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LaoG
@laog
11/07/15 05:51:09AM
137 posts

which category of explanation do you find most promising?


Empath

Well INFJ has that overpowered ability to read people. Fe is usually about harmony but if the shadow function Fi, which is about personal beliefs has a different definition of 'harmony' than usual then it can be dangerous. If personal beliefs from Fi(introverted feeling) is too influential then Fe could be ignored when making a moral decision, and only used in the process of reading people. Psychopaths can sense people well and empaths can sense people well. Empaths become sypathetic because of the understanding, but not every INFJ is sympathetic because of their understanding. There are INFJ's that go ''*** the world'' because of whatever reason, and no matter the personality type anyone can be evil.

Psychopath is a vague word, but there is a category of them that can read people perfectly. An example of this in theory, would be Hitler's Nazi beliefs(Fi) hijacking Fe(which seeks harmony) and turning him into a murderer. In a sense, it was justified by Fe(many native Germans had a better life under his reign but a lot of people still died as a result of his tyranny.) which gave a group of people harmony. 'For the aryan race' was Fe justification for Fi(must keep the blood pure). In a sense, you can interpret, the Fe was at an extremely crazy high level, since to him he really believed he was making the world better.

Hence why an extreme altruist like Ghandi and Jesus are INFJ along with people like Bin Laden and Hitler. INFJ can be a very extreme group because of the lack of mastery over Fi, the extremes that Fe can encourage, and the Ni intuition that is monstrous.

LaoG
@laog
11/06/15 09:29:22PM
137 posts

which category of explanation do you find most promising?


Empath

I was reading on personalityhacker.com information about a personality type in Carl Jung's theory called INFJ. I think the ability to unconsciously process emotional information is because of being that type(rarest personality type, statistically speaking less than 1% of population). I read about two cognitive functions in Jung's theory Ni(introverted intuition)INFJ types use this mainly and Fe(extroverted feeling) INFJ types use this as their auxiliary function, then there is Ti(introverted thinking) and after that Se(extroverted sensing). From what I can tell INFJ uses Se(a little) to understand the physical aspect of expressions mildly and Fe to quantify them(Fe is auxillary so it is really used a lot), then they can use their Ti to understand the inner qualities of the emotion better, and then Ni(the dominant and unconscious/subconscious cognitive function) to fill the gap of the subconscious psychological link(this is just a theory I am not sure about Ni it is very mystical). So basically unlike other personality types in Jung theory INFJ which has been called the most psychic has 3 sensory based functions as the top 3 cognitive functions, and the result would be a walking mental/emotional radar. They are usually very spiritual people compared to others so have many 'aha' moments compared to others.

People who are predicted to be INFJ's are: Jesus, Plato, Martin Luther King, Gandhi, Carl Jung, Niels Bohr, Osama Bin Laden, Hitler.

INFJ's can be very selfless and enjoy routine but also insightful and may seek a profession like counselling. INFP is a type that can sense people well as well, though INFJ types seem to have a crazy accurate emotional sensory gift. Unfortunately, being the rarest type, they are often the most isolated, and when unbalanced they can be very dangerous. A healthy INFJ is an empath and an unhealthy one is a psychopath.

Though they are introverts they can seem like extroverts because of their auxiliary function Fe(which is about social harmony, hence why empaths are so nice). This is all what I have tried to piece together based on the sites I have been reading and some info is pretty much copied. It is a theory in the end but I think it is quite accurate. Another thing: INFJ can be commonly mistyped as INTP or INFP.

LaoG
@laog
11/02/15 08:10:48PM
137 posts

Dealing with anger


Empath

Hmm well not too recently, actually it was around a week ago. I was working with people in a group helping each other with some work and then someone brought to my attention that one member was doing nothing and that one member was just using me for other stuff. That sort of stuff has happened to me a lot but that time I didn't really explode but I had a sort of calm rage. Usually I don't really care because if I feel like helping I will but what irritated me was when I contemplated that I could be treated worse if I allowed it to go on, and I have a habit of not caring if that sort of thing happens, but when it can actually cause me problems I just get angry. I constantly feel negativity but that sorta just made me snap internally and then a calm anger was there. Usually I can just let it go if I have a good reason, but if not I just continue in the anger. The work we are doing is social work so it pissed me off more that someone would abuse hospitality in a humanitarian field. Like why become a social worker if you are gonna be like that, you know?

LaoG
@laog
11/02/15 06:44:32PM
137 posts

Dealing with anger


Empath

so does it make them feel what they project to you but towards themselves?

LaoG
@laog
11/02/15 06:19:09PM
137 posts

Dealing with anger


Empath

Thanks I think I can relax more now I needed to read that, you are right I cant change everyone and I know that i just had a bout of rage. and like with the dogs there are many situations where people don't know better and kids for example are not always very smart in certain areas. I understand why you'd be angry I would be angry as well, especially since it affects the dogs' mentality in the future.

I don't really mind if someone is into other hobbies or something it is just that I can get irritated when grown people are unreasonably malicious. like around my old neighbourhood there were kids who went around and tried to rob/beat people up and I know they are smart enough to think 'how do my victims feel?' So I just get agitated over that. As for first impressions I know people can be very different from your first sense of their aura and all, however when I try to dismiss an evil first sense I later find out that I was right on the money.

I am just irritated. I think people are very interesting because I sense complex emotion and I am interested in how they act, but there are a lot of times it is just irritating to understand all of the malice which isn't even always about vengeance. I guess my issue is this, I am afraid that if I do away with my anger/sorrow/rage over such things I will sacrifice my personal sense of justice with it. I am afraid that I will allow myself to be complacent with injustice. So this is all really about fear, because I do not know how to deal with this dilemma. I have already adopted the 'they are just ill' approach, and not everyone is just projecting their pain, there are people with almost no pain just projecting malice anyway, I can sense people being malicious when they are in a good mood.

In a dilemma I try to find some reasoning to diffuse my anger, but there are a lot of times I can't. I feel like I just have to adapt, but I don't want to adapt to this, because I am afraid if I do I will not be as hostile towards such energy.

LaoG
@laog
11/02/15 04:11:22PM
137 posts

Dealing with anger


Empath

Well, I don't think everyone is evil, I just think a lot of people are. I used to try to see good in people but all that did was wake me up and get me disappointed. I didn't really think of the hormones when I made my judgement. U could tell it was compulsive but what really irritated me was that she did not resist it. People are not 1 dimensional, I know they can act strange or foolishly in one way and be good in another, and I don't want them all to die or anything like that I just rather they don't act malicious. I try to be content and nice but when I do it ends with some form of disrespect. I have tried thinking 'be merciful, they only act that way because they have an issue' but I think people should at least be responsible for trying. If someone is trying then I don't have an issue, it is just when people do that sort of thing on purpose or for no proper reason.

I used to be bullied when I was a kid but something like that is not an excuse to mistreat a stranger, for example. And yes, I have been betrayed over and over and it is irritating since I can sense the betrayal. I expect adults to try to behave properly and if I expect nothing from anyone in terms of behaviour I feel like that sort of attitude contributes to moral laziness in this world.

I have tried the 'we make mistakes' attitude and it didn't really help. I just become too dismissive and then I become less strict on my actions when I do that. I am not perfect but I only want others to try and not just say they try and then show no sign of effort. I understand there is a perspective that I should not expect others to act a certain way but I wish they didn't at times, and idk how to turn this ability off.

LaoG
@laog
11/02/15 11:39:49AM
137 posts

Dealing with anger


Empath

Ok, so since I became more aware of my empath abilities I have went through periods of minor misanthropy or irritation. I would sense malice, sense people entertaining lust for someone when they have a lover already, people hating each other for stupid things, sensed people who use others for attention, sociopaths, people who hate me pretending to be nice, people with an extreme sense of entitlement, etc. Stuff like that. I just got enraged at all of this and then after a while I realized 'if I get angry each time I sense this sort of stuff I will be angry a lot' so then I decided to tolerate it. My sense of morality was stronger around the time my empath ability became stronger, so that made it even worse. I was experiencing stuff that I thought shouldn't be so common, cause that sort of stuff is like what you'd see on TV or a soap opera.

A married lady was being all giddy with me alike a kid and was infatuated and it pissed me off. She was pregnant too. How could someone hate their spouse so much? I sense players just talking with girls to get in their panties and they don't give a damn about who they are, or compatibility they're just fuelled on lust. I sense people who have a naturally disrespectful mentality towards others, but they can hide it well.

Also I can sense when someone looks down on me or someone else for some stupid crap quite often. It is very irritating. Lately it has been bothering me because it's like every time I meet new people I just get disappointed by the evil I sense, and I know I'd rather sense this than not sense this because I've dodged many bullets with this ability. I sort of became numb and filled with sorrow for a while before as well, and that is my alternative to being filled with rage, with my other mode of expression being, not caring at all and becoming amoral.

So how do any of you deal with this, if you have a similar issue?


updated by @laog: 01/31/17 11:46:16PM
LaoG
@laog
11/02/15 10:57:58AM
137 posts



That used to happen to me a lot in my last year of high school, people acting weird around me even though I just minded my business. They seemed afraid at times. It is like they can sense the difference. There were people who liked the difference but a lot who were afraid. Empaths in mbti seem to usually be INFJ(named most psychic cognitive personality), and Fi is the dominant cognitive function. People with dominant Fi are usually more about personal morals and values and being individual and stuff, so it could be someone cannot handle your charisma or something.

LaoG
@laog
10/30/15 06:28:47AM
137 posts

Quantum Physics and Empaths


Empath

This explains a lot. Seems like the gift empaths have has to do with quantum entanglement to the limbic area or something of the sort.

LaoG
@laog
10/29/15 07:53:50AM
137 posts

Do empath abilities get stronger with age?


Empath

I can't tell if it is because of puberty or because it is just that I am using it more often since my setting has more people, but they are definitely getting stronger. Until mid 20s the male brain develops and for females it is like early 20s so I could imagine someone who is an empath with hyper abilities during like age 9 would get stronger ESP later. They get stronger when there is less anxiety and more of a serene state of mind too.

LaoG
@laog
10/28/15 08:03:32PM
137 posts

Empaths: What kind of people do you attract?


Empath

Bare with me I went off on this one.

Well I am usually the 'go to person' and since I became more in tune strangers and colleagues ask me about stuff and find me more comfortable but that hasn't always happened to me being an empath. I think it can depend on the personality of the empath a lot. Someone who seems confident will attract someone who is very anxious because they will seek comfort, or will scare people who are anxious. While an empath that is anxious may repel people a lot easier. Actually when I am anxious I noticed that people stay away a lot more. An empath projecting kindness in abundance I think would attract those sort of users the most, a calm one that is not hostile as well. From what I have read online the abundance of abusers seems to be very high in the West compared to other places with different cultures.

Empaths can be very independent and charismatic from what I have understood, once they develop their abilities well, while the ones who aren't as good at processing a lot of emotion may seem erratic when under excessive stress. The lifestyle of an empath can lead them to become very tough mentally, since they are constantly receiving mental stress. Empaths are also recognized for their high, in cases even abnormally high tolerance and this may be due to the fact that certain empaths develop their abilities as a means for survival. People in abusive scenarios could not afford to be unaware of the emotions of their abusers because one wrong move could mean trouble, so they unconsciously use their emotional sensors to survive easier. This can also mean that someone in a less abusive, but perceivably 'bad' situation like being used for something trivial would not defend themselves and the user would become a 'regular customer' for free service at no fee. When you look into it it is sad because the emotionally abused person is abused because they were emotionally abused while the ignorant abuser may have no such awareness, or worse, may not even try to understand that far.

Empaths are just very trustworthy which is why they are an easier target. I have to find out how to be hostile at times to prevent someone trying to manipulate me, but it is so annoying. Good is repaid with bad and empaths have to be alert around their own damn species. What is worse is it is because they project a prosocial aura, and social structure is what helped people survive for many years. The biggest threat to humans are humans and it pisses me off, and I am sure it does others, to the point of aggression, but rather than entertain it I am caught in a loop trying to find a solution, and I realize anger is just stressful and unproductive when not used well. Why should kindness be restricted at all? I went off on a tangent there but I felt I had to express it. I got irritated.

I read one of your replies and it was along the lines of 'if I moved somewhere else there would still be abusive people' and I don't think that is the case. I don't know where you are, but here in the West with this subtly pro-psychotic influence/social frame I think you could find many of those kinds of personalities in unsuspecting places, though I have read online that someone was in a place and people were very respectful but when they took post secondary in the West they were just being used because of their generous nature.

LaoG
@laog
10/27/15 10:40:09PM
137 posts

Are there any empaths in Canada, Ontario??


Empath

yea i am in brampton used to live in toronto :o nice to meet you

LaoG
@laog
10/27/15 09:58:16PM
137 posts

Empaths: What kind of people do you attract?


Empath

Ever since I have become better with my empathic abilities I have been attracting more evil people.

LaoG
@laog
10/27/15 05:58:51PM
137 posts

Weird emotions


Empath

Yeah exactly a love and hate thing. It is not necessarily naive to believe someone can only love or hate, but there can be both. I have felt it on more than one occasion, but with this person it seems like they have envy and love which is strange. I just don't know which side is stronger, the envy/aggression/whatever it was or the love.

And I get what you mean with hate for no reason. I have met many people who are like that. Don't say anything to them and they hate you a lot. I concluded it could be that they are jealous or are reminded of what they lack by the people they unconditionally hate, rather the person is empath or not. I find myself wondering why someone would hate for no reason voluntarily and not try to at least restrict or destroy such unfair feelings towards someone. There are times they do not even notice and there are times they are aware and continue anyways.

It is difficult finding out which side someone has more of when they can be one or the other a lot.

LaoG
@laog
10/27/15 09:52:32AM
137 posts

Weird emotions


Empath

I don't want to do that because I don't even know if they are even mentally stable; and also based on how I have observed them react to me compared to others, that would probably put them in an awkward position. I planned to just keep observing, but I am not experienced in finding out the deeper parts of a person who is light and honest one day and dark another.

LaoG
@laog
10/26/15 11:25:17PM
137 posts

Weird emotions


Empath

So, a few days ago I was talking to one of my peers who I try not to talk to because I deduced they are not balanced emotionally, and suffer from Vulnerable Narcissism Personality disorder. She felt at times very shallow but when I talked to her last I could feel pure emotion from her so I am wondering if the shallow perception I got was only a limited time sort of shallow or something. Well what was said was a 'say something for the atmosphere' sort of thing so I am open to the idea that I was reading too much into it. I've seen them be very non-shallow with others too. Sincere. The time I recently talked to her I also sensed something 'like' infatuation and it was a LOT of it so I think this person likes me. But at the same time I am under the impression they hate me a little as well it is kind of weird. When I first talked to them they seemed cautious and afraid but I didn't sense that when the person talked to others though. The way they act is like they like me but don't want me to have even the idea that they do lol. Since I didn't really get much of a chance to observe the person interacting with others much, I do not know if they are truly emotionally unbalanced or if a 'shallow feeling' is something that can be faked or induced around certain people unconsciously.

Anyway they seemed very aggressive at times, and I am wondering if they are able to sense my emotions or aura and that is what is causing her to act like that. When we recently talked I felt a very sexual aura idk how to put it. Her voice is really sexy but it isn't like lust sexy its like... bleh I ain't good at this lol but anyway I went home and felt really ... well I wouldn't say conventionally aroused but idk what to call it. A very sexual energy but it isn't lusty or something. Usually I am very self-controlled but I felt very aroused afterwards, the most in a long long time. I was wondering if that is just her aura that I was sensing which was really aroused but I am not sure if that is so. Idk what to call this feeling, it isn't rough enough to be lust but it isn't soft enough to be pure and it seemed very sexual. I also really wanted to have sex with her.

I have not sensed this before, and it seemed like the feeling was mutual; however I am under the impression the person has a sort of hate love towards me, like a deep infatuation but they hate that they love it a little. The more I sense someone the more I am surprised by the complexity of the heart.


updated by @laog: 01/19/17 12:19:53PM
LaoG
@laog
10/22/15 04:01:05PM
137 posts

Copying Senses


Empath

Yeah I know how to sever the link already and I have done that in the past but I feel like if I do I will miss them or something, tough to find the correct expression for how the feeling would be. Now it is less intense than before, I am wondering if the person was having anxiety so they had sharpened spatial awareness and I picked it up as well as a fragile mentality. The spatial awareness was when I was far from the person, and the mental math was just an example. Recently though, it doesn't seem like it is as turbulent as before, idk if I adapted to it already or if it just faded out.

LaoG
@laog
10/22/15 06:19:28AM
137 posts

Copying Senses


Empath

Well to clarify, for example if I am with someone who acts really shy and is really good at mental math I suddenly become better at mental math, or if they are good at keeping track of time I get really good at that, because somehow I have tapped into their energy and keep traits of them in me.

LaoG
@laog
10/21/15 08:43:25PM
137 posts

Copying Senses


Empath

I know that empaths can copy people's behaviour if they are open to them and let them through their filter, but it seems like I copied something else. Lately I have become more emotionally fragile compared to before, and have gained a higher spatial awareness. I realize empaths can copy behaviour but can people copy spatial awareness? It seems like my abilities are evolving and I am still in puberty so my brain can still develop spatial awareness, but my range of sensing emotions seems to have gotten higher. I know someone who seems like an HSP who has high spatial awareness and can be very fragile emotionally as well(I have become more like that lately for whatever reason) but I do not know if it is possible an empath can copy someone's spatial awareness. Also I smelt them on more than one occasion when they were not there.Has anyone ever copied something like organization skill or spatial awareness from someone? Just curious.
updated by @laog: 01/10/17 03:21:40PM
LaoG
@laog
10/21/15 08:24:19PM
137 posts

this is my ability


Empath

Well I have a theory. I wanted to find out what is deep inside others and then my ability got heightened when I had such a desire. I am still building up on it, but I am wondering if your ability has to do with your love of games and curiosity. I have read that people with genius talent in sports, arts, etc. use extrasensory in those activities to perform at amazing levels. I have also played games where I can just read people easily after only a short while of exchanging attacks(pvp games). People with psychic ability may have bad regular attention and be diagnosed with ADD or ADHD, but the brain compensates lack in one area with strength in another, so I think it is possible that the compensation goes towards parts of the brain involved in psychic phenomena like the right parahippocampal gyrus.

Also I am wondering if it is a survival thing. People who are emotionally stressed kill their emotions to survive, people who are constantly under physical stress adapt to it physically, people who are constantly in danger can work easily when afraid, etc. Empaths may be curious about others or betrayed, so I wonder if their personality can somehow alter their brain(behavior has been proven to change genetic expression) so that they gain psychic abilities. Someone who is betrayed a lot uses more of their emotional recognition brain regions unconsciously as a method of survival. Someone who requires data to survive uses supernatural senses to acquire data, and receives intuition that is acute, in order to survive. Things like that.

You claimed that you just focused and got info from someone, were you just focusing or did you want to understand them deeper? Did you think 'why would they do this' or something else? In my theory motivation for unlocking psychic abilities can be: reasoned to promote what your ego determines is survival, out of the sheer strength of your character/spirit your body unlocks them, compensation due to lack of focus in other body functions.

So I have a question for you, do you usually lack regular focus? You seem to have a strong character already.

LaoG
@laog
10/21/15 08:11:28PM
137 posts

I Love an Empath


Empath

Well empaths may have issues with trusting others because they can sense a lot of lies growing up, so first of all try not to hide your feelings is an idea I got I am not some relationship therapist so these are just ideas. She could be afraid from disagreement because she may sense hostility or something for all I know. I think it is mostly like dealing with a regular person but just don't lie and don't suppress your emotions if you are not feeling pleased we can notice that. Try to keep your emotions without being attached to them, if you can. That is a tough technique that takes a lot of discipline but it is possible. The huge wall, idk what caused it, but it seems logical for it to be based on all the lies empaths sense and such, I also have a wall that I have let nobody in. It could be she is afraid of being rejected, empaths tend to be betrayed when they are very altruistic so rejection is something certain empaths may face a lot.

People are not comfortable with arguments when they don't trust the other person or they cannot process the emotions mixed in conflict well. To diffuse the issue just try to be patient and honest, if you can't process your emotions well then the strong ones you send can tire her out. I suggest taking up meditation if you are usually more emotionally charged. Or something else that keeps you calm, if that is the case. Hope this helped.

LaoG
@laog
10/21/15 10:24:08AM
137 posts

Had an spirtual encounter


Empath

This is weird if it is your birthday you should remember. Seems like an abduction or something or someone wiped your memory for whatever reason. I've read about this and I'm not saying this is the case but that is definitely something to consider.

LaoG
@laog
10/21/15 08:59:24AM
137 posts

this is my ability


Empath

I wanted to understand people well after my spiritual awakening, so then my intuitive empathy increased a lot. I noticed it got higher when I gave more attention to someone. You claimed you focused on that in game moderator(idk if that is what they would be called 'appropriately') and then the info came. Also I was wondering about sports geniuses or artistic geniuses since I watched a show and even though it was fiction it had that people use their spiritual energy to amplify their efficiency in an area.

So I am wondering if your ability came because of your focus and deep desire to understand why someone does what they do, and if it is affected by love for a game or something of the sort. When I thought of this focus ESP phenomena I thought the words transcendent focus. People with psychic abilities may have ADHD or ADD but it could be that their regular focus is compensated by their transcendent focus. In the brain if one area is lacking there is compensation, and the spirit can also affect the brain so I don't think it would be too strange if your knowing that you would have power effected your ability.

But I am wondering if it could also just be your personality(spirit) which has been proved to change genetic expression unlocked the mysterious part of your body that allows claircognizance. So to build on this if you don't mind I have another question. Are you a daydreaming type of person? I am.

LaoG
@laog
10/20/15 04:07:14PM
137 posts

this is my ability


Empath

I have a question. You love games but do you love games like A LOT a lot and are you a curious person?

LaoG
@laog
10/19/15 05:06:10PM
137 posts

I need answers.


Empath

That is what happened to me minus the dreams. Yeah you are an empath. I can try guessing what your dream means.

The white space is your innocence or your purity, but when the devil(your impurity) comes in then you hide from it and it tries to take you away, and convince you that deep down you are going to be impure. I think if that is true, the best thing to do in the dream is to not be afraid of the devil. You love your family and Jesus, and the devil does not love either of them and wants to take you over(your inner potential for evil = devil, we all have one). Everyone has to fight the devil to become an angel. 'Good = weak' is a lie. The devil wants to control you, so just control the devil. Control or be controlled, from what I can tell, running and trying to eradicate the devil won't help. The potential for evil and good are eternally in all that lives, therefore the evil potential can only be controlled and it is impossible to erase forever.

Well I kinda just blarted that paragraph. Idk if it is true but I hope it helps. I am just venting what I understand and have not said yet. I do not know if this means that was a revelation or if that means I just got a really good skill at guessing lol.

I am not a traditional Christian but you seem to be. The bible had stated that only those who can do evil could be tempted, and even Jesus was tempted. Everyone can do evil, but not everyone is evil. So while noone can be good, they can be consistently pure. Hope this helped.

LaoG
@laog
10/19/15 04:48:37PM
137 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

Ok the oxygen in your brain is being lowered somehow. Idk if the air is nice where you are but that can cause sleep paralysis to occur. It could be that you don't try to inhale a lot of air because there is a spirit with a disturbing aura nearby that you are trying not to process(when empaths are around 'toxic' beings they tend to get nauseated or keep themselves from being open by lowering breathing or some other method). Before I had these attacks I was randomly super tired something to do with circadian rhythm but I still believe that there are spirits that can do this. Don't be afraid though, if that is true they only attack when you are asleep because they are too weak to do much harm to you. They try to keep you dreaming so they steal your energy and then when you get up you are tired. When you are entering REM is the chance they get. Because of this I learned how to rest without sleeping(actually did it last night too lol).

I suggest you meditate more so you can control your subconscious/dream world easier. If possible get someone to sleep with you so you can feel more comfy, they are statistically from my personal experience attacked less when I was with someone. You pushed off the dream which means you are already tough so that is good. Try not to be afraid of being afraid(yeah this isn't a typo) it will make it worse and in the end whatever is causing this rather it is biological or spiritual it is not much of a threat if you can react to it well.

Eat/drink healthy do not have too much processed sugars that will raise cortisol. Also sleep in a position that makes it easy to breathe, cling to your partner if that makes you feel safe. I at times have this issue as well and it is like it eats your sleep mental recovery time so your cognitive ability gets weaker. Meditation helped me and diet changing helps when I get into that sort of series of events. If you have anxiety it makes it worse so it is best to investigate internally if there is some kind of subconscious anxiety just to make sure this is being fought against as much as possible with as many factors as possible.

I am not so good at exorcism or anything like that if this is really a spirit. I usually just endure and defend my mind rather than try forcing them out or whatever. I can imagine there is a way to get them to leave but idk. Scientists aren't so good at treating sleep paralysis since it is very complex and involves spirits at times. I managed to break out when I was attacked physically by getting my body to flinch before, but another time I just used my mind but it was tiring to use my mind sorta, took me a bit of energy. I am still learning about how to deal with it but my situation is better than before where I took like 3 a day so hopefully this helps your case.

LaoG
@laog
10/19/15 04:13:34PM
137 posts



I wonder what would cause them to go so far. I wonder if somehow they have little faith in their ability to exercise self-control and carry excessive pride. Since it doesn't make sense for someone to hate their beliefs. If they hate them they can just change them. It is a big pain to point them out since they can be annoying, you seem brave. There are those days when I just can't deal and get pissed and point them out or call them out or w.e too but I feel like if I did it a lot I'd start war. Idk how to quantify the amount of malice someone would have to kill so I just try to stay in the cool so they don't do anything crazy.

There are sociopaths with weak senses and they don't notice us but I find that the ones who do have a strong instinct for self-preservation and survival. So it is like their instincts tell them there is a threat, the same way ours tell us there is a threat when there is a sinister aura near or something. In actuality empaths are nearly harmless but survival instinct is based a lot on the ego, which it seems is why certain people can commit suicide easily and others can't, so this seems to make sense(sorta just venting a concept I haven't put into words before).

LaoG
@laog
10/19/15 11:39:52AM
137 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

I had this problem as well. Do you have weird breathing before you go to bed? Does it feel like there is another presence in the room before you go to sleep?

LaoG
@laog
10/19/15 08:30:13AM
137 posts

this is my ability


Empath

I had something like this happen to me randomly at times but it is very rare and empaths can also be clairsentient but this seems to be even stronger. Your ability is called claircognizance (means clear knowing). It seems to blend that and psychometry(knowing history of something by physical contact) somehow which is pretty cool. Pretty OP (if you play a lot of games I hope you get what that means lol).

LaoG
@laog
10/19/15 06:47:35AM
137 posts

I cannot discern this aura


Empath

Thank you :D she seems to be normal again so far. I wonder if you scared the guy away lol. I hope the guy does not bother you either. Still didn't get a chance to talk about racism yet, but if this continues I don't think there will be a need. God bless you.

LaoG
@laog
10/18/15 05:49:40PM
137 posts

I cannot discern this aura


Empath

Ok. Whenever I sense the quick glare I usually look away by instinct. I was being bothered by this and I wasn't as nervous around her before but this seems to make sense. His ability seems interesting (lol this is like an anime).

My fight/flight got stimulated when I noticed that I was so easily detected, so idk about him being a nice guy whoever is with her. Idk the details but Haiti has some black magic connections so I am wondering if she is getting stalked cause of some family thing. Thank you for the help.

I have another question, do you think it can just read my mind or train of thought? I wasn't thinking in words when I made those slight movements so I am wondering if this being has some hyper prediction ability or something. I am wondering if I should say 'are you ok? you've been giving me a weird feeling lately' or if that will just make it worse for her.

LaoG
@laog
10/18/15 03:39:31PM
137 posts

I cannot discern this aura


Empath

Thanks for the advice. If she is possessed how do I stop the possession? I don't want her to suffer from something like possession anymore.

LaoG
@laog
10/17/15 09:59:25PM
137 posts

Positivity


Empath

I have gone through a negative streak because of someone before so I think it makes sense. It's like some people got like a curse or something on 'em idk. Not sure if it is just coincidence though.

LaoG
@laog
10/17/15 09:08:26PM
137 posts



Yea I have sensed some people with socio-path disorder and it seems like they see me as a threat since I can see right through them, and they realize I can do that as well without me telling them. Random people can be afraid or just clingy it really depends. I've wondered if people just get afraid because empaths can see through someone's deep inner moral licensing or something.

LaoG
@laog
10/17/15 09:04:22PM
137 posts

I cannot discern this aura


Empath

Interesting. Seems like yet again I have attracted negative attention e.e seems very regular. I wonder if other empaths attract trouble as much as I do lol. I guess feeling nothing is a sign I should be very careful. I am wondering if what I was feeling was not malice but apathy. Thanks for the reply.

LaoG
@laog
10/17/15 08:24:15PM
137 posts

I cannot discern this aura


Empath

Thanks for the reply, and also I'm a dude and the person is a girl lol, The persons country of background is associated with voodoo and black magic so ill take that into account.

LaoG
@laog
10/17/15 01:13:25PM
137 posts

I cannot discern this aura


Empath

I am an empath and usually just sense someone easily but there is someone who my abilities do not work on. It doesn't seem like they are just being dull because they are bottling all of it deep inside or became numb they are far from numb its just at times I cannot sense them and when I did something simple like shift my glance to them(without moving my head) they responded it seems instinctively at an inhuman speed. It is crazy. I can usually sense their aura they are the type of person who is expressive and I can tell if they are irritated or nervous or feeling happy or being fake but randomly they are not discernible to me. And they seem to react to my focus on them at an inhuman speed, not to mention there are times when they act while I'm in that 'I can't sense them' state. Like I was looking straight once and then shifted my pupils to the right to gaze and within milliseconds they shifted theirs as well to my direction as if they were watching my PUPILS from like 2.5m away while they were looking into their palms with their head facing down. It was like the movement was predicted. This seems too weird to be just some coincidence and it is freaking me out lol. It happens quite often. Are there people with extrasensory spatial awareness? The person seems like an HSP but at this level of awareness it seems like some kind of ESP ability.

My senses usually help me read the emotions of others but for them I just can't do it at times, is it because they mirror me so there is nothing to feel? Am I feeling my own soul? I have read about a phenomenon in mbti where you are with someone and depending on your personality type you feel so comfortable with them its like they are not even in the room. Is it something like that? This is very confusing and I would like some input. I have some romantic feelings for the person if that is of any help, and I have sensed some from them as well but it was weird. Usually if someone likes me there is some lust mixed in, like that inner lower throat area and stomach sorta feeling idk how to explain it well, but this person had almost none that I felt. Others I get the feeling and can tell. I have had stronger empath skills since a spiritual awakening sort of thing and an NDE like vision, and from then I just needed to learn what I was sensing like BPD and other stuff. However, I have never sensed this before and have know idea what to call it or associate it with. I could tell they liked me but it wasn't like they thought they wanted to possess me or had lust it was weird.

It seems they have perfect control of their sexual urges, and also they seem to have a sturdy mind at times but at other times can be very fragile. The level of intuitive perception is abnormal and from what I have experienced it is only towards me.

So yeah thanks for reading all that if you did. I do not sense deliberate deception in the persons aura too during these 'senseless' occasions, that is one of the easiest things to detect.


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