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Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/18/16 06:50:47PM
9 posts

Survival of my Son's Surgery


Empath

Goodenergyhealing:

Feels a bit like what would be even better than shielding (or on top of it), would be channeling healing energies for him. I.e. you pray and ask that get hooked up/ connected to Divine healing energies (plus grounding, ie being hooked up to healthy Divine Earth energies), and then offer your body as a conduit for those energies to flow. They can be very comforting and calming, and it can also help you! For one when channeling healing energies one get's some as well, plus in case you feel powerless you should feel less so.....And or (if you do not already) talk to him calmly - explain why he is in pain, and tell him that the pain will go away, and that the pain now should safe him plenty of pain in future... He will understand on some level! Some people do very well to on Bach rescue Remedy! And or carry a comforting stone/ crystal.... Love and Light and many Blessings for the OP.

I absolutely love this idea and I am going to do my best to do so. I haven't ever done anything like that, but it feels so much better to think of having the ability to do anything to help. Before I felt so helpless. Thanks for your kind words and helpful thoughts! I really appreciate it.

Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/18/16 06:49:17PM
9 posts

Survival of my Son's Surgery


Empath

Rene'':

I really don't know if there is a shield strong enough to shield us from our childrens mental or physical pain because that is PURE LOVE  and WHITE LIGHT and we know nothing can penetrate it.   I think that kind of pain and love is put in us to ensure that the earths population does not dwindle.   

Keeping yourself grounded and centered is very important to me   I center myself everyday and when I come across tough situations I can bring myself back to the center quickly so I can think   

I would put protection around you and your baby and seal it with your love and ask for understanding of all future events  and ask your God/universe and angels For protection and guidance.  

Prayers to you and your sweet baby son.   I know how precious they are,  I have two of them.  

That feels so much better to my heart to have a shield which includes him. I am new to this... Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts.

Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/17/16 07:24:40PM
9 posts

Survival of my Son's Surgery


Empath

So, my infant son was born with cleft lip/palate and the first surgery was nothing short of traumatic for the both of us. The hardest part for me was the recovery room, and then waves of trauma after it. He is due for more surgery in December and I really could use some help mentally preparing!

I read a bit about the bubble work and I look forward to sitting with that, however, how can one stay supportive without being so overrun with empathy for a hurting baby. I didn't put up any shields, but now I know it's not an option. After his first surgery I was literally so overwhelmed to even hold him at first because I was so consumed by his pain. Are there crystals to help? Any other ideas ??


updated by @heavy-rains: 03/19/17 09:07:52AM
Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/06/16 05:36:41PM
9 posts

EMF


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What are you using to protect yourself from Electro Magnetic Fields! I find it really easy to get brain fog when surrounded by too much technologic energies!


updated by @heavy-rains: 03/12/17 08:47:32AM
Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/06/16 05:10:17PM
9 posts

Empaths and Boundaries


Empath

Nikki3:

If you think of you saying 'yes' as enabling someone it can change your perspective on boundaries. For example your alcoholic friend asks you for a drink and you say 'yes, I'd love to get you a drink'.  Saying no sometimes is love, feeling, and caring.  Some people want your help because they are too lazy to do it for themselves and they know you will say yes, so you are actually doing them a favour by saying no.  Saying yes not only enables them but drains you - who wins?  Neither party.

Stop feeling like you are being mean and start feeling like you are creating health and justice.  Boundaries are healthy rules that you live by to maintain energy, happiness and quality of life.  They are not limiting rules that stop you from being a good person.

I have rules for myself when it comes to other people's needs, the main one is I say 'let me think about it' - once I walk away from the situation I ask myself "would this person do the same for me?" and my answer to that question is my answer to them.

Now, sometimes you get a feeling that you need to do something and not benefit in return, if your intuition is talking then go ahead and pay it forward.  We shouldn't always be looking for return benefit but we have to stop saying yes to everything and start saying let me think about it.

This is a great way to look about saying no and it's definitely something worth keeping in mind when I'm dealing with those over bearing energy suckers!!! thank you :)

 But what about things that don't necessarily come and ask you to say yes. For example, really holding on to feelings after witnessing something and being overwhelmed with sympathy for the other person. Like being overly sensitive to situations that don't directly involve me, but things I witness on T.V. or the internet. I want to be able to sympathize without feeling totally overwhelmed or drowned. Does that make sense?

Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/04/16 06:01:22PM
9 posts

Anyone want to join me in setting up a rose quartz grid for earth healing?


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Paul:
4peace:

Hi All, I am going to set up a grid for earth healing and wondered if several people could do it at the same time in different parts of the country or world :)  I was going to use a flower of life grid with rose quartz :) 

Much peace,

Rhonda


Awesome! Count me in. and please post a picture. I wanna see.

does it all need to be rose quarts? I only have one. I could set up one with small stone!

Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/04/16 10:26:05AM
9 posts

Empaths and Boundaries


Empath

Rene'':

It is hard to create boundaries, especially for the people you love and want to help but gaining control is very import ..to m anyway.   I was pulled in many different direction everyday   I could not tell anyone "no".   I was very tired.  Very depressed from tiring their emotions around with me.   They would tell me their problems and they would feel better but I would take these emotions on and I could not handle it any longer   I was scared to tell them no because I was needed and wanted and feared loosing the people I love     I felt like I was doing them wrong   But....after I started say no .. they stopped asking me and now I have more time to myself and to heal     I sti help people but I put my health first   I can't help anyone if I can't help myself .    I do a lot of grounding and sending love to them and everyone   

Lol. Sorry for the spelling. I was half asleep. Lol

I totally get this! It is really hard to say no, but I have definitely found space in finding the strength to do so.

I guess I'm having trouble getting my point across. For example, some one doesn't even have to involve me in the situation, say if I see something on social media (which is both a blessing and a curse in itself) I feel really terrible for the effected party. Something will happen to them and I'll find it really disturbing, it invades my boundaries and effects my mood immensely. Images will haunt my mind for days and I find it keeps me out of present situations. But I feel for everything!!!  However, I feel like if I don't allow myself to have feelings towards what happens, and be effected by it, I feel cold. 

Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/03/16 07:45:29PM
9 posts

What Makes You Feel Good?


Empath

Hop Daddy:

Interesting feedback. I also enjoy nature and need to find a way to get a break and be outside more often.

So far only one person said they have experienced a rush of goodness being around another person or group of people in a happy moment. This is interesting to me because while it is so easy for us to absorb negative, you would think that we would also be able to absorb positive and happiness being around certain people or situations? I guess it's a bad time to ask this as there seems to be so much confusion and negative lately world-wide. It seems like all of humanity is off balance.

It really can go both ways for me and I consider myself to be extra spongy. There have been a lot of people that I randomly connect with and immediately I am enveloped in this warmth and uplifting feeling. Usually I'm able to carry that energy with me for quite some time afterwards and it protects me from some of the negatives. I met this energy worker recently from the UK and just being around her totally uplifted my spirits. Although, I am easily influenced by negative energies as well especially if they pertain to hurting some one or some thing. Although, even when I get low, it doesn't take much to uplift me if some one is around with the right energy. 

In nature, I mostly enjoy water. Although I have hiked mount Washington and the dense fog was incredibly captivating. Although... it was also water haha. But it is what made it so special. When I go hiking and you can see when you are at the top, I always look to see if I can see the ocean or any other bodies of water, not so sure why.

Heavy Rains
@heavy-rains
11/03/16 07:31:19PM
9 posts

Empaths and Boundaries


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I've always been a pretty sensitive person, and it wasn't until very recently some one suggested that I may be an empath. After some reading, I couldn't agree more with this thought. I'm having a hard time creating boundaries, as many empaths also seem to struggle with this. However, I feel resistance towards even starting to create a boundary. For example I understand creating boundaries will help me not carry things that are not mine to carry for long periods of time. However, I worry in creating boundaries, and not allowing myself to be effected by certain things, it makes me feel cold. Like, as if some how, allowing these energies and things that are not mine to carry to effect me makes me more understanding and truly sympathetic, or something like that. But also, I have a tendency to absorb so much, I get overwhelmed and depressed when in the present time, my immediate life and surroundings are not overbearing. What I carry distracts and almost inhibits me from being present, and therefore I can be emotionally detached at times because I get so overwhelmed from noticing things. Anyone experience anything similar or have any suggestions?


updated by @heavy-rains: 03/07/17 11:29:15AM