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Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/31/16 10:02:02AM
17 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

I now what you mean! Some people will even want to tell me things that I feel is much too personal to them and I feel strange ...I feel like I'm standing in for their trusty old bartender friend without the alcohol to serve! It really makes my brain tired and I just want to tell them that I don't care...but I haven't the heart...I just keep listening! Lol
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/31/16 09:26:26AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

Your welcome Franny ! :) I feel the same about trees and remember climbing them just to sit and wonder...get a nice view from above. The ocean?...there is nothing quite like it...I can stare out at it for hours and never get bored! My mind ponders how deep and vast it really is and the smell of the salty ocean air make me feel more alive! As a child I always envied people that lived closer to the ocean...I have to drive about 300 miles to see it from where I live! Lol :(
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/31/16 09:16:41AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

Yeah I just think I was built for the forest and the trees always seem to remind me that they are important energy providers as well...one short walk in the woods really is like nourishment for my body and mind. If I had to live in the urban city jungle I would notice effects on my energy...even my skin doesn't look as healthy...I've noticed I get pimples on my forehead! Lol
This is of course due to stress and bad eating habits in the city I suppose..I lived in Cleveland, Ohio for 2 years and noticed these changes...my only recharge was walks along the shores of beautiful Lake Erie. No I'm back home in a slightly more wooded area of Alabama...life is good here! :)
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/31/16 09:01:05AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

I actually feel deeply connected energy and genetically wise to the Britsh Isles even though I've never been there.I have known ancestries from Southeast England as well as Cornwall and also Scotland...that's where I think I got my red beard! LolSo it's something I feel in my blood. The English countryside seems like place that would have positive energies...I think whoever placed all those stone circles throughout the isles knew or felt something special about those spots...but I can see how ancient places can make us creeped out..even some like ancient burials can make us depressed! Lol
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/31/16 08:48:21AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

Happy this thread made you smile! :)
And it's no coincidence that my favorite color is green! Lol
Also I feel have a deep connection to wildflowers,insects and also bodies of water as you mentioned. There also is nothing like watching the stars in the sky above the trees...it's magical!
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/31/16 08:44:10AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

Howdy neighbor! :)Georgia is right next to my home state of Alabama so I feel like It's my next home state away from Bama! LolNorth Georgia gives me a very good vibe...love the mountains in fall colors..so inspiring and relaxing! I could see myself living in a nice cabin in the woods quite easily...of course I'd invite all my friends an family so I wouldn't be such a recluse! LolWashington state always sends me good vibes...love the Native American cultures and the beautiful art they produce..woodcraft.
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/31/16 08:35:40AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

Wow! That's an absolutely beautiful picture TD! The state of Oregon is truly blessed to have such relaxing settings as this..gotta make a visit one of these days! :)
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/28/16 06:50:55AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

Hmm? Interesting how no one responded yet. But I am sure someone on here knows or shares what I'm talking about? lol

Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/27/16 08:42:12AM
17 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

I realize this sounds a bit weird, but are we empaths usually more sensitive to earth energies weather positive or negative? Even in my home or workplace It's a big part of how I ground myself...I'm trying to understand why and maybe I'm not the only empath this sensitive to ( mostly positive) earth energy. For example...some very remote places with interesting geography and geology such as deserts,coastal regions,oceans,Mountain regions, and for me especially forested areas...I get the most fantastically positive energies from the regions of the "Subarctic boreal forest" regions of Alaska and Canada..don't know why!
It's as if these places call to my subconscious mind and gives me energy in a very positive and almost primeval way like...."I'm here and ancient and I'm almost unpopulated with people and you can come if you'd like!" I know this sounds bizarre but maybe this empath phenomena has an actual name? Also for some reason Minnesota,New Mexico,Michigan,Maine,Alaska and Oregon have all been on my mind lately as if I'm supposed to go to those places but why?
There is also a few places not far from where I live ( Here in Alabama) that have the most positive energies, and if I just go to these place and "soak" it all in it's almost like I'm recharging my batteries...it can be medicinal even! There has to be some some kind of mutual energy exchange that this living planet is sharing with a few of us empaths that others just don't get..because I know people who would laugh and look at me as if I'm from Mars or something but maybe because they lack the empathy? Also this clearly seems hereditary as I've observed this from my family on both sides....most of us seem to have a strong sense of belonging to this world in a special way. I know it sounds all like something out of Star Wars ( The Force) but it is too strong for me to not notice! lol

Tell me what you guys and girls think and I'd love to hear your earth energy experiences! :)


updated by @fiddlehead: 06/06/17 01:53:17AM
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/12/16 07:43:04PM
17 posts

Do most empaths have synesthesia?


Empath

Must be a very interesting musical experience Kimberly! :)Jazz music is various materials in my minds eye...various fabrics like wool and colorful plaids. Rock music is like colored lights that shape into geometric shapes...organ music is like flames of fire. Lol
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/12/16 09:45:38AM
17 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Exactly TigerLily...and I'm realizing that I need to put away the guilt I feel when I do set those boundaries. No one ever said I should have to listen constantly about how bad and depressed he feels,or all about his marital issues...it's none of my business anyway! Lol
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/12/16 09:42:14AM
17 posts

Negative energy


Empath

I can also totally relate to a " energy vampire" family member Ekkostar...I have an uncle like this and it takes all the energy I have just to sit in the same room with him. I like your name for these people "Negative- nelly's....that's exactly what they are! Lol
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/11/16 12:20:42PM
17 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Yes, you know that it's a very heavy vibe these sad people carry in and around them.He is my friend at work and I do care for his well being...but it's like my spirit is telling me it's enough and this is not the way life was meant to be for anyone. Thank you for sharing your own experience and tips as well! :)
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/11/16 12:20:19PM
17 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Thanks Chuck...very good observation and thank you for sharing these methods! Ironically my friend did not show for work and it's been unbelievably calm and just like a vacation from his negative energy. He will probably return tomorrow...so I'll have to be prepared! LolThank guys!
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/11/16 12:07:15PM
17 posts

Negative energy


Empath

I'll try this and thank you so much! :)
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/10/16 04:56:30PM
17 posts

Do most empaths have synesthesia?


Empath

Just curious if any of you empaths also have some form of "synesthesia"? There are many forms of synesthesia..but for me numbers have colors in my minds eye as well as genders and personalities. I also associate certain letters and sometimes words with specific colors.Music also for me is not just sound but I feel and see colors and textures for specific keys,chords and tones. I'm just wondering if there is a connection with empathy and synesthesia..people either have it or don't.
updated by @fiddlehead: 01/22/17 11:48:43AM
Fiddlehead
@fiddlehead
08/10/16 04:21:48PM
17 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Hi I am a new member here ! :)I have a friend at my job who has a very negative energy about him and is alway telling me how tired and bad he feels everyday and how he wants to quit the job ( it's more just talk..he's been there about 10 years). He just recently got on some medication for stress but it never stops his negativity and he is always feeling sick..seems very depressed.It is starting to take it's toll on me also because I feel as if his negative energy drains mine...or is offloaded on me.The funny thing is that every time he tells me how bad,tired of sick he feels...he wants to see my reaction and that gets tiring...I always feel that if I don't respond in a similar negative manner he will think I'm not apathetic or care.What is the best way I can handle this situation to conserve my energy but also give him some positive energy? I have tried to act like my mind is busy and don't look at him,but all it takes is one negative statement by him and it seems to break the experiment I started. Any advice would be appreciated! :)
updated by @fiddlehead: 01/22/17 11:48:40AM