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wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/19/16 11:36:22AM
32 posts

Strong energies


Empath

Cat-whisperer, I to had something similar to that happen to me. I woke to my entire left side of my body being numb and cold my hair was on standing straight up. The oddest thing was boy my boys were in their protective positions. as soon as I started to stir Dozer instantly came to my left side and started to lick my back and shoulder. Tiger nudged me until I sat up in bed he licked my face and gave me a hug to warm me back up. once I laid down again they got under the blanket and laid next to me. I started to regain the feeling in my body. But I lost my vision that was playing in my head. I don't even remember what woke me up. or what scared the dogs.. This was on Friday night about 1:30 am  

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/16/16 12:08:28PM
32 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

h1234, I use to be Christian, and I always felt that people would use me for there own means. but as I got older I had a striking realization. People wanted to be near my light, I'm not saying spiritually. In General, I've been told I have a yellow ora. I still to this day have no Idea what that even means.. when I left my beliefs behind, I felt scared and empty.. it was all I knew from a very young age. But I noticed a difference in the way people treated me. I think I pushed my feelings to them. Making people angry at me for what ever reason. I went through a very bad time, but I still would look after my external family. even if they treated me like garbage I would still try and help them. God can only do so much we have to move in the direction he sends us to obtain the grater things in life.

Wiseriverowl

Hope, Love and Light        

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/16/16 11:53:48AM
32 posts

Can emapths just lose there ability?


Empath

Corey-Easton, no it's the time to panic.. your gifts are apart of you. they aren't gone :) do you work around a lot of people? if you do then your gifts are at rest. I would do a mediation, keep your mind clear and just focus on clearing the negative energy. go for a walk away from humans, it will come back don't worry.

Wiseriverowl

With Hope, Love, and Light  

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/16/16 10:57:49AM
32 posts

Need a name for a new furbaby


Animal Empaths

Angel I like it! :) she looks like an Angel

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/15/16 12:33:41PM
32 posts

Need a name for a new furbaby


Animal Empaths

Oh so beautiful! she is lucky to have you! poor thing left alone :( makes me sad. She looks like grizzly my sisters cat. but that name isn't fitting, Hope. she looks like Hope :) 

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/06/16 10:03:37AM
32 posts

My Angel Baby..Willow


Animal Empaths

these are my boys, and I love them dearly! my older one Dozer did the same thing, we where playing ball andhe jumped miss fall backwardslanded wrong andyelped. I ran to him,I checked his leg nothing felt broken but I was worried that something was. he wouldn't put any weight on it at all.I criedwhile Ichecked him. I feel horrible when I was feelinghe yelped, I told him I wassorry.. he juststarted to lick my hand andthat made me cry more. knowing I couldn't help him.Imade a make shift braceforhim till I got himto the vet. my vet told me that he bruised his bone, told me to keep him off of it for a couple of days.I hope willow is okay.

Isend you both light and love

WiseRiverOwl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/06/16 08:49:40AM
32 posts



:) thanks

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/06/16 08:47:37AM
32 posts



The Dreamer, I have felt the same way as far as this mine to bear. but there are people out there that have the gifts to take the pain. have you tried crystal healing? when I spent time in the hospital a very sweet lady came in to my room and she told that she was there to see if I wanted some crystal healing. at that time I knew very little and didn't really believe in it. but I thought at this point I will try anything.So I said sure,sheasked me about why I was there I told here and said I haven't slept because of the pain.She said ok and placed a crystal on mychestthen she placed one on my third eye. Iwas out as soon as it touched my skin. I slept for along time. It was morning when she started I woke about dinner time. I'm no expert but I do feel that something besidesa doctor maybe in order.

Love, Hope and Light

Wiseriverowl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/02/16 03:06:14PM
32 posts



The Dreamer, I had something similar I spent 3 day in the hospital, I couldn't hold food down I couldn't even keep water down. My whole experience was a week long. the doctors told me I was totally healthy.They even feed me radio activeEggs lol! It wassomeyears later that I realized I wasfeeling someone else's pain. have you asked around to your family see if any of them are having health problems?

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/02/16 02:50:22PM
32 posts



I remind my self every day that I'm not alone. Which is hard for me, because I feel like my light is fading. the more I live with that jerk the more I start to act like him and that bothers me. I'm not that person I'm of the light not dark... I'm sorry I kind ofvented there for a second.I may be a little scatter brained, I'm always here :)

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
09/01/16 10:06:47AM
32 posts



SammiN, I know that feeling all to well I have been in a relationship for 4 years I in the same boat. I feel empty, my only comfort is my boys, (My Dogs) they are what I look forward too. every passing day I stop and think why can't I hold a relationship, or job etc. But I started to pick it apart and realized it wasn't me, it was them. Imy boyfriend will pick fights with me just to have hisdrama. with our gifts itsvery hard to be in a relationship,but our gifts arefor our own good. I want to share something, when Iwas in high school I never really dated mostly because I knew what all the guys were like. There was only one guy who I really cared about and would have gladly dated but I got scared and backed out of it. Ikick my self in the butt forthat choice. I lost the onlyperson I truly loved. but his happily married tohis wifeand have the cutest family. I wouldever do anything to hurt that. but I also learned that the feeling scared is the same as feeling like something bad will happen.from that I learned that itsnotme its them.Yes I will admit some of it is me but I mostly try to avoid that drama. Iuse to be so clumsy with my giftsbut now I'm getting better about listening. Idon't know if I helped outor not butas I tell all my friends I'm always hereeven its it to just vent. My shoulder is always here for crying or hitting. :) hang in there, I understand what you are going though.

With Love, Hope andLight

WiseRiverOwl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/31/16 04:57:43PM
32 posts

How do we know, differentiate, trust, or not to be confused in our gift and our doubts?


Empath

I would like to help you out, but I would rather do that in a privet way. would you be okay if I sent you a personal message about this rather then in the forums?

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/16/16 04:32:45PM
32 posts

How do we know, differentiate, trust, or not to be confused in our gift and our doubts?


Empath

Yaji, if I may.. go out on a limb here... I'm going to adventure to guess.. that you are not as lost, as you seem to be.. I do believe that you understand a lot more then, we, as a community can see. I will adventure to guess that you understand more then you give up, but you have a hard time accepting it. Which isn't a bad thing all of have done it... If I'm wrong please forgive me..... but I have found that if you always go with your first instinct, I didn't listen to mine and I almost lose my own life in the process.... some that has helped me before making any kind of life altering choice I take a few minutes to clear my head of everything. close my eyes and just listen, don't think just listen. once I find my peace. my answer isn't far behind...

Best wishes

Wiseriverowl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/16/16 04:08:01PM
32 posts

overloaded


Empath

Karen thank you again for being here for me :)

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/16/16 02:59:25PM
32 posts

overloaded


Empath

I think tonight I will sit under the stars allow the night to speak to me... I will be honest I don't know what Smudge is.. but I do need to calm my spirit.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/16/16 02:23:54PM
32 posts

overloaded


Empath

Karen, I have never lost someone that close to me... I think the distance, wasn't thething that bugged me.It was the feeling of unwanted.. I know it sounds crazy and a tad selfish. But honestly I sensed from a lot of people like they didn't want me there.There wasa lot of unsure feelings, I ended up with a headache after words.But I can't help but think that I'm missing something.Maybe she is trying to send me a message.her husband was fine, not a mark on him. and he was thrown too, which makes me wonder. Ihonestly think that somethingis going on, butevery one thinksI'm being crazy..

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/16/16 01:01:38PM
32 posts

overloaded


Empath

my brain is on overload right now, one thing that wont stop nagging me, is the death of my best friend.she passed away on 7-27-16... I felt nothing that day... her and I werebest friends for18 years... Come to think about the day she was in the caraccident I had a bad feeling but that was it.Her and her husbands car rolled, either of them werewearing their seatbelts.. which isbothering me because she never left the drive way with out it on..yes she hated it but she always ware it. both of them were thrown,when I was at the funeral, people who I use to laughand have good times with where very distant to me.Nobody really talked to me or gave me any kind of information.Another thing that isreally bugging me is she pasted on 27th and theservices wereon the 2nd..there is so much that isn't adding up in my head. I think the biggest thing that was a slap to the face was when her momsaid "Jenny you were very best friend.."my real name isn't jenny... Kris had 3 best firends me, jenny and Shan, if she wasnt with one of us she was with the others, and her mom to say that hurt more then anything...I need help to understand...


updated by @wiseriverowl: 01/21/17 03:32:40PM
wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/16/16 12:16:12PM
32 posts

Is there such a thing as binding an Empath's gifts?


Empath

Karen, I will agree with you, learning about them is a start, but that is with anything. every one needs to find things on their own. nobody can tell you what you're meant to find by your own will... all we can do is be a support group

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/16/16 12:12:41PM
32 posts

Is there such a thing as binding an Empath's gifts?


Empath

Yaji, I'm not here to tell you what you should or should not do. That isn't at all what I'm about.. I am nothing more the a person. I don't claim to have all the answers, nor do I claim to be better then anyone. In my spectrum we are all equal, no matter what you posses in this life. gifts are just that, something someone else gave you. I think in order to answer your question I would have to know what gifts you have? For an example I can feel other peoples feelings, I can see things before they happen, and I can see people who have passed.... I'm not saying all of these are empath traits but these are the gifts I posses.

Best wishes

Wiseriverowl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/11/16 11:14:46AM
32 posts

Birth sign


New Age

Rene, I'm glad you brought this up.. when you are born you are under a different sign then the one that you get via zodic, the stars change and have a cycle. there is a app I have that is called Phases of the moon if you go back to your birth date it will tell you what sign you were born under. I was born under the sign of Leo andI'm an Aries. I'm borderline Taurus by 3 days. I have traits of both. I also, oddly enough have traits of Leo. I had fun looking in to it.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/10/16 03:50:46PM
32 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

adda2300, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I was once told that I was ugly, all the time I like you had low self esteem and the guy never took a second glance at me. it wasn't until years and years later that I learned that the reason my sister told me I was ugly was that she was jealous of me. she told me I was really pretty in highschool but she told me I was a fat ugly cow because she didn't want me to be happier then she was. I also found out that some of the guys form my high school the reason they wouldn't talk to me is they though I was out of theirleague. being depressed sucks, but at the same time vanity sucks even more.I understand that the message now a days is your have to be beautifulto be accepted in society but that isBull sh*t.If your not happy but bitter that will show,and the natural beauty wont shine.I'm going to share something with you, when I was depressed and hated my life andhow I looked. I started to distance my self from everybody and every thing. then I was doing some historyresearch and I started to get a good feeling in my heart. I then realized that it didn't matter what other peoplesaid to me or about me I decided not to care. I didn't want negative emptions in my life. I wanted positive and good feelings. so I stopped talking to and hanging out with people who were bad influences in my life and foundpeople who were nice and kind. as for thepeople who don't like you its their lose not your, you don't need them anyways. if someone cant love you for you theoh well

I hopeyou nothing but good thoughts and happy days

Wiseriverowl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
08/10/16 03:16:03PM
32 posts

Is there such a thing as binding an Empath's gifts?


Empath

Yoji, there is a balance to everything, for every good there must be evil, for every evil there must be good. with out this the world cant be in harmony and balance.our gifts area part of us, to give that up is losing a piece of your self.All magic comes with a price, a price that ismeant to be close toour heart.using the gifts you have to controla situation is, I'm sorry but some what selfish. We are morelike a guardian then a keeper.The gifts we have are to help others, not control them. everything is done for a reason even if we don't understand what that reason is.the future is like a puzzle, every word said, every action taken, can change the life path of our selves andthe others around us.I would try the empath survival program before making that type of choice.

Wishing you the best

Wiseriverowl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/27/16 01:50:36PM
32 posts

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Empath

Rene, your word really hit home... I have no response other then amen... I have been able to regain some of my freedom. I have found what drives his narcissism down.I use it every change I get.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/20/16 08:09:25AM
32 posts

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Empath

Nyla, thank your that I need that today. I have been so focused on keeping him happy that I don't ever stop and think of my self. I think I may take up yoga again, it helped me keep my center. But as always he took that from me as well. Same with dancing, I love to dance, I grew up dancing. it was something I have always wanted tobe apart of again I did itin my college years as well but when I asked him if he'd go with me he'd say sure. then it would always be an excuse as to why we couldn't go. I wasn't allowed to go on my own, or withmy friends. At the time it was maybetwo no I have no friends, Nina is my best friend but she is more like a sister.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/20/16 08:02:33AM
32 posts

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Empath

I will keep that in mind I have already talked with a friend and told her that I will be moving once I have my diploma. So hopefully things will work out for the best. I don't want to mess up my schooling.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/19/16 12:01:45PM
32 posts

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Empath

Karen, thank you for your kind words and thoughts. I have been doing some research about the type of person he is. The house isn't in my name nor is I do have a friend what would be willing help me move butI wouldn't be able tostay with her asI have dogs. but I'm formulating a plan of action.it wont be a quick thing but its something

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/19/16 09:19:48AM
32 posts

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Empath

Nyla, thank you for your words. I have seen that happen I always thought it was just me something I did wrong. But I started to look in to things a bit more, and it was never my actions that caused those horrible things to happen it was him. I even startedtarring my self down. Saying that I was stupid for doing that and I should have been smarter about it. But I am starting to realize that if there isn't contention he make something happen to get his fix, I guess you can call it. I remember just 2 weekends ago I wasn't feeling good. I started coughing and it trigger my gag reflex and of course I started to vomit. I didn't get off the bed quick enough to make it in to the bathroom. it was about 2 in the morning and he made me stay up, and clean the bedroom and bathroom wash the sheets and dry them before I could return to bed. I was going to clean it up the best I could then deep clean it in the morning. After I was done cleaning, he got mad at me because he got woke up. He didn't ask me I was okay or if I was feeling alright he just yelled at me and told me I was a stupid bi*ch.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/19/16 08:54:36AM
32 posts

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Empath

Cat whisperer, thank you for your kind words. I have zero self esteem. I have been beaten down so much,that I feel like hiding in a hole and never coming out. But in my small way I have been fighting back, I have found that when he says something instead of defending my self I just walk away and not say anything. its seems to make him stop almost as if he is trumpet.At which point he thinks he'swon but he hasn't I justchoose not to acknowledge him.But my silence can only beheld for so long before he starts again. Iget so angry withhim, when he gets mad at the boys (My dogs) and take its out on them.it hurts me to see him treat them that way and they will stilllove him. The one time I told him I was leavinghe threatened to shoot both dogs. I didn't know if he was bluffing or not but Iwasn't going to risk it.I'm in a rock and a hard place I feel like my world is crumbling down on top of me and there isn't anything I can do to stop it. Its sucks with other worldly factors play in to my life that I don't have control over.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/19/16 08:46:21AM
32 posts

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Empath

Rene, I have been in that boat a long time, I will sit outside with my dog for a long time just to have some peace in my head. the one time I did cry he told me "shut the F*ck up, you stupid tw*t" lets just say that I have beentorn down so much that Ican't sense things theway I use to.Ieven developed a stutter. That just makes him mad when I can say what I need to say. I have even gone as far as telling him the truth, which hurts when its meant to, all he did was again tell me that same thing and put a hole in the wall.. I'm at the point of no matter what Ido, its not good enough.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/19/16 07:59:32AM
32 posts

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Empath

Karen, I've been fighting with my self on that one for 3 years now. he never use to be that bad. but it seems lately he just keeps getting worse. I'm a fool to believe that he is going to change. Because I know he wont. I have broken up with him several times but he doesn't take me seriously. I have no money to move on andI'm in themiddle of getting my degree. I have make up my mind once I get in to my career I'm not sticking around. I've told him that multiple times and he just shrugged it off. so when I do leave I will feel so much better.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/14/16 02:38:44PM
32 posts

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Empath

Lately at work and at home, I feel like whatever I say goes in one ear and out the other. for example I live with someone who is very controlling. The 'you cant have friends' controlling. I feel that no matter what I say like he doesn't hear me. than when he get angry with me, I tell him that I told him that and he will fight tooth and nail saying I didn't. at work I will be talking to some one and they will walk away from me like they never heard me in the first place. But I'venoticed that if I don't talk with them theyask me "what's wrong?" "Are you upset?"but when I do try and talk with them they just walk away... its this just me or does this happen a lot?

Wise River Owl


updated by @wiseriverowl: 02/03/17 02:23:49PM
wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/14/16 01:58:57PM
32 posts

Does this apply to empaths or something else?


Empath

I get rain the day of, or day after when I get really hurt and I can feel the tears the clouds cover the sun. Then shortly after it rains, I thought it was just me but now I can see that I'm not the only one.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/11/16 08:25:00AM
32 posts

Does this apply to empaths or something else?


Empath

DemiPanda, I have tried different things to control it but, I think fear of what I could do with it scares me. The only time I had control of it is when I was really angry.. it worked but it was not a good thing. I also experienced it in a happycheerymood as well. I wasreading one of my favorite book and the light was fading, so I started to reach for my touch lap it popped on withmy hand 6 inches away. Samewhen I was a child, It was hot in the car so I went to roll the window down (Hand rollers) and it started to roll its self down.... It didn't scaremebut surprised memore than anything. I have always wondered if Icould control it.But it scares me, I once told a friend about it think nothing of it and she said I don'twant tobe friends with a freak. I have not since then told any one about what has happened. with the exception of my mother.I really think there is a ways but I'm not surehow todo it.It's funnyyou should ask that Iwas thinking about it earlier today.

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/06/16 04:22:42PM
32 posts

Empaths and Anti-depressants?


Empath

Indigovirgo, I passed your post but something has called to me to read it. I was hospitalized for an anxiety attack. It took them 5 days to figure out what was wrong with me. I lost 10lbs in the process of it, I was asked if I wanted to be put on anti-depressants but I opted out of it. something told me it was a bad Idea, so I wanted to know why. I researched it and as I found that if I took them it would dull my senses to keep my mood happier and help me stay calm. I found this information to be of good use and instead of "getting worked up" I started to use a simple trick and I still use it. it has helped me so much that I never felt the need for meds. Now I'm not saying what you did was wrong. You may be more sensitive to emotion then I am. But when I feel that I am getting that way I do 3 things. I find 4 things that I can see, 3 things I can smell, and 2 things I can touch I say them outloud. this for somereason clamsme and Irepeat it usingdifferentobjects until I feel likeI'mclam. I hope this helps you.

Best wishes WiseRiverOwl

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/06/16 03:47:15PM
32 posts

Does this apply to empaths or something else?


Empath

Demipanda, I will share with you two stories first when I was working at a woman's clothing store I was so angry at my boss, the reason is unclear now, but back then I was livid. Iwasheaded outside to talk to my good friends at the end of my shift I was telling them about what happened and i saw a bolt of lightingstruck about100 yards away from where I was..Second time it happened I was reading a book and the part I was on was intense.When I started reading the day was hot and calm after I was done reading a storm hadripped through. I later found out that a tornado was trying to touch downover by where I lived.....I don't believe in conquincidence

wiseriverowl
@wiseriverowl
07/06/16 03:33:30PM
32 posts

Am I an Empath? Help please.


Empath

Stian, As I read your post I couldn't help but notice how this must be very frustrating for you. The Empath world is made up of different levels that a lot of us share. All of us have feltsomeemotion from another person. I have felt death, not something I would wish on my worse enemy. I didn't know I was an Empath till about a year ago. As I noticed different things and I started looking in to it more trying to find more information. To gain some type of understanding,I noticed that from your post all the items listed bring you sadness. Have you had any other emotions from your day to day life, when interacting with others?

Happiness, anger,longing, loneness, hate, have been felt by us even though we never really understood it. We also will from time to time be able to see something before it happens (Not every one has this ability).It took me along time to get that ability under control, even before I knew I was an Empath. it can be scary when you feel alone and have no one to talk to.None of us can give you the yes, you are or no, you are not an Empath, that you're looking for. We all took the longroad to finding out what we are, some of are still learning.We are here to help, but sometimes the answers are for us to find on our own.

That being said, I'm going to offer you some help.When youare near the people who cause you sadnesstake a moment and listen totheir body.Asfar as objectsthink of whyitmakes you sad. People watching is my favorite thing to do,peoplemay sayone thing butthe bodysays somethingdifferent.Once you see the way the body moves, and its mannerismsyou can then see what someone is truly feeling.Sadness is a powerful thing, being aroundto much of it will dull your true senses. I would suggest taking a few minuteseachday to yourself. Find a peaceful out of they way spot and sit with your eyes closed.Don't ask your self anyquestions, don'tponder, just sit and let your mind open and allow your body to recover.If you are an Empath beingoverloaded with emotions canhurt you. thatmay be why you are only feeling sadness (But it may not be the reason either).I wouldsayallow your selfsome timeget away for even 10 mins a day or week. It will helpto open your mind and clear it of the negative. Something else youcan do is take a test on line to see if you are or if you have the traits.I hope you find your answers.

Best wishes WiseRiverOwl