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Eva
@eva
06/04/16 03:38:43PM
13 posts

there's no relief


Empath

Thanks Kristen for this post and Matthias your reply was really helpful :)
Eva
@eva
03/20/16 10:50:36PM
13 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

I truly believe that surpression leads to regression. If we do not feel, we are not alive. Things like anger are secondary emotions and if you allow yourself a moment to feel it and understand it only then can you transform it. Even those rare sociopathic thoughts have their purpose. Understand why you feel it and you will also understand that you will not act upon it because you know right from wrong. Living sheltered or "in hiding" is holding your true self back. Fear is also a good emotions to feel and understand because it keeps you guarded and shielded it's own way when you transform it. That is the key, having control of your emotions and control over transforming them into something constructive. And recognizing your energy field and when somebody is intruding on it should make you react accordingly. But that's just my opinion. A good example: I work with traumatized dogs. People tend to protect them from anything that scares them. I on the other hand know that if an animal is panicking in a situation where there is no need to panick you let them ride it out. Once they reach the peak of their panick and realize nothing bad is happening, they slowly start coming back to their senses and the fear subsides.
Eva
@eva
03/20/16 09:18:25PM
13 posts



I love the way you think! It's beautiful and never let anyone EVER make you think any different, oh and I'm in btw :)
updated by @eva: 01/21/17 08:29:57PM
Eva
@eva
02/08/16 12:28:05PM
13 posts

Interesting video & article


Empath

Realized I really suck at picking the right words so I'll keep this short;Very grateful someone shared this article with me and the video was mind blowing to process. Wanted to pay it forward by sharing it here IN CASE others feel the same way I do. If you don't that perfectly okay. That's what that little X is for at the top right part of your screen :) information is meant to be shared, what you retain and what you discard is your choicehttp://lonerwolf.com/healed-whole-empath/https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3deWDpaHB0I
updated by @eva: 01/19/17 07:09:58AM
Eva
@eva
02/05/16 03:54:41PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

You are misunderstanding me, I'm just SHARING what I discovered, my only intent was to show happiness is possible. Not telling anyone what they are supposed to do and or how to live their lives, just sharing my outlook. And the only thing I think I stressed is that we need each other. As for it being simple, I never said that either.

As for your comment on domestic abuse that was way out of left field. Sorry you feel that way
Eva
@eva
02/04/16 08:54:16PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

K here is the video but I only got 16 minutes into it.http://youtu.be/Y_yxGhKYlP0Now let's be clear, unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional "sacrificing" of oneself to help someone. Unconditional love, to me, means accepting a soul for who they are and respecting the reasons for why they are who they are. We don't NEED to give them the shirts off our backs or put ourselves in bad situations. By being ourselves and talking to them and showing them the same respect we show others may be just enough. Sometime something we say to them will all of a sudden click 2 years later and suddenly they understand or stuff like that but also by being nice to them you save yourself the guilt of being mean, cold etc and you don't have any negative feelings to deal with. As I've said before I'm not good with words and I don't know proper term but here goes:Lately I feel like the light I would feel in my heart/chest when meditating has expanded and grown to the point where it's like running tap or maybe a air vent would be a better example. That vent is constantly blowing out hot air :0) to the point where any dust or dirt trying to enter just gets pushed out of blown away. (I'm still making conscious efforts to "send off" that negative energy sometimes but live looks much better from this perspective and I'm calmer and happier. Here's another example my parents bickered ALL the time. It was draining. I stopped going over and avoided anytime alone with them. My dad in his mind was never wrong and I sensed so much anger. Anyways to make a long story short after I changed my perspective I realized that anger I was picking up on was not his. I looked deeper and realized the true problem. I waiting it out for my gut to tell me when and if I should act and that day came. One simple and innocent yet awesome conversation later and they haven't argued in weeks. (I also stuck some agates in there plants)And the part about negative energy take for example what I learned from watching my many nieces and nephews grow up, the ones that had sanitary freaks as parents where the ones that got sick more often. If you protect yourself from every microbe out there then there's a good chance when you get into contact with the smallest of things in may just knock you right out.Be well everyone, even if we don't agree :)
updated by @eva: 11/24/16 08:37:07AM
Eva
@eva
02/03/16 08:01:19PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

Thank you for sharing that Moon, makes you look at people like that in a different light. As for the video I've never went back to look for it again, which means it was probably not all that special but I guess it was impotant for me at that time. It was the first positive thinking video I had found and I think people should post a bit more inspiring, positive thinking stuff on the main page just to show the newcomers it's not all about feeling the bad and dealing with the bad :)
Eva
@eva
02/03/16 07:51:38PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

Hello Bing, thank you for starters for the quotes I love them. Secondly you have an amazing talent of picking the perfect words to lift someone up, I'm guessing that's why your site admin but THANK You nonetheless!
Eva
@eva
02/01/16 08:38:54PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

Its so relieving to know people agree we should try to love unconditionally. I think only saint-like people can do it without effort. Cat Whisperer I really appreciated the saying, 2 moons is so much more reasonable then the American expression of a day in another man shoes :) I consider myself the dog whisperer, wonder if there's any coincidence human + connecting with nature=better understanding, more harmony.

And yes Goodhealingenergy I agree with what you said "the sin would be to act or think negatively because of those feelings", that's exactly my point. Again my post had nothing to do with you, I've always enjoyed reading your posts and even though you are a good looking man in your pic there I didn't pic up conceit LOL :) If anything you opened the door for me to vent about some of the young ones I've come across that "Oh I hate that person", and other stuff I can't even repeat. And I really love how we interacted there, I said I didn't watch all of the video, and you in return said in maybe you didn't explain yourself properly, I wish everyone was like that. Just curious what your thoughts are on approaching a client about the bad energy they are eminating or holding on it or just what you see in them? Nay or yay? I did it once 3 yrs ago and I'm still not sure if it was a smart move or not
Eva
@eva
01/31/16 08:39:45PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

Sorry forgot to mention; you will only be someone's punching bag if you allow youself to be. Offer your hand to help but you can't force them to take it. If they don't, walk away, it's not their time yet. Also we have a tendency to spot the most severe cases or most lost cases. Don't mistake your radar warning as a call to help them. They are like tornado, once they touch ground they will suck you up and toss you around and you'll be lucky if they set you back down unscathed. I don't know if this will make sense to you but anyone that has really messed me up has always at one point or other giving me that look, kinda like how a dog eyes a steak. Like any other species, when something looks at you like that, run or play dead!
Eva
@eva
01/31/16 07:56:09PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

It's a working progress my dear. I won't lie, I still have moments but I choose what thoughts I let it now. As I feel an emotion coming I ask myself will this serve me any good and if the answer is no then I don't even allow myself the time to process the thought. I push it away. Loving unconditionally does take effort but much less then hating unconditionally and that's much more draining too! Be patient with yourself, no one is perfect!
Eva
@eva
01/31/16 03:20:16PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

Thank you Trevor. I didn't realize how long it was, immodium doesn't make anything for my verbal problem. I edit it and took out all the "me me me" so it's much shorter now :)
Eva
@eva
01/31/16 01:13:59PM
13 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

Let me start by saying that I posted a video a few nights ago (must admit I only watched about half of it before my eyes started to close) and I stopped watching, posted it to this site and went to bed. The video I am speaking of,in case you didn't see it, basically spoke of accepting all people around us and having unconditional love. No one liked it and that made me kinda sad that no one felt they could embrace everyone. Then someone even posted that they don't agree with me and how can we love unconditionally and accept all people (and no offense to the person that posted and with all due respect my post here is NOT because of you nor directed at you in any way). The point of not being able to embrace murderers I understand but I liked this video because it can serve me in times when I get bad feelings about people. I used to get overwhelmed sometimes when I was out in public, people would disgust me or irritate me. I used to get so angry that people have no respect for one another and behave so badly. But then I got to thinking " Who are we to judge people?" We are equal beings and I don't think of myself as better then ANYONE. Is that why we have our gifts so we can "persecute" or deem someone not a good person? Isn't there enough divide amongst the population already? I don't think people are born bad(except of course for really bad people like murders, etc) I think a string of events or bad luck or both cause a person to make the wrong decisions and/or go down the wrong path. Heaven knows my temper and bottled up emotions have gotten the best of me at times and I've said things I've regretted and I was UGLY. If I didn't have such a great family maybe I would be a different person. Had I succumb to the negativity and hatred maybe I would have been a bitter, rude, mean old hag, does that mean I do not deserve love and compassion? Is that why we are the way we are to judge and stick labels on good people who are just lost, or haven't found themselves and we avoid them at at all costs as if they didn't exist, didn't matter? Again murders and pedophiles and such are a different breed, and Im excluding them as they are born sick and/or evil. What about the souls that are here cause they still need to grow and learn and the bad things they are doing are for a reason? We can only truly see the error in our ways when we hit rock bottom, maybe these people need to be this way so they can have their revelation (s). Some people it's okay to care about, others not? They aren't from the same creator that we are from? Or originating from the same place as us? I should get to my point.From November since I learned about empaths and why I've been feeling like this all my life until last week, I feel like I've been running around a dark 300 room mansion with fogged up goggles on and a dim flashlight, frantically opening every door trying to find the room I fit in. So obsessed with what "I" am supposed to be doing, how "I" am supposed to do it, how "I" be can stronger. How can "I" make myself feel better. See my point here I, I , I or should I say me, me, me. I mean yes we need to understand, heal and love ourselves first before we can be of good to anyone else but when our life solely revolves around our needs and we control our environment to the point where we stop interacting I don't think that is healthy either. I think the ones that have gotten past the What can I do for me and asked instead what can I do for others are the ones that are truly happy and see the big picture, they are on the right paths. Truth is doesn't matter what we choose to call ourselves or what category we fit in or even how "strong" you are. What matters is that you are awake & aware.I was cooking Friday night and thinking about all the things I needed to do the next day when suddenly it was as if time stopped. I was hearing a narration?? There was no voice but I can't explain it but this is what I picked up;We, (the awake) are intricate pieces of a huge puzzle. ALL of us are beautiful, complicated, unique pieces of a puzzle and each and every one of is equally as important and needed in order to see the big picture. I saw a type of map with points on it making these webs all over the world like marking organizations or gathering points? We are meant to group together in our communities and start helping our communities because only together can we actually be powerful. Together our light will shine so bright that it will spread across the whole world faster then any of our earth known viruses. Our light will be infectious. I saw the inside of a building, kinda had a community house feel to it cause people where preparing baskets to give out to the needy. Not sure if this was everyday thing or after a catastrophe but I saw beautiful white light around the people's aura as they bent to put stuff in the boxes, baskets ?? the light moved with them. I saw a marquee ( old cinema signs) and it said HELP. Now I don't know if that what was pertaining to what we are supposed to do or what we are supposed to call ourselves cause then I started processing wordsHealers, Empaths, LightworkersWe are all the same AWAKE. What we choose to call ourselves doesn't matter, the important thing is that we shine our light and show the compassion and love that has been bottled up inside us waiting to burst out. Regular people are ready for it but the ways of society makes it hard for them to break out of the shell they have put themselves in. Political correctness, fear, apathy, peers ridiculing them, are all amongst the evil influences that have a hold on good people, stopping good people from taking a stand and changing things to how they would want it to be. Some souls spend their lives thinking there are no good souls left. People like us are more "powerful" in numbers, together our good will and energy will make others want to do the same. Together we collectively have the answers to all our questions. Alone we can heal a few, together our limitations are boundlessI don't think what I saw will be happening anytime in the really near future. I know it's because there are some of us who are too self absorbed right now, I even got the feeling or vision of a person rehearsing in a mirror chest all puffed up from the large ego?? Can it be I'm not sure if some empaths are full of themselves, but I got feelings of vanity and pride, and then I felt like these people were surrounded by other empath and slowly the circle got larger and larger away from them, as if they will be discovered and "ostracized".That's what I felt and that's how I feel. I know this to be true, I feel it in every fiber of my being and I know in order for me to get rid of the tightening in my chest/throat I needed to get this out there. I told myself let it go and if I really need to post it I will get a sign and then I got this is my newsfeed when I logged into Facebook trying to get my mind on something elsehttp://uk.businessinsider.com/how-to-be-happier-according-to-matthieu-ricard-the-worlds-happiest-man-2016-1LOVE & lightEva
updated by @eva: 03/09/17 03:49:35PM