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D.A.Darby
@dadarby
03/14/17 08:41:05PM
11 posts

Has anyone had a fear of trying anything paranormal?


Psychic and Paranormal

Is it possible to IM you @karen2 or @soothsayer4 ? I am interested in learning/sharing more. 

D.A.Darby
@dadarby
03/09/17 08:48:08PM
11 posts

Has anyone had a fear of trying anything paranormal?


Psychic and Paranormal

The tension is really thick, if that's what you mean. I have visited there before and not had any issues but over the past year I have spent less and less time over there. No one over there is happy and I am not sure why. 


updated by @dadarby: 03/09/17 08:55:31PM
D.A.Darby
@dadarby
03/09/17 05:42:56PM
11 posts

Has anyone had a fear of trying anything paranormal?


Psychic and Paranormal

Yes. Indeed I am overwhelmed. I will try to figure out how to cut the cords. Thank you for your insight. This has been going on for a long time, ever since we moved so close to them I feel their energy overwhelming mine. I very much dislike it. I don't know if it is a sign of weakness in myself or just a note to how heavy theirs is but I want no more of it. 

D.A.Darby
@dadarby
03/09/17 04:41:52PM
11 posts

Has anyone had a fear of trying anything paranormal?


Psychic and Paranormal

@karen2 Oh boy, you asked for it. 

The other day my nephew 9mos old started choking and his mom and I tried the baby Heimlich to no avail. He passed out very quickly, too quickly. 911 was called and his dad was able to get him breathing albeit, weakly with cpr, by the time the ambulance arrived. He is in the hosp. still but we found out he has a congenital lung issue from birth which was why it was worse than it should have been. He is better and they are waiting on tests. The reason it bothers me so much, other than the fact that it was entirely scary is the fact that ever since he was born I felt like I didn't want to get too close to him. Hes a cute kid and I love kids, so I am curious to know if it is possible it was that congenital thing I sensed? Or other stuff, his mom is very protective almost unnaturally so, and I sensed that too but they are going through stuff, although I cannot say what because they don't share, and that might be why I stopped visiting as much after the baby was born.  Another thing is, my 8year old witnessed everything going on with him, I took her outside to calm her the usual...well i couldn't sleep because everything about it kept replaying in my head over and over, the day after I couldn't swallow my food and kept feeling like I couldn't breathe very well.  I went back to work yesterday after two days of this and was able to eat solid food by lunch time, was it because i was out of the environment? Could it be I was physically manifesting my memories of what was going on with him? Its insane but I did not tell my daughter what i was experiencing and she said her throat was hurting. All of my kids seem to be absorbing all the negativity from whats been going on, is it from me specifically or are they picking up on my sis in law's family? Just not sure what to make of it all or do about it going forward. I still feel like I want to withdraw but how can I feel that way about a baby for petes sake, I think i am going crazy.


updated by @dadarby: 03/09/17 04:43:31PM
D.A.Darby
@dadarby
03/09/17 03:39:42PM
11 posts

Has anyone had a fear of trying anything paranormal?


Psychic and Paranormal

@merin-eliz I feel the same way and I know why I feel that way.I was told, growing up in a Christian family that it was bad, but that is not what stops me.  I am not exactly sure what to do about it though. I feel as if there is something just waiting for me to open that door. Not exactly a spirit waiting for a door, but something waiting for Me to open it. I don't like it, but lately i feel as if i want to face it, due to some crazy things going on, but I fear it is not something I could control. Does that make sense?


updated by @dadarby: 03/09/17 03:45:03PM
D.A.Darby
@dadarby
08/25/16 09:16:26PM
11 posts

is this real


Empath

I want to say something to help, so here goes. I'm sure you disagree sometimes but I am so glad your ten attempts failed, one day you may be talking to some poor fellow who has lost his way and may be able to impart your life saving experience and wisdom. As to what you're feeling I felt similar before, I went to the river, (any body of water will do) and threw stones into the water, naming each one a hurt until I ran out of names. For example, the fact I had an abusive boyfriend and lost everything. It really helped, at least it made room for other things. When thoughts (meditation) don't fix it you need action my friend. I agree with the walking meditation but by throwing stones you may be able to 'let go' so to speak. God bless.

D.A.Darby
@dadarby
08/25/16 08:53:58PM
11 posts

Vague feeling of dread


Empath

I watched the news of that happening while I was on my honey moon the prior week, so that wasn't it, for me at least. But let's hope that's the worst of it.

D.A.Darby
@dadarby
08/24/16 06:51:09AM
11 posts

Vague feeling of dread


Empath

I had that same feeling on Sunday. It usually starts as a feeling of dread, then I start noticing little things that are just out of place. Like a bunch of people in the neighborhood moving all of a sudden, dogs acting weird. I get the feeling and start noticing everything. It has happened before, and it usually just means change is coming, but this was stronger than normal i was off all day and still kind of feel it. Don't know if its meant for me or something on a larger scale. I just noticed that you posted this on Sunday did this happen on sunday like mine, if so thats weird. Talk about synchronicity. I live in Western WA, are we close?

D.A.Darby
@dadarby
08/08/16 08:09:45AM
11 posts

Lots of Questions from a Newb


Empath

Now that I realize what I am, I realize that I am not the only one in my family, I am also positive my son is one, and there's a serious chance two of my daughters are as well. My mother and one of my sisters. I think my grandma too, is it hereditary? I can see some of the crazy things my grandmother did in her life and am wondering could it be that she was an empath and everyone thought she was nuts at the time but she just didn't know what she was and how to deal with it?

Could a person or child with ADHD be a misdiagnosed Empath? (I read 30 traits of an empath and losing interest quickly is in there, as well as daydreaming) Is there a purpose for us? Especially now. Alot I have heard about are the side effects but does any one else take a proactive approach. Like I notice, and now know why, that I have automatically felt people out, sometimes I get the feeling but misunderstand the why they are feeling that way, Now I know not to always take it personal but does that get better with use or time or experience? Is it safe to do it?

Also, I am okay with feeling people out and now know the feelings I get aren't mine, that makes it better just knowing, but I am sensitive to the supernatural too, sometimes not good things. For example, I watched paranormal activity, yes I know its fake, but after that I felt icky for so long, like I opened a door or something and had to pray and pray about it, I even felt as if my fiance felt like something bad was rolling off of him. As well as paranormal state, I watched a few episodes and then strange things happened, like my daughter getting up out of bed walking around the room and I realized it was exactly 3:00 Am, She said nothing and eventually returned to bed. But talk about creepy, my son also came into my room and told me there was a spirit in his room. He was six, i don't know of any six year old who uses the word spirit. I don't go there anymore no more movies like that, but is it an overactive imagination, or did something nefarious realize I was open? I am a Christian and a believer, and know I shouldn't be afraid of them, but can any other people feel the flood of evil like that?

I know its a lot of questions, but I am knew to it, but any insight on any of these would help. Thank you. So glad I found this site.


updated by @dadarby: 01/13/17 03:24:31AM
D.A.Darby
@dadarby
08/08/16 07:17:33AM
11 posts

Anyone else deal with social isolation?


Empath

From what I have gathered, if we are empaths people with issues are drawn to us like metal to magnets. They subconsciously know what we are and can't help it. So not only do we attract people with these issues, but we also take on their emotions as our own, it seems to be to be an easy way to get stuck in unhealthy relationships. In hindsight I can see how this happened to me, and the fact I wanted to help made me stuck even more. We can't steer away from the negativity completely when we attract it all the time. I am not sure, but I don't think we can wait for people to come to us. We have to pick our friends. The people that don't need to unload. I also find myself keeping out of arms reach a lot, I talk to several people at work and everyone I meet, in a friendly way. I can have a conversation with anyone I but don't get attached to them outside of work nor do i invite my neighbors to BBQs. That way I get people contact, without having the suffocating obligations or the feeling of responsibility with everyone.

Also by doing this it gives me more time to feel them out before I get too close, if I sense anything wonky I keep it there and refuse to take it further.

D.A.Darby
@dadarby
08/08/16 06:47:22AM
11 posts

Abortion and Empaths


Empath

Pro-life. In high school health class, my teacher went through a long detailed process on how everything was done and what happened.Pretty soon I was full blown sobbing, I had to leave the class because I was crying so hard. At the end of it the teacher told me she was sorry but she had to be as descriptive as possible, she was pro life as well and trying to spread awareness. She'd asked me if I had one before, she thought it was guilt. I told her no. But I don't think she believed me, that was worse than anything I think. Not getting how someone could get so upset and it not be guilt. After that, I just quit going to school. I didn't realize until just now how my desire to go there stopped that night. It was a night school and I already had a daughter at the time. I got my G.E.D instead. I don't know if would feel the emotions from an unborn child but i could see and imagine it clearly and plainly in my head, and I didn't like it.