Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too
The real reason you are picky is because you are afraid. If you can admit this, then you can start to look for its source. Maybe write down possible reasons for this fear. Maybe, the household you grew up in and the parental relationship that was modeled to you. Perhaps an old relationship ended badly. In an effeort to protect ourselves from experiencing these pains again, we try to control the love experience. That's a clear indicatior fear is present.