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igor
@neverquitter
06/04/18 09:03:08AM
19 posts

What is your biggest issue as an empath?


Empath

This is simply the best topic! 

Being almost thirty now...i can relate most to the people around me, and trying to understand or follow my instincts around them. It took me a long time to learn how to control my mouth..as sometimes i could use empathy to get to know people fast and then i'd just would go talking with them about my point of view and how i believe things are and the way it should be done..

And i guess for us empath we see thing in a energy level more than hierarchy, dogmas etc etc..So people can feel guilty for it, telling the truth so direct like this can make them mad, and they may get angry with you, they will see you as their enemies, or at least a threat. Cause they know ,you are one step ahead, but normally as a empath you are not understood so clearly by most people, so it is easy to use this against you, and try to put you on a tag, a mask, a joke, etc and etc.. 

After many fights, and other disorders, physically mentally. I see that you cannot save everyone and try to hug and care for all, they will attack just for the feeling of it and feel good about it. Coming to understand it was really hard. Cause i lost friends, i lost lovers, some family relationship has really stopped from developing and i came to understand i am alone in taking care of my health, and nobody will understand it fully how i see the world. But i guess thats growing up for us empath. 

Life has gained a deeper and broader meaning for me as well. 

Feeling like being watched is another major issue as well, especially as a kid, and feeling like being a weirdo, i could never fit into a playboy, a hippie, a nerd or narcissist. So i felt lost most of the time as well..asking myself nonstop, trying to make sense. It has eased much now becoming older, as long as i dont separate people between groups, i hope they try to accept me the way i am, and this is the kind of people i want to have around me at least to have a conversation with. 

I did get blamed for many stuff i never did or never thought about, and would just laugh about it, cause for me was like

"how can they be so sure about life to the point of attacking someone? i wish life was this simple in my mind" (which i dont) lol

But that's it, they will start to burn the witch and then asking later if that was a witch...and in my mind i d be asking "what is a witchcraft?" why should it be forbidden? and etc... (just a metaphor)

Good to share it here..cause it gets heavy 


updated by @neverquitter: 06/04/18 04:30:40PM
igor
@neverquitter
03/25/18 08:12:23PM
19 posts

What is your biggest issue as an empath?


Empath

Man... we as empaths are very powerfull sources of energy for any spirit.. we are naturally creative and problem solvers..when we tune it right, nothing cant stop us...thats why when we tune it wrong be super aware, cause something will want to take advantage

igor
@neverquitter
03/12/18 10:23:49PM
19 posts

Astral projected? Lucid dreaming?


Dreams

i have lots of this happening...sometimes i focus with myself like " i want to see this today" can be a person or a place and once i realize im lucid dreaming i feel the energy of the person or place and it feels like im teleport myself.

the last one were this days i "woke up" in my room so scared and went to turn on the lights..the lights didnt turn on a.d i though "maybe power is out" then i got so scared realizing i wasnt awake.. and i heard one of my best friends  laughing in my head "haha relax its like that calm down" cause my body felt so loose, and i felt out of control.. then i woke up and turned the lights on,  lol

Other times i ve been meeting my ex girlfriend many times, sometimes we d say "lets meet" and we d still remember we met the other day...it was crazy, crazy as it sounds

Once this year as well i went to a sabbath, like a pagan meeting with people i ve met from this town i was at... i remember to "wake up" im sitting in this piece of wood and it was a really serious and desert/dry area.. and i i start to sing like moaning (like i always do to kick the sadness) and then i remember everyone stopped doing whatever they were doing and looking at me, i got so scared i teleport myself some place else and woke up, with the vivid memories of the eyes looking at me, somehow i ve got the impression were the people from the sabbath in that place (i never mentioned it to them)

i ve visited people and places as well..

igor
@neverquitter
03/12/18 09:08:38PM
19 posts

Searching


Empath

these last few days i ve felt the same...especially because i gave up to lust and went off the track..

I dont knwo how is it with you, but sometimes i tend to lose my way just to go wondering around and then i cannot find my way back so easily... it happens everytime im okay, i  give up to temptation..and my head get so heavy, i feel im like 2 different person,  it feel my visions is foggy, nothing makes much sense in the material world. Its strange...and i feel down, like running around crazy and checking music and poetry to see if i can find from where i left...talking to everyone..and feeling sad, putting myself down.

With friends i find myself again, in presence of friends and a good laughter (but even this is hard sometimes to find cause i tend to get impacient, agressive and suspecting on people), praying and meditation is also good to relieve the pain..but dont give up sometimes when you find it life shows up very glorious, and miraculous (i guess thats why i tend to lose it, to come back, but i got to stop this cycle, i want to be healthy and happy) take care

igor
@neverquitter
12/08/17 10:26:25AM
19 posts

Empaths and Indulgence


Empath

That for me has always been coming and going. And its good to share cause i was thinking about this yesterday. I live the plant as well, and sometimes it helps me seeing things clearer and to worry less than we empaths tend to do...but also if i smoke with people i tend to pick up their own vibration thinking its mine...it had me paranoid many times for this...so now i choose better what to smoke and when and how often.. sativa is better for me cause my mind will still be productive, i tend to do it with a minimum of 3 days from each time, in order not to get psychologically missing it or get my body used to it..
But its like @dvrat said once we replace it with a virtue, this energy we focus find its place and it gets better...my simblings dont do any drugs, and dont feel like doing, they both empaths... i wish i could replace effectivelly , im on my way! Take care
igor
@neverquitter
11/29/17 05:34:47AM
19 posts

Giving up


Empath

Yes, i ve gave up a few times... and went to live alone...and then went to live im asia for 2 years...all those times i wanted so much to do it, but was also quitting people for a while so i could rest and find myself in that mess..
Its important we empath find our individuality, the physical and espiritual boundaries to no be intrusive or be invaded without wanting...even though most of the time is happens very naturally, but we got to be conscious with our empathy, and may take a while.
Meditation has made my life much better and singing mantras and visualization of energy to clean my body and house...or noticing some bad thought other people direct to me...i ll let it slide..
Some people will attack us only by their very instict that we are defenseless, we will not do anuthing back to them, this is a very basic malice instict of the human being learn, they will attack only to feel superior or whatever...clean your self and use your empathy to empower your self..being aware and using your energy inteliggently when necessary...observe!!
igor
@neverquitter
11/09/17 03:39:58PM
19 posts

An Important Message


Empath

New dawn is upon us for sure...many people waking up...many more suffering or looking desperately for a new option...
I ve been hading crazy dream/travels.. been pulled into some places were not actually "mine", maia places full of illusion i could wake me up in the dream and move some place else. But i wonder why it happened...never felt that strange like this before..
And i could relate to @cat-whisperer for i feel something has intensinvely trying to move into my energy field...and i ve been feeling too much chaos in the air like some..... is triggered to happen...oh the human life...let'@ do what we can!
igor
@neverquitter
11/09/17 03:34:08PM
19 posts

recent problematic psychic connection with neighbor -- advice?


Empath

Well...maybe take a few days off and ground your place strongly..i like the plant as well but for my sensitivity i tend to fly very much and cant really focused into something or be grounded for long
igor
@neverquitter
08/28/17 02:12:40PM
19 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

There is the point my friend. There is no way we could know not to fell with them again. We are like opossite magnets... and i told her that the other day as she ask us to come back together, the only reason we are attracted is we are opposite, but guess who gets the burden?

This life is all of making choices and expressing our free will... the best gifts we have and responsabilities as empaths, the more trucky it can get.. this last year alone i was traveling i learned so much about lust..i couldnt believe. In a very bad way i mean cause lust is hell, is possession and everybody is alone at the same time want to be attached. So you ll learn a lot by this, who are the narcisist around you. Dont pity them, dont fear them, they are what they are, even they didnt choose to be born like this, they will bring harm around them
igor
@neverquitter
08/28/17 08:43:07AM
19 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

I ve also felll in love with a narcisist girl for the past 18 months or so...i mean we fell in love for each other, she can be nice and caring sometimes, she know what to say and how to please as a woman..but then she becomes cold and sadistic sometimes, out of nowhere. Sheknows that we broke up a few times for that ,she even try to ask sorry for a few people she had fought and be more easy going...but in the end is a pretty old pattern for her to change, she is spoiled and will do anything to get the things she thinks she deserves ( always better the anyone else)..the thing is everytime im alone i feel like talking to her and then is like all of the other people disappear from beside me.. and everytime im happy and light head with people around me i feel she is so far away from me... is one way or another... i like more the feeling of being happy with myself and people...but then when im with her some of my ego needs get taken care of.. but everytime i ask myself "is she the one for my life?" I know in my heart that it isnt, at the same time i think " wouldnt hurt to try a bit more"..it is exactly like a drug
igor
@neverquitter
07/30/17 07:05:58AM
19 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

About narcs again.
Sometimes as i meditate i can see clearly what is the attraction between us and narcs about so i d like to share my perspective.
As we grow older into adulthood and our light will shine more certain, we shure will attract more people and off course narcs.
They can come from everywhere, your next boss, someone you feel attracted to and so on..
When a narc spot us they will see us by our potential the more we open up to them, they will see how unpredictable we are, how rare we are, how smart ( off of intuition we move), so they will envy this or want to have it very much to their service... We as empath sometime can feel a bit uncertain of how to see ourselves through ego...and the presence of a narc will do this, you ll see yourself through your own ego, or you will be trapped in their ego...seeing ourselves through our ego is important so we can at least realize what the world is all about and what we can do for it...but for us empath we know that ego is not the ultimate truth and the self absorption will put us off track to help others or feeling free, we ll be missing something...so thats why is not the best combination for us...we are supposed to help and then leave, reassure ourselves alone of our own ego and possibilities without too much of self absorption
igor
@neverquitter
07/15/17 02:40:24AM
19 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

i guess we can see narcs as easy as they can spot us. Cause we and narcs are both " lonely" . we are lonely lights and they are lonely black holes. we are around like buterflies trying to repair and heal and narcs are there, trying to take advantage and to steal some energy. So we both at the same kind of activity, dealing with people. Differently off course.
the other human bbeing are too connected with themselves, trading energy and mutating accordingly to their own
igor
@neverquitter
07/15/17 02:26:26AM
19 posts

Eyes-Judgy


Empath

i tend to be very judgy as well...i mean i tend to see so much, i normally tend to accept everything as pretty normal..and let it go day to day so i dont lose balance. But as a empath judging or not can be tricky...we got to see what is confusion, what is innocence, what is malice and what we can do or let die and move on our way!
igor
@neverquitter
06/01/17 07:35:26PM
19 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

Nice...i think is natural for us emlath as we get older, right now im 28...to start getting wiser about people using you, whether they are cousciess or not...they will do it... they will tell their problems and when you suggest something other than listening to their problems, they wont consider your opinion as serious...avoid this people...the energy wont shift, wont transform..its a relation which one is honest the other is self centered.
I also feel bad when sometimes i choose to do what s best for me...i feel jist cause i know they are wasting time i should do something about it..but nahhh keep it peacefull stay where peace is.. silence and move on..no empath is a super hero this is a human body!
igor
@neverquitter
05/24/17 01:02:46PM
19 posts



My female side is very strong as well... as well as my masculine..i guess these both like being dominant at times...growing up i would be confused sometimes, (i even suspected if i was gay when i was like 13, or 14 but i just came to learn i have a very dominant feminine side at times, even though my society (Brazil) does not tolerate much of this) by being sensitive sometimes you d be thinking more emotional and sometimes more rational. I just came to understand im my own thing, empathy comes first...i guess we empath can "go" various path, whatever we choose.

This gender world comes after all...but i feel more open talking to women than man mostly...man tend to hide their feelings and become numb, stupid

igor
@neverquitter
05/22/17 06:25:24PM
19 posts

Cosmic disturbance


Empath

i had something like this twice while sleeping.. around 3 months ago...i woke up feeling like something was trying to take control of my body... i woke up with this huge energy by myside...looked up in the mirror and was all strange...worst sensation but i kept cool... it was the second time.

the first time i was with a girl i was hanging out, we were sleeping together, she woke like screamingg "get out" i woke up like "its mee its mee igor" and she was so scared... the scared energy arount the room was huge...we start to meditate and i end up sleeping... i woke up like her panicking and screaming like some force was trying into my body (that was one of the most awkwards things ever) but in both time i felt the presence of one girl who used to date me, guess she was obsessed with me...

igor
@neverquitter
05/22/17 05:22:52PM
19 posts

Diving into the empathlife again...


Empath

yes, seeing life as a empath is already too awesome...! enjoy the comunnitty and take care sweet

igor
@neverquitter
05/13/17 11:20:28PM
19 posts



i had put something here earlier, it didnt go online.

it has been happening to me same way for one year and a half, i end it up by noticing she is a narcisist, she is notnecessarily a bad person, but she is a narcisist, they will manipulate and try to rule over anything, is like a pathology.

we have always being in this passive agressive mode, till i realize it is not good at all, and im far away from my observing side and sanity...seriously it makes one go mad...

i broke out with her already like more than 10 times, but whenver we feel lonely we come back to each other, 2 differents poles attract each other, our sexual and emotional conexion is the strongest i ve seen, she gets into my dreams and i feel i trade places with her emotions very much...

thing is i need to get pass that, cause i know she is not the one for me, but she is obsessed now im a very good guy for her!

nice being sharing this!!!!

igor
@neverquitter
04/12/17 06:09:54AM
19 posts

Hello


Empath

i think it it can be pretty common for us empath getting lost while trying to get settle with life.

First of all, you are not what you think you are, those are just impression you have cause you think you're doing it wrong. But are you really doing it wrong?

If your heart is coming to realization some companies are bad for you, you maybe should stay with your heart, i know exaclty what you mean, i ve been doing this for long, i start with a relationship or a project then i start letting it go cause it just doesnt feel right.

Some thing i learn about this, we empath are very sensitive, some people do not have a bad intention into our lifes but just arent in our path(it doesnt have anything to do with us), same thing jobwise...so if you dont shield and dont energize yourself is easy to get lost into their objectives, and drained, blank...

The thing i tell you is balance. whenever your heart feels like seeing someone go, when you feel like leaving say bye. try to find places and people and activities you like to share more time with..

whenever you feel like being lonely, enjoy yourself... and be very calm, no hurry...you got a whole life to explore!