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I'm also at a crossroads. I'm just trying to do a bit of everything in till it becomes clear. All the best <3
Hey Snap, definitely happens at a distance with me too. And for sure if you focus your attention on some one you can feel their feelings and get their words that have intense emotion behind them directed at you, distance doesnt have too much affect on an empath gifts at all. love
Hey wedgie. Know the feeling wedgie, definitely sounds like your going about it the right way about things. If I think someone is ready to broaden their perspective and trusts me, I tell them. But most people as you say are so brainwashed, it just confuses them. Love
Hi Lucky seven. Telepaths (less common) are those who purely pick up on other peoples thoughts. Psychics on the other hand, communicate with spirits. And in regards to your stomach sensations> the solar plexus chakra is located at the top of the stomach and it deals with incoming energies/ emotions from others. The kick in the stomach sensation you are receiving is the negative energies of others which are blocking your chakra.http://www.personalityhacker.com/chakra-exercises/ , check this for some great exercises you can do now for unblocking. Love
Hey Corey yes a blocked throat chakra does result in an inability to express thoughts/ a fear of speaking which in turn can result in depleted confidence and self worth. But don't beat your self up over it in the future if it happens again as your gift as an empath makes you more sensitive to the negative energy of others which is usually what causes a blocked chakra. You are feeling the fear which your colleague has on the inside and this is what I would say is most likely causing your blockage as fear is a very negative energy. Here is a link which details some easy methods to clear your chakra and prevent it from happening so much in future >http://www.chakras.info/throat-chakra-blockage/ Its most likely that your co-worker is communicating through a social mask. A social mask is created by the ego (which is made up of fear) and stops the person who is wearing it from showing their genuine self (our true self is found in the vibration of love (truth)) to others. The social mask shows to others what the mask wearer thinks they should be or what they want others to see them as or both. People who carry a lot of fear are lacking in love for themselves (although they will likely have pride which is part of the ego(fear)) As an empath you are more closely connected to love and are a better judge of character than most people. Both of these things can make someone thats lacking love for themselves feel more fear and inadequacy which in turn you will feel. Hope this helps. love and light
Created this discussion to give anyone feeling low at the current time the opportunity to get some support from other empaths that can relate. Some advice from me > live in and perceive through the vibration of love (affirmation), do yoga/meditation for alignment (true peace/zen) and remember its what you give others that matters not what you receive, dont take ownership and responsibility for the emotions and input of others. Also practicing mindfulness for many will help. Love
A really important thing as an empath is to focus on what you give to others, not what you receive from them. Dont own the emotions of others but instead rocognise them as someone else's. And remember all negative behaviour comes from a lack of love. It really sounds like fear has taken over his soul and stopped his heart chakra from spinning, resulting in what is commonly known as a psychopath. They are master actors and love to play the victim. I suggest, If you feel he is a psychopath (Id be very surprised if he isn't), sit down with the most mentally mature member of your family and explain to them whats happening. It should be pretty obvious when you show them a list psychopath traits, that thats what he is. Then in the future if its you or him they have to choose between they are far less likely to be manipulated into a decision. Indeed they are much less likely to be influenced by him in any way. love
Yes, anger comes from a fear of something. It could be a fear of lack of control or a fear of adequacy, it could be a fear of separation from others or a disorientating combination. The principles of love in combination with mindfulness and yoga/meditation can best help you overcome it, helping you to be more aligned with love and in a place of greater unconditional peace. The truth will set you free. If your feeling overwhelmed in a situation, walk away and give your self somewhere peaceful to work through it. Frustration comes from a conscious or subconscious fear of not having control over an outcome, fearing that you need something or need something quicker in order to achieve satisfaction (let that point settle in for a bit). Frustration can quickly turn into anger if not healed with love. True satisfaction comes from being one with love. One of the lessons we have to learn on earth is that we have to have faith in and serve love and have to let go of outcome whilst always being true to the principles of love and whilst having compassion and understanding for those who show a lack of consciousness. But a restraining order might well be the best thing. Dont focus so much on the destination but instead focus on the vibration of the journey because the things you learn on the journey and the way you feel about the journey will, in turn affect the destination. All negative behaviour comes from a lack of love. Remember, enlightenment always proceeds confusion. Love and light
Hey Its totally normal for an empath not feel like other people. Its because we have a very different sensory experience of the world around us and as a result life is a very different experience. We are psychics of emotions. we on this site are your fellow aliens take it easy. we're all here to help you. I recommend the book "empath" by paul kain. its concise, easy to read and covers all the need to know essentials about the empath experience. Live in and perceive through love (affirmation- say it to yourself regularly). Love is truth, you will find clarity and lose confusion as you live by the principles of love. Love and light always
"I love your truth and wisdom. I too believe in god but cannot look down upon any one for their life choices. I also don't like mind control or fear. I have told many Christians that God put this my mind so I will research it. People have a hard time controlling an out of control spiritualist. I believe all religions do and will play a big part of everything. But the fear some religions put into people keeps their mind close"
Im glad you feel Ive shared something helpful, you are clearly discerning of truth (love) . I also don't look down upon anyone. Even those that have made choices that have hurt others have done so because of severe confusion caused by fear. They need as much compassion as their victim as they have been severely fooled and have allowed fear to invade, integrate into and control their soul, thus compromising their ability to see truth and causing them an existence of unrest and dissatisfaction. Living life by the principles of love (truth) gives far better direction on every level than any religion. All truth comes from love. All truly positive circumstances are such solely as a result of loves influence.
"I also wanted to add that I don't have a problem with Wiccans. It's the ones that takes the power and uses it for revenge or dark play . I'm all about love. I get mad and envious and all other emotions but I feel them and let them go. I don't seek revenge because once you let yourself fall to that low depth of revenge, you have slipped out of the place where love lives. "
When you embrace love as your first allegiance, not any religion or other way of being, you are far far less (at least) susceptible to acting out of vindictive revenge and much less likely to act on other dis-truth (fear) influenced behaviors. This is because you are living through the ultimate truth. So its a very powerful and intensely helpful thing to speak to others of love before other things such as wicca so that love has more opportunity to positively influence all other endeavors that person wishes to pursue.
Love and light
The best guiding force we can choose is love. Indeed by far the best power to call first allegiance to is love. Live in and perceive through love (affirmation) and you open the potential to live in the truest light of who you are, not influenced by ego (fear). Every action we make is either influenced by love or fear. Any practice (such as a particular aspect of wicca) that serves love is a very positive thing. The thing is though I believe in god and Jesus but I don't go around saying im a christian because it is much less supporting of the truth and others than spreading the word of love. Just look at how Christianity has been interpreted by the fearing. There are many Christians that are anti gay because of their faith. Its very hard to misinterpret love (god is pure love). We are, after all, all light workers as empaths and here to spread the vibration of love. So if you find ways to spread love through things youve learnt from wicca thats fantastic but let love be your first allegiance and guiding force not wicca itself. Let love be the first thing you help someone understand before you speak of something that can be interpreted (and used, although only by the fooled/confused) in negative ways as well as positive (unlike love). All good that comes from any individual who practices wicca has been influenced directly by love. Love is the only thing that can show us the truth. Indeed love will give you the best sense of belonging. You might want to question the clarity in which you convey your first allegiance to love starting with your profile picture (witches hat) which(no pun intended) to so many is a representation of darkness. Much love dear light worker
Pleasure I love how enthusiastic the smiley face is on here lol
Hi Corey, Yes my working memory is in the bottom 3% of the population. I got the same working memory score when I saw an educational psychologist at the age of 12 and again at the age of 22. I know that the development of working memory can be severely affected when having had experienced trauma as a child. This makes sense as I have noticed empaths often have a below average working memory and its unusual for empaths not to have experienced trauma in their childhood.
I have repeatedly found this to be true in myself and with other empaths I have worked with. It often happens when im just walking down the street and some really agitated person directs a thought at me. It also happens when I touch someones heart. I was confused when i initially started realizing I was picking up the thoughts of others as im certainly not a regular psychic/telepath. Thought I would share so that others can understand whats going on if they sometimes pick up on the thoughts of others.