Forum Activity for @saramel

saramel
@saramel
11/27/15 09:02:10PM
8 posts

Anyone else identify?


Empath

I can relate. I am however learning to put myself first and stand up for myself. No one has a right to make you feel bad. I was naturally helping people till it began to drain me. So i have pulled back and thought of myself. I don't know why when i needed help i was helping everyone else as that wasn't me.
saramel
@saramel
11/23/15 04:25:21AM
8 posts

need advice


Empath

Oh wow. I am actually quite pleased you took the time to respond. So clearly and lovingly. My new boss..i am just assisting him for now.. said send them back to my "rich Greek dad "and take it easy at your relatives, Here and back home. He's a funny guy and he has given me some energy back.Sister? Maybe i will meet someone who is like the sister i never had....Thank you so much
saramel
@saramel
11/23/15 04:11:27AM
8 posts

need advice


Empath

Thank you.No sister. My mother was like an older sister..hmmm. Yes although in my home town there is a lack of men and jobs i thought that i could take it easy, travel more and have piece of mind and perhaps in the future consider a town that is sunny and friendly. I wish to be self employed and perhaps meet an entrepreneurial guy on my travels or wherever to have a proper relationship.Thanks for the condolences. Most people are not very sympathetic in fact they have been rude here. I lost a man to his jealous manipulative friends so i am also grieving that loss. He was great until they came to town. Again jealousy struck my life.I am not sure how i will view my home town as nothing much changes but i do have an awesome extended family.My sister in law is no good. Lol. My brother however has 3 awesome kids who adore me. I am blessed.I like your definitive response too. Thanks
saramel
@saramel
11/23/15 03:37:52AM
8 posts

need advice


Empath

Recently my apartment was sold and i need to move. I have decided to stay with a relative and then perhaps return home to stay with my father since my mum passed away in march 2015. The city i am in now was fine for 5 years but has become difficult due to dud jobs and roommates and disappointing relationships. A lot of jealous and competitive women and men have meant little support or friends. I have got financial troubles and an energy vampire topping it off. Should I send my furniture for storage back home or store it locally or finish with this city altogether?
updated by @saramel: 01/22/17 07:14:38AM
saramel
@saramel
11/21/15 03:56:26PM
8 posts

depressed by roommate


Empath

Thanks. Very good ideas. I feel much better as you have adressed my question very well...i needed the support. Most people don't understand that he saps my energy just knowing he is around. Its very annoying as he ruined my smooth transition to a new place. At least i know now b4.I ignore him but he keeps trying to get attention , he literally keeps doing things even after i have shown him and told him i don't like it.
saramel
@saramel
11/21/15 03:31:02PM
8 posts

depressed by roommate


Empath

Thanks. I'm glad someone sees it the way I do. How do i make him want to leave. I completely ignore him. I can't believe he doesn't see to leave since he can't contribute to a new apartment if he doesn't get a job. What a creep. How rude and selfish is he....
saramel
@saramel
11/20/15 10:04:25PM
8 posts

depressed by roommate


Empath

I rented a room to this male who is not what he said he was at the interviews. Now he is not working and saying he will get a job in the new year and says he has money. He won't leave me alone and tells me his problems fears and issues. I noticed when im gone he is merely living it up using my fancy plates and drinking and he never really goes any where. In a month i am meant to move into a new place with him but i just don't even want to see him. He is a ogler and wants attention all the time. I can barely relax or do my usual things in the apartment. I am an empath and feel drained by him. How do I get back my energy? THIS is my big issue.I will be telling him to leave very soon. And that he is not coming where i move to.
updated by @saramel: 01/18/17 06:42:27PM