Forum Activity for @trevor-lewis

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/30/15 12:38:49PM
272 posts

Searching for explanation


Empath

My own analogy on "time":

Time is like a book. The whole book exists at once, but it has to be read in sequence to make any sense to us. Certain abilities allow some people to skip forward (or back) a few pages.

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/30/15 04:21:22AM
272 posts

Searching for explanation


Empath

Hi Ellicent:

Welcome to the EC

On the scientific side, have a look at my post from February on Quantum Entanglement,
http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/forum/topics/quantum-physics...

Please don't blame yourself for "missing". The responsibility was theirs and theirs alone. What you got was part of your training as an empath and students are supposed to make "mistakes" while they are learning. What you were given was the chance to recognize the signs. Your abilities will only continue to develop with time, with practice, and with your acceptance. In that regard it sounds like you are doing great!

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/29/15 05:37:33PM
272 posts

Projection


Empath

Thanks for the confirmation! Enjoy!

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/29/15 05:07:29AM
272 posts

Projection


Empath

Thriving As An Empath - The technique in this paper is my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here.

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/27/15 04:14:49AM
272 posts

Being such a sensitive empath, leading to addiction


Empath

Hi:

This question seems to come up in one form or another every few weeks here. You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are! Most of us have struggled with how to tame this gift. Yes, we can relate! If not through struggling with drugs and alcohol, certainly with the challenge of having felt challenged and appearing challenged with our own mental health.

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - "we suffer as empaths when we are only in receptor mode, we thrive as empaths when we step into healer mode". This technique is my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them. Try it every day for a week (preferably multiple times a day) and you WILL feel different!

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/16/15 06:50:05PM
272 posts

How to help a friend


Empath

Hey, Chris. It's really hard to address this for a third party. It would be so much better if she was willing to provide permission to work with a healer. Even having a close family member involved, ideally one who was living under the same roof, would be better.

Unfortunately, Chris, I don't think this one is yours to solve - which means letting it go. Sometimes the lesson is as simple as that - learning what NOT to do, rather than what TO do.

Please send me a friend request if you have further questions on this one.

Blessings

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/15/15 12:26:54PM
272 posts



Hi Storm:

Have a look at the Conduit of Energy technique inThriving As An Empath -

"we suffer as empaths when we are only in receptor mode, we thrive as empaths when we step into healer mode". This technique is my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them.

I think you will like it because you can use it very specifically for a single person (as well as for groups or whole buildings) rather than shielding against everything.

Let me know how you get on with it. Happy to answer questions if you have them.

Trevor


updated by @trevor-lewis: 10/17/17 10:51:49PM
Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/13/15 09:37:25AM
272 posts

Hi new here thank god there is a place for people like us


Empath

Hi Sami:

How do we cope?

This question seems to come up in one form or another every few weeks here. You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are!

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - "we suffer as empaths when we are only in receptor mode, we thrive as empaths when we step into healer mode". This technique is my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them. Try it every day for a week (preferably multiple times a day) and you WILL feel different!

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

Blessings, Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
10/01/15 05:15:42AM
272 posts

Will the Blood Moon affect the things I want to do??


Empath

Bear in mind that Mercury is retrograde till 10/9/15 on top of the lasting effects of the eclipse. Ideally, wait until the 11th or 12th before making any big decisions but equally don't ignore any good opportunities that fall in your lap.
(... and don't go into job interviews telling them that you can't make any decisions while Mercury is still retrograde. LOL!)

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/30/15 05:16:50AM
272 posts

Blocking Abilities


Empath

Hi Kate:

This question seems to come up in one form or another every few weeks here.

You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are!

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them. Try it every day for a week (preferably multiple times a day) and you WILL feel different!

Let me quote from Thriving As An Empath. "we suffer as empaths when we are only in receptor mode, we thrive as empaths when we step into healer mode". It is a gift, not a curse, but only if we learn to use the gift.

Keep asking questions. We are here to help.

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/29/15 05:53:17AM
272 posts



Hi:

We can't feel happy while, as empaths, we are unconsciously processing everybody else's junk!

Techniques?

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath (which is really why I replied but full disclosure of other alternatives first) my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them. Try it everyday for a week (preferably multiple times a day) and you WILL feel different! Money-back guarantee, LOL!

Blessings,

Trevor


updated by @trevor-lewis: 10/21/17 03:19:09PM
Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/28/15 07:51:04AM
272 posts

Vampires?


Empath

Does this make sense? Absolutely.
Vampires don't feed only on empaths (though they may find them more tasty, joke!) so he may or may not have known you were one.

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/28/15 06:48:03AM
272 posts

Vampires?


Empath

good summary, AlyssumFlower !

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/25/15 08:59:13AM
272 posts

Do you guys feel or sense anything about the upcoming "Blood Moon Eclipse" on 27th & 28th September 2015?


Empath

is it the planetary change that affects us?

absolutely!

we are being transitioned to operate at higher frequencies (there are lots of articles about transitioning to the fifth dimension). I'm not sure most of us can even fully comprehend the details what is coming with this transition - most of us are not yet operating at the frequencies that would enable us to understand - but it is certainly along way from what the doomsayers are promoting.

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/25/15 08:49:23AM
272 posts

Do you guys feel or sense anything about the upcoming "Blood Moon Eclipse" on 27th & 28th September 2015?


Empath

It's not about the end of the physical world.

There is a huge planetary change going on right now. Many people are experiencing a lot of exhaustion, even as we have problems sleeping, while we integrate all of these changes. Absolutely nothing to fear (except for those people who fear The Light). Lots to be excited about. :-)

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/17/15 08:57:47AM
272 posts

Please help me.


Empath

You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are! Many of us thought it was us that were crazy at one time or another. Misunderstood, yes! Crazy no!

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

Welcome!

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
09/01/15 10:57:44AM
272 posts

New to the group


Empath

Hi Mandi:

I don't like to think of shutting people out. Instead I prefer to think in terms of sending healing energy.

Have a look at the Conduit of Energy exercise in Thriving As An Empath. It reverses the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them. You can help your husband heal instead of either taking on his stuff or shutting him out.

Hope this helps (it has for many)

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/31/15 01:11:48PM
272 posts

Intensifying someone else's emotions


Empath

Hi:

Some of the standard reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them.

Enjoy!

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/21/15 12:34:27PM
272 posts

Expanding awareness


Empath

Hi P:

To help you get things back under control (esp. re: "I have begun to isolate myself because people feel so bad to me I am overwhelmed and often can't function or face people."), some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. And, in particular, Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here.

You are in a community of people who understand and are, or have been, where you are. Welcome!

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/20/15 06:34:58PM
272 posts

help plz one person making me ill. why?


Empath

Hi:

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. And, in particular, Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. Try using it with this woman and see what changes!

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/20/15 05:24:49PM
272 posts



Well yes! Let me be more explicit ... it could even be amazingly FABULOUS!

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/20/15 02:00:23PM
272 posts



Absolutely ... and with that it doesn't have to be bad!

This whole year is marking the tipping point of the transition that we have been waiting for (for how many lifetimes?). It's profound! It's huge! We can make the shift, and we can make it easily and painlessly ... at least for those of us who are on The Path and doing The Work.

I don't know the details ... I am mega excited!

Blessing

Trevor


updated by @trevor-lewis: 10/25/17 03:43:21PM
Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/19/15 02:38:23AM
272 posts

Newbie to the Group


Empath

HI:

You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are, even if less intensely than you are currently fining things.

I understand the difficulty being around people. There are tools to help. Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/18/15 10:38:12AM
272 posts

Overwhelmed by sudden rage - local mine disaster


Empath

Have a look at Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite technique for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here.

Good luck,

Blessings to you and all around you!

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/11/15 06:11:01PM
272 posts

Help


Empath

So many of us have struggled with attempting to get understanding from a traditional medical community that just doesn't understand. There are a few out there but they can be hard to find depending on where you live. You are far better looking for the alternative/holistic practitioners especially ones that are empaths themselves. If in doubt, just ask them what they understand when someone describes themselves as an empath. If they don't understand the question, or give you a conventional answer that again means they don't understand, leave ... fast.

So far everything you've said here sounds to me like you are an empath, not crazy!

If you are interested in a longer story of how I got where I am today have a look at http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/we-are-all-connected-how-i-came-to-recognize-myself-as-an-empath

It might be useful to you but I still suggest you read Thriving As An Empath first

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/09/15 07:53:08AM
272 posts

Help


Empath

OK 58 year old male to 51 year old male ... :-)

Firstly, if you have browsed the conversations here you would know that we take this community very seriously. Many of us have struggled with coming to terms with being empaths. We know what you are going through!

Second, I cant remember any conversation or advice on turning off being an empath in the last 3 years I have been around. Most of the advice you will get here is in terms of shielding or other exercises to "protect" yourself from the energy of others.

What I have often posted for newcomers is the following:

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now. Personally, when I first started out, and once I realized what was messing with my head, I was determined to train it not stop it. My opinion it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability.

Like an untrained car driver, being out of control is a liability to everybody. That why there is Driver's Ed :-) Welcome to the EC! We are here to help.

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/07/15 12:57:02PM
272 posts



Salansar:

Really?

"we understand that it isn't the right way... I am not afraid of the fact that she may have a predisposition to the darkness, ...I was looking to see if the whole situation could be avoided."

The idea that there is "something comforting in the darkness" is (almost) totally alien to me but if you really want to look after your daughter its time to turn your life back towards the light.

For her sake, for your sake, for the world. Let your love for her turn you in a new direction.

Sending you love and blessings ... and, little though I understand your current disposition, an offer of as much help as you are willing to accept from one dedicated to the light.

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/07/15 04:04:54AM
272 posts



A few more thoughts here. The dark gets it's power from sucking people in. Fear is one of the biggest magnets it has to draw people in and the easiest way to generate fear is through lies and deceit (especially using people who have already been dabbling in the dark arts).

Our job is not to give in to that fear.

Love, faith and trust draw us to the light.

You have free will. Which do you want to choose?

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/06/15 06:27:59AM
272 posts



That was written before I saw your reply to "Reckless". I was about to delete my reply but I am being told "no. let it stand".

All I can add is that lessons come in so many different packages, This could just be a learning lesson for you along the lines of "Everything is going to turn out fine. The lesson is don't listen to other people's doom and gloom. Find your own inner truth. We (guides, angels, etc) only sent you these false messages for you to learn this lesson the hard way."

Of course, don't listen me me either, LOL! :-)

Sending light and blessings your way.

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/06/15 05:59:55AM
272 posts



Who is interpreting what was seen as bad?

There is a Chinese Proverb that goes something like this

A farmer and his son had a beloved stallion who helped the family earn a living. One day, the horse ran away and their neighbors exclaimed, Your horse ran away, what terrible luck! The farmer replied, Maybe so, maybe not. Well see.

A few days later, the horse returned home, leading a few wild mares back to the farm as well. The neighbors shouted out, Your horse has returned, and brought several horses home with him. What great luck! The farmer replied, Maybe so, maybe not. Well see.

Later that week, the farmers son was trying to break one of the mares and she threw him to the ground, breaking his leg. The villagers cried, Your son broke his leg, what terrible luck! The farmer replied, Maybe so, maybe not. Well see.

A few weeks later, soldiers from the national army marched through town, recruiting all the able-bodied boys for the army. They did not take the farmers son, still recovering from his injury. Friends shouted, Your boy is spared, what tremendous luck! To which the farmer replied, Maybe so, maybe not. Well see.

The moral of this story, is, of course, that no event, in and of itself, can truly be judged as good or bad, lucky or unlucky, fortunate or unfortunate, but that only time will tell the whole story. Additionally, no one really lives long enough to find out the whole story, so it could be considered a great waste of time to judge minor inconveniences as misfortunes or to invest tons of energy into things that look outstanding on the surface, but may not pay off in the end.

The wiser thing, then, is to live life in moderation, keeping as even a temperament as possible, taking all things in stride, whether they originally appear to be good or bad. Life is much more comfortable and comforting if we merely accept what were given and make the best of our life circumstances. Rather than always having to pass judgement on things and declare them as good or bad, it would be better to just sit back and say, It will be interesting to see what happens.

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/06/15 05:52:10AM
272 posts

Interesting experience!!


Empath

"Is this type of communication with spirits a good or bad thing?" If it is bringing joy and healing, I would have no question about calling it good. On this occasion it seemed very good all round - an an excellent learning opportunity for you!

"Should spirits be able to talk to you whenever they please?" I'll take the question literally and say "no". You and/or you higher self should be ready and willing for the communication. Like any conversation between two living people, you don't expect to be interrupted by something unimportant when you are busy on something important. On the other hand, if the building you are in is burning down you might expect to be interrupted!

One of my favorite questions is "Is this [what ever the proposed action is] in the highest good of all concerned?" as long as the answer is yes, go for it!

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/04/15 11:32:51AM
272 posts



Hi Josh:

You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are!

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.


updated by @trevor-lewis: 01/15/17 08:47:48PM
Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/03/15 04:06:23AM
272 posts



I wouldn't have said "heavier" but certainly more intense, This summer has been an opportunity for many of us to deeply cleanse old wounds (and you know how painful that can be) while I have been watching a significant number of dramatic breakthroughs for people in the last month or so. These are exciting times!


updated by @trevor-lewis: 04/15/17 09:47:47PM
Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/03/15 04:02:08AM
272 posts

Last Night


Empath

Good reply Kit Kat! Many empaths do as you quote ""An Empath heals instinctively, usually by drawing the pain or ailment out and accepting it into their own bodies. For obvious reasons, this is not recommended for anyone who doesnt know how to keep from becoming ill in the process."

The way They (my guides, Spirit, etc) showed me how to consciously clear the energy was actually by sending Divine Energy out to them (rather then drawing their energy in). My write-up, Thriving As An Empath, describes this in more detail. Many people have found this exercise useful; for some it has been life-changing!

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
08/02/15 05:19:55PM
272 posts

Last Night


Empath

"It's like I'm praying for them without words ... What is this called?"

I, and many others here, would call it healing. Personally, although this site unites us as empaths, I feel that being an empath is only a signpost on the road to becoming a healer. We are what we call "empaths" because, by feeling another person's emotions and pain, we get alerted to the need to heal them. Many of us here have made, or are making, that transition from empath to healer. Sounds like you are already naturally there. I wonder what great things you are capable of with a little more conscious awareness? :-)

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/25/15 02:55:37AM
272 posts

Need help


Empath

You are in the right place! You are now part of a community that has been where you are!

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

... And, sincerely, blessings to you for all the work you have been doing for your communities!

Welcome!

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/23/15 07:19:56AM
272 posts

healing light


Empath

I wonder where you got THAT exercise from! LOL! (Thriving As An Empath for those people not in on the joke - correct me if I am wrong, Secret Blossom)

My own take is that being an empath is not a destination in itself but just a signpost on the road to becoming a healer (if even that is a "destination").

You are not hallucinating or going crazy. You are simply accepting a new reality for yourself which most of Western "civilization" has been denying for centuries. Congratulations.

Oh yes, and like many people on this site, I do all of my work remotely. Distance doesn't make any difference for this work Not knowing where they are doesn't make any difference for this work. Sounds like you ARE a natural!

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/22/15 06:40:38PM
272 posts

sensing


Empath

Yeah, welcome to our world! :-)

Back in the 1970's (yes, I'm ancient) meditation and yoga were fringe and weird. Now they are mainstream. It's my "hallucination" that some time, remarkably soon, the idea of being an "empath" will be just as mainstream. Hehe, we'll see! :-)

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/22/15 11:58:45AM
272 posts

sensing


Empath

My personal opinion ... you only get to know about the people you are supposed to know about. I feel that, at a subconscious level, we have an invitation to connect to the people we connect to. It's like only going into somebody's house if we have an invitation ... we are not supposed to go in if we don't have an invite - especially if the front door is locked and we haven't been given a key :-)

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/22/15 06:58:13AM
272 posts

tapping into my ability


Empath

Yes, shielding is wonderful but puts us in a defensive position. My own favorite exercise is contained in Thriving As An Empath and it is more proactive. A lot of people have found it very effective.

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/17/15 12:14:31PM
272 posts

Please help :)


Empath

Hi Samaria:

Great question. Good advice from Gene.

For me it has been to keep asking "Is this mine?". The clearer I have become in myself (by whatever means) the more I have been able to distinguish between my own emotions and those of others. Usually, the realization that a particular emotion is not mine - and especially whose it is and what it is - is enough for it to melt away.

Unfortunately the mind plays tricks. It's job is to think! It thinks "This body I am in is having an emotion. There must be a reason for that. Here, let me give you this whole list of reasons why this emotion belongs to us." If you are an empath, the mind's first impulse - to think that it owns the emotion - is very often wrong!!

So if you keep asking "Is this mine?", how do you trust the answer, how do you get the answer quickly?

Learning to keep asking the question is the first step. I have found that using a pendulum or using muscle testing have been invaluable for helping get to the answers. But, as Gene says, find what works for you. You are part of a great community here. Keep reaching out to us. and WELCOME!

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/16/15 06:31:33AM
272 posts

strange thing during the night


Empath

Bing is a member of this community and a good friend to many of us! He is also the keeper of The Library of Inspiration

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/15/15 03:43:36PM
272 posts

Looking to have a picture reading done of someone


Empath

Most of us will not do any readings for third parties (I also seem to remember that is in the Community's guidelines). Feel free to ask if you feel that you need to have all the reasons why explained.

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/06/15 07:34:19AM
272 posts



mht reminded me that I know of an organization of lightworkers that run seminars in prisons. They encourage people to change out of their clothes the moment they get home, shower and meditate - in addition to any other forms of protection they use (see Thriving As An Empath for my own favorite process). These are all practices that could help with even a regular job.

Of course, actually working in a prison (as a guard or similar) would be another employment opportunity that would be extremely dark for the average untrained empath to work in.

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/06/15 05:15:25AM
272 posts



Hi: Personal opinion, I don't think it's about the job as much as it is about where the empath is in their own state of development as an empath.

Tongue-in-cheek, the best job may be a Wilderness Park Ranger - lots of nature, few people! For most of the rest of us, we are interacting with people ... even those of us that work from home still have physical neighbors and people who we have to deal with over the phone (and physical distance doesn't matter for many/most empaths). ANY connection with other people is going to create opportunities for empaths to pick up stuff from them.

Having said all of that, there may well be professions that are naturally challenging to empaths, a couple of examples, social workers (working with needy people all day - especially challenging for empaths who are inclined to give, give, give), bartenders (around people who lean towards using alcohol to deal with emotions).

Is this question coming from choosing a new career or dealing with your current one? Either way, I would say that it is less about choosing a career that is right for empaths than it is about choosing one that is right for YOU!

The rest of the challenge becomes about how to uses the gift. Can we, as empaths, stay engaged in the world, stay protected, feel stable, and, ultimately, develop as healers helping the world rather than just taking on their stuff? The people on this site have many of the tools and guidance to help you in that process.

Blessings,

Trevor


updated by @trevor-lewis: 10/20/17 04:45:18PM
Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
07/01/15 05:01:44AM
272 posts

Overwhelming emotions


Empath

Hi Kenya:

I practice a form of remote energy healing that starts with clearing stuck emotions. Emotions should flow through us the way they flow through healthy children (who can have a temper tantrum one minute and be all smiles the next). As we grow older these emotions get stuck in our physiology and color our whole outlook on life causing us to feel stuck in outdated patterns of behavior and thought. Clearing those stuck emotions can help us feel lighter, happier, in more harmony with other people around us and general remove the obstacles that interfere with living the life we were born to live.

And there is always the possibility/probability that the emotions you are processing are not your own. We will look into that too.

What you can expect from me:

  1. All information you provide (or that I intuit) is fully confidential.
  2. I will send you a full report after I clear you (usually 5-7 pages in a pdf).It may possibly take up to a week (usually less) once you give me the OK.
  3. My work is free for members of this community.

What I need from you:

  1. Your explicit permission to clear you once you have read the full details athttp://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/group/teacherempaths/forum/a...
  2. A friend request so that we can share communications privately(recommended)
  3. Your first and last name - OR - first name and location - OR - first name and photo.I am able to work with a very limited amount of information, however first name or pseudonym alone isinsufficient for me.

Looking forward to working with you,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
06/28/15 04:27:10PM
272 posts

Meditation pressures


Empath

Hi Dave:

The beginner's mistake is usually one of concentration. Do not concentrate. It's not about HOLDING a thought. It's about FOCUSING a thought. It's like using an SLR camera. When the subject of a photo moves out of focus all you do is refocus the lens of the camera. When the object for mental attention moves out of focus, refocus the mind. Just bring your attention back to what you want to focus on. Do not worry about having thoughts. Thoughts are a natural part of mediation.

Do not try. Let it be easy!

Let me know whether this helps.

Blessings,

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
06/13/15 05:38:27AM
272 posts

I FINALLY figured out what I am.


Empath

You are in a great place here to research all sorts of talents from all ranges of people. Just be open to learning and see where you get led to next. Welcome to the EC!

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
06/10/15 12:59:17PM
272 posts

Newbie Needs Help


Empath

Welcome!

You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are!

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

Keep asking if you need help!

Trevor

Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
06/08/15 03:11:28PM
272 posts

Sheltering your own soul while trying to help others


Empath

Hi Victoria

Some reading material for you to get you going on the topic of shielding...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

Trevor

 
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