Forum Activity for @peter

Peter
@peter
09/13/16 09:07:32PM
18 posts

How do you ground yourself?


Empath

I retired form corporate meetings years ago. I feel your pain there.

My fix was simple. I set a separate goal for myself instead of joining the "group psyche" found in corporate meetings. Its a job, its not your life, its a tool to let you move to a higher plane.

Trust me when I say no one will remember you 3 months after you leave that world, they will all be still riding that train to pain in search of financial gain.

Refocus on the positives in your world and put the work issues and hurts on a shelf, work with them for 8 hours a day then put them away and go hug those entities whom you "do" love.

Its just another shield you need to build.

Peace.

Peter
@peter
09/13/16 09:00:07PM
18 posts

Dating


Empath

I have never found the best relationships in my life, they have always found me.

When I live safely within my boundaries and energy circles, just growing on levels other than with a companion soul, the best souls have entered my life and made a positive difference.

I never do worry, blame, or jealousy, when I feel these emotions I block them right away and ask myself why? This has given me the power over my own life to recognize the beautiful things the universe sends my way and lets me keep.

Seek less, share more with no expectation of return, live more.

Peter
@peter
09/13/16 08:44:21PM
18 posts

Having trouble with my intuition lately....


Empath

Work , work some more then tomorrow do it all over again. Introspection is useless when you are weak and often leads to darker places.

Be in the moment, every moment and work work work.

You will find your path again, most likely when you stop seeking it.

ThisĀ  method has always worked for me, my entire life of 61 years.

Peter
@peter
04/09/16 05:51:27PM
18 posts

Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too


Empath

Love is not finding a soul who meets your checklist. You think you can pick someone to love? When has that ever happened successfully? Sorry but the truth is that love chooses us we don't get to choose it. Be who you are and stop stressing over where you are not. Then if love.picks.you great, if not you still get to be you and that's the best we can hope . for.
Peter
@peter
04/08/16 07:52:58PM
18 posts

Anyone feel comfortable with discussing Empaths in the BDSM community?


Empath

I am active in my local BDSM community. I apologize if this topic offends anyone, that is not my intent. I invite no comments on the lifestyle or its workings here.

Traditionally for myself I have been a loner with respect to my BDSM self but in recent years have found myself being more and more active in the community. The movie 50 shades of grey a few years back prompted a flood of newbies entering into the realm and as such communities nationwide have seen an influx of seekers, players etc. I myself have met dozens of newcomers and am surprised as to how many are empaths and most all of them have been unaware of their empathic selves. The ratio is far greater than that which I encounter in my daily "vanilla" interactions.

Has anyone else noticed this?

Is there some connection between being an empath and the workings within BDSM?

Should this discussion move towards anyones sexuality or anything dark or negative then I will remove it.


updated by @peter: 01/13/17 05:01:54PM
Peter
@peter
04/04/16 02:11:40PM
18 posts

Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too


Empath

I have been with my gf for six years. We are both empaths but we have a bdsm 24/7 relationship to give us the structure we need to keep from exhausting each other haha.life is good. Stay open even if it hurts you can learn and being closed is just slow suicide for empaths.
Peter
@peter
04/04/16 12:24:08PM
18 posts



Something changed. The universe is not random. When this happens I call it being out of the flow for me. I usually work out tune out and eat better and soon I am back in the flow and happy.
Peter
@peter
04/03/16 10:10:57AM
18 posts

Gotta Ask


Empath

If you consider that being an active empath and karma are linked then charging for readings and also being willing to pay for that service lends itself to the overall ying/yang of the universe. Balance as it were. Some souls can't validate or accept advice unless the have paid something for it and mostly they measure their lives by money so the pay-for-peace formula works for them. Not much different from the billions on earth tithing weekly to assure a seat on the boat to the hereafter, except for emapth readings its an agnostic pay as you go path.

Peace.

Peter
@peter
03/30/15 06:09:54PM
18 posts



Time spent manipulating other souls is time not spent on your path. It seems frivolous to me. If i spend time reading others and reacting to only them I missed any chance of understanding me at that time...I have given up control to whatever they might be feeling and whatever base need or idea I propose. No good can come for staying on that path for long. In a short time my world would be the very noise I seek solace from.

Peter
@peter
03/30/15 05:36:47PM
18 posts



It affords me a clarity in my day to day dealings with the world that non-empaths don't have. Hence my view is often other than the mainstream....I find this to be comforting when another view gets acknowledged. not that I try to preach, exact opposite, just nudging conversations and thoughts in yet another directio is comforting to me.

Peter
@peter
01/10/13 11:02:18AM
18 posts

So why would empathy diminish?


Empath

Cmon Kate....take a breath. Your description sounds like an anxiety attack. I used to have them all the time. Decisions and choices cant really be taken back just redirected...its a flow concept. As I got older I realized my anxiety attack moments ( caused by regrets about perceived poor decisions) were totally manageable by mastering my shielding. Maybe what you are feling isn't all internal, if your shields are off it may be external and just unregognizable to you right now. Refocus your worry towards understanding, be alert, explore what you feel don't just get caught up in it, This may be hard but its better than replaying the story over and over. do the things you love for a bit, be good to you..this WILL pass.

Peter
@peter
01/09/13 05:53:28PM
18 posts

So why would empathy diminish?


Empath

sounds like you discovered a machine gun, went out and fired a few thousand rounds and got a headache from the boom. Its cool, shielding is a skill not a tool or weapon. Too much and we feel isolated too little and we are overwhelmed. AND it varies from empath to person to situation.....hence the skill thats needed. Skillful with crowds? Cool....skillful with intimacy and others?....Skillful with the unknown?......takes time, and life expereince to fill your quiver. Adn no you can lose your empathy, you might box it up and put it on the shelf for a bit, but lose it, haha.....nope ain't gonna happen unless its what YOU want.Relax develope your shielding better and I am betting you'll be a bright star on your own horizon again.

Peter
@peter
12/18/11 10:08:24AM
18 posts

Well happy merry christmas holidays......whatever....


Empath

YESSSSS now dats waht im talkin bout!!!

Peter
@peter
12/17/11 08:28:08PM
18 posts

Well happy merry christmas holidays......whatever....


Empath

I was very active on site today.....been too long since I was here. I was dissapointed by how many negative postsI read.....wow universe got you down?......come on fellow soldiers of the empath army....aren't there anything earth shatteringly great things going on?.....any recent Santa sightings? The dark on the horizon isn't going away by itself....we of the empath army need to push back in a positive way. Yeah I know the normals out number us 100 to 0.1 but if we are going to get to level nine of this game we need to make the dark run for the horizon.......so come on chime in here with some holiday cheer. I baked cookies and cooked meatballs today....boy does my house smell weird..and listened to John Lennon's Happy Christmas ( war is over)...I nominate John Lennon as head of the empath army...haha.


updated by @peter: 02/09/17 02:16:13AM
Peter
@peter
12/17/11 10:58:30AM
18 posts



Anger is the weak empaths first defense...we have all been there. Angry at them angry at yourself. You are smart and strong enough to realize what went wrong and to realize you were taking it out on your mom for no reason......soooooooooooo WHY ARENT YOU STRONG ENOUGH TO STOP THAT!!????......answer......because you are a wimp and after anger, whining about empath agorophobia is really a sign that you have along way to go. So.....listen up. Get prepared BEFORE you go into such situations; the energy you use up being angry and then whining about it so MUCH better spentin preparation AND you just might score that pair of pants that makes your butt look great!!! Meditate as you drive to the crowded places...when the bad feelings are felt FEND them OFF..go back to your car reset and go in again...u need to develope this skill ASAP...being a functioning empath is HARD WORK......focus on why you are in that crowd....and move thru it.....smile as you go.....stay in your flow...we are EMPATHS....not vessels and conduits for other souls worries; stand up for what YOU feel...peace.


updated by @peter: 12/30/16 01:10:55AM
Peter
@peter
05/20/10 09:39:46AM
18 posts

Do you often feel defensive?


Empath

When we as empaths take on a feeling which interferes with one close to us...perhaps it is too much and we should re-evaluate creating such a storm for them. Seeing as they cannot assist in a productive way for us, mayhaps we should place our concerns of it in another place rather than judging them for their lack of being like us.....? Not all we feel should be shared........what nourishes one can starve another.
Peter
@peter
03/06/10 03:04:02PM
18 posts

A moment...


Arts

To feel is to live,

To live is learn,

To learn is to know,

To know is to love.


updated by @peter: 03/04/17 08:38:32AM
Peter
@peter
03/02/10 10:20:12AM
18 posts

Why are you here? The story behind the Empath Community...


Empath

Finally a framework to help me define my reactions to the world! Thanks for creating this crossroads for us to interact.So much to know.....so delicate the balance....a formidable task...comfortably undertaken here..