask your Spirit if this is right for you and then go for it. Just don't go in blindly to what you may or may not experience. With much love...

empathinboston
@empathinboston
03/27/17 09:53:19AM
17 posts

Empath Parent/Empath Child Tips?


Empath

@hermes - thank you.  As a hiding Empath for so long, we now take weekend beach trips. We just signed up (all 3 of us) for a mommy and me yoga class.  As she loves being active and my son does too - I think that will be an amazing experience. Thank you for confirming.  
One of my spiritual advisors is in such a community - though Christian, terming any religion as the power of who we are is hard for me to grasp in this part of my journey (however, I grew up in a strict Christian church, and with my thoughts today I would be sent to hell, and my family still thinks that of me, so that word itself may be a trigger).  I imagine I will find the right way to connect when I have a better grasp of myself and abilities. 
THANK YOU for all of this.  I am totally distraught during her manic episodes & angry during her tantrums that I can't find any "intellectual" reason for. I need to check myself, as trevor mentioned to make this an easier life for her (and my son, but he's one grounded & confident little boy). 
The secrecy is hard - as we all know. And going back once you are aware isn't really possible.  But, you're right.  The more you say, the more people look at you like you need to be institutionalized.  And, that tip was perfect about not looking into her eyes. Because then I just get scared...lovely rollercoaster, huh?  Yet, I wouldn't trade it for the world. I give gratitude every day for one big thing, and today, that gratitude is for you.  Thank you. : 

empathinboston
@empathinboston
03/26/17 04:30:15PM
17 posts

Empath Parent/Empath Child Tips?


Empath

@angel - thanks for your thoughts.
My daughter doesn't have ADHD. My son and I do. I will keep an eye on the medical part. She has Angels. We're a regular Harry Potter house over here. :) I would respond to all your advice - with much gratitude- but I have to run hang with the kids ❤. Thanks again!!
empathinboston
@empathinboston
03/26/17 04:11:06PM
17 posts

Vampirism and Possession


Psychic and Paranormal

@hop-daddy - totally appreciate this response and I absolutely agree. And I battled with not being able to accept that this was even a possibility. And one day they started posting & saying on their videos, verbatim, my prayers & thoughts as quotes the day after I had them. My gut knew something was wrong for a long time, but I didn't want to believe it. This all occurred gradually over a year. I 100% agree with what you said because logically I can not even comprehend it.
All I'm saying is it's a possible scenario as much as I don't want to believe it myself. I worked with a few amazing spiritual healers and all 3 independently connected to this scenario I didn't want to hear. It was worse & them being trusted friends who don't get into details, their swift action & hours of time said a lot. When the fog lifted and I didn't feel madly in love and the chatter stopped, it just was what it was. Mind you, being rid of it - I don't care what it was! 😎 Lots of things like our energy...
empathinboston
@empathinboston
03/26/17 03:36:45PM
17 posts

Empath Parent/Empath Child Tips?


Empath

Thank you sincerely @hopdaddy & @trevor-lewis - I appreciate the thoughtful advice and understanding.
We are lucky in that my son, though gifted, grounds this house. But you are both right on the money about many things.
@hopdaddy - she picks out crystals - oddly enough clear quartz, amethyst and many more (every single one is eitger grounding or protective). A true case for "the crystal chooses you". I know we have many interesting years ahead, it is the momentum of the intensity I just want to take away from her. I do healing work with her - but we're so intertwined I take on both her emotional & physical pain. I'm hoping to hone in on my skills enough so the constant transfer of energy can chill out a bit.
I appreciate your support on the things I'm doing and additional advice. I feel like I'm not doing enough...but there is no magic pill.
Both of us need to be more grounded, so I will take that and implement it immediately.
Re: the electric comment, when our emotions our high and unbalanced, lightbulbs go out. We go through a lot of lightbulbs :), or if I'm taking a video on my iPhone, the picture literally sways back and forth, tv's shut off...it's a joke to me now. Likely goes back to your grounding comment.
@trevor-lewis - bravo and thanks for being direct and helpful. Yes, you're 100% correct. And her gift to me was enlightening me enough to realize III was in trouble. Now that I'm balancing with many of the things you mentioned, it hadn't occurred to me to give HER salt baths, or exactly what I'm doing for myself. You just helped me realize I'm not connecting the dots with her as I do in the external world...seems like a major slip on my part. Thanks for that wake up call!! And yes, we are both exhausted after any episode. Numbing myself for 20 years and catapulting back into all the feeling has been tough, but beautiful. I can't remember what it's like to act like a robot...a life without feeling is not a life worth living. :)

If either of you have any ideas about how to help her understand that it's ok to feel, be different- please let me know. She doesn't know how to name an emotion and that just makes me sad. Seems to me the only thing I can really help with right now is getting myself as balanced as possible so the cycle is less intense. Is that a decent summary? I'm still all ears. :)
empathinboston
@empathinboston
03/26/17 11:23:13AM
17 posts

Empath Parent/Empath Child Tips?


Empath

Do any Empath parents w/Empath children have coping tips?
I personally feel part of my mission here is to love and support a very empathic child. My child actually re-awoke me to my gifts bc I had to understand and remember the childhood I blocked out to help my own child.
As a first grader, my child exhibits bipolar behavior, manic episodes, odd pains in her solar plexus, dissociation, holding on to traumas, tantrums about clothing and tags, extreme fear of my bathroom bc she sees things, testing limits to extremes (suicidal actions w/out knowing they're life danger if) and running away from any conversation that has to do with emotions. At first, I took her to a child therapist, but she acted like the sweet introverted angel that is her natural disposition...so I was told I was over-reacting. Shocker, right?
What I have learned:
1. Cut out tags and let her try on everything before buying.
2. Not hiding my own stress from her bc she takes it on.
3. No violent, overly emotional, or loud tv
4. Activity and sports...this is the only time she seems fully present
5. Help support her and let her know it's ok to be her and hug, love, and cradle her psyche
My challenges are not being able to:
1. Help her get out of her fear of being "weird"
2. Help her ground her during her 30-60 minute manic episodes which she
3. Help her understand her emotions that she doesn't want to understand
4. Help us stop buying new lightbulbs weekly and turning off the power in our condo :) (hey, there is some humor in this)
I'm doing my best, I know she is not mentally ill, so any & all suggestions are welcome. In sincere gratitude....
updated by @empathinboston: 07/26/17 11:35:41PM
empathinboston
@empathinboston
03/26/17 10:41:48AM
17 posts

Vampirism and Possession


Psychic and Paranormal

@laog were you able to find relief in this scenario? I'm just finishing the process with a similar situation that had me on a downward spiral for 6 months, totally unaware why I was so exhausted, unmotivated, rage-filled, and depressed. I kept saying things to myself like: "you're weak. You don't deserve this dream, and I think I love this person (obsessive thoughts stage). In the end it was a gift, but when I first figured it out, I was angry. When I stopped letting the mind control and emotional state of another make me angry, it dissipated.
I wanted to yell from the mountain tops and call this person out b/c the individual is a renowned energy healer. Deciding not to expose this person was the best decision I ever made bc within a week, I was back to myself.
The Empathic mind doesn't naturally think people are capable of horrible things. As this person has definitely chosen to take on the dark side, they can manipulate very well - even in spiritual realms.
What signs did you see? As soon as I figured out what was going on, it was so clear: constant trance-like States, black eyes, wild mood swings, conspiracy theory advocate to create fear, not blinking for over 6 minutes. I personally started lashing out at my family and animals who would then become ill. (meanwhile I kept blaming and beating up myself, thinking I'm becoming institutional bc I would NEVER want to rage at my children or animals).
I think this is a very important subject for Empaths to be aware of. It's like the moth to a flame.
Any additional insights you've experienced?