Psychic and Paranormal
we're all family. You "got this" - I knew it from the moment I read the first post...you are pure love. may not recall, but he helped me a while back. Find you! You are powerful!!!!
@Zacharias - we all have our own journey we're meant to go on, decipher info so our true/empathic/loving self can fully step into the forefront. I hope you get to the point one day you don't have to seek the information. As empaths, I feel like our minds/emotions/"extra feelings" create our own discord. But every empath I've ever met is highly intelligent & analytical & out to solve problems. I doubt that's coincidental. LOL!
Don't let this one do too much of a number on you:https://www.amazon.com/Psychic-Self-Defense-Instruction-Protecting-Paranormal/dp/1578635098 ; as mentioned, it was republished with the new forward basically saying "it's this simple".
I'm not sure what religious practices you have, but regardless, for all of us, all of the Psalms are known to protect from external negative forces.
Besides that - I just send you love! Compassion transforms everything. Even the darkest of things <3
And yes, beating out the attacks helped me move from a very unbalanced empath to embracing myself. Without the experience, I likely would still be in "why me?" mode. Would love to share - some days I still wonder what world I opened myself up to during that period.
@zacahrias - I have a few pages of a book to share with you if you'd like (can send them to you). You're so upfront, being a man of God and prayer, that I feel it may help you cope with all of this. If you defer to everything outside of you and leave your own Soul aside, including veering away from God, it's what those the "interference" wants. The most famous book of all time on Psychic Attack did a re-write after years of being the most sought book on the subject. The updated forward says:
1. Stop all personal connections with any source of considered attack
2. Don't do drugs
3. Don't meditate or connect with spiritual realms during this time - instead, focus on living a holy life and connect with your personal religious belief, regularly
4. Keep a healthy diet, get sleep, and connect with nature
5. Get a new positive hobby
After the most famous psychic attack, those 5 points are her advice; stop focusing on the attack and start focusing on you and your beliefs. With that that said, your beliefs are most important and managing the sensitivities and angst we feel can be overwhelming many days. *I wouldn't recommend reading the whole book or it will just make your mind spin...unless you feel it's right for you!
In the end, you will be so much stronger for going through this! All my love
Does anyone else ever feel worse after reading all the opinions of everyone else and not just looking inside yourself to find the answer? Just curious. I feel (and noting right now that I'm writing this) - that when one person doesn't "feel" justified, the emotions go haywire. I'm personally noting that my energy and responses will always affect others in this forum.
Because I have been through a psychic attack - better yet, an attack that turned into spiritual warfare - that manifested demonic beings (oddly caught on camera, and yes, I feel crazy writing that) - I HAVE to agree (from my personal experience) with / you can not be attacked for an extended amount of time from a human being unless they know how to get to you. People don't just pick you out and harm you unless they know what you are.
Understanding how to fight back as an empath really means NOT getting charged. Feeling it, embracing you're experiencing something, and transmuting that by loving yourself, and breathing into YOURSELF. Fighting it, as I've stated before, and unfortunately learned the hard way, makes it worse and compounds the feelings you're receiving.
As empaths, we're naturally gifted. Don't play into the game - shut the door. - I've even watched your entire mode of desire to "solve" transform in this thread. Just something to be aware of. What are you picking up? Go inside my friend...it's all within you. That is where you'll truly know how to stop whatever is going on.
I agree with all the above. I support all you said and your advice. What I read into was that you, were looking for a solution and trying to understand the why, how, "how is this possible"...as stated, "it just is that people try to use our energy" ... it just "is". It sucks, but we can't control others. When I was in the state of trying to solve, I didn't go within...I wanted to solve and blame other ppl for putting me in my situation of being drained and attacked from a distance and infiltrated my entire life b/c of my own leaks in my field. - you're right on the money.
But no, never ignore it! Discern from all the info out there within yourself so YOU overcome it and in the end, it's a lesson to strengthen the love body you're here to be. As I said, don't listen to me...listen to yourself. Love to you both! The brighter your light, the more you have to overcome. Have a great wkd!
@zacahrias - wow, what an experience. When you're a bright light - I say it's like being the flame in "moth to a flame". For empaths, especially if they're not somewhat aware, most would just have a panic attack and get off. You obviously have the intuition to know when something is off - so that is awesome!
I've been dealing with some very strong energy vampires over the last year - literally crippled me and my children whom are also empathic. I tried severing cords, cleaning my space....I tried EVERYTHING to get out of the psychic attack space. After a year of doing all the "methods" that can work, my only true learning was that it was all because I was stuck in a negative/fear-based pattern. Cord cutting, energy work, etc can give you some relief, but until you train your inner-self how to truly love, protect, and not spiral into fear...you're not solving the root issue, you're putting a bandaid on it.
Energy vampires don't always know they're doing what they're doing. Sometimes they do. As empaths, we take in a lot, but also take back energy because we process and put thoughts out there that introduce our energy as victims; the people on the plane may have siphoned your energy because they're just so miserable/and you picked up on it. That exchange of energy takes up a lot of our loved ones' energy, too - so, ultimately, we take energy as well (though without intent to harm).
If you experience this anymore, my only suggestion is to sit back and experience it without resistance. The resistance sets us in fear state - and that never solves anything besides really making yourself a victim.
I read something recently. An leader/empath has a sign on their door: "Energy Vampires welcome. You will only be filled with loving energy." In today's world, what's real and what's not is questionable. Find your center & self-love, and energy vampires won't even be able to see you. I hope that makes sense.
Energy vampires/psychic attacks are lessons for us...so we find our path to our strength and self-love....and how to take your power back.
^this is a summary of a few very dark stories, but if you can keep yourself out of fear/blame/victimhood & over-thinking (we all do it & it can drive one crazy) - through love, acceptance, understanding, self-power, grounding, and forgiveness - you will be able to transmute any similar situation you come across within a few minutes and re-stabalize until you're no longer visible to energy stealers. Googling too much can be dangerous...discern what is right for you, not what someone online tells you (including me). <3 I hope that helps!!
- you will know if this is right for you. The question itself means it is a question. Opening up that world for me personally (only a personal story, not trying to sway you in one way or another) - opened me up to more negative than positive. If you're ready and totally grounded at this stage, go for it. I, personally, was not. I saw too much, too soon. Ask your Spirit if this is right for you and then go for it. Just don't go in blindly to what you may or may not experience. With much love...
@hermes - thank you. As a hiding Empath for so long, we now take weekend beach trips. We just signed up (all 3 of us) for a mommy and me yoga class. As she loves being active and my son does too - I think that will be an amazing experience. Thank you for confirming.
One of my spiritual advisors is in such a community - though Christian, terming any religion as the power of who we are is hard for me to grasp in this part of my journey (however, I grew up in a strict Christian church, and with my thoughts today I would be sent to hell, and my family still thinks that of me, so that word itself may be a trigger). I imagine I will find the right way to connect when I have a better grasp of myself and abilities.
THANK YOU for all of this. I am totally distraught during her manic episodes & angry during her tantrums that I can't find any "intellectual" reason for. I need to check myself, as trevor mentioned to make this an easier life for her (and my son, but he's one grounded & confident little boy).
The secrecy is hard - as we all know. And going back once you are aware isn't really possible. But, you're right. The more you say, the more people look at you like you need to be institutionalized. And, that tip was perfect about not looking into her eyes. Because then I just get scared...lovely rollercoaster, huh? Yet, I wouldn't trade it for the world. I give gratitude every day for one big thing, and today, that gratitude is for you. Thank you. :