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Ekkostar
@ekkostar
08/22/16 12:45:12PM
4 posts

Dating Site's and finding a connection


Empath

Aww, Jodi how I sense your frustration and disappointment! I too have joined a few online dating sites and came across so many disappointments that you have described above! Either too old or way to young. I decided that the online dating sites were not for me and got out. I have been single and celibate now for over fifteen years. Granted I have been lonely, but I don't regret my decision. I just visualize the man who I long for and trust that one day I will meet him and we'll be married. You are a lovely woman who will meet the right man one day, I'm sure! I would rather be where I'm at then end up with the wrong person just because of my loneliness. Hoping that you meet the right man soon, sweetheart!

Ekkostar
@ekkostar
08/12/16 02:28:42PM
4 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Greetings Fiddlehead! The word Negative-Nelly is a word I remember from the time when I was a little girl... Hearing my mother and aunts talking about the"ones" who complained from the time they got up in the morning to the time they went to bed! Lol I too would be loaded with guilt when all my attempts to help those who walked through their life in a cloud of darkness. Till I realized that some people don't want to be helped, because they're perfectly fine where they're at... my heart would break with the sadness. For years I allowed myself to be used, oh sure they'd reassure me that they are just venting and unloading and they appreciate me for listening to them. Right! Not until I learned that every day was a day of venting and unloading. Drained, so very drained and I knew I had to save myself from their black hole of doom before I too would be sucked in by the vapidness and drown, never more to be functional.... continue to be a blessing to others with your gifts and try to find your way to go in life, without the Energy Vampires sucking your life force out of you! Hopefully you'll be able to draw that boundary line and say, Enough is enough! Good luck, my friend!

Be blessed in all you do in life honey!!!

You're a wonderful, beautiful person who has been given a special gift in life and I know that you are going to go far and help so many people who are going to appreciate you and all that you have!

Be blessed my friend!

Your friend,

Ekkostar

Ekkostar
@ekkostar
08/11/16 12:18:04PM
4 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Hi Fiddlehead, and greetings and salutations to my Empaths friends!

It's been awhile since I've been here, but this is one discussion that drew me in, and I am going to add my two cents worth, if you don't mind. My experience with negative-nelly's has taught me to realize that some people who are constantly complaining, ( not all mind you)

don't want to change. I myself call them, Energy Vampires! I have an older sister who has been like this her whole life! And I totally relate, pertaining to being drained, when in the company of those who spew out negative comments, ect... Conversing with the Negative-nelly's, is especially draining when, regardless if you're talking about everything uplifting and inspiring affirmations! Sadly, she's not the only one I have in my family that I consider Energy Vampires... I must leave the room after a while and go somewhere, ALONE, and charge my battery.

Bottom line is that the Energy Vampires suck the life force out of you and I allowed that too many times before I said, Enough is Enough! No more will I allow you to suck my life force out of me, and I drew the boundary lines, between them and myself! I love my family and friends, but I am doing it at a distance. Sad thing is I ended up with the short stick most of my life, before I decided I wanted my life back! The most important and blessed part is that I can move away and into a home of my own, and not be around all this negativity!!! Fiddlehead, my dear friend, only you can make that decision as to how you handle this situation and I truly believe that you have within you the power to rise above this situation! Be blessed my friend, be blessed!!!

Ekkostar
@ekkostar
04/09/16 07:00:49AM
4 posts

Your Strongest Spiritual Gift


Library of Light

Now I am confused. Why? How do I determine the strongest trait when after I read the four groups, I have anywhere between 6-8 traits in each group?!

How do I lasso them in when I am blowing in so many different directions? Where do I start? How do I prioritize, and does the need to prioritize, really important for the emotional well being of myself?! Any help would be greatly appreciated and taken! Thanks for your help, advice and guidance! Be blessed this beautiful day and keep your lights shining forth in our world!

Your friend,

EkkoStar

Ekkostar
@ekkostar
04/09/16 12:37:12AM
4 posts

Clairsentient or Something Else?


Empath

Thank you for your kindness to the fact that I have a tendency to jump around while I am writing. Is it alright if I follow your page? I'm looking forward to chatting with you on this great community!

Be blessed and happy, sweetheart!

Warmly,

EkkoStar

Ekkostar
@ekkostar
04/08/16 09:02:59PM
4 posts

Clairsentient or Something Else?


Empath

Greetings Haley,
I'm the exact same way. Person, place, or thing, doesn't matter, I will absorb the energy.The only problem I have is the energy I perceive from people. Overwhelming is an understatement! When I enter into a place I can automatically sense whether there is "anyone" still lingering around and I will have a feeling in the pit of my stomach, regardless of whether it's good or bad. The worse part is that I haven't been able too distinguish how I know what I know. My mind never shuts down. I don't know how to use these gifts and I am so frustrated. Explaining what it's like to family and friends, well that's a joke! Thank God I found this support for Empaths & Highly Sensitive People!
Trust me you are not strange, honey!Just very open, just as myself and many others. I too have to go and be alone, just to recover from the ordeals of everyday life! Then I am labeled antisocial, mentally ill, ect...lol
Recently I have begun to see "Auras" and I'm thinking, great, something else to understand! I use to believe that I really was mental and saw numerous psychologists, only for them to say that I was just a highly sensitive individual who happens to be very intuitive. I have always had a sense of knowing that I am different from so many people, but the sad thing is that when I say different, I labeled myself as a freak,because I didn't know any better! Heck,it's only a few years back that I even heard of the word, Empath! Now that I know that I'm not a freak,I am reading everything I can get my hands on to understand the situation and how to be a healthy and thriving Empath and Sensitive! The fact that you mentioned telepathy, makes sense to me, because I am the same way at times.I too will get this sense of foreboding, and I will have to call and check on friends and family members to make sure that all is well with them.I will try to explain that something is wrong and they'll reasure me that they're fine,but I know that it's not! A few days will pass and I still have this "knowing" that something is going to happen. Then I would find out that a person who knows my friends or relatives had something happen to them.Once that happens, my sense of foreboding is gone.Please forgive me if I am jumping all over the place, I have a tendency to do this often.My opinion is that it's because of my sensory overload. Are you the same way, Haley?
I will be ending this message with the following message, "You are not wierd, strange, ect...just a very gifted individual!" Stay beautiful and open girl,and let your light shine on the world, my dear!
With Love and Respect,
EkkoStar