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LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/25/16 07:29:03AM
151 posts

Your Experiences with Physical Touch


Empath

Your post was really informative thank you so much. My family is the same way about hugs, except my, as I've gotten older and I'm close to moving out since I'm at that age now, doesn't hug as often, but she does expect me to sit and talk with her about "our days" but it really turns into her venting time every time. I wouldn't mind it if she didn't force it honestly, but she likes to just vent to me for almost 20-30 minutes on a regular basis and it's extremely draining for me. But yeah I totally relate to what you're saying. I think it is important for BOTH parties to be whole-heartily into a hug, and that's the only time it feels good to me anyways... Thank you so much for the comment!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/25/16 07:23:07AM
151 posts

Your Experiences with Physical Touch


Empath

So I just googled it lol because I have no Idea, but I'm relating to a lot of it... I wanted to be a doctor for some time now to help other people, but I've realized that telling someone "you have a cold, take this" really doesn't help people the way I want to. I want to help them Live happier and enjoy life i guess, I'm not sure. I think I am that tho thank you so much for sharing it!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/24/16 06:03:50PM
151 posts

Your Experiences with Physical Touch


Empath

I completely relate with the Half Hug thing! I mean when I really want to hug someone people say that I'm an amazing hugger or that it feels good to hug me, but most people don't get that from me... I have to be honest it really made me smile to read your comment too. Thank you for your response!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/13/16 10:18:10PM
151 posts



This has happened to me so many time! Like when I was in probably elementary or early secondary school I dreamed about driving on a road in a car, and then at least 5 years later I had a massive deja vu moment. It sorta scared me but it was really cool experience though..

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/13/16 08:41:49PM
151 posts

Your Experiences with Physical Touch


Empath

Hey Everyone, it's me again. I hope we are all doing well. I wanted to ask other Empaths about their ideas or experience with Physical Touch.

I know that through my experiences I don't really like to be touched, at least not without being told or without warning. It feel weird to me but it's not like I feel them when they touch me (Like their Vibe or something). I've also noticed that I can't stand people who are even slightly narcissistic touching me, it makes me cringe. There is something so different between someone who is Narcissistic who cares about me and gives me a hug or touches me than someone who genuinely cares about me from a none-selfish place... it's almost as if the Narcisstic person needs me for themselves and that's the only reason why then care about me, it's not that they actually care about me (Hopefully I explained that well). I grew up in a family of very Narcissistic people who I didn't realize were Natcissistic until I got out of my house and met more people and got more into being an Empath, and I guess I was just always used to disliking them touching me and began hating being touched in general, but then I met other people who it's not a bad experience for them to touch me. It's so weird. I do have a question, There is someone who touches me and it feels oddly good, and I don't know why. Is this possibly because this person cares about me in a none-selfish way or something? It throws me off to how this person has a very comfortable aura... like they obviously have something off about them, like some sort of dark secret, but they are very comfortable to be around for me. Does anyone have any theories about this?

ALSO, I've heard that Empaths naturally have healing vibes, and I rarely touch people, but people really like when I do give them like a "real" hug... Should I be more open to giving people a friendly pat on the back or (Not in a creepy way or anything) in general not being as hands off as I usually am? I never realized how "normal" it is to just casually touch someone in a friendly way, and I always hated it so I never touched other people and now I realize how much it helps, especially in serious conversations or for just encouragement. What are your opinions, share any of them please! Thank you much and talk with you all later!


updated by @loconnoro: 07/20/17 11:03:46AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/13/16 08:41:46PM
151 posts

Your Experiences with Physical Touch


Empath

Hey Everyone, it's me again. I hope we are all doing well. I wanted to ask other Empaths about their ideas or experience with Physical Touch.

I know that through my experiences I don't really like to be touched, at least not without being told or without warning. It feel weird to me but it's not like I feel them when they touch me (Like their Vibe or something). I've also noticed that I can't stand people who are even slightly narcissistic touching me, it makes me cringe. There is something so different between someone who is Narcissistic who cares about me and gives me a hug or touches me than someone who genuinely cares about me from a none-selfish place... it's almost as if the Narcisstic person needs me for themselves and that's the only reason why then care about me, it's not that they actually care about me (Hopefully I explained that well). I grew up in a family of very Narcissistic people who I didn't realize were Natcissistic until I got out of my house and met more people and got more into being an Empath, and I guess I was just always used to disliking them touching me and began hating being touched in general, but then I met other people who it's not a bad experience for them to touch me. It's so weird. I do have a question, There is someone who touches me and it feels oddly good, and I don't know why. Is this possibly because this person cares about me in a none-selfish way or something? It throws me off to how this person has a very comfortable aura... like they obviously have something off about them, like some sort of dark secret, but they are very comfortable to be around for me. Does anyone have any theories about this?

ALSO, I've heard that Empaths naturally have healing vibes, and I rarely touch people, but people really like when I do give them like a "real" hug... Should I be more open to giving people a friendly pat on the back or (Not in a creepy way or anything) in general not being as hands off as I usually am? I never realized how "normal" it is to just casually touch someone in a friendly way, and I always hated it so I never touched other people and now I realize how much it helps, especially in serious conversations or for just encouragement. What are your opinions, share any of them please! Thank you much and talk with you all later!


updated by @loconnoro: 01/21/17 05:23:36AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/12/16 08:18:50PM
151 posts

People who you can't read


Empath

I totally get being sensitive on the issue, and thank you for the pointers! He was only angry once in the entire time I've ever known him and he would never hurt someone (He jokes about having to fight someone if they messed with him but he never has actually hurt someone). Thank you for your comment!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/12/16 06:54:19AM
151 posts

People who you can't read


Empath

Thank you that really seems to describe him very well, and it's nice to know that I'm actually helping him by just being there if he needs me. Thank you!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
08/11/16 08:28:39PM
151 posts

People who you can't read


Empath

Hey everyone, it's been a while since I've gotten back on but lately but I've had something on my mind and I was hoping if I could come to more experienced Empaths or Empaths with different experiences to get an answer. (Sorry about this one, it's gonna be a little bit lengthy, but hopefully interesting! ;D)

I'm in college and I had a friend who I met my last year of High School. I never talked to the group of people that he hung out with but for some reason he and I became decent friends and he always treated me like he treated his other close friends, but I could never be myself around him for some reason. He's a great guy, but I always felt almost helpless and powerless around him, but everything seemed fine. I was never able to really read him and be able to understand how he "works" as a individual, like he would talk and act one way around his normal group of friends, but then when he and I would have a class together and talk and things he would seem slightly different... We never really had a great discussion or in any way (in my opinion) bonded, because I just couldn't be myself around him I didn't understand why, but he would act like we were great buddies (I didn't mind and I would love to actually be good friends with him, but I don't understand why he acted like we were that close when we didn't even talk much). I remember one day he was really upset about something and it was one of the strongest emotions I have gotten from another person, it was so weird. I've never ever felt someone's anger that strongly. It was honestly stronger than what I even allow for myself so I was literally cringing from sitting next to him and I got sweaty, my eyes were watering, I was literally shaking... it was a mess lol. And when he listened to music I could feel him get less angry with certain songs and more angry with others. It was a bizarre connection. While he was angry he was short with everyone else he talked to but when he talked to me he seemed really happy almost and he would lose a tremendous amount of his emotion, but it would comeback, not as strong, but it was still there. I remember I asked him what was wrong and he just told me it meant a lot that I cared but never actually told me what the matter was. Away from that experience I later heard that he would talk about how great of a person I was to his friends (very very often from what I understand), and when we graduated he cheered for me louder than literally anyone else in the gym who was cheering for me (Again, we're closer to just two friendly people than we are best friends who scream for each other walking across a stage).

Beyond personal experiences I had with him, I would sometimes check to see how he would act around other people and he would almost exclude himself. He would sit on his phone or sit away from other people in his group, and I knew he had troubles fitting in (his friends liked him, but he wasn't as close as he wanted to be to his friends). I felt horrible because I could see some of his insecurities, but I know that there's something much much bigger going on. I'm upset because it's been on my mind A LOT lately for a reason that I don't know and now that I have a better handle on being an Empath I could definitely really get to know him and be better friends with him and help him with whatever is going on.

It's just weird to me the connection that I had to him and his emotions, yet I couldn't read him or understand him for anything, and that's something I can do with almost anyone else. I need advice on how I should go about talking to him. It seems dangerous to me to be involved with someone you connect to that well... I'm definitely not experienced enough to know what I'm doing. Any Advice/ Stories, or just share anything that comes to mind when you read this post please!

As always, Thank you!


updated by @loconnoro: 01/14/17 01:42:37AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
07/13/16 07:36:43PM
151 posts

Is this common among other Empaths?


Empath

I'm the same way about being touched except by people I'm close to. I'm not even close with my family, I guess it's because I've seen how they really are and know it's not in my best interests to talk to them. The only people I don't mind touching me are the people that I like being around and have a good feeling and people that I see myself opening up to and talking with. I have to spend a lot of alone time too, but unfortunately most of the people in my life don't understand that because I'm usually extremely happy and outgoing and sociable when I'm near people... But if I don't get alone time I go crazy and become beyond antisocial haha

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
07/12/16 08:57:42PM
151 posts

The people that heals with hugs


Empath

I love this personally and I know what you're talking about. My great grandmother gave these amazing hugs and had this amazing vibe and I miss it so much.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
07/03/16 07:41:06PM
151 posts

Feeling of needing to get out


Empath

Yes, I am like this with my family. They are very negative and never allow me to be alone or have any sort of alone time when I'm around them for extended periods of time and I feel drained and exhausted constantly around them.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/26/16 08:20:32PM
151 posts

Is this common among other Empaths?


Empath

I try to stay positive most of the time too, even when I'm in a less than friendly mood people find me enjoyable to be around because I tend to be a lot more sarcastic and funny lol.It's the same for me as well! My family doesn't treat me at all like other people do and often times do their best to tell me and make me feel like I'm a horrible person, I'm so sad it's the same for you because I know, too, how hard it can be first hand :( . What I usually do is limit how often I'm around my family because they treat me horribly and after a while they started asking questions why I avoided them more and would stay in my room more often and I let the know the way they treated me made me start avoiding them. It caused major depression and self hate problems and I didn't get over it until my senior year of high School because I made new friends and talked to people and by the end of the year many people were telling me how much they would miss me and it was a real moral booster. I hope things get better for you! best of luck!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/26/16 08:13:19PM
151 posts

Is this common among other Empaths?


Empath

I feel like I attract people who are suffering or feel less about themselves and I'm very concerned about that for some of the people I become friends with because I'll want to be closer to them because I can tell something is wrong, as in i get this really uneasy and almost helpless feeling every time I'm around them, but then they stop talking to me which is extremely unsettling haha. And I TOTALLY do the same thing, i hate the feeling of how awkward and almost self hate someone gets when they offend me lol.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/26/16 08:01:37AM
151 posts

Is this common among other Empaths?


Empath

This happens to me too, and I can definitely relate with the childhood part too. I think a lot of us here have that in common in one way or another and all to different extremes. It's so annoying that people feel like they have to act different;y around me, I can tell when they're not being their true selves and that's all that I want from people is for them to be who they are and not worry what I or others think. Thank you so much for the reply!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/25/16 06:09:32PM
151 posts

Is this common among other Empaths?


Empath

the same thing happens and happened with my mother. To this day I'm the first person she comes to for all of her problems and I don't understand why most of the time.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/25/16 05:36:24PM
151 posts

Is this common among other Empaths?


Empath

Hello everyone I hope you all are well. I've found recently that people seem to look to me and talk to me easier in situations where we are just meeting, or if someone is a little uncomfortable because there is no one in a room they know to talk to, they'll talk to me. Is this common for other Empaths as well? I've also been called things like "too nice". People always treat me well too and tend to feel horrible if they find out they offended me... I guess what I'm trying to ask is if this is a common response to people who are Empaths... Any and all feedback is appreciated and if you're treated or responded to differently please share haha. Thanks and God Bless!


updated by @loconnoro: 01/09/17 12:55:22AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/25/16 01:05:48PM
151 posts

What about non empaths?


Empath

Hello! In my life I have talked with friends who don't have these abilities (Which is a some points a mistake because this friend just doesn't understand and realizes its real but doesn't understand that I can't read her mind or anything like that). She says she doesn't get any sort of feeling from people when she's around them at all. She will get uncomfortable around people she doesn't like, but it's because of her feelings towards that person. I hope this helped.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/17/16 09:03:36AM
151 posts

What is this???


Empath

I agree too, he is looking at Empathy through a very fixed and pessimistic angle and it kind of makes me cringe lol. I think that Empathy is what makes the world better, he's looking at it from the big corporation and Government side of things, but where it matters most is on the personal side of things. Empathy is what helps feed the homeless. Empathy is what helps people care about others and treat others with the respect they deserve as another human. Emapthy is what makes some people care about Global Warming and destruction of environments on earth. Empathy is what makes the world a better and less hostile place and we need more of it. I feel like he really didn't have an understanding of what he was saying and personally I think he thinks his education makes his opinion more valuable and more worth while to listen to which, again, really upsets me.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/16/16 08:06:30PM
151 posts

Types of people


Empath

I just call them "normal", I've never talked about "them" like this before so this seems foriegn to me lol, but I would just call them "Normal" since they do make up the majority of people...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
06/16/16 08:02:28PM
151 posts

Types of people


Empath

I like this but for some reason I started reading it in a Morgan Freeman Voice lol. But yeah I totally get what you're saying and I love it!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/11/16 12:17:11PM
151 posts

Help on how we react to Crushing on people


Empath

Okay I emailed Dahabomabou@hotmail.com... I don't email total strangers so I'm a little out of my element here so you might have to bare with me if I seem awkward haha

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/10/16 06:16:31PM
151 posts

Help on how we react to Crushing on people


Empath

Well I've been around them on a bad day and that vibe seemed stronger and I was able to help this person, but now it's just gone, completely... and it's really complimented, people would get hurt if we were to date or anything, that's why I haven't made a move...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/10/16 04:40:34PM
151 posts

Help on how we react to Crushing on people


Empath

Hello, I don't know if this is even a thing for most Empaths, but I heavily rely on how a person feels to form any sort of judgment or to decide how close I want to be to them. I've never dated someone because I have to feel something from them and this year I found someone who just feels "different" and really really REALLY good to be around, I love this person's energy so much and I felt like this person had feelings for me too, but I was never sure. Yesterday this persons "vibe" towards me completely changed (even though they act exactly the same towards me) and I lost any possible feeling of them liking me, even though I subtly gave this person clues that I liked them in that way, but they only would have caught on if I they liked me back... and now that I feel like I've lost this person who I've never had any sort of feeling like this before with, I'm really upset. I can't get rid of this constant feeling of anxiety and I'm feeling more than my own emotions at this point a lot more easily, and I'm really picking up on other people's negative feelings more, even though I'm not becoming negative. The only way I know how to describe it is like we somehow linked and now that link is gone and I have these loose threads catching literally everyone else. I guess I learned how to deal with being an empath while still kinda locked up or something because I'm feeling everyone else more now and at this point it's causing issues because I can't calm myself and my mind down enough to meditate or try to relax and release at all. I don't know what to do... any hints/pointers/suggestions?? I'm open to just about anything right now...


updated by @loconnoro: 05/11/17 02:28:03AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/10/16 03:30:16PM
151 posts



Yes, it's not necessarily that they can sense it, it's that you are too easy for them to talk too so they hold back. Which is a good thing, some people, though, do sense that you see right through them and that is intimidating. I experience this often as well, but I definitely consider it a good thing, even though I love people, most warm up to me after a while.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/06/16 11:03:45AM
151 posts

Is it possible for us to feel our own energy?


Empath

Hello, I'm still a "new" Empath, but I've been finding that I think that I can feel my own energy. I've always struggled with depression and feeling no self worth or anything, and I would always be able to feel other people, but recently I've found that I can feel something when I meditate or have quiet time and focus on having compassionate and loving thought and it feels extremely healing and really really nice. I've noticed that since I've been doing this I've been happier than every before and I feel like I'm nicer to people and I actually have a sense of self worth. It's extremely weird for me to think that I'm feeling myself, but I know that it feels like someone else's "vibe" or "energy" except i usually feel it around me and when I focus on it, it makes my sides tingle and feels like I'm pulling it in. I don't understand what it is but I can usually tell other people vibes because I'll get it from their direction on the portion of my body closest to them. What I feel is already surrounding me... I don't know, I just wanted to ask a other people if they experience this or even can relate or try it... I personally love it and I hope other people feel it if it is me lol.


updated by @loconnoro: 01/21/17 12:51:21PM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/06/16 10:49:53AM
151 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

good grief it didn't send it all I'm sorry about that... I meant to say "I'm glad to hear that you like this post, i just noticed that people never explain how they feel about things on videos and websites, like the sensation they get..."

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/06/16 09:02:56AM
151 posts

Discerning a bad feeling please help...


Empath

Thank you for your comment! I'm still not happy that they want me to have surgery tho lol xD but hey it could definitely be worse xD

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/06/16 08:58:41AM
151 posts

Discerning a bad feeling please help...


Empath

Thank you so much, it's like I took your advice somehow before you gave it lol. My home isn't a good place for me to be around because my family is extremely negative (I'm in college trying to make a life of myself lol and I'm staying at home and going to school and working). I love my family but it's getting to be too much now. I guess it's time to move in with a friend into an apartment lol thank you!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 07:35:13PM
151 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

Do we feel each other more? It would probably make sense since we are so open and in a way in other people's auroras all the time (we can't help it lol sorry world). That would be interesting to know because there are some people who I feel much more strongly than others... I think I'm going to ask those people now, I mean the worst thing they can say is "nope I don't feel other people" and I probably wont have to go as far as to tell them I'm an Empath unless they say yes lol. Thank you for your comment! I'm happy to hear you comment to begin with, but it made me think about somethings I've never thought about before and I really appreciate that!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 03:44:56PM
151 posts

Discerning a bad feeling please help...


Empath

So today I was around the normal people I'm always around and didn't really do anything out of the ordinary, but I do know that a lot of them are energy vampires... but today I was abnormally EXHAUSTED and I couldn't figure out why, and then I came home and got really bad news from a doctor about a mole that I had removed, (they told me to consider cancer treatment options). I'm fine and there shouldn't be anything to worry about so don't stress or anything, I know this a super caring environment, but is it possible that I was feeling so exhausted because I was about to recieve bad news? I'm just not used to being this tired, even when I was in bed for a week with strep throat and the flu at the same time. The only other time I was this tired was when I was going through severe depression, and I am well over that, in fact I've never been happier in my life to be honest... It was just odd for me...


updated by @loconnoro: 09/12/17 07:58:48AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 03:35:39PM
151 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

I had no clue how to put those feeling into words and you just did it for me that's exactly how I feel with those haha thank you lol. I feel like once I put a feeling into words I can identify it better sense it more often so that really helped haha

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 03:33:47PM
151 posts

Too much positivity?


Empath

Thanks I'm glad to know it helped haha

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/05/16 06:29:20AM
151 posts

One of those days...


Empath

I kinda agree with this. I noticed that the days that I tried to block out other people and stop feeling them, I felt miserable and didn't have a very positive outlook towards the whole thing. I stopped "blocking" people's energy and started trying to embrace it and use it to help them the best way I know I can (stilll working on it thought)

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 08:38:05PM
151 posts

One of those days...


Empath

This is so interesting considering this week everyone just seems tired that I've been around, and the fact that I went in and out of severe depression during the exact same time of last retrograde in January and February is really concerning me... I need to do more research on this thank you for sharing!!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 08:31:05PM
151 posts

One of those days...


Empath

What is this? and how does it work, I've never heard of it before, and honestly at this point I'm willing to hear anything...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 04:03:02PM
151 posts

Too much positivity?


Empath

I am the same way, but I would definitely that it's easier for an Empath to be happy, especially when we just feel everything so differently and realize what a blessing it is. Other people are stuck feeling and living completely different lives and I know that it has to be annoying for some people who are in a bad mood or are more negative to be around people who are happy and genuinely love life. I personally don't want to live any other way and I've decided that I want to make others happy or at least help them find happiness in themselves if I can't do it. What I do is not try to let my positivity take control of a conversation (although a lot of times it's needed). I usually let the other person set the "mood" and go with it. But there is definitely a difference between someone spreading negativity and just setting a more relaxed mood, and i would be very careful not to associate too much with people who do nothing but talk negatively about others or their life, instead use your happiness to give them something to be happy about. Compliment them and the good qualities you see in them or the person they talk bad about, and it lightens the mood almost instantly. This usually works for me, but you have to be careful about not being too in people's face while using it. I hope I didn't give you anything you didn't want/ wasn't expecting lol.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 03:34:28PM
151 posts

One of those days...


Empath

I can relate to this so hard this week. I haven't gotten real alone time for almost a week now and I'm losing my mind, I can't stand being around other people at this point which is weird because I LOVE other people, I just can't deal with their energy I'm too drained as it is...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:33:39PM
151 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

Geez no one in my family is an Empath too.. I really have no one who I can really talk to about this to be honest :/.. I guess that's why I love this website so much hahaha I'm on it more than other social media websites xD...

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:31:52PM
151 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Thank you so much, I've literally been looking for that term lol I just couldn't find it... now I can actually google some more specific things than "establishing flow in a house" or something that I feel looks weird to other people who don't understand any of this xD thank you so much!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:29:13PM
151 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

I struggle with grounding myself, especially since I'm still new to the whole thing... it was crazy because I was going through really bad depression and then found out I was an Empath, and Everything kinda clicked for me. Literally a few weeks ago was the first time I really sat down and began feeling myself and it was just so healing and empowering. And yes my favorite thing about all of this is I can be around people talking about something i don't even know anything about, but feeling their excitement and passion for it makes it seem like I've been through all of it too and it's just so beautiful to me. Thank you for your comment!

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/04/16 12:25:38PM
151 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

I can definitely relate to the heavy, icy feeling, but I get it around people who I have a conversation with who don't really care about me not in a bad way, just I'm not their ideal person to talk to or something... But yeah thank you, it's crazy that you gave me this advice today and for some reason almost everyone I know was extremely negative and just dumping things on me, and I was literally reading this comment earlier as someone was just explaining how horrible of a day that they were having, I thought the timing was just crazy hahaha. Thank you for the advice I will definitely be using it later on.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/03/16 07:59:00PM
151 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

Hello, I wanted to ask other empaths about how they feel other people's emotions or how they react when they feel or experience other people's emotions. I know that for sadness from other people I will start feeling sad and get the knot in my throat like I'm about to cry, even though I'm not actually sad. With anger (and I think this is because I really try not to get angry and I don't let myself hate people) I cringe feeling the emotion... and I can immediately tell that it doesn't belong to me and I usually get really bad anxiety and I start to feel claustrophobic and squeezed.. But happiness is really weird for me. i'm usually a very outgoing and happy person, sometimes a little bit too happy, but when I get around people who are happy, it feels natural to me to be extremely happy. Like after I leave a conversation with an extremely happy person, I'll go back to a normal happy state and sometimes even feel drained from the whole thing... it's weird but I love it tho...

Now I do have some other things about feeling other peoples emotions... I feel like I feel other peoples hate towards me. Like if someone for some reason dislikes me, i literally feel tension between us, or I'll feel this almost like a hot pressure sensation from their direction (I don't know if thats normal). I've also noticed I know when people crush on me too tho... i've never been wrong before but I think I finally found someone who could be "the one" and I'm terrified that I'm wrong about the feelings from this person so I definitlye want to ask other Empaths if they can feel other people crushing on them.. also, is it possible for us to feel people looking at you, like REALLY looking at you... like when you stare at someone because you like them or you're forming some sort of judgement about them..? because I swear I can feel people staring at me, but I never want to look to see if they actually are staring at me... i've always thought i saw them looking in my direction at least when I get the feeling, but I've never actually looked to see if the person is staring at me... i don't know... anyways if you guys can just leave what you feel with other people's emotions or how you react to other people's emotions and we can have a discussion maybe about different feelings we experience around different people feeling different things... I think it would help us all maybe?


updated by @loconnoro: 09/13/17 06:04:49AM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/03/16 03:21:28PM
151 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Thank you this is really helpful for me! I'm glad you said something about making sure I like it because I would honestly try ridiculous things to be honest.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/03/16 04:21:54AM
151 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Thank you! This really helped, I had no idea where to even start with this. I will definitely look more into it.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/02/16 07:12:07PM
151 posts

Creating a comfortable environment for an Empath (Rooms and Indoor areas)


Empath

Hello, I am new to being an Empath and everything, but one thing that I know for sure is that I really want to make "my" place (a house or even just a place where a lot of people have to come and visit) feel really comfortable and relaxing. Any hints on how to make the energy of the room feel good? I know I'm really sensitive to the energies in rooms and on owned items, but I don't know how to change the energies or make them more comfortable to be around. Any hints or pointers on anything from decorations to things that I can do to make it my own area where people can feel welcome, even if they aren't sensitive to energies themselves.


updated by @loconnoro: 02/01/17 05:18:33PM
LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/02/16 03:04:53PM
151 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

I completely agree. I think it's such a blessing to be able to feel the world differently though, I wouldn't want to give it up for anything to be honest.

LoconnorO
@loconnoro
05/02/16 03:02:54PM
151 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

I told a friend about what I was experiencing as an empath, like being able to feel other people's energy (at the time I just called it "feeling" them because I didn't know what to call it) and I would explain to them times when I would be around someone feeling a strong emotion and it affecting me just sitting next to them. She thought I was crazy lol and that's when I found out it's not "normal" to "feel" other people by just standing/sitting/being next to someone. But yeah I really don't talk to people about this. I really wish there was someone in my life who I could just talk to about how I see the world and everyone in it sometimes. Or at least someone who I can tell who won't want to test me on emotions...

 
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