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igor
@neverquittter
11/09/17 03:39:58PM
13 posts

An Important Message


Empath

New dawn is upon us for sure...many people waking up...many more suffering or looking desperately for a new option...
I ve been hading crazy dream/travels.. been pulled into some places were not actually "mine", maia places full of illusion i could wake me up in the dream and move some place else. But i wonder why it happened...never felt that strange like this before..
And i could relate to @cat-whisperer for i feel something has intensinvely trying to move into my energy field...and i ve been feeling too much chaos in the air like some..... is triggered to happen...oh the human life...let'@ do what we can!
igor
@neverquittter
11/09/17 03:34:08PM
13 posts

recent problematic psychic connection with neighbor -- advice?


Empath

Well...maybe take a few days off and ground your place strongly..i like the plant as well but for my sensitivity i tend to fly very much and cant really focused into something or be grounded for long
igor
@neverquittter
08/28/17 02:12:40PM
13 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

There is the point my friend. There is no way we could know not to fell with them again. We are like opossite magnets... and i told her that the other day as she ask us to come back together, the only reason we are attracted is we are opposite, but guess who gets the burden?

This life is all of making choices and expressing our free will... the best gifts we have and responsabilities as empaths, the more trucky it can get.. this last year alone i was traveling i learned so much about lust..i couldnt believe. In a very bad way i mean cause lust is hell, is possession and everybody is alone at the same time want to be attached. So you ll learn a lot by this, who are the narcisist around you. Dont pity them, dont fear them, they are what they are, even they didnt choose to be born like this, they will bring harm around them
igor
@neverquittter
08/28/17 08:43:07AM
13 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

I ve also felll in love with a narcisist girl for the past 18 months or so...i mean we fell in love for each other, she can be nice and caring sometimes, she know what to say and how to please as a woman..but then she becomes cold and sadistic sometimes, out of nowhere. Sheknows that we broke up a few times for that ,she even try to ask sorry for a few people she had fought and be more easy going...but in the end is a pretty old pattern for her to change, she is spoiled and will do anything to get the things she thinks she deserves ( always better the anyone else)..the thing is everytime im alone i feel like talking to her and then is like all of the other people disappear from beside me.. and everytime im happy and light head with people around me i feel she is so far away from me... is one way or another... i like more the feeling of being happy with myself and people...but then when im with her some of my ego needs get taken care of.. but everytime i ask myself "is she the one for my life?" I know in my heart that it isnt, at the same time i think " wouldnt hurt to try a bit more"..it is exactly like a drug
igor
@neverquittter
07/30/17 07:05:58AM
13 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

About narcs again.
Sometimes as i meditate i can see clearly what is the attraction between us and narcs about so i d like to share my perspective.
As we grow older into adulthood and our light will shine more certain, we shure will attract more people and off course narcs.
They can come from everywhere, your next boss, someone you feel attracted to and so on..
When a narc spot us they will see us by our potential the more we open up to them, they will see how unpredictable we are, how rare we are, how smart ( off of intuition we move), so they will envy this or want to have it very much to their service... We as empath sometime can feel a bit uncertain of how to see ourselves through ego...and the presence of a narc will do this, you ll see yourself through your own ego, or you will be trapped in their ego...seeing ourselves through our ego is important so we can at least realize what the world is all about and what we can do for it...but for us empath we know that ego is not the ultimate truth and the self absorption will put us off track to help others or feeling free, we ll be missing something...so thats why is not the best combination for us...we are supposed to help and then leave, reassure ourselves alone of our own ego and possibilities without too much of self absorption
igor
@neverquittter
07/15/17 02:40:24AM
13 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

i guess we can see narcs as easy as they can spot us. Cause we and narcs are both " lonely" . we are lonely lights and they are lonely black holes. we are around like buterflies trying to repair and heal and narcs are there, trying to take advantage and to steal some energy. So we both at the same kind of activity, dealing with people. Differently off course.
the other human bbeing are too connected with themselves, trading energy and mutating accordingly to their own
igor
@neverquittter
07/15/17 02:26:26AM
13 posts

Eyes-Judgy


Empath

i tend to be very judgy as well...i mean i tend to see so much, i normally tend to accept everything as pretty normal..and let it go day to day so i dont lose balance. But as a empath judging or not can be tricky...we got to see what is confusion, what is innocence, what is malice and what we can do or let die and move on our way!
igor
@neverquittter
06/01/17 07:35:26PM
13 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

Nice...i think is natural for us emlath as we get older, right now im 28...to start getting wiser about people using you, whether they are cousciess or not...they will do it... they will tell their problems and when you suggest something other than listening to their problems, they wont consider your opinion as serious...avoid this people...the energy wont shift, wont transform..its a relation which one is honest the other is self centered.
I also feel bad when sometimes i choose to do what s best for me...i feel jist cause i know they are wasting time i should do something about it..but nahhh keep it peacefull stay where peace is.. silence and move on..no empath is a super hero this is a human body!
igor
@neverquittter
05/24/17 01:02:46PM
13 posts

A question to male Empaths


Empath

My female side is very strong as well... as well as my masculine..i guess these both like being dominant at times...growing up i would be confused sometimes, (i even suspected if i was gay when i was like 13, or 14 but i just came to learn i have a very dominant feminine side at times, even though my society (Brazil) does not tolerate much of this) by being sensitive sometimes you d be thinking more emotional and sometimes more rational. I just came to understand im my own thing, empathy comes first...i guess we empath can "go" various path, whatever we choose.

This gender world comes after all...but i feel more open talking to women than man mostly...man tend to hide their feelings and become numb, stupid

igor
@neverquittter
05/22/17 06:25:24PM
13 posts

Cosmic disturbance


Empath

i had something like this twice while sleeping.. around 3 months ago...i woke up feeling like something was trying to take control of my body... i woke up with this huge energy by myside...looked up in the mirror and was all strange...worst sensation but i kept cool... it was the second time.

the first time i was with a girl i was hanging out, we were sleeping together, she woke like screamingg "get out" i woke up like "its mee its mee igor" and she was so scared... the scared energy arount the room was huge...we start to meditate and i end up sleeping... i woke up like her panicking and screaming like some force was trying into my body (that was one of the most awkwards things ever) but in both time i felt the presence of one girl who used to date me, guess she was obsessed with me...

igor
@neverquittter
05/22/17 05:22:52PM
13 posts

Diving into the empathlife again...


Empath

yes, seeing life as a empath is already too awesome...! enjoy the comunnitty and take care sweet

igor
@neverquittter
05/13/17 11:20:28PM
13 posts

How to Cut Off These Damned Feelings


Empath

i had put something here earlier, it didnt go online.

it has been happening to me same way for one year and a half, i end it up by noticing she is a narcisist, she is notnecessarily a bad person, but she is a narcisist, they will manipulate and try to rule over anything, is like a pathology.

we have always being in this passive agressive mode, till i realize it is not good at all, and im far away from my observing side and sanity...seriously it makes one go mad...

i broke out with her already like more than 10 times, but whenver we feel lonely we come back to each other, 2 differents poles attract each other, our sexual and emotional conexion is the strongest i ve seen, she gets into my dreams and i feel i trade places with her emotions very much...

thing is i need to get pass that, cause i know she is not the one for me, but she is obsessed now im a very good guy for her!

nice being sharing this!!!!

igor
@neverquittter
04/12/17 06:09:54AM
13 posts

Hello


Empath

i think it it can be pretty common for us empath getting lost while trying to get settle with life.

First of all, you are not what you think you are, those are just impression you have cause you think you're doing it wrong. But are you really doing it wrong?

If your heart is coming to realization some companies are bad for you, you maybe should stay with your heart, i know exaclty what you mean, i ve been doing this for long, i start with a relationship or a project then i start letting it go cause it just doesnt feel right.

Some thing i learn about this, we empath are very sensitive, some people do not have a bad intention into our lifes but just arent in our path(it doesnt have anything to do with us), same thing jobwise...so if you dont shield and dont energize yourself is easy to get lost into their objectives, and drained, blank...

The thing i tell you is balance. whenever your heart feels like seeing someone go, when you feel like leaving say bye. try to find places and people and activities you like to share more time with..

whenever you feel like being lonely, enjoy yourself... and be very calm, no hurry...you got a whole life to explore!