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adda2300
@adda2300
08/09/16 08:43:50PM
3 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

Thank you for the positive energy Kit Kat and thank you Cat Whisperer for your advice.

I never worry about my looks until someone so nicely reminds me how ugly I am. Its hard to have confidence when I think the world thinks Im so ugly....

Im really going to try this self esteem meditation... Im actually excited and I hope it wards off all negative people and energy!!!

So when these people treat me this way does it make them feel better about themselves? I mean why can't they keep their mean comments to themselves...why do they have to tell me Im ugly. Do they want me to feel hurt?

I had a I guy pull up to me in his car while I was walking to tell me "ewww you're ugly as shit" Now what was the purpose of that? To hurt me? I was doing nothing to bother this person....

I just don't get it :( And Im here trying to understand all this pain I feel and how to deal with it.

Thanks again for helping me and any advice/comments are greatly appreciated.

adda2300
@adda2300
08/08/16 08:13:56PM
3 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

Thanks for the advice guys!! I am really going to try with your advice.

I hate that I am on here having to write this but I am just down all the time. I need to work on my positive energy.

So for what happened above when the guy introduced himself to my freind and gave me a dirty look what should i do. This has happened many times and I know it will happen again. Its like I feel like Im a disease... I dont want to be treated this way. I have so many other things going in my life.. i was just out trying to have a good time and I was hurt again.

And Im no longer freinds with that narcissist. She crushed any type of self esteem i ever had left. She is now sending the typical narcissist messages "I miss your face" etc. Weird how they are all programmed the same. I want to reply back and say you mean the ugly face that you used to make yourself feel better!! But I did not say anything back.

Anyways, I will try really hard to fix myself, but this is a real struggle for me. Actually its the people that hurt me and call me ugly and weird looking thats what starts i all over for me again.

Thanks for the advice and any more advice is welcome.

adda2300
@adda2300
08/07/16 06:15:01PM
3 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

I am requesting positive energy. I've never put in a request before but I have been depressed and need help. Please read below

I've been told that I am ugly all my life. I hate being ugly!! I wish everyday I could be pretty! I think people would not be as mean to me!!!

The hard thing about it is, I am empath and I can feel that people think Im ugly. Most guys don't want to talk to me cause they don't want to be seen with me or they don't want me to like them. Or if I am out somewhere buying something people are mean to me and nice to the pretty girl in front of me. Its very hard to deal with. I also get lotssssssss of stare downs. Do you think because Im and empath I look weird to them?

I just had to disconnect myself from a narcissist friend. I could tell she thought I was ugly and she would make me cry without even saying that I was ugly. She told me I was weird looking one time so I thought maybe thats why I get the stares? Anyways she would say stuff to me all the time about how much she gets everything she wants cause shes so pretty. She even told me when a guy was talking to me that he was talking to me to gacne scares and my face sags.et to her. Shes probably right. She is very pretty and Im just not.

I am writing today because I was hurt again yesterday. I was sitting with a freind of mine and a guy came up and introduced himself to her and not me... he just gave me a very dirty look. I didnt know what to do. I felt ugly all over again. This happens a lot. What would you do in this situation? This completely crushed me I went home again and just cried.

I know I shouldnt worry about what I look like but I have to deal with the people in the world everyday. They are just mean to me and I dont know if its because Im ugly and weird looking or because Im Empath?? Its hard for me to leave the house because I know what Im dealing with. Just wish I could be a hermitt! Or I wish I was blessed with being pretty! How can I help myself? I am truly depressed everyday and I just don't want to be reminded by everyone out there that I am not Ms. America (wish I was). Please send me vibes to make me feel and look pretty :)


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