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hana
@hana
11/12/17 08:34:36AM
45 posts

Please help - How to get rid of narcissist roommate


Tools for Empaths

Thank you all again for your wonderful information and insight. <3

My cat seems a lot more happier and calm now! He may have been picking up on the negativity

Thankfully I am out of the house, and she seems to have found a way to leave from the house every time I come back to get more things so it seems as if I have won this battle. hahaha 

Light always wins guys!!! 

I will remember all of this in the future if I ever have to deal with this kind of thing again! 

hana
@hana
10/23/17 07:21:32AM
45 posts

Judgmental Person?


Empath

I used to go through the same thing with the same two people at work!

What I usually did (and still do) that helps me is to: be sure of who I am as a person, and be more than okay with it. Start thinking of the qualities that you love about yourself and all of the good things. Then start thinking that there is no reason to feel you are inferior to anyone because everyone's human. NO DOUBTS or it won't work as effectively. :)

Once you develop a kind of ball around you where you are engulfed in just that and it circles you, then you can kind of deflect their judgements, and realize it may just be their own insecurities and it's their way of deflecting that onto you. In the end, it has nothing to do with you! :D Then, you might feel bad for them which helps you feel less on the spot.

I hope that helps and it makes sense

hana
@hana
10/23/17 07:13:16AM
45 posts

❀Help for Sensitives❀


Tools for Empaths

Jeez, and here I thought it was just me!

Thanks for that addition hop daddy, those are some good tidbits to know for sure.

hana
@hana
10/22/17 08:02:00AM
45 posts

❀Help for Sensitives❀


Tools for Empaths

Exactly!

My mother (who is also a sensitive) was telling me that I have to be careful with eating meat, especially meat that hasn't been slaughtered properly because I can absorb the negativity, and 'tainted-ness' of the meat and it will most definitely affect me. I wonder if that applies to other sensitives as well?  

It does also taste different because of the hormones released from the animal from stress, so that seems even more unappealing to me.. lol

It makes sense, but since culturally I was raised on halal meat [if we ate meat], I tend to stick to that.

I'm so happy to hear it worked for you too! :D

Red meat makes me sick also..  :S I don't understand the demand for not only red meat, but undercooked red meat..  Guess i'm some kind of alien. haha

And no problem! If I can prevent someone from going through the mess I went through by this post, I will be a very happy person. Sometimes modern medicine isn't enough, and the answer is so simple. :}

That, and making sure to drink enough water really helps. 

Cheers to us all. We'll make it♥

hana
@hana
10/17/17 05:48:47PM
45 posts

Please help - How to get rid of narcissist roommate


Tools for Empaths

Hello hop daddy,

I was able to find a better place!  I'm moving Friday!  ^3^

I found my rocks and started packing everything up. I'm not out of the hole yet because I still have to make trips back and forth from there, but i'm going to do my best not to let her affect me while I do, as she has resorted to slamming doors and knocking things down. 

hana
@hana
10/17/17 01:32:11PM
45 posts

❀Help for Sensitives❀


Tools for Empaths

Yeah, for sure! :}

Oh that's a bummer... I tend to go to ethnic markets where I live for fruit and whatnot because it can get expensive..

hana
@hana
10/13/17 12:08:22PM
45 posts

❀Help for Sensitives❀


Tools for Empaths

To clarify, I still eat lots of eggs daily, seafood [wildcaught], and kosher meats [from time to time]

The meats I usually eat monthly because they tend to be a little more expensive.  

:) 

hana
@hana
10/13/17 11:53:57AM
45 posts

Please help - How to get rid of narcissist roommate


Tools for Empaths

Thank you so much!

It's such a relief to come here and know you guys exist.

I will keep updates as I can :}

hana
@hana
10/13/17 11:21:39AM
45 posts

❀Help for Sensitives❀


Tools for Empaths

Hello all,

Wanted to share something that may help you all if you are currently struggling.

My whole life, I have been able to completely read people whether I want to or not.

I couldn't be in crowds of people, go shopping, or watch much tv. I also see things in people, from pictures, houses, and over time, having this always on, it wears a person out.. It was hard to make friends, I was attracted to relationships with people that needed to be fixed (which always happened, the guy would end up being better off when we broke up because of the help offered and me damaged), and I was ALWAYS tired and ALWAYS in pain.

I couldn't go outside around people, sleep at night, exercise, I had hormonal imbalances resulting in cysts, hair loss, bone loss (before the age of 30), losing weight to the point of being underweight, and constantly being sick off an on. I was depressed. 

I couldn't look at people when I was talking to them because there were words and colors coming off of them about them, and usually it was their current problems, what kind of person they were, and what they are meant to do in life.

However, after I ended up in the hospital and after them not knowing how to help me, that's when I was completely done.

I just ate better. 

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It probably sounds like a trick, but that is it. I already wasn't able to eat wheat, dairy or dyes, so I just kept that up and tried eating strictly actual food. When I did, my body healed itself.  

Not only that, but I was able to handle these "things" coming from people a lot better. Still a big struggle every day, but not as debilitating.

I make sure to eat a LOT of healthy fats like nuts, oils, and salmon, dry beans, water, fruits and vegetables, potatoes, and squashes. 

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I don't eat anything with GMOs, known ingredients to cause hormonal imbalances, carcinogens, dairy, or processed food or sugar. No cheezits, smarties at night, frosted flakes, candy or canned beans (my downfalls).  All fresh and prepped meals.

I'm not a part of some exclusive weird vegan club or anything, i'm just doing what seemed right for me, and I wanted to share it with you guys being most of us are really sensitive. <3 

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I have mental clarity, I ACTUALLY SLEEP, my narcolepsy is not as bad, no debilitating cramps every month, no pit stains (sweating) year round, my eyelashes, nails and hair is growing a ton, i'm happier, and better able to meditate about things to make better choices. Not as many physical aches, my skin feels nicer, and I feel more still overall. Best of all, I am off ALL MY MEDS. 

I'm aware that some people are just fine eating conventional food and there's nothing wrong with that, I just wanted to offer perspective for the sensitives out there.

This kind of eating takes a little bit to stick to, you will need at least one person to help you if this is a new thing, and you may fall off the wagon a few times (I did much more than twice). BUT once you reach the point where you start looking at food differently, it's the best feeling in the world. 

Food really is medicine guys. Be well ♡

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I know this may not be something that can be done at the current moment for some people, but if you have small goals like working on a meal of the day or cutting out a certain thing, that is also progress. The best thing is the thing that works for your body. Follow healthy food blogs and people who eat how you want to! It makes it easier to reinforce and see the benefits. Forget the crash diets and cleanses because they don't work.

And leave the negative people in your life behind. The ones trying to tempt you away from your goal, or go to places that aren't a part of your goal. You will find that your good friends will stick with you, push you, and support you on your journey, and build you up.  

Also, if you need recipes or ideas, I can offer some. Being on a budget in school, I know how to put things together to taste good :]

And feel free to post your experience if you have gone through the same thing recently or want to start!


updated by @hana: 10/13/17 12:12:20PM
hana
@hana
10/13/17 10:49:52AM
45 posts

I think my son can see auras


Empath

Be there for him, but please keep this side of him guarded from the outside world until he is much older.

Keep him eating as clean as possible. No dyes, processed food or sugar, and LOTS of good fats from fish and nuts. Lots of water. When I don't eat well, my body tends to throw people's stuff out of proportion, and renders me unable to do anything or go anywhere. Another thing is, people like us tend to need a lot more salt, so use Himalayan salt when possible. 

If you have any questions or need advice with this particular thing, you can message me because I can see them too. I feel them first, but it's tough growing up with something like this. 

hana
@hana
10/13/17 10:43:13AM
45 posts

Famous Empaths


Empath

I would also like to say that at the current moment, I don't see him as an empath either. What I DO see in him is just a very caring, relatable, people-person kind of guy, and he seems like he would like to do more and be extraordinary spiritually. He seems to not have a real drive, and is pretty happy with the way his life is currently. Maybe you see the caring part of him more?

hana
@hana
10/13/17 10:30:14AM
45 posts

Please help - How to get rid of narcissist roommate


Tools for Empaths

Yup! At the moment, since I have limited finances, and i'm in the middle of midterms and working, i've been looking for places nonstop. Luckily I have family I can stay with as of now, but I hate having my items staying in that house at the moment and absorbing all of her junk from the house into my next one. 

Whenever I go to the house to feed my cat or get clothes, I try to put an orb around everything in my room, but I have a very limited supply of energy right now so that hasn't been able to happen lately.. :( 

And for some reason I can't seem to find my stones!! It's so odd because they are usually in the same exact place place. I have two black onyx stones that were in my drawer, but I guess i'll have to get more 

Do you know if carrying around a mini pouch with Himalayan salt will help in the meantime? I just don't have the energy to do the things that would usually help me. 

And thank you for your advice. I really appreciate your insight and feedback. This is definitely a hard time as of now. 

hana
@hana
10/12/17 05:24:13AM
45 posts

Please help - How to get rid of narcissist roommate


Tools for Empaths

I will spare the extra details unless asked because this situation is really terrible... I have been physically and emotionally sick for days in the beginning of this.

I'm basically couch surfing until I get another place. If you thought of every negative quality you can think of in a person and put it in her [minus being a murderer, psychopath, or child molester], and that is the kind of person I am currently sharing a living space with. I don't know what to do to because when i'm not around, all I can think of is how negative she is. I can feel evil seething from her, and it's like a dark cloud or black ink that travels wherever she goes.. [even if i'm in my own room and she's in another part of the house] and she puts on such a grand front in front of other people, it makes me sick!

Anyway, how can I remedy this situation so I can have a peace of mind and concentrate on school? Any advice will be helped. Non-sensitive people unfortunately aren't tuned to certain things so they have been as much help as they could have (which was not a lot). I know they were trying to help, but i'm hoping everyone here has the perspective I need.

I think it is worse because she seemed like a very nice person at first and did a very good job of hiding stuff from me [which makes me think she has done this before]. 

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updated by @hana: 11/12/17 12:27:58AM
hana
@hana
05/27/16 12:08:56PM
45 posts

Changing unwanted future events


Empath

I knkw from my one experience, I just kept flooding the event that I felt happenig with light, love and hope, and not giving too much power to the actual negative event I felt coming on.

Im not sure if it worked or was predetermined but the negative event I saw didnt happen in the negative way but a positive way. I have tried the method again, but it didnt change the outcome I felt about to happen the second time.

I think knowing future events is very difficult because sometimes I dont want to know things regarding jobs or relationships, and I have been trying to block myself from knowing future events. Im not sure if you have the same experience or not but if you do then you know what I mean.

But I do think some events you will truly know theres nothing you can do to change it, its happening for a reason, and you have to accept it. Its a hard thing to deal with, but the best thing that has helped me was to remind myself to keep the door open for love and light to come through.

-Blessings to you

hana
@hana
05/27/16 11:46:29AM
45 posts



I have been dealing with this for the past 10 years, and it seems to just be getting worse... im currently incredibly depressed and i dont even think anything is worth the effort anymore.

I would love to talk more about this as ive been going crazy and i dont really know what to do at this point.

I hope we find peace.

hana
@hana
05/16/16 06:35:57PM
45 posts

Struggling with Hate in my heart


Empath

Yeah!! And here I was thinking how weird it was that everything didn't work out in our relationship, and the universe was conspiring against us...

I feel bad because I feel like he's going to do what his mother did to him.. his mother was a french woman involved with his father whose parents separated because he wasn't around and my ex probably won't be able to see the girl he knocked up because she's in France and he's here and his visa is messed up so the situation is a bit out of whack apparently..

and thank you so much for the tips dear as I will look into the solutions and help you have given me..

All in all I'm definitely looking to make sense out of this situation, and I will try to free myself from this energy.

hana
@hana
05/16/16 06:21:04PM
45 posts

Struggling with Hate in my heart


Empath

Yeah... you're right.. I truly wanted to strangle him and I still do...

As far as the friend goes, I cut ties with her as I did not heed the strong negative vibes in the beginning.. She came forth and told me because she thought we weren't together thats when they did it, but it's still terrible..

She's a snake and a terrible person and it's a shame either took me this long to figure it out...I wanted to believe I was wrong.. :/

I truly appreciate your words and I needed to hear this. I'm with another now thankfully and I did also talk to him about this.

hana
@hana
05/16/16 06:10:57PM
45 posts

Struggling with Hate in my heart


Empath

OH yeah!

I'm hoping I'm there for it because I'm a super nice person....

I will have to do that soon

hana
@hana
05/13/16 07:24:36PM
45 posts

Struggling with Hate in my heart


Empath

I've just figured out the guy I spent 3 and a half years (my ex) with cheated on me for months but he blocked his posts from me on Facebook so I didn't see them. However everyone else saw it and assumed we broke up.

Not only did he do that, but he lied to my friends about everything, and he slept with my friend while we were dating...

Now the guy is engaged and apparently having a kid with the girl he cheated on me with even hough she cheated on him with half the office at his job.

Please someone help me not get consumed with revenge because I am so mad at myself for letting him do this to me.. I'm such a nice person and I've never said a bad thing about this sleezeball, but now the only thing I can think of is how to end him..


updated by @hana: 01/21/17 12:52:06PM
hana
@hana
05/10/16 01:21:32AM
45 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

I think it's because it brings out their insecurities and instead of balling up and rising to the "challenge", they run off.

It's even worse when they feel like you're out of their league or have low self esteem.

At least that has been my experience with some people.

hana
@hana
05/09/16 05:34:23PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Yeah me too actually Haha

hana
@hana
05/09/16 05:33:37PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Wow that's a different experience entirely..

It's funny to think that there are non-empaths out there that know about us that apear to be tolerant. Kind of makes me wonder why haha

Also makes me uneasy a bit

hana
@hana
05/09/16 05:29:04PM
45 posts

Guides breaking their silence


Empath

That is definitely an experience.

I'm glad it happened as quickly as it did so as to make that connection.

hana
@hana
05/09/16 05:16:13PM
45 posts

Sharing Time!! What is your go to protection method/thing? ☔


Empath

Wow that's a good idea..
I'm going to implement that in my own life..

Blessings xoxo

hana
@hana
05/09/16 05:15:34PM
45 posts

Sharing Time!! What is your go to protection method/thing? ☔


Empath

I was going to ask if it was the extra minerals haha

hana
@hana
05/09/16 05:13:26PM
45 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

I feel I'm in the same boat..
I told my guy that (romantic kind) 4 months into the relationship, and he seems a bit more distant than usual, and I'm starting to feel pretty bad as a result. Which then turns into anger sometimes.

Kinda just floundering around a bit at the moment.

hana
@hana
05/09/16 05:09:56PM
45 posts

Thoughts about being in a relationship in sync


Empath

I'm in a new relationship and everything we seem to be doing has been completely in sync since the first month, and I'm referring to thoughts, actions, ideas and some feelings..

I've been corded before im this way, but it seems so fast this time around (if I am)

I also made the mistake of telling him the thing you can't take back as well which has changed stuff a bit.. me being the way I am, I was able to see what kind of a man he is at his core, and I got caught in the moment.

Has anyone experienced something similar? is it possible to get corded to someone this quickly? (5 months)


updated by @hana: 01/16/17 04:39:53AM
hana
@hana
05/07/16 09:28:13AM
45 posts

Sharing Time!! What is your go to protection method/thing? ☔


Empath

I've used Epsom salt before to do this, but is there an advantage to using Himalayan pink salt?

hana
@hana
05/07/16 06:42:06AM
45 posts

A perioid of being Powered Down Empathicaly and Psychicly. How do you Deal?


Empath

I'm actually feeling like this currently.. if anyone has some advice then that would be great..

Meditation and reconnecting to what truly makes me happy seems to help but it takes a LOT lately....

hana
@hana
05/05/16 02:48:24PM
45 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

Oh yeah the gut feeling thing is exactly right. Like, just because they seem nice after you have been acquainted with them doesn't mean a thing.

hana
@hana
05/05/16 02:47:07PM
45 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

I swear, everything you have described sounds like me to a tee.

I do feel people crushing on me as well as looking at me. The crushing feeling is more of a flattering, powerful feeling, and the other feeling, I feel invaded and uncomfortable. Like someone was playing with my dog without my permission or just came into my bathroom and used it without asking. Lol

But idk, I feel so similar with those feelings like exactly haha

hana
@hana
05/05/16 02:38:21PM
45 posts

Too much positivity?


Empath

Really good response.

I'll have to keep this in mind for myself. :)

hana
@hana
05/05/16 02:27:47PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Yeah I have similar experiences haha

hana
@hana
05/05/16 02:26:39PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

That's pretty nice to stay in contact!
I don't say anything to most people because they're so convinced any kind of a psychic is a fake.

It's just not worth it to tell anyone that isn't already important to me lol

hana
@hana
05/05/16 02:24:58PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

This is true indeed

hana
@hana
05/05/16 02:24:04PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Hello Myyonna
I personally just remember that the only negative energy that affects you is the energy you create to match theirs, and by not matching that energy and keeping yourself in a genuinely happy state and a level of higher vibration in which you do not believe it affects you, it really doesn't affect you. :)

Easier said than done but it is the only thing that has helped me in my experience. Other methods don't seem to last as long.

Message me if you want me to elaborate haha

Blessings

hana
@hana
05/02/16 03:04:03PM
45 posts

Sharing Time!! What is your go to protection method/thing? ☔


Empath

Because when I first figured out my ability, I was taking all kinds of hits, so theres bound to be new empaths out there that could use some advice.

I personally made a prayer for myself that I initiate with smudging.


updated by @hana: 01/18/17 11:33:07PM
hana
@hana
05/02/16 02:38:30PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Thanks Trevor!!

hana
@hana
05/02/16 02:37:21PM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

It really is.. :)

hana
@hana
05/02/16 10:17:46AM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Yeah that makes sense! Better to fully understand it yourself so you are able to explain it better to others

Or you can just keep it to yourself

Ive personally found being in a relationship, if you have limitations with social situations, it helps to let them know you're not just antisocial lol

hana
@hana
05/02/16 09:45:42AM
45 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

If so, how did they react?

Should this be something you share with your loved ones? How do you gauge the right time?

Luckily my mom is an empath as well as a clairvoyant so I can talk to her about this stuff, but what about people who aren't so sure?


updated by @hana: 05/06/17 11:51:53AM
hana
@hana
05/02/16 09:35:01AM
45 posts

How important is your diet


Empath

Diet is HUGE for me.

But I have a lot of food intolerances so that maybe the reason.

I stay away from refined sugars and stuff in general and eat a lot of vegetables (mostly cruciferous veggies and squashes)

I have a salt tooth BAD and I have to make sure to load up on water.

Water WATER WAAATTERRRR I cannot stress it enough..

I havent had anything make my abilities go away, just better heightened or sensitive.