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melita89
@melita89
09/10/16 04:36:26PM
11 posts

Energy vampires


Empath

I meant empathy not envy

melita89
@melita89
09/10/16 04:35:49PM
11 posts

Energy vampires


Empath

I'm empath but im also an introvert and I get energy sucked out of me all the time, but today it was sudden and different. I read up on what they call energy vampires who suck the energy out of you cause of their lack of envy and their always wanting to be the center of the universe. ok so today while doing errands I went to pull my car into the spot at gas station so I can clean/vaccuum my car. beforehand a group of teenagers were pulling out of the spot. I pulled right in and suddenly my energy went dead I suddenly got fatigue. Could I have had a run into one of these type of people?


updated by @melita89: 03/09/17 12:17:00PM
melita89
@melita89
07/23/16 02:38:04PM
11 posts

how do I block out unwanted feelings from someone.


Empath

I have the problem of picking up others emotions as my own. My ex who I do not want anything to do with romantically but everytime im around him I get the feelings of him still being attracted to me. but he is a skeevy and looks at anything remotely attractive that moves and he ruined his chances of ever getting back with me. Sadly he is staying at my best guy friends house. I want to go hang out with my friend but since he is their its awkward cause I feel him trying to get my attention and him being so attracted to me that I feel it as my own emotions. its bad. I would talk to my friend about it but he will just assume its me just being attacted to him and make it worse by picking on me saying I want to get back with him when I sincerely don't like I cringe thinking of us dating. what are some tips on being able to visit my friend without the emotion and the energy making me want to leave. I have very few people I hang with cause im an empath and I dont want to stop hanging out with my friend because he is there but I dont know how long he is going to be there.


updated by @melita89: 01/18/17 05:43:07PM
melita89
@melita89
07/17/16 01:05:02PM
11 posts

Is this possible?


Empath

im not sure. I'm thinking she may be introvert where being around people tends to drain her and most intorverts of what I learned are empathic. It might be the reason behind why her anxiety meds dont work.

melita89
@melita89
07/17/16 12:56:21PM
11 posts

Is this possible?


Empath

yeah its been happening alot. I know social anxietied out people tend to be anti-social and she has been distant which is why I thinking its her.

melita89
@melita89
07/17/16 12:46:59PM
11 posts

Is this possible?


Empath

Is it possible for a empath to gets others emotions from just thinking of them? Because today I was supposed to chill and hang with my friend but hasnt texted back when I texted her. everytime I think of her I keep on getting this overwhelming emotion that noone likes me and that I feel lonely. She has social anxiety which makes you have those thoughts and that noone likes you and wants to hang out with you. I know this cause I have it too and I feel my anxiety starting to errupt.


updated by @melita89: 01/13/17 07:35:23PM
melita89
@melita89
07/15/16 05:04:53PM
11 posts

need advice from other empaths.


Empath

but i dunno where it came from and im alright with that

melita89
@melita89
07/15/16 05:03:11PM
11 posts

need advice from other empaths.


Empath

im the same way. I feel if there is actually effort in the courting part from the guy then he is worth it. its what I have been doing he has not been texting. but if the feelings I was feeling were his he could just pick up the dang phone and text me...its simple...men are just weird lol

melita89
@melita89
07/14/16 03:19:44AM
11 posts

need advice from other empaths.


Empath

well I was just feel generally heartbroken he hadnt texted me in over a week (we met at my bestfriends wedding on june 11th) but i didnt want to text him because he hasnt been texting first and the phone gos both ways and i dunno I was feeling just kind hurt and betrayed like he found someone else or just stopped having any interest in me. I was always thinking of him when I was feeling this feeling. it did cut off quick like that general giddy feeling you get afterwords resided for a little while and then suddenly it stopped. I was probably wishing we would of stayed connected somehow. fling sucks :(

melita89
@melita89
07/13/16 07:02:53PM
11 posts

need advice from other empaths.


Empath

yup I was desperate for advice. I don't know who it was connected too exactly but im glad it stopped.

melita89
@melita89
07/13/16 02:49:00PM
11 posts

need advice from other empaths.


Empath

I am just getting used to dealing with my emotions and dealing with certain situations. I had a little love connection with a guy. we had a deep connection and it was awesome, but I was also aware that empaths feel others emotions stronger than what they are. well anyways the circumstance sucked because he lives in a different area code so nothing really could come of it. I was happy and giddy up until recently that good feeling I had just vanished and it turned into they complete opposite. I have been feeling overly emotional and feel empty and sad like my heart just broke. I know its not his fault and i know he isnt obligated to keep talking to me or keep this going, but it sucks :( im wondering if its havin anything to do with him losing interest or the long distance and me not feeling his energy or just me feeling to much emotion? and has anybody ever had this happen to them? and what should I do to prevent this from happening again? Im really just lost and feeling down and I surely dont want to feel this feeling ever again :(


updated by @melita89: 01/24/17 10:38:41PM