
Forum Activity for @heather6
Mirroring Vs. Empath
Empath
I would like to know more about what/how lotusfly (very wise, light and quite wonderful) said about people pleasing. This has actually been destroying me emotionally, putting out my light and at times sending me into "hiding". I've just begun my journey and have many things to work on, but this truly is "hurting" me. I do now realize i can not please everyone, and that pleasing even one person at the expense of another is unacceptable. Any thing you have, or know of this please pass it along.Thank you, in love, light and hope
I need help dealing with an Experience
Empath
I'm not sure my comment went through? In the off chance it did not, I will give the short version. I agree being "abrupt" is difficult as an empath, I also agree with ren. This is just my opinion I would find her information and "ban" her from the pool. Something written sho other life guards enforce the "ban". You gave several reasons to ban this person if only for a day. If one of her children (while horsing around) hit his head on the concrete and fell in the pool, who do you think she would blame? As for her "tattling" on you, I assure you that won't happen, it was totally an empty threat. The means by which this person "controls" the situation as well as other people. My 2 cents, hope i didnt offend, sending love and light!
dark tirade-negative energy from a physical body
Empath


dark tirade-negative energy from a physical body
Empath
I have a person close (related by marriage) that is extremely dark almost void of aura, feeling and emotion. I do not know how to engage, interact with person and feel as if they feed on my energy. Please if anyone has advice or suggestion I would very much appreciate it. Sending love and light
updated by @heather6: 01/23/17 09:27:07AM
How to receive a Mediumship Reading?What is a Mediumship Reading?
Psychic and Paranormal
Yes please let me know how it would be AMAZING! From you I hope?
How to receive a Mediumship Reading?What is a Mediumship Reading?
Psychic and Paranormal
Hello me again

Lets try something different: Emphatic Experiment #1
Psychic and Paranormal
Fear (of the impending storm), anxiety (realizing not all things are in out control), concern (for those around us), isolation (after the storm).I wish there were some way to receive a grade and critique lol.
Attracting suffering people
Empath
Well you seem to have your answer. You have pointed out very specific traits he has that you can/will not tolerate, as well as traits you need that he doesn't have. If you feel you can not just cold turkey walk away, I say continue with a guarded flirtatious friendship. Trying to move forward with anything more will almost definitely end in disappointment. Others WILL take advantage of you if you let them. Most people don't intentionally use or take advantage of others, they are merely accepting what others give freely. This is where boundaries are essential. Not just to protect yourself, but to let others know where you stand. Once your boundaries have been set, do not budge, you ARE worth it. I truly hope this made sense and maybe even helped I am sending you light and strength.
breaking news/confrontation
Empath
Just wondering if I'm alone in this; I will do almost anything to avoid confrontation, and procrastinate when I have to deliver news I know will cause negative emotion (anger, sorrow, dread . .). I know that in either of these scenarios I am going to (by proxy) feel these same emotions. It has lead to extreme procrastination and high levels of dread. Does anyone have a "way" to deal with this situation? I also have a few family members (immediate/close) that carry such negative energy it's hard to communicate with them, any help in either situation would be greatly appreciated. Sending positivity and light too all!
updated by @heather6: 01/11/17 05:30:05AM
Have you experienced The Dark Night of the Soul
Empath
I am there now. I can describe the person I was, she is nothing like the person I've become. I know however that is the true "me". I've been told several times over the years that I have dark energy's around me. The thing is, I believe (to some degree) there is negative energy weighing me down, causing negative things, truly affecting my soul. I'm working now on finding the "love" inside that will bring out the person I was and will be again. My challenge to anyone going through this is; describe your personality, I'm sure you will realize "YOU" are amazing and the world needs a you.