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KM
@km
08/17/14 02:49:42PM
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It is not so much that I am a medical brain child, but it just so happens that I was researching a condition for a friend. Said friend had suffered from devastating cluster headaches for years. Now the headaches have gone into remission but there are other neurological problems that have to do with the use of one limb. Blood clots traveling through one's system can cause numbness along with various other issues depending on where in the body they show up. Unfortunately, they travel too, so the symptoms may elude you for years. Some of the rare diseases take 30 or more years to recognize and some people are not fully diagnosed until after an autopsy after death. You would think we could do better with today's technology. So, I try to raise awareness when it is appropriate. I hope we did not sidetrack people too much from the main discussion.

By the way, currently I am aware of two young people in their 20s (both of whom are friends of friends or relatives of mine, who are struggling with cancer). In both cases I have a very strong feeling that they are just being tested by this disease, regardless of its seriousness. Both being brain cancer. I believe the girl to be one and the same who died of cancer in her teens and the boy to be one who never got beyond the crawling stage. (in a previous life) You would think that if they had cancer in one life the same struggle would not come back to test them again, yet I think it is done not so much for their own benefit, but for other's to go through certain motions, like visiting them in the hospital, making jokes and cheering them. I would be very upset if I were wrong, and these young people end up turning for the worse. Yet I have this very strong feeling that both of their ordeal is just a test for other's benefit. I hope that makes some sense.

KM
@km
08/17/14 02:11:11PM
90 posts



I thought I ask. Sometimes it is difficult to know what comes up in our lives as strictly our current life drama or what may show up from the past. One of the conditions I suspected with you with the symptoms posted would likely had nosebleeds. In situations like this, I am always glad to be wrong.

KM
@km
08/17/14 11:52:22AM
90 posts



Any chronic nosebleeds as a child?

KM
@km
08/17/14 11:33:18AM
90 posts



I am older than you. The anxiety got worse before it got better for me. Looking back I realize that those points in my life where I felt at the LOWEST (like the one you wrote about above) were turning points. Looking back is always easier than going through something, as hind sight is 20/20.

In my 20s I more readily laughed into the mirror at myself at the end of the day, resolving my self-conscious moments. This became more difficult as time went on.

Now I contemplate before I do something, and resolve that I will not be self-conscious as a result of my well-thought-out action. If I do extend myself in order to help another person, which is not always seen or appreciated in the same light as the gesture was made, I take the result as it comes without being attached to the outcome. You will not be able to do this overnight. After some time, I am just getting the hang of it.

What people think of you matters a lot to you, therefore you torture yourself after human interaction to see if you did the right thing, said the right thing, acted as should. (been there) You can't just WILL this to go away. You truly have to change your perception, which will likely come with time. Unfortunately, some suffering comes before the relief.

Even after one goes through enlightenment, while we are living, here on Earth, we are attached to an EGO. Even enlightened individuals have to remind themselves not to be too attached to the outcome.

As I give less importance to my EGO, I am feeling less anxious. I am no longer just telling myself that I don't care what people think. I do care, so I put forward an effort accordingly; however, what the outcome will be will depend not only on my good intentions, but also on the other players in my surroundings and their ability to receive.

From what you wrote above, I can see how not long ago I was exactly where you are now. I felt I should reach out and send hope and understanding.

If you turn out to be a Master in training, the number of your close friends may not increase much, but your anxiety will surely lessen as you go through this process.

Keep chopping wood and carrying water. All will be well.

KM
@km
08/14/14 10:01:32AM
90 posts



I am going take note of what you said about this "safe observer stance". I will give it more thought and see what turns up about it later. For now, my thinking is this:

Let's suppose the soul gets precognition of the body's soon to be demise, so it has to get to a safe distance. The person the soul takes refuge with goes into a form of shock, depression, whatever (which usually gets interpreted by the host person and their family as something to do with his/her own coincidental life circumstance). Due to the host person's temporary incapacitation, news of the dramatic event is slower to effect them, even if well publicized. So the visitor soul is temporarily shielded from the shock that his/her body is dead. As the host person slowly feels better and gets in touch with local or international news, the visiting soul it carries has an opportunity to learn of the events, like air disasters he/she was involved in or disappearance or a bombing etc.

Again, I can only go based on previous experience. I can confirm though that the host person feels all the emotions of the visiting soul. In fact, true to an empath, they experience the feelings as if it were their own. Only upon later reflection MAY one realize that the feelings were not theirs at all. Maybe this is done this way to (like you said) "release leftover emotion". One cannot due that without a body.

I can't tell you what happens to the soul after that, but I have read that "no worries" TLC is more than available and awaits them. Whether they come back to finish unfinished business, I am sure is determined after they have an opportunity to deal with the events.

Forgive the ramblings...these thoughts just flooded me upon reading your reply.

KM
@km
08/14/14 08:06:30AM
90 posts



What is going to make the most difference here is what YOU think. Having said that, I can see a couple of reasons for your reaction immediately after the friend's death.

A case of split incarnation, or perhaps more likely, the friend's Soul having been ALREADY residing in you (sharing a body), because the SOUL had prior notice (but you did not) that this tragedy would happen.

Because we have free will, numerous things get set in motion with every thought that shapes each outcome. It would be preferable that we stay with the same body until our mission is done, but in this case there was a sudden change in course, which may have necessitated some scrambling and reorganization time. You could have very well housed your friend, until he was able to move on.

The only reason I can perceive the possibility of this, because I was extremely affected after a recent mass tragedy. A month before any of us would learn of the disaster, I started becoming EXTREMELY re-interested in helicopters. I have flown them before, but strictly recreationally. It was fitting then, that I would house the soul of a helicopter pilot, close to the time of the actual death of his body. It is not clear whether he is still with me, as I am no longer having the severe depression that came upon his passing (even though I did not know him personally). However, the other day as I was cooking, I heard a loud noise like a helicopter flying extremely low and near. I dropped everything and stood on the front porch to watch him make the pass over the house. Suddenly I realized that I could not make the visual, because he was not above me. The pilot was landing at a grassy spot behind my neighbor's house. This has not happened in the twelve years that I had lived here. The area the helicopter landed is just a regular drainage area, clearly not somewhere a helicopter would be landing ever, unless there was an emergency. Well, I was later informed that it was a birthday party, and it is not clear to me how this pilot ever got the ok to land in this residential area, unless this event was perhaps put on by some Make a Wish Foundation (one-time) thing or alike. Anyway. I went about my business as the party was going on nearby. My husband said, "your helicopter is leaving"...and I did hear it take off. I rushed to the porch again to see it go. I no longer felt the depressed feelings I had felt about a month before. I was able to delight in the flight and knew that life goes on even for traumatized souls. I wonder if he came to say good bye?


updated by @km: 03/14/17 01:29:13PM
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@km
08/08/14 06:20:44PM
90 posts



Artists do many things "differently".


updated by @km: 03/01/17 02:01:40AM
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@km
07/25/14 08:34:59AM
90 posts



I would not be giving this advice if I did not find myself trapped by the same impulses. ha ha

I am somewhat on the other side of the coin. Trying to help someone with endless complications. The thought of them leaving me faster and my struggle ending that way never occurred to me. So, perhaps the things you are worried about the MOST is not what your husband is worrying about.

I am constantly reminded that each individual took on a certain struggle or issue, and they need to be allowed to OWN it. Of course, when we are so close, it affects us ALL terribly when one of us is ailing.

Like you, I catch myself trying to control the situation more than my contribution should be, and I end up causing more stress in the process.

Live and learn.

KM
@km
07/25/14 05:53:33AM
90 posts



Turn inward Cheshire Cat (meditate). You are doing what I did for so long "trying to figure it out on my own"...using the human thinking brain. STOP thinking, even for a brief time. Turn it over to the Universe/God etc. See what changes this will bring in your perception. This sounds so strange for me to say, as in this lifetime I came back to experience a less religious human experience. That does not make my soul any less spiritual. That may not make sense to some of you, but individual religions or no religion is not an issue. You are going through an extended bad phase. Be careful that by focusing so much on it, you are not extending it unnecessarily. No matter how sick you feel, turn your focus to other things you like better. The way to bring about healing in conditions that are persistent and difficult or (we think impossible) to heal, is to let go having control over it. Do your treatments that you feel need be done to care for it, but THEN, let go, let God (as the saying says).

A lot of us are so desperate to try and fix, that we forget the trust part. Stopping this unnecessary internal fighting with oneself can heal in itself. You may go through some very strong emotions before you let go, but if you don't let go, your experience will get more difficult and more difficult until you finally come to the realization that that is what needed (letting go).

This may not make the world around you immediately a better place. Sorry to bring the bad news. However, your way of dealing with it (your perception) will change. I am speaking from experience.

Perhaps you need to experience that you will survive even if your full support depends totally on others. In your case, it is a relative who labors. But picture this: if you were a monk and depended on strangers to contribute to your care, how much trust would you have that that would be enough for you to make it. You are here to experience trust. Face it, and your current problems will shift onto other experiences. You deserve an easier ride, but you could be your worst enemy. Stop struggling in the water and float (at least for a while).

Wish you the best!

KM
@km
07/25/14 05:31:12AM
90 posts



Whoever gets to experience the other side and don't fully forget it upon re-entry will miss it. Why do you think a lot of people have no recall of it. They would not be able to do what they set out to do here on Earth. Some of us are allowed to remember as much as we need for encouragement (I think). There may be other reasons but my human brain is too naive to imagine.

Know that there are others who much rather be in a place of unconditional love and acceptance. However, in terms of time, the way we see time here, this is so brief compared to eternal time. I read once that a medium translated what a walk-in told him. He said 20 years here is a short assignment compared to the endless time one will have when they return. Some miss it a lot because on these "assignments" we don't always get to bring significant others.

KM
@km
07/22/14 08:01:23AM
90 posts



I am familiar with the above but thanks for putting it down anyway. While reading your note and thinking about my response, I had a couple of interesting (somewhat removed) revelations. It is weird how things work.

Maybe these strange things only happen so that it starts a discussion, which discussion then leads you onto thinking along certain lines.

I faintly remember a mention of markings on people...I think it may have had something to do with the second coming of Christ. That is something I will have to research more I guess. Maybe it is time for me to revisit the Bible.

Thanks for sparking the interest in that.

KM
@km
06/21/14 04:37:20AM
90 posts



Don't rush it. With a change of perception, which I appreciate, the challenges get more difficult. Otherwise, there is no reason to remain here. So, you either die right away or continue doing more sh_t.

Let me correct that: Things don't get more difficult because of the change of perception. Enlightenment brings with it a change in perception that is every bit helpful, so you are able to handle things better. Of course to have reason to remain here, you will have to engage in some kind of service work or (until you figure out what that is, you will be taking on some more challenges that you could use the work on). We never stop advancing...which is a good thing.

KM
@km
06/20/14 03:10:33AM
90 posts



You seem like you are pretty close if not there.

KM
@km
06/18/14 07:57:57PM
90 posts



Did anyone end up with unusual marks that developed after enlightenment? I had a mysterious rash that doctors had a difficult time dealing with. I finally was left to my own resources. It took a very long time and pretty much trial and error to heal it. When I was doing the right things (spiritually), my skin would improve. When I did not, things were back to being a disaster. After some unorthodox methods, the rash is now practically a history (although, watch me speak too soon...ha ha).

Now that the rash is practically gone, in one area a discoloration was left that looks like it spells "I am". It looks like I tatoo-d myself. I tried to see if there was any reference to this anywhere on the web, but so far no luck figuring this out.

KM
@km
06/18/14 11:55:19AM
90 posts



Self discovery is what it is all about.


updated by @km: 02/05/17 03:51:03PM
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@km
06/11/14 04:56:11AM
90 posts

Picking up feelings of a past life


New Age

I think you said that more concisely than I ever could.

Thanks

KM
@km
06/10/14 05:01:58PM
90 posts

Picking up feelings of a past life


New Age

Re: "I am still attempting to piece together the puzzle."

You might like the Book of Storms exercises that is on the web. I have yet to get the complete book. I did those exercises, I guess, at just the right time for me. Then that started me meditating, and things took off from there, I would say so rapidly that it was mind boggling. Prior to that, it did not appear that I was on a spiritual journey at all. Suddenly there was more clarity, past lives revelation, increased clairvoyance, and things started to make sense in a way that it never did before. I did a lot of other work, of course, but I would not say I did it consciously. While bookstores were closing their doors, I would pick up books I probably would have never looked up in a library on ESP or Kundalini Yoga etc. It may have even taken me time to actually take these books off the shelf at home to really get into them. However, the same force that made me pick them up in the first place guided me back to them at the right time in my life, I guess. It now makes me wonder if anything is unplanned in our lives??? We are just not fully conscious of it.

It is interesting that you mentioned "logical people". I still run through everything logically to try and figure out if I am simply changing in a spiritual way (change of perception) or am I going Alzheimers. For now, my husband claims, I am not losing it. He can't quite follow all that I am experiencing, but when I tell him things that are going to happen the next day and it happens, he knows something is working rather than not working in my head. ha ha

Periodically I put something out there. The people who are ready for it will read it and it will make perfect sense to them. For others, it probably was not the right time, or the right material in the first place. I remember not so long ago wondering what is the big deal about Depak Chopra. Now I am reading his books. No, it is not peer pressure. I have never followed something just because other people did it.

All the information (including your past lives) is out there in the open. It is just amazing how we spend most of our lives chasing things to please our EGOs and fail to see what is right under our noses.

KM
@km
06/10/14 11:30:48AM
90 posts

Picking up feelings of a past life


New Age

From the number of views and no comments, I am figuring that I did more confusing than clearing things up, so I'll try and clarify:

What made me think of the above was a trip I recently took. I visited a restaurant during a business trip, and while having dinner, the evening entertainment was just starting to kick in with a person singing softly and playing a piano. During the dinner, my back was to the entertainer and I pictured a young person singing old songs. Eventually as the evening went on, I became more and more aware of the music, and curious as to who was singing. I turned, and was surprised to see a person older than his voice.

The reason I started to look in the first place was that there was something unusual about the voice. (Again I will try and spare the really long story here). Bottom line is, had I known the lyrics, I would have been tempted to jump behind the person and sing background to the piece he was singing.

This whole thing was pretty unusual for me, as I don't think of myself as impulsive. So, I began to think about this experience in terms of what I would like to do with the rest of my life. That has been on my mind afterall lately. I did not think music to be a very easy transition for me, as I left music behind long ago when I chose to pursue sports.

Earlier in the day I saw several people doing public speaking using a microphone in front of a large audience, and that left me neutral. However, the voice behind the microphone singing with the piano in the background brought out quite a different reaction in me.

All I could do is sit back and let this fact sink in, as I did not know what meaning this would have for me at this time in my life. Although I posed the question to myself "what should I do with this information", all I could do is wait for an answer.

A day or two later watching a youtube piece about a deceased entertainer made everything click. I was told back in 2012 that this entertainer and I may be split incarnations. He died rather young. Although he was accomplished in his own right, he expressed in this interview I clicked on accidentally the other night, that he much rather have sang backup to a particular popular band than get his own individual awards. He was deeply troubled.

So, I realized that although I am living this life knowing that singing in a band is not in the cards for me, that soul that I am carrying on still has tremendously strong feelings about what he feels he did not accomplish.

Then, when I realized that this was a feeling I was picking up from this past or split incarnation, I thought, ok then what lesson is there in this for me (in this life)?

That is when I realized that I almost made the same mistake as this split incarnation of mine. For a while, I did not give myself credit for the things I did accomplish or was good at. I kept looking at the things I thought I should be striving toward or not yet reached. As time goes on, I am becoming more content, but like this split incarnation of mine, if not careful, I could still take my remaining competitiveness to my grave.

Hope this makes more sense. (sorry)

KM
@km
06/10/14 05:21:15AM
90 posts

Picking up feelings of a past life


New Age

As Empaths you may find this interesting. I wont bore you with the details of a recent experience I had, however, the conclusion I drew from it could help others.

It occurred to me (after some contemplation) that just like an Empath is challenged to differentiate between their own feelings and the feelings of others they are picking up in public, something similar can be at play with respect to your own past lives.

Some of the strong feelings you may be picking up may not originate from someone around you in the room, but instead signal a deep unresolved hurt from a past life.

For those of us who have had many many past lives, and chose to live lives that did not necessarily involve a common theme, this life may initially appear confusing. It can be rather difficult to find that path that everyone is talking about.

You get a very strong feeling, and thinkshould I do something with this?. If in your current life you happen to be preoccupied with a subject (which I found myself to be at the present), you can easily think that your current strong feeling may be a sign or something that you need to apply what you are feeling in the direction of your current thinking.

If we quickly act on the strong feelings we are picking up (instead of contemplating them and trying to place them), we could actually side track from our current goals or path.

I doubt that I or anyone else would come back to a life to repeat the exact same path that was previously pursued. What would be the growth in that? So, one needs to ask the question why am I feeling this way?. Is this a new direction for me, or an OLD one I am touching on to remind me of something.

I guess, what I am trying to say here is that meditating on the issue or simply clearing your mind and giving the thoughts time to percolate, so to speakcan be of benefit to us in this life.

Think, do, think instead of Do, think, Do [For me at least, this has caused less messes].

The above may help (or confuse) Empaths. However, if you have started to see your past lives, and quite a few of them, you will have to take the time to sort out past work from a current, new and meaningful path or direction.


updated by @km: 07/04/17 08:25:41AM
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@km
02/11/14 09:08:01AM
90 posts

Discovering past lives


New Age

I thought that was odd, but I did hear that people were transitioning to new user names, so I thought...maybe? ha ha

KM
@km
02/11/14 08:19:04AM
90 posts



There are several things going on here.

One... you are an empath and may be picking up more than you care to in medical settings. People on this forum will give you all kinds of pointers as to how to cope with that, especially if you wish to continue working in similar settings in the future. (see: shielding, grounding)

Two... some folks, it sounds like, were telling you to get out of that specific setting. From the words you used, it sounds like it wasn't just a "quiet little voice" saying get out, but there was some urgency behind it. It sounds like you made your decision with respect to that. That brings with it new choices that you will have to make. It sounds like you are looking back and starting to see why your decision may have been the right one for you.

Whether there were unsettled souls or not in that place, the point may have been that you needed to make a change, and something that resonates with you was used to get you moving faster. Your guides can sometimes do things like this.

As to actual unsettled souls: I would advise you to Google to find further information on the different ways souls tend to occupy bodies. Then take some time to reflect on your own experience. See which scenario sounds the most like what you have experienced. Full clarity may not come until much later (I mean years later). Then you will find yourself saying aha!. You can meditate over it, if you feel the need to know faster.

I would be interested in finding out how your health was during the time in question. Having more than one soul in a body is usually masked by physical or psychological illness or both. For the person whose body is being used this is not pleasant, but doable. Still, this way people in the immediate surroundings can have their explanation for the original persons strange behavior. They say, well she is ill, or cant quite remember well etc. Meanwhile the other soul is driving the body (so to speak) or simply resides within to take refuge.

I would think to look for these extra souls in the ill patients rather than in the healthy nurses, but with empaths, depending on their mission, you just never know.

I believe I had several instances where I transported souls for a time being. Not a time I care to remember from this lifetime perspective, but I did it. I dont remember having to do anything to clear afterwords. Just as quickly as the soul departs you recover. Of course, like you, I had some residual questions, trying to explain what just happened. The answers came in time.


updated by @km: 01/06/17 06:59:15AM
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@km
02/10/14 05:47:27AM
90 posts

Discovering past lives


New Age

Whenever I move, I instinctively pick places near water. If not directly in my back yard, then the water is a short drive away, like in a park near a quiet bay.

In my current setting, I do enjoy glancing down from a small hill to the bubbling snowy creek. I take a deep breath in true appreciation of the sight and the fact that I am less bothered by insects at this time of year. One can only spend a short time there (not moving) before the cold becomes unpleasant. In the summer I work my magic of land healing by the same creek, sometimes bothered by the insects, but I am grateful for the warmer temperatures and the ability to remain longer.

Fish tanks, and other moving water gadgets as well as full scale indoor water falls in hotels can be a great way to get through the winter. Of course, I do agree with you, Joshua that there is nothing like immersing oneself. I had the good fortune to grow up near medicinal/mineral baths. Thanks for bringing these memories back.

As life gets crazier, we need to consciously seek the "calm". Each person needs to figure out what works for them. Quiet activities like knitting or needle work can be quite repetitive and help get you away from the daily grind. Since things are not always as peaceful in my life as mentioned above, the drain gets plenty of workout.

KM
@km
01/23/14 01:32:43PM
90 posts

Reading request


New Age

Yoga is good. Go with it.

Forget about the "running out of time" other than for filing your taxes and important stuff. Other than that, you have lifetimes.

The kids...I can't help you there. (samo samo here) ha ha ...but even that will evolve to a different relationship. I am still wondering on that myself as to WHEN. again (laughs)

The anxiety will ease, I promise you as your perspective shifts, so keep managing it with exercise or whatever you can muster up.

Do not focus too long on negative things or fret over things as you will draw it closer to yourself. Fears if you dwell on it will be worse. Agree to table it and set up specific 10 to 15 minutes sessions when you decide (like an appointment) when you will deal with it or ponder it.

I am rushing like crazy now, but we can catch up by private message later if you like.

KM
@km
01/23/14 01:04:20PM
90 posts

Which would excite you more?


New Age

Thanks for adding more clarification re: time Ravny FoxFyre. I tried to keep my post short and spoke mostly from the 3D perspective, but we don't want people to think that the concept of time is anything linear.

A couple of years ago I read about the Split incarnation of Penny Pierce and others. I did not expect to start recognizing people and their splits as time went on.

KM
@km
01/23/14 05:36:26AM
90 posts

Dizziness & Headaches


Tools for Empaths

I am told that the resulting headache is a signal that you are activating parts of the brain that were idle, so to speak (or not previously activated).

If the headaches are bothersome, you need to ease back and proceed more gradually. Take more breaks between the meditations or don't stay with it as long. Eventually, you will be able to proceed or go longer.

The dizziness is due to your ability to perceive things in other than our usual three dimensions.

KM
@km
01/23/14 05:17:38AM
90 posts

Which would excite you more?


New Age

This morning by accident I came across what seems like a Past-Life issue from one respect and a future life from another.

I wonder which is more exciting finding your past life or recognizing that you are one and the same as a person younger than you.

Unfortunately, unless the person achieves some status or becomes known to you somehow you may never hear about them. That is why people often make the connection with a famous person (as their past life), but less with ordinary people.

Now with the help of the internet even the ordinary lives are becoming associated with their more famous lives.

Today, while checking my mail, I felt inclined to click on a figure skating interview, which pulled up another suggestion for me, and yet another. On the third one, I was shocked to see this young woman who looked like, sounded like and according to the heading was "Wise beyond her years" like an older friend of mine. Older, meaning, she is older than the skater but only a young adult at this time.

Similarly, through the internet, by accident I found a Future life (for whom I am a past life). We have identical preferences in clothing, and if a picture tells a thousand words, we are very much alike in other ways. We like young children, we are both goal oriented etc etc.

She is a friend of a friend on facebook, so we never met. I have the feeling it may remain that way. The younger version of me is still very busy living this life than to be reflecting on anything by looking back. She is busily trying to put her mark on this world.

Another version of me, I just Googled...once the realization hit that she could be living a life very closely related. I could not believe that every thought that I had contemplated in this life, she had actually done/lived. I told someone once that had I been younger and wiser, I would fly a fighter jet. She did it. Lately I was wondering whether I could manage driving a bus (like the size of a school bus). I have driven trucks before, but only small ones. Well, this lady has a commercial driver's license and can drive the vehicles I only thought of. Oh, yes, she added the motor cycle to that too. She also holds a job in aviation, which both of us shared to a degree with meticulous attention to detail.

So, I am very very excited about past lives, as one can learn a lot about themselves. I just think it can go in both directions.

One benefit to me finding out about these future lives is that I am not sitting here frustrated and continuing to think that I have to drive a school bus, drive a motor cycle, or sad moments about the fighter I never flew, because I am experiencing it through another right now in this moment, as I am thinking it.

So watch what you wish for. We are all connected. You wish it, and you or one of your other selves is experiencing it pretty much as you think it.

So for me the answer to the question above would be: I cried more when I became familiar with my past lives, but am very very excited watching my future lives.


updated by @km: 07/04/17 01:01:59AM
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@km
01/20/14 01:54:20PM
90 posts

Reading request


New Age

You are doing all the right things. Get in touch with who you are. All the other things will follow. That much I know for sure. You will get a gut feeling when you are thinking of doing something but it really is not your heart's desire.

If you are a heavy thinker like I am, shutting down thoughts to meditate won't come easily. If that is the case, try activities like Tai Chi or Karate or even Calligraphy where you are forced to concentrate on your physical movements. This allows your brain some break from the constant thinking, trying to figure things out. I did not think one could think too much, but looking back, I see it. We can get caught up in excessive thinking. That can cause not only worry but anxiety.

All is well. There is a plan. You are contributing even if it seems like you are doing nothing. That used to be my biggest fear "accomplishing nothing" and this strange sense that I would somehow run out of time.

Need to go for now, but you know where to find me.

KM
@km
01/20/14 11:35:49AM
90 posts

Reading request


New Age

I am starting to pick up something simply through our interaction and notes going back and forth Gin C. That is why I wrote the long "bit" that is above.

What I am picking up (about you), without divulging something that is confidential, is that although your conscious self is not aware of this, you are currently involved in some real "selfless" work.

There is a purpose even in your fatigue in making this personality work. That is all I can say without interfering with your course. But now it is even more certain that either I have been or my former self has been exactly where you are.

Some things I can't say with more certainty as I am still learning about all this.

KM
@km
01/18/14 09:14:08PM
90 posts

Discovering past lives


New Age

After the past lives revelation, as fascinating as I find this whole thing to be, I had to return to my current life with undivided focus. I am told that that is the way to continue the Tao. One should not spend too much time thinking forward or BACK but work the NOW.

Learning about my past lives helped put some things into perspective. It answered some of the puzzling WHY questions that I had about myself. However, that revelation would have probably not come had I sought past life recall but ignored the work I came here to do.

You are right about repeating until we learn a lesson. In that respect being patient is a disadvantage. After experiencing a plane crash myself in a former life, and seeing people close to me die who were much younger than me, left me with survivor's guilt that pretty much flooded my current life.

Eventually what it came down to is this: I had to realize that I was beating myself up for no reason. I had been putting other people's needs first. I am told that one of the greatest obstacles that people need to work through is "self love". Well, at one point I simply did not have enough of that. As empaths, a lot of people here struggle with that. Without putting yourself on equal footing with others though you can't get to the higher spiritual realms.

So my recommendation is to keep making the choices people came to do in this lifetime. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep trying to solve the problems of daily life.

Meditation practices, Tai Chi, Yoga and so on are great ways to advance. I also remember reading a tremendous amount through the years. I am convinced that helped.

KM
@km
01/17/14 10:23:22PM
90 posts

Reading request


New Age

Your personality type can be a good as well as a bad thing depending on the situation. Good in a sense that you wont give up easily; you will persist. Bad in the sense that if you are not alined with your higher self, you could fight a very long battle (persisting fighting against yourself beyond the point that others would do) while thinking that you are battling outside forces. I not only sense your fatigue and frustration, I have lived it.

Let's address the point regarding your feeling about the free will first to see if that will help.

The things that you think you have less control over (lifes bigger issues) is actually the part of your life you are currently controlling to a greater extent.

Not everything is as it seems to us three dimensional beings. Theappearanceis just like you described above, but in reality our subconscious knows exactly where we are heading even if the conscious mind seems foggy and confused as to the real plan. It appears that some strange force is moving us, when in fact we are proceeding (moving ourselves forward) with life exactly as it has been planned (by us). (Good and bad situations alike)

I just commented to my husband today that an incredibly unfortunate event, had it not occur in the 80s, I would probably never have met him and would not have had the wonderful children that we had together. If you were to ask me at the time though, I was incredibly devastated by the circumstances, and saw nothing but misfortune in the event. At the time this issue seemed like one of lifes bigger issues, and a frustrating turning point at that. It appeared that nothing good would ever come of it.

However, dont think that I will now suggest that you simply need to be more positive. You and I both know that things are more complicated than that. Not only that, you probably have more positivity and drive than a lot of other people being an INFJ.

As my perception widened with enlightenment and I mean opened up a LOT, suddenly I saw how a seemingly so negative thing could have been for my own benefit. You would laugh or cry if you knew how many years passed since that one specific turning point and todays realization and appreciation/gratitude of what is. During those past years, I fought the battle against myself. I do my best to be in better touch with my higher self these days, but that does not mean that I am without problems to solve daily. In fact, if I told you that after enlightenment you will be faced with higher challenges, you will take smaller more cautious steps toward this supposed pure bliss. Yes there is a certain relief in it. One of the things that I am very grateful for is a better understanding of time itself. I used to drive myself absolutely crazy thinking that I would run out of time somehow to do something meaningful in my current life.

We have certain dreams and wishes that the subconscious recognizes as deep-seated wants.

The subconscious does not pick these up from your thinking but from your emotions or feelings instead. So, if you come upon something and it really moves you, that gets recorded. The higher self wants to experience more of these moments, so it keeps moving you toward the realization of these dreams, goals & wishes. The problem arises when we tell ourselves while thinking that we need that super high paying job, but our emotions tell the higher self that we are pretty content with the small things in life that dont take a lot of money at all. We are chasing what we THINK we want, while the higher self is lining things up to satisfy what we truly want. A terrible battle can get set into place where one is fighting with him/herself over what they should want rather than believing that what we want is possible and achievable.

Our 3D perception (the root of a lot of our problems) tells us that in the real world things dont work that way. It tells us that we cant have what we want. You hear people say that is not realistic. Well in the higher realms things DO work that way. We all are doing work there which suit us best. We do the things that we are best at, regardless of what value a third dimensional person would assign to our contribution.

If you are anything like me, this final thought may come as a relief:

Upon enlightenment the very first thing that changed was my perception of time. That took so much stress off of me. This realization that the way time works is nothing like we envision it in our three dimensional reality, and that there is plenty of time. Maybe not for us in this exact existence, but from the Souls perspective there is an infinite amount of time. For example a soul can come to Earth for a so-called mission for 20 some years and think nothing of it. In the overall scheme of things this is considered a short time compared to infinite time.

Your current suffering and inability to move past a certain obstacle signals more that you are not in alignment with what your higher self wants than a true unsolvable situation (which may be your current perception). To your current self, your present situation may seem that your choices have narrowed and there is no way out of your predicament.

You may not know the HOW part, or the specifics but know that anything is possible and the best thing you can do is keep putting one foot in front of the other each day.

This note got pretty long, so I will leave it here for now. Keep Googling, keep inquiring. It will result in a meaningful change in perception. For me it was a tremendous relief. Did it solve all my Earthly problems? NO It did change quite a bit how I approach those problems though. This started moving me forward again.

Things arent hopeless, just get your vehicle unstuck and you will be on your way.

Don't ever give up trying. Do start however to work smarter rather than harder.

;)

KM
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01/11/14 10:15:54AM
90 posts

Reading request


New Age

If you were to be familiar with the MBTI, I could probably explain it quicker. (try to Google it)

So, let's suppose I am now an ESFP personality type according to the MBTI. I believe this would have been so in my past lives as well. (Google to find out what ties some of these personality types together in their preferences). Understand however, that one could be an engineering mindset that constantly analyses, and yet in this life chose to express that through art. So that same Essence comes through but plays out in these various scenarios, yet part of it remains unchanged.

After researching the lives of some of the better known personalities that I have been, I do see an amazing amount of similarity in ESSENCE between these past people and MY- self that is communicating with you right now. Essence meaning a way of being that goes down to the Core. Preferences, Values, even introvertedness can be a recurring thing unless in one life you suddenly chose to come back to experience otherwise.

With so much about us pre-set, one wonders about free will. In a complicated way Free Will still exist.

KM
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12/29/13 08:51:40AM
90 posts

Reading request


New Age

The reason it may be safer to do these readings and dealing with someone off line is because a lot of people who do the reading could find it useful to have a photo of you. I find the chin up to eyes view most useful in recognizing people, but that is just me. Often though the way someone will wear their hair (even if to most it seems weird) can be a meaningful clue (especially when you have the tough decision to determine which of a set of twins were you.) Still, even the way one holds their body can be pretty darn meaningful.

What I did not realize until I started to see past lives (of my own and others) is how much information is right there in front of you in your own house. Play the private detective game and go around your own house as if you were someone else. [Understand that I am not advocating you letting strangers in your house to snoop around to do a reading...That is just not safe]. This is an exercise for you. What can you find out by looking around your house about the occupants. Some of the stuff they keep (even if they don't quite know why). Understand that you may still not know why you kept certain things even after playing this game, but you will start the process of learning about yourself.

I am ready to sort through and eliminate some clutter in 2014, however, now I know to take a snapshot of anything unusual I created or kept for a very long time even if the reason is currently unknown to me. Even if these appear to others nothing but "messes". In my case an accumulation of files turned out to be an "aha moment but not until I was already researching the life of a person I believed myself to be in a past life. Little did I know how much of our lives matched, down to these messes. But now these messes suddenly had meaning. They served as confirmation of my knowing, because I am the sort of person that needs that confirmation.

While we are on the subject of confirmation of information, I will mention here the following: Just today, I had this aha experience because I recognized someone as possibly the reincarnation of Jim Hanson from the Muppets. Then upon closer observation, I realized that the person I thought was a reincarnation of Jim Hanson was really his friend, who was exhibiting his personal physical characteristics of Jim Hanson to bring to his friend's awareness who he was in another life. (If this sounds complicated, well it can be) This is one of the reasons I don't jump into offering you a reading. I can tell a person what I see, from the physical, but some of the cases are not as straight forward as that. People often come back in teams, and they agree to do crazy things, such as taking on in a new life a friend's name (which will one day be a clue to the person), but not until it is time.

Although I have never been a painter, one winter I felt really strongly that I had to paint a little cottage with all the lights streaming from it. The cottage was surrounded by plants and flowers. Now some of you may think: Thomas Kinkade?? ...but that may not be the answer. Years from now a cottage just like the one you painted or very very similar will show up in a place totally unexpected (or so out of place that you take notice), and by that time you will not only know it is a sign, but you will have a knowing that you were the person that this object is leading you toward. (and NO, it was not Thomas Kinkade]

I was presented a piece of wood by a woodworker in my early 30's. It was a nice gift, but what I did not realize was that the shape of the rings on this unusual tree was the exact shape of an island in the Pacific Ocean. And the careful decoration the woodworker painstakingly added around the perimeter would add what was missing from it to complete a picture which will years later give me another "Oh My God! experience".

So, my recommendation is to find someone you can trust to do a reading, but keep safety first in mind. Second, do your homework, as any reading given to a person who is not ready for it could be just that a reading. Get to know who you are in this life. I wonder how many of us can answer that question.

I had a reading some 22 years ago by a Buddhist Monk, and some of it is just NOW making sense. Interestingly, I took notes (I think they may have even told me to do that). I kept that slip of paper for what seems like forever. I kept going back to it periodically. Each time I came back with "no, don't get it". Then suddenly this past year it made perfect sense. I also suddenly had the realization of the skill it took that Monk to know what he knew back then about me that I did not know about myself.

You have embarked on a very interesting journey. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will get to where you need to be. Pretty soon you will be reading for others.

(Sorry about the ramblings)

KM
@km
12/28/13 06:54:04AM
90 posts

Discovering past lives


New Age

A lot of you are looking for past lives for various reasons.

This came to me this morning, and I should post it before the business of my current life clouds the clarity:

There is a reason why most people in the third dimension are not aware of their past lives. There is a certain amount of work that needs to be done on yourself before you will have the knowing that you have been previous individuals. For some of you the past life revelation will come in bits and pieces, and for others as a flood so fast that you will have to take notes; or even a combination of both.

In the case of certain people, I do see the revelation of past lives to be more useful (sooner) rather than later. This would be in cases where there is severe fear of anything: flying, animals, narrow spaces, deep water and so on. My son would be a good example, who is a teen of driving age but was formerly unaware of why he had a lifetime of fear of vehicles and the road side. Not long ago it has been revealed to me why that is so, and I tried to share this information with him. Time will tell, whether that revelation will influence him any, as it is HIS own beliefs that will be meaningful to him, regardless of what others tell him. Even if that revelation is in the back of his mind, until HE sees its validity it does not mean a whole lot.

So, I think that similarly a Past Life Reading, as meaningful as it could be if conducted at the right time, may leave an individual unaffected for the time being, if they are not ready for that information. We all progress at our own pace.

I don't know why I felt some of you needed to hear that.


updated by @km: 03/04/17 08:25:28AM
KM
@km
12/28/13 04:58:56AM
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Somebody was obviously spaced out in this holiday rush. This should read: "attention to YOUR feelings, not anyone else's" ha ha ha.

The reason I say that, is because once you start doing that, some things will clear up for you that were not so clear before. Before past lives can be made known to you, there is a certain amount of things you must know about yourself.

So, be "kind to" and "know yourself". Happy New Year!

KM
@km
12/24/13 09:03:27AM
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Try to pay closer attention to our Feelings/Emotions. That will be of help before, during or after a reading.

KM
@km
12/04/13 04:37:18AM
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I am really glad the relationship is working out. I had an Aunt like that. It was always a pleasure to be around her. She was like a breath of fresh air in a crazy world.

KM
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12/03/13 07:48:33PM
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I am picking up something else here that I thought I would ask you to think about. This has nothing to do with how much alike the two of you might be.

What are the other co-workers noticing about this woman. Do you know? You said when you mentioned her name, they seemed to react.

What is your relationship with these co-workers? Are you good friends...get along etc? or you don't care much about their opinion.

It would be interesting to know how they feel about this person as well as how this woman relates to them. I would be interested in seeing how she behaves when you are not around. Did this woman's medication really need to be changed during your absence? Is that in the charts, or she just said so?

If we are dealing with a split incarnation, it is pretty unusual that both of you just happen to be in the same geographic area. My interaction with the young lady I mentioned is only possible because we can connect via the internet. Even so, I find that there are forces that keep our lives revolving in ways that we cannot get too close or involved. What we do have is a common person in our lives. I am related to the person, and she is friends with this person. When I see the relative this girl is not there. When she sees her friend I am not there. Looking at her Facebook pictures and the choices she makes, I realize why she is making those choices where she just makes them by instinct. For example, she just bragged about a coat she found that she felt she just had to buy. It was almost the exact replica of a coat I wore for years. Obviously, that is not the only similarity in our lives. In fact there are so many similarities that it goes beyond the usual probability.

I am glad that you have found a friend in this woman, however, do be very careful if you feel guilty when you are not there on your day off. Start paying attention to why you feel guilty. What is this woman telling you upon your return from your day off? How does that make you feel?

We could be dealing with something other than split incarnation here.

KM
@km
12/03/13 04:07:25PM
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It will be ok, even when she goes away. I lot of her secret wishes you will live on to complete. You can send me private message any time. It is great to find another person who is otherwise all math and science and was not an immediate believer, but was brought on board by experience.

That is what happened to me. I had the experience FIRST, then I did the research, and realized what I was experiencing. That is the amazing thing. Otherwise, a person like myself would have easily said that I was influenced by the things I have read about or formerly believed in. Since it happened the other way around, a lot of things can no longer be explained away as coincidence.

You just have to watch who you share things with. People are all in different stages in their lives. Some will understand, but most will not. Don't get yourself in work troubles because people may start thinking that you are nuts just because you are starting to have a different perception. If anything, this experience makes people more patient, understanding and tolerant.

When you realize that you have lived a life of a black man, a white president, a famous singer, a totally unknown woman in a poor house, or simply a housewife (all from different countries) and may have even been an American Indian Chief who met Queen Victoria, you will have very little prejudice.

Rushing off for now. Chat later.

KM
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12/03/13 03:47:54PM
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Be careful, as some people may not be ready for such information. I hate to have this cause weird feelings between the two of you. I have resolved that it is enough for me to know. The younger woman I found to be my split is doing pretty fine on her own.

I tried to contact an older plit, a woman right after my enlightenment experience, because I realized that I was following her (so to speak) some 29 years behind her. She never answered. I still think it was amazing that the realization came while I believe she may have been still alive. I had a difficult time understanding the concept at first too. I kept watching her videos, and the way she prompted people to acknowledge what she said was absolutely what I have been doing for years. I also did some research and found that the manner in which she cooked was very similar and she even disliked the same famous cooking personalities on TV that I did not think much of. So, for whatever it is worth, I am a believer. oh, she also had heart disease, which I don't have yet anyway, but I have had some severe unexplained chest pains this summer while driving home. Maybe she had passed on. I keep checking as she was known enough for someone to write about her passing.

That is another thing. When someone crosses over whom you may know from another lifetime, you could get depressed for what seems like absolutely no reason. Then one or two days later someone will say, did you know that so and so passed. Well, since I do know about that life of mine, suddenly the depression made every bit of sense. I was probably not quite in the present moment on that day.

Well, this will sound very very weird for those who are not ready for it. Just read it and process it at your own pace. What I said may not make much sense until years later, and that is perfectly ok.

KM
@km
12/03/13 03:31:55PM
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I may have sent you the wrong link. I was in a hurry. Look up Split incarnation or the woman Penney Peirce. Still rushing, but hope this helps.

KM
@km
12/03/13 08:22:16AM
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http://www.iisis.net/index.php?page=semkiw-reincarnation-past-lives-principles

I have met a young woman, whom I feel the same way about as you do about this woman. What I know, which she does not know, is that we are one and the same.

Read the above information on the link and see what you think and feel.

Things are speeding up in the universe, and due to the technology that we have, we are able to discover these connections which many years ago would have remained hidden.

KM
@km
09/09/13 06:46:27AM
90 posts

Hi, I'm new...


New Age

We have met before in another life. You were Queen Victoria back then. We may have even met in this life or if not, then I met the person that lives a parallel life with yours. If anything to do with "law" is one of your interests, or something you have done or wanted to do in the future, or always thought about, then this could be a fit. (but technically, that is not even a requirement). One can come back in another life to experience a totally different thing.

Queen Victoria in that life took me under her wings. Similarly the young woman who is either your double, or may even be you took me under her wings when I was in my 20's.

People who are close to us in one life, tend to come back to play certain roles in another life. Often they come back in the same or similar capacity.

Queen Victoria actually showed up in more than one of my previous lives. We have years that we don't see one another, but then periodically our paths cross again. This could be it. A brief connection before we continue with our own path.

This will sound totally crazy to someone who is not at the same point in their soul evolution as I am, but that is ok.

No action is needed on your part. Just a friendly hello coming your way. Maybe you want to read about Queen Victoria to see if some of her personality and characteristics resonate with you.

;)

KM
@km
09/08/13 06:50:26AM
90 posts

Hi, I'm new...


New Age

Nice to see you again, Queen Victoria. (Tamy)

KM
@km
07/22/13 08:31:32AM
90 posts

Evolving Children


New Age

Don't get sidetracked by all the information that we threw at you, and don't worry if some don't make too much sense at this time. Go back to that statement you made: "I never believed in reincarnation until he was born." You had a sudden knowing; don't ever doubt those deep feelings. This child is causing a shift in your thinking. Explore as much about reincarnation as you can. Remember you are the one with this child day-in-and-day-out. In a quick correspondence to strangers it is impossible to convey all that is going on with that child that makes you think or know that something is unusual with him.

Trust your feelings. You are on the right track. As for the MBTI, or Keirsey stuff, it will only help you in the knitty gritties, like helping your kid find a job as well as how to relate to him better (that is all the stuff of this life). Once you get a glimps of what is beyond, you realize that there is plenty of time, no need to rush, life goes on and on and on.

Wish you good luck. You sound like a great mom!

KM
@km
07/22/13 03:41:32AM
90 posts

Evolving Children


New Age

I am beginning to think I somewhat understand why we are made to forget our past lives.

It reads in the Tao Te Ching:

http://academic.brooklyn.cuny.edu/core9/phalsall/texts/taote-ex.html

"Understand the past, but attend the present;
In this way you know the continuity of Tao,
Which is its essence."

Those of us who suddenly recall various past lives, because we have completed a major lesson we came to accomplish in this life now have a difficult task to do. If we are to continue the Tao, we need to not so much forget what we know, but at least table it or put it aside, so that we may concentrate on this life and what is left to do in it.

This place we call Earth could simply be a healing place for Souls who are troubled by unresolved issues. Of course there are others interacting with us, who may have already resolved their issues but they chose to stick around to help others find their way.

Whether we are made to forget our old lives or by some dissociation don't recall it, as it would be too painful to bear, we come to this place to play out another version of that life, given free will to make different choices if we care to. Interestingly, most of us tend to repeat the important milestones anyway. In this way, one actually leads up to the same drama, for the most part, as in the previous life or lives; but possibly coming at it from a gently different angle the lessons might not be as painful.

An acquaintance of mine for example had a famous athlete for a son. (previous lives for both parent and child) That child died in an unexpected plane crash. The end result was that he never played that sport again and the parent may not have resolved the loss of the child. In this life that same child got to play as brilliantly as in the prior life, but his career was cut short by a disabling injury never to play again, rather than sudden unexpected death. Still, there is, I am sure a tremendous depression (for both parent and child) knowing that the child will not play that sport he so wanted to play professionally. If you see this play out from where I am looking, this is a mom and son who simply never been able to resolve that loss, so they are made to experience a slightly lesser version of that loss. This time at least her child is alive to pick up the pieces and do something else. However, I can tell you from personal experience that when your memory is wiped clean and you start over and get to that point that your child is only injured never to play again, initially you do think it to be the end of the world kind of loss. Then as you move on, with time you realize that it could have been worse. Then when you reach enlightenment, you relive the same thing again with all its emotions, but by that time you are relieved to know all. You can finally face it and still survive.

For those of you having any psychology background this will sound awfully familiar. Same for hypnotherapists. These professionals bring up issues of hurt (in a safe setting) in order that the mind can re-experience it under different conditions, so that the person can heal.

Children who come back knowing their past lives are probably at a similar point as I am now. The main issues of hurt have been either resolved or at least bearable, but there is still plenty to learn in this current existence. Like SnakeMedicine said there is also an opportunity to teach as well as comfort those who are still struggling to figure things out.

KM
@km
07/21/13 07:17:06PM
90 posts

Evolving Children


New Age

I wish you mentioned that earlier, as that sounds more like past-life recall. You are right about time will tell, when a child is only 5. You will have to watch what develops and sets as a consistent temperament. Of course hind sight is 20/20 and now I can say that even back then my son was a pretty strong personality. We had more battle of the wills, and he was less distractible from things he wanted to do then the other children. What stood out most to me though is that he did not appear to trust me. I said to myself: how will I ever teach anything to a child who does not trust me. Of course, I had to try. He was my Helen Keller and I became Anne Sullivan in more ways than one.

Games children play can be an interesting thing to watch.(Try keeping a journal) One of my kids used to draw what looked like maps that were in the shape of an airplane. He could not have been more than 2 or 2 . I did not know what that meant back then and for many years to come. I just recently learned that he was a famous navigator in another life. Our relationship in that life was pilot and navigator. In this life he continues to check to see if I am on time (not so much that I really need it), and whether we have enough gas in the car and alike. I used to think, how many 3 year olds are concerned about fuel levels in the car? It was odd, but I let it go. It was also odd that he never asked his Dad the same question. Come to think of it, he used to pick at age 4 what channel I would set our car radio to. I would be flipping the channels and he would tell me that one. That never happened when others were in the car, just when it was only the two of us. It used to be a bit amusing, and I am glad I made a mental note of it.

[Now reflecting on these things and what I know about his past life it all makes sense] Possibly due to faulty maps the navigator and his pilot never reached their destination and may have run out of fuel over the open ocean to be never found again. In this life he continues to check and double check as if it were his fault that the two of them perished in that other life. He is under the belief that if he had done a better job double checking the other person rather than trusting that person fully, things could have been different. Do you see the perfectionist in that? The plane is long gone, but he is continuing to see if he could do better even in another life? I believe that both the pilot and his navigator were perfectionists. Because all the World knows is that there were only two of them in that plane, no one suspects that there was a third hand in their disappearance.

Well, I did not mean to go down memory lane (especially crossing life times).

The temperament sorter could still be of help to you. Because the essence of a person seems to pass onto the new entity (from life to life), it is highly unlikely that your child would come back as a totally different temperament than what he experienced before.

The things that seem odd and insignificant could have much greater importance later in life. So take a notebook and off and on jot down some of the happenings. Although some things will be just so odd, that you WILL remember them regardless. Like me with the three years old asking about fuel levels, or the toddler that shouts out in a foreign language (with perfect accent, mind you) in the middle of the night.

KM
@km
07/21/13 12:27:27PM
90 posts

Evolving Children


New Age

I do have one of these children. What helped me most to understand him is this. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ISTJ see also: Keirsey Temperament Sorter (especially for ISTJ types)

My son (who I believe to be an ISTJ type) and I lock heads more often than the other children, but that has to do with the fact that we are slightly different but both very strong types. He clearly likes to lead. I am more intuitive, which means I read peoples' needs. He is not that way oriented, and when I express out loud that I sense a need coming from someone, he laughs that I think too much of myself, and that I claim to be a mind reader. Well, luckily I am not there yet with my claims, but I do have some abilities that I wish he had, and some days I would not mind having the abilities he possesses. So there is mutual respect.

Your child may be different and aware but it may not necessarily be in the ways you are thinking. My 16 year old who resembles your child for example clearly brought forth some anxieties from a past life, which I did not become aware of until less than a year ago. He is not aware of his past lives. When I pointed out that his fear of cars is really a fear of the road side (not the cars), he just brushed it off, because my explanation for my theory was not factual enough for him. It was my inner knowing as a result of an enlightenment process, that if he were aware of past lives, he would have an easier time accepting. I find my son not to be aware of his past lives. Yet in most respects that you describe he sound like your child.

The more you learn about how he operates best, the less you will lock heads. We still do. In fact it happened just yesterday. ISTJs are very self-directed and good luck trying to tell them at an early age that just because they are highly intelligent they may be disregarding information from a mature adult that could benefit them. They are highly focused and if something is not related to their area of concentration, they can rudely reject it. I keep telling my kid that it is the "rudely" part that I object to, not that he is discriminating as to what information to accept or reject.

You sound intuitive though, and that ability will be a tremendous help to you. If this child was sent here to work out some past life issues, you are more likely to be able to assist him with that than another personality type. If you don't look up the information I referred to, you will likely come to that later in life on your own. (intuitives tend to find the information they need one way or another). I just thought I save you the time and hassle as well as some unnecessary frustrations.

Parents like you who are interested in where their kids are coming from and how and what they are thinking will have less problems when the teen years come around. Now is the time to do your homework. By the time they are sixteen good luck trying to reach them.

My toughest task with this youngster is to teach him humility as well as compassion. Time will tell if I will succeed.

Good luck.

KM
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05/12/13 06:07:11AM
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When something is way too much of a coincidence as you try to brush off the information as just your imagination, is how you know.

When past lives were made known to me, the information flooded me so quickly that I had to take notes, as I could barely keep up with all these people who were presented to me as possibly being me. (some of the proper names I never heard of, but when I got to read about these people their nick names immediately struck a chord with me). Then as I researched the ones that were known enough to have had things written about them, I could not believe not only how much I related to these people, but that I knew how they felt, what they thought during those historic events/conflicts that were described. Some words I have been using jokingly, I did not realize came from past lives and they were actual words from a foreign language. My reaction in crisis was so very similar to the reaction of these past lives. These similarities and character traits carried over in things that one may not necessarily even admire about that historic person, or about themselves (character flaws etc).

My past life recall was not intentional (at least not to my conscious being), so I have very little advice as to how to go about inducing it. As I read about other people's experiences, I realize that I have actually done similar things or have gone through the things people describe, I just did not give it much conscious thought at the time. i.e. moving meditation like Tai Chi, Kundallini Yoga, Sitting Meditation. When I do moving meditation, there is a certain pose that I absolutely love. Now I realize that the reason I like it is because it bring tremendous focus. It came from the days I used to practice Japanese style Karate.

Well I need to rush off. Sorry. (I just came upon this post and did not know if it was too late to respond)

KM
@km
09/28/12 05:18:15AM
90 posts

This empathic truth spell I'm under


Empath

I have found that those who want to take advantage will find even the not-so-personal things you tell them and use it to their advantage. ha ha Still, I guess it is good to be somewhat on guard. Just don't get so uptight that you cause yourself undue anxiety.

 
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