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Esah
@esah
07/12/10 07:19:44AM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


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I would just like to say thank you to those of you who have emailed me with your impressions. You are so giving and I hope that this will bring the closure that Tara and her family need.I think this case, more than any other, has served to develop my empath skills the most. I learned not only to 'feel' what Tara was feeling but the other people involved with this case too. There were a few people who did not want this case to be solved and this was very confusing to me when I realized it because they 'appeared' to be major helpers in getting info gathered, when in fact they were deciding what info to keep and what to through out, depending on whether it made their friend look guilty of not. I kept getting feelings that I shouldn't trust them, all the while they were leading the searches and many other efforts. When I finally stopped giving my info to them, they turned on me in a bad way. The learning never stops does it? I just pray that we find Tara one day and then many people will rest easier.
Esah
@esah
07/10/10 03:48:02PM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


Empath

Tara was an empath as well. I think that's why I connected so strongly to her. At first I thought she was alive, but after a few months I discovered, intuitively, that she had passed. This was very hard to accept.Tara gave so much to her students and to her community. She was well loved and respected for all that she gave to help out those in need.She would have made a great member on this site. She sure could have used the loving support that is here for her. She never did figure out how to handle it. She was an emotional mess most of the time and if she had only seen how she was absorbing others' energies, she could have been so much happier.
Esah
@esah
07/10/10 03:45:29PM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


Empath

Thank you both. I will just put her name here so that if anyone else would like to help they can.Here are a few details:Tara Faye Grinsteaddisappeared 10-22-05from Ocilla, Gaborn 11-14-74If you like to tune in without knowing any details, then don't read the next paragraph.Tara was a high school teacher in Irwin County, Ga. Her long term boyfriend, Marcus Harper, and her had broken up a few weeks prior to her disappearance. She was last seen at a bar-b-que with friends on the night of her disappearance.If you don't want to respond publicly that is fine, just privately message me. I will promise you that if you feel strongly about anything that you receive, that I will make sure it gets to the right people.
Esah
@esah
07/10/10 02:20:13PM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


Empath

Hi Roxy. I did get to read most of your original post before I had to leave. Thank you. And this post is good too. You make a lot of good points. I have said many times when the case just won't see to get closed, "God's time is not my time". I have also tried receiving through my emotions rather than relying solely on the pictures and impressions that I have received. This adds another avenue of information but at the end of the day, when I have added all of it up, I still feel short of the answer I need.There has definitely been times that I could see that I was there for the family and keeping their hopes up when I was sure that the person was alive. However, I almost never deal with the families directly. I usually only work with law enforcement, mainly because most of the time the results are not good.The one case that has just baffled me is now 4 1/2 years old. So many of my details have been verified by the FBI and the local sheriff but, it still lacks that one final detail that will connect all of the dots. I often say that I am fixing a 10,000 piece puzzle. I get only so many pieces and I may not be able to make out the complete picture with what I get. So I hope that when I turn my info over to LE, they will be able to fix enough pieces to bring it all together. So far that has not happened.
Esah
@esah
07/10/10 10:36:02AM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


Empath

Yes, Ashi. It's about Allison Dubois and she wrote a book about her life. I found it quite helpful. I may need to read it again. There might be something in it that I missed or need right now. Thank you.
Esah
@esah
07/10/10 09:52:24AM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


Empath

Hi Mark, and thank you for sharing your insights. I think you need one more degree after your name though! lol I have tried both but would like to hear more from you. I have backtracked on one particular case so much that I'm dizzy. I have literally hundreds of pages of remote viewing details and psychic info. I have felt all that I think I can feel from her and I still am missing that one connection to the person who took her. The physical proof, evidence or whatever you want to call it.
Esah
@esah
07/10/10 07:19:07AM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


Empath

Thanks Angel and Ron. I have tried to take a step backwards and see things from other perspectives as well. I was told in one message that I need to tune in to the 4 aspects in order to know if a person can be found. They are 1) victim 2)family 3)law enforcement 4)perpetrator (if there is one). they told me that if one of these does not want closure then it will be hard to get. In one case the perpetrator's higher self told me where he put a body. I guess he needed to be caught and she needed to be found.But as far as all of the other cases, I just feel so lost with how to close them. Angel, I like your comment about doing my best a letting it go. And I do try to remind myself of that, but when I connect to the victim and can see so clearly what happened, it is so hard to let that go.Thanks for your insights and I will check out that website you go to Angel.
Esah
@esah
07/09/10 05:39:59PM
151 posts

Finding missing people using your gift


Empath

I have been working on missing persons cases for over 20 years now and I would like to know if anyone else has used their empath gift to do this.

The reason I ask is because there always seems to be a missing detail in a case that I am not able to get. I can clearly see what happened and 'feel' empathically what the person experienced when they were taken, murdered or running away. But I am always feeling like I don't have all the info that I need to close a case. It is so frustrating.

Does anyone know what I might be missing? I feel that I am too close to it all to see what it is. Many times I have clearly seen where the person is, but law enforcement still isn't able to find them. They are very open to me and my empath/psychic gift and I have worked with many different agencies across the country. It breaks my heart for the missing person and the families and friends left behind that don't get closure. It's hard to feel that things are so clear and yet it doesn't bring the person home.

Not sure if you can even understand what I'm trying to say. I just wish I knew what was missing in my ability that falls short of a conclusion. I will greatly appreciate any thoughts you might have.

Esah

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@esah
07/07/10 04:24:25PM
151 posts

How do you cheer yourself up.....


Empath

OMG Christine, I am still laughing. Out loud too! LOL Thank you. I needed that.
Esah
@esah
07/07/10 10:53:18AM
151 posts

How do you cheer yourself up.....


Empath

You've all made some very good points. Thank you. It's helped me to see more ways of taking care of myself.I see a shopping trip in my near future!! lol I just love hiding out with a bunch of people I don't know. Once in a while a total stranger will start telling me their life story, which is fine, but for the most part, it's wonderful time alone.
Esah
@esah
07/07/10 08:46:34AM
151 posts

How do you cheer yourself up.....


Empath

Very Wise Words Sandy! They make so much sense and it's simple to do.I was just outside mowing and with the noise of the mower drowning out all other sounds, I found time to go inside and do some real thinking. Just like you suggested. I guess I feel like I need cheering up, when I need to spend some alone time with myself. One on one attention. I never thought of it that way before. I usually try to find the next distraction but your words make so much more sense because they address things head on and they will resolve much faster that way. You are wise beyond your years!!
Esah
@esah
07/07/10 06:44:30AM
151 posts

How do you cheer yourself up.....


Empath

when no one else can?

I find as an empath, that I feel solitary much of the time, in how I am feeling. I don't want to burden my friends with my 'stuff' when they are clearly dealing with their own stuff already. And some feelings are so deep that I don't even have words for them.

I am the one that everyone comes to 'to feel better'. I know many of you are nodding your head in agreement because you most likely are too. We are the cheerleaders for so many people. But at the end of the day, who is going to cheer us up? Us. It's up to us to figure out what is bothering us and counsel ourselves back to some semblance of balance.

But I have to say that lately, I haven't been very good at it. Would you mind sharing your thoughts on how you cheer yourself up when you are the only left who can? How do you process all of the input that an empath has to endure, when it's clear that you need to?





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@esah
06/29/10 04:27:23PM
151 posts



Good question Snake. I definitely didn't grow up with this belief in my family. I first found out about one of my past lives while writing/journaling. I simply asked my guides to bring it to my memory. The next thing i knew I was seeing myself back in the time of the Civil War. I was a man. I could clearly see that my current mother was my wife back then. I had three children. I was a carpenter and also made uniforms for the soldiers. I was one of the inventors of the sewing machine. In researching this, I found that there were about 6 men around the world who invented it at the same time. I guess it was time that we had this machine, so it was given to the earth and who ever could tap into and create the machine did. At least that's what makes sense to me.I had no emotion while receiving this info. I didn't feel connected to him in any way. But it felt 'right' to me at the same time. This all took place around the age of 30. I've learned about at least a dozen lives since then.
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@esah
06/28/10 07:02:00AM
151 posts



Sounds like an interesting trip Snake. I'm looking forward to the Past Lives Group. Thanks
Esah
@esah
06/27/10 12:26:44PM
151 posts

How Effective Are Your Prayers?


Empath

Angel, I like how you do it - See it, believe it, send it out and forget it. That is a great way. Thanks.
Esah
@esah
06/27/10 12:25:18PM
151 posts

How Effective Are Your Prayers?


Empath

Thanks Roxy. Great idea of watching the sun go down on a perfect day.
Esah
@esah
06/27/10 12:24:16PM
151 posts

How Effective Are Your Prayers?


Empath

Thank you Lynn. For some reason when I read your post, I got very emotional. Your words are so heartfelt and deep. I can feel that you are very effective when praying for people and circumstances.
Esah
@esah
06/27/10 07:49:45AM
151 posts

How Effective Are Your Prayers?


Empath

Very well said SweetSkitzo.
Esah
@esah
06/26/10 08:52:25PM
151 posts

How Effective Are Your Prayers?


Empath

Laura, I love that thought. thank you.
Esah
@esah
06/26/10 06:52:47PM
151 posts

How Effective Are Your Prayers?


Empath

I live on the Florida coast and have been receiving lots of emails about praying for the Gulf. The empath in me finally reached the point where I couldn't take the 'pleading' nature of these emails any more. It was making me too upset which seemed counter productive to the energy of prayer that I was being asked to do. I sat down to write some thoughts and what I wrote below came out of that inner knowing that we just weren't helping the situation by seeing the devastation. We had to 'see' something better. It also became clear that it would help other areas of my life as well. So the following is what I sent out to everyone on my email list. I feel that I should share it here too because as empaths we often get caught up in the devastation of situations and forget to see beyond it.

Love,

Esah



How Effective Are Your Prayers?


Many of us pray on a regular basis and with all of thethings happening in the world, it isnt hard to find something topray for. But have you ever wondered if your prayers are actually making adifference? And if so, how much of a difference?


Well, this occurred to me as I was thinking about the many emails Ive been receiving about praying for our Beautiful Gulfof Mexico. Each one begins with either photos of the mess or a very descript,yet negativeway of describing it. I found that my heart would acheas Ireadeach email. I would say the prayers but I still felt the sadness. I askedmyself "Are my prayers really effective if I still feel bad?"


Then I had an Ah ha moment. Most of these emails begin by telling me how bad things are and then they ask me to pray tomake things better. Well, Im no physicist but if I were to look at the just theenergy levels taking place while reading these emails, I could easily see thatmy energy went down with the heart ache and then up with my prayers.


Lets do some math on this for a second. Lets say, non-scientifically, that I am vibrating at 500 hertz before I read one ofthese emails. Then I read the first part, about the devastation, and that takesme down to say 300 hertz and then I pray and it brings me back up to say 500hertz. Have I really just done anything? Other than lower and raise my ownvibration. Did my prayer even reach the gulf or did it only make it to myenergy field and stop? And if my prayer did reach the Gulf, then I have tobelieve my sadness did too. Did they both cancel each other out? Or could myupset of the mess have been stronger than my prayer? I surely didn't want thatto be the case.


So this started me thinking that we do this in many areas of our life. We have a sad or low energy thought about something andthen seek a way to feel better. We can use many ways to feel better too. A phonecall to a friend, journaling, prayer or even chocolate (works well for me!) Imsure you get the idea here. Of course this is going to require us to takeownership of our thoughts and feelings and work more diligently at keeping ourlevels up.


So how do we maximize our prayers and really make a difference? We must learn to see things perfect. The person who is sickand emails or calls us for prayers is perfect in their experience. Its only ourjudgment that says there is something wrong. Its our judgment that lowers ourenergies. We can be much more effective at praying if we dontfocus on theproblem to start with. Then our prayers will soar to heights we have onlydreamed of. I see us doing amazing works once we truly understand thisconcept.


The next email about the Gulf could just say something simple like See our Beautiful Pristine Gulf of Mexico in Perfectcondition So we do just that. We dont need the details. After all, they are anillusion anyway right?


I feel that seeing it all this way, makes it doable. We can start with one thought at a time. When we start to apply ourjudgment about something we need to stop and see that it IS what it IS. Sounds abit cold but it is anything but that. It is loving someone enough to hold themin the highest light. Now that is healing and loving.


So today, would you join me in Loving Our Beautiful Gulf Of Mexico with it's pure, white, sandy beaches, healthy marinelife and all in perfect balance? Somehow I knew you would!


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@esah
06/25/10 11:07:49AM
151 posts

The Empath Community is my home...


Empath

Elise, I am so grateful to you for following your heart and creating this home for us all to hang out in. I have already learned so much and it has changed the way I live my life. Thanks for handling all the traffic in and out of your living room! I promise to enter with respect and I hope to conduct myself in such a way that I leave each day with yours.You are a great hostess!
Esah
@esah
06/22/10 02:15:02PM
151 posts



I just had an unlimited thought as I was reading the latest replies here. What if one of our other lives, remembers this lifetime and likes to dress the way we do now? lol Since everything is happening in the now moment, we can just as easily tap into a future life as a past one.
Esah
@esah
06/21/10 03:49:07PM
151 posts



This is some of the most compelling proof of past lives that I have seen. It's about a young boy (James Leninger) who remembered being a pilot in WWII. He remembers his name, the name of his plane, his partner in the other plane that he flew missions with, the aircraft carrier he was on and many more details. These details have all been verified. The sister of this boy in the past life is still alive and they got a chance to meet. He was able to tell her details that only she could validate. Pretty cool stuff!!http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZwM1VL_Ijw8&feature=PlayList&amp...
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@esah
06/21/10 06:24:56AM
151 posts



Very well said Betty.
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@esah
06/20/10 09:50:37AM
151 posts



Yes, Michael, this is the book I recommend as well. Great story. True story too.
Esah
@esah
06/20/10 06:32:36AM
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Sandy, I've done most of them by myself, either through following Brian Weiss' CD or by doing an automatic writing. You can even make your own guided tape. Your mind loves the sound of your own voice and trusts it. So you can find a script of guiding yourself into a past life and record it.I have a friend Shannon Andersen who wrote the book 'The Magdalene Awakening" and she is also a license therapist. She has guided CD's you can get as well. Here is a link to her website http://www.themagdaleneawakening.com/The past life that I was able to validate in the library, was done through automatic writing. I just sat down, said a prayer, asked my guides to protect me and then asked to see my most recent past life. It came spontaneously and I wrote what I saw and felt.I also remembered a past life of being hung in the dungeon of an old manor house in England in the 1300's. One day my sister calls me and says "I had the craziest dream last night. I was in England in the 1300's and you were my sister then too. You had just been hung in the dungeon and the same man was after me to hang me." Now that was freaky!
Esah
@esah
06/19/10 08:40:39PM
151 posts



If you say a prayer before you do this, you will be fine. Your guides will make sure that it will be for your highest and best. I have learned many things by accessing my past lives. I used to be skeptical about whether they were real or not, until I received info on one particular life that I could research in the library. (before the internet) I found all of the details in an encyclopedia. Not a famous person, but one who had invented something. It blew my mind to see all of the details in that book, just like I received in the regression.
Esah
@esah
06/19/10 07:05:34PM
151 posts



Brian Weiss wrote a book called Many Lives Many Masters about past lives. He also has a guided Past Life Meditation CD that you can buy. It is quite effective. I have used it a few times. So far, I've remembered about a dozen past lives.
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@esah
06/15/10 04:39:21PM
151 posts

Another Empath Challenge THE ANSWER


Empath

So, are there black and white penguins on the other side? LOL I was wayyy off. And I just love cupcakes. Oh well.
Esah
@esah
06/13/10 10:55:01AM
151 posts

Another Empath Challenge THE ANSWER


Empath

I am seeing black and white and perhaps a penguin. If it's not a penguin, then it's a cow! lol I do feel the colors black and white though.
Esah
@esah
06/13/10 08:03:26AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Shannon, I am sending you love and peace. Have a great day!
Esah
@esah
06/12/10 06:13:48AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

You make a good point Madeleine. Thank you. I can definitely understand the different vibrations that we all carry as individuals and families and how interacting with them can be a challenge. Perhaps it was a shock to everyone's system and we just needed to take a moment to breathe and assimilate it all. Hmmm. Definitely something to think about.The interesting part to all of this was the his friend was perfectly behaved. Other than being a normal 10 year old boy. He wasn't causing trouble, outwardly at all. Someone who wasn't empathic would look at this situation and say I was imagining the whole thing. In fact, I even tried to do that until I realized that it was him and the energies he was carrying with him.I feel so much more compassion for him today than a week ago. Simply because I am coming from a much more informed space. That is due to all of you taking the time to help me and I really appreciate every single response you all have made.Thank youEsah
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@esah
06/12/10 06:05:53AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Wow, Angelpeace, what an experience. You were definitely protected though, weren't you? I can't believe they were thinking of this in your own home. Proof that teenagers are grown up children. They still don't have a clue about their actions and the consequences they can bring.
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@esah
06/12/10 06:02:03AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Lilith, thank you so much for your response. Sitting them down and explaining it is a great idea. My kids do know that they are empaths and would be very open to this. In the past week, I have learned a lot about this and have actually been talking to them about what we all experienced. They keep saying though that they didn't really notice anything. I think, being children, they were so excited to have their friend over that they aren't seeing the problems that were mixed in the middle of it all.
Esah
@esah
06/11/10 03:13:14PM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

When ever you are working with healing, you must always put yourself in the highest light. The Lords Prayer is a powerful prayer of protection and it will keep the lower stuff from bothering you. You may very well be 'aware' of a negative energy, but it will have no effect on you if you say your prayers first. That has always been my experience.I have done readings and healings with people who have very dark energy around them, but I know that I am protected and that the darkness is just looking for the light. Sometimes, when these wayward energies see our light, they 'cling on' because they mistake us for God. Not knowing that there is something much more brighter. So I gently send them on to the light. I visualize a beautiful golden staircase, leading up to God and I escort the spirit to the foot of the stairs. There are two angels waiting there for the spirit who will take the spirit to the light.Some people ask me, "well, what if the spirit doesn't want to go to the light?" And I say that if a spirit is in your space, it is just that "Yours" and you get to decide who gets to be in it with you. The angels at the foot of the stairs will take the spirit to God by holding their hands.I have learned that nothing is evil, just confused or afraid and we often feel 'exactly' what the spirit is feeling. So if it is afraid, we are afraid, the next thing we know we are saying it is something to be afraid of, when in fact it was just afraid too. So we have to stop and bring in more love and light and tell it that it will be much better once it connects up with God again. This is such a beautiful experience, every time I have done it.
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@esah
06/11/10 12:42:06PM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Hi Renee. Thank you for such an indepth response. I respect where you are coming from with your prayers and asking Michael to come in and clear the space. Just while I've been writing this response, my two kids got into a disagreement. I sent them to their rooms for a few minutes and while they were there, I asked Michael to do a sweep! They were just permitted to come back out and you could hear a pin drop in the living room! It feels quite peaceful. So thanks already for that advice.As far as labelling the energy you experienced as the demon of chaos, I personally don't go there. What I do, instead is see that ALL energy is in different levels of the LIGHT, even the supposed dark. That way, I don't give any energy to the belief of things evil or demonic. I feel that all energy is on a mission towards the light and not in the other direction.Anyway, I am working on listening to that voice inside of me and at this moment, I don't feel a direction to go next for this young boy. I am sure now, that God will let me know if I am to do more. Very sure. So I can rest easy. It is also important that I don't perpetuate the negative energy of the situation by thinking it is continuing. I am seeing it healed and full of light. That is my job on the outside of it all. At least for now.hugs back to youEsah
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@esah
06/11/10 12:29:01PM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

This means a lot to me, coming from you AngelPeace. Thank you. Your loving words brought a tear to my eye. You always take the high road with your posts and have so much wisdom and love. It radiates in every post you make!
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@esah
06/11/10 09:50:17AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Ahh, poor kid. What a lot to deal with. Thanks for sharing it because hearing stories like yours helps me to better understand what I experienced.As usual, as an empath I was quick to invalidate what I was feeling and chalk it up to over reacting. But after another hour or so of insanity, I changed my mind and realized I was perhaps the only one aware of the dynamic.I am much better equipped to handle his energy now and I will definitely allow him to come back in to our home. After all, he is my sons' best friend. But this time I will amplify the forcefield of light I have around my house to cleanse his aura and keep the negative stuff outside. I will then be able to connect with him better and maybe spend some time showing him how to put the light around himself as a protection. Without identifying what exactly he is protecting himself from!
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@esah
06/11/10 05:24:44AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

That's a good question Renee. No, the moment he left it was like the energy went with him. We were all instantly calm again. I hadn't thought about that but thanks for asking. I did continue to think about the whole thing though and how it had blindsided me. Which is what led to posting the question here. In hindsight, I see now that it all had to build to a point where I felt I had to know more and then through prayer it came to the surface that his father was hurting him.
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@esah
06/11/10 04:24:11AM
151 posts

What would you do?


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Just want to add a note here. In my meditation last night, I was telling God how upset I was at not seeing the signs early enough and I heard back "You did see the signs, you did things exactly as I would want you to." The relief that came over me brought me to tears. I had thought that I missed the opportunity while this boy was at my house, but now I see that it was part of the process of getting help to him.
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@esah
06/10/10 04:26:58AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Good morning Everyone. I wasn't avoiding you all last night. I was teaching class and got home late.This is a new day so let's just move forward with all that has been said to remain in the past. I feel that I am being guided to do some things for this boy. I am handling it the best I know how. Thank you all for your input. I really need it. This was a whole new thing for me to experience, even with all of the years under my belt. I was at a loss and you all were my first and only choice for seeking guidance. I will take it all in and weigh it up as I do all things.Sorry things got a bit off track but I think they needed to. No accidents. Just well intentioned people who needed to see some things. As this morning starts out, I can see that I would most likely have reacted too much to the discussion last night, so once again, Spirit is handling everything! lolI still need to learn a lot about these gifts we all share. I've been doing psychic readings for 23 years and feel that I am very intuitive, but for some reason, (which I do trust the reason) I was not privy to this or I missed the clues. Either way, I know now and I intend to make sure this boy is safe. I also know that my prayers work. I have a strong belief in them for many years now and I don't pray lightly. When I take the time, it's because I intend for it to happen. The power of prayer comes from the power of belief.Please keep this boy in your thoughts and prayers.ThanksEsah
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@esah
06/09/10 02:51:50PM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Well, my son said that he told him in school today. Of course kids can say the darndest things but with the feelings that I was already having about his father, I tend to think he isn't making anything up. Maybe this is how our prayers are answered. I don't know. I'm so sad. I don't know what to do for sure. I will talk to the school guidance counselor tomorrow and then see what other direction I am to go with this. Maybe the counselor will be able to handle this in a way that I just can't.
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@esah
06/09/10 01:48:55PM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

I am sad to reply that I have just found out that the reason this boy was carrying such a heavy energy was because his dad has been beating him. I cried when I heard this. I am now taking steps to stop this. I feel terrible but at the same time, I think that as big as this was to us all, it kept me asking questions. So now we know and we can help him.Please include this boy in your prayers. See him protected by Angels and send love to his father so that he won't feel the need to strike out at his son. Thank you.
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@esah
06/09/10 08:09:28AM
151 posts

What would you do?


Empath

Yes, I think that's very possible.I saw him this morning at the school and he looked worried about stuff. I sent him light while I was there, as I did the other day too. I only want the best for him and his family. I am using this experience as a learning tool, with hopes that I will be one step higher next time I have something like this happening.What comes to mind is that I don't usually 'react' to things like this. I usually perceive them and then decide what is happening and go from there. I guess that's why I need to know more, because for the sake of everyone it would be helpful to know.
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@esah
06/08/10 04:23:08PM
151 posts

What would you do?


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Sandy, I am so glad that they know too. It sounds like you have been a good mom without knowing! I only wish I'd known all of this when I was young, but at least I can give the gift of knowing to them. I do spiritual readings for a living and I can't tell you how this has helped me in my counselling. I'm so thankful that one of my friends found this site and told me about it. I've learned so much already and everyday someone shares something that I learn from.
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06/08/10 02:11:22PM
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What would you do?


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Yes, Brandy, I agree, let's move on. You made some good points though. ThanksI did want to point out that both of my kids took the empath quiz. My son is an energy empath. He can see orbs and all sorts of energies. My daughter is an animal empath with human as a close second. She can make friends with any animal. So that is another way that I know they are empaths. And it has really helped them to know this about themselves. They have a better sense of who they are.Today, I have said prayers for the boy and his family. I have filled his home with love and light to ease the stress and whatever else they are dealing with. To remind them of the infinite love that God is always offering them.
Esah
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06/08/10 05:27:26AM
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Not sure what to reply to you Shannon. Sometimes it's hard to read what people are saying, but I totally get that he is a 10 year old boy. This had nothing to do with him being a normal little boy at all. He was in fact calm and well behaved, as I said in an earlier post. This was about the energy he brought with him. A deep troubled, upsetting energy that was so strong and I didn't see it coming. It threw us all off and I had a hard time just getting my feet on the ground.My son had asked this boy to spend the night a few times and I found myself always putting him off, until this past weekend when I couldn't find an excuse! Now I understand why I didn't want him here. But what I am trying to do now, is figure out how I can help him. I will begin with prayer for sure.Your words weren't very friendly and were assuming that I don't know what a 10 year old acts like. Hello, I live with one and he is 100% boy. I love his energy. He is a busy boy, a great race car driver and has a genius IQ. I could go one for a while telling you all the great things about my 10 year old boy, but none of this was about them all acting like boys. It was about energy that was hanging around his friend like a cloud. That much I do know in hindsight. I just didn't have a clue how to handle it at the time. That's the reason I started the discussion. My kids are empaths because I know what an empath is. Simple as that.
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06/08/10 05:17:23AM
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Brandy, now that I've had a day or two to be out of that energy, I think you may be right. I think I need to see what I can do for him and his family. You said that you can only help him through me but you can do wonderful things through prayer. I won't post his name here but just praying for the boy I am speaking of, will plenty for God!thank you for your words.Esah
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06/07/10 05:19:53PM
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That is so neat Deirdre.
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06/07/10 05:17:49PM
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I think you may be right Dinky about the boy bringing his parents' energy with him. They are hurting financially and the father appears to be shut down and holding a lot inside. At least in my presence he is. At home may be a different story.I think what surprised me about myself in this situation is that I didn't take the boy aside and casually ask him how his life is going. I never ignore things. I love kids and really like to help them feel at home here. But this was such a shock to my system that all I could think to do was get through it with as little stress as possible. I know I didn't handle it right, I just was at a loss and really wanted to hide from it all.Oh my God, I just had a thought. What if he was really reaching out to me for help, and in his needy desperation it was too much and I resisted him? Oh, I hope not. I will sit quietly tonight and send him some love.Christine, thanks for the thoughts about dividing and conquering. I tried to do that but I couldn't figure out who to divide! There were 3 boys and my daughter. I was a mess and could hardly think straight.I have learned from all of your responses that I am not alone. That makes me feel better for a start. You know how you get to the end of the day and start second guessing yourself and what you could have done differently? I want to be sure that I handle this different the next time.
 
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