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LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 03:35:39PM
168 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

I had no clue how to put those feeling into words and you just did it for me that's exactly how I feel with those haha thank you lol. I feel like once I put a feeling into words I can identify it better sense it more often so that really helped haha

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 03:33:47PM
168 posts



Thanks I'm glad to know it helped haha

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 06:29:20AM
168 posts



I kinda agree with this. I noticed that the days that I tried to block out other people and stop feeling them, I felt miserable and didn't have a very positive outlook towards the whole thing. I stopped "blocking" people's energy and started trying to embrace it and use it to help them the best way I know I can (stilll working on it thought)

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 08:38:05PM
168 posts



This is so interesting considering this week everyone just seems tired that I've been around, and the fact that I went in and out of severe depression during the exact same time of last retrograde in January and February is really concerning me... I need to do more research on this thank you for sharing!!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 08:31:05PM
168 posts



What is this? and how does it work, I've never heard of it before, and honestly at this point I'm willing to hear anything...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 04:03:02PM
168 posts



I am the same way, but I would definitely that it's easier for an Empath to be happy, especially when we just feel everything so differently and realize what a blessing it is. Other people are stuck feeling and living completely different lives and I know that it has to be annoying for some people who are in a bad mood or are more negative to be around people who are happy and genuinely love life. I personally don't want to live any other way and I've decided that I want to make others happy or at least help them find happiness in themselves if I can't do it. What I do is not try to let my positivity take control of a conversation (although a lot of times it's needed). I usually let the other person set the "mood" and go with it. But there is definitely a difference between someone spreading negativity and just setting a more relaxed mood, and i would be very careful not to associate too much with people who do nothing but talk negatively about others or their life, instead use your happiness to give them something to be happy about. Compliment them and the good qualities you see in them or the person they talk bad about, and it lightens the mood almost instantly. This usually works for me, but you have to be careful about not being too in people's face while using it. I hope I didn't give you anything you didn't want/ wasn't expecting lol.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 03:34:28PM
168 posts



I can relate to this so hard this week. I haven't gotten real alone time for almost a week now and I'm losing my mind, I can't stand being around other people at this point which is weird because I LOVE other people, I just can't deal with their energy I'm too drained as it is...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:33:39PM
168 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Geez no one in my family is an Empath too.. I really have no one who I can really talk to about this to be honest :/.. I guess that's why I love this website so much hahaha I'm on it more than other social media websites xD...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:31:52PM
168 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Thank you so much, I've literally been looking for that term lol I just couldn't find it... now I can actually google some more specific things than "establishing flow in a house" or something that I feel looks weird to other people who don't understand any of this xD thank you so much!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:29:13PM
168 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

I struggle with grounding myself, especially since I'm still new to the whole thing... it was crazy because I was going through really bad depression and then found out I was an Empath, and Everything kinda clicked for me. Literally a few weeks ago was the first time I really sat down and began feeling myself and it was just so healing and empowering. And yes my favorite thing about all of this is I can be around people talking about something i don't even know anything about, but feeling their excitement and passion for it makes it seem like I've been through all of it too and it's just so beautiful to me. Thank you for your comment!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:25:38PM
168 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

I can definitely relate to the heavy, icy feeling, but I get it around people who I have a conversation with who don't really care about me not in a bad way, just I'm not their ideal person to talk to or something... But yeah thank you, it's crazy that you gave me this advice today and for some reason almost everyone I know was extremely negative and just dumping things on me, and I was literally reading this comment earlier as someone was just explaining how horrible of a day that they were having, I thought the timing was just crazy hahaha. Thank you for the advice I will definitely be using it later on.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/03/16 07:59:00PM
168 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

Hello, I wanted to ask other empaths about how they feel other people's emotions or how they react when they feel or experience other people's emotions. I know that for sadness from other people I will start feeling sad and get the knot in my throat like I'm about to cry, even though I'm not actually sad. With anger (and I think this is because I really try not to get angry and I don't let myself hate people) I cringe feeling the emotion... and I can immediately tell that it doesn't belong to me and I usually get really bad anxiety and I start to feel claustrophobic and squeezed.. But happiness is really weird for me. i'm usually a very outgoing and happy person, sometimes a little bit too happy, but when I get around people who are happy, it feels natural to me to be extremely happy. Like after I leave a conversation with an extremely happy person, I'll go back to a normal happy state and sometimes even feel drained from the whole thing... it's weird but I love it tho...

Now I do have some other things about feeling other peoples emotions... I feel like I feel other peoples hate towards me. Like if someone for some reason dislikes me, i literally feel tension between us, or I'll feel this almost like a hot pressure sensation from their direction (I don't know if thats normal). I've also noticed I know when people crush on me too tho... i've never been wrong before but I think I finally found someone who could be "the one" and I'm terrified that I'm wrong about the feelings from this person so I definitlye want to ask other Empaths if they can feel other people crushing on them.. also, is it possible for us to feel people looking at you, like REALLY looking at you... like when you stare at someone because you like them or you're forming some sort of judgement about them..? because I swear I can feel people staring at me, but I never want to look to see if they actually are staring at me... i've always thought i saw them looking in my direction at least when I get the feeling, but I've never actually looked to see if the person is staring at me... i don't know... anyways if you guys can just leave what you feel with other people's emotions or how you react to other people's emotions and we can have a discussion maybe about different feelings we experience around different people feeling different things... I think it would help us all maybe?


updated by @loconnoro: 09/07/18 03:15:02AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/03/16 03:21:28PM
168 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Thank you this is really helpful for me! I'm glad you said something about making sure I like it because I would honestly try ridiculous things to be honest.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/03/16 04:21:54AM
168 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Thank you! This really helped, I had no idea where to even start with this. I will definitely look more into it.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/02/16 07:12:07PM
168 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Hello, I am new to being an Empath and everything, but one thing that I know for sure is that I really want to make "my" place (a house or even just a place where a lot of people have to come and visit) feel really comfortable and relaxing. Any hints on how to make the energy of the room feel good? I know I'm really sensitive to the energies in rooms and on owned items, but I don't know how to change the energies or make them more comfortable to be around. Any hints or pointers on anything from decorations to things that I can do to make it my own area where people can feel welcome, even if they aren't sensitive to energies themselves.


updated by @loconnoro: 07/21/18 05:00:17AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/02/16 03:04:53PM
168 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

I completely agree. I think it's such a blessing to be able to feel the world differently though, I wouldn't want to give it up for anything to be honest.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/02/16 03:02:54PM
168 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

I told a friend about what I was experiencing as an empath, like being able to feel other people's energy (at the time I just called it "feeling" them because I didn't know what to call it) and I would explain to them times when I would be around someone feeling a strong emotion and it affecting me just sitting next to them. She thought I was crazy lol and that's when I found out it's not "normal" to "feel" other people by just standing/sitting/being next to someone. But yeah I really don't talk to people about this. I really wish there was someone in my life who I could just talk to about how I see the world and everyone in it sometimes. Or at least someone who I can tell who won't want to test me on emotions...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
04/30/16 07:40:31PM
168 posts

Diet


Empath

This is my first post on this website, and I'm excited to be apart of this, but I have a question in regards to meat. I've recently stopped craving meat all together, and I don't understand why. I had steak a few weeks ago and I thought it tasted fine, but I just don't find it enjoyable at all anymore. Is it because of the Empath thing? I've always loved eating fruit so making a shift over to being at the least vegetarian won't be hard at all, but I'm just confused about the whole thing. Any hints or suggestions?


updated by @loconnoro: 01/20/17 11:09:39PM
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