Forum Activity for @soralei

Rose3
@soralei
10/27/16 06:17:16AM
49 posts

Lucky in Love?


Empath

Empath love is a beautiful thing.Its love being both projected and amplified.Its indescribable unless you have felt.If neither of you are ready it will always go horribly wrong and you will most likely still love that person for the rest of your life.Like it holds a special place it your heart.Don't tread lightly.I wish you luck.


updated by @soralei: 10/27/16 06:19:16AM
Rose3
@soralei
10/26/16 01:19:53PM
49 posts

Getting through high school.


Empath

Grounding is when you picture all of the bad emotions you feel and you put them into the ground.I imagine dark energy floating into the ground and turning to flowers and orbs of good energy sprouting out. Shielding is when you think of a shield made of energy light dark earth etc. You make a bubble and keep certain emotions out and other emotions in.I like to form it perfectly around my body.Oh one more thing I do is when I feel a lot of bad energy and it gets to be too much I push it back to everyone kind of like a big blast of energy in all directions.I only do that when I am incredibly stressed. Also don't work customer service.I think what works best is having yourself as a filter for energy in the room. I intake bad energy and I turn it into good energy and flood my room with it.

Rose3
@soralei
10/26/16 12:28:08PM
49 posts

Getting through high school.


Empath

Okay grounding and shielding works well.One thing I like to do is do two dials one for my emotion and one for others.Try to keep the one for other people at 0 and yours at 10.Since you just became and empath you may be tempted to do dark things with your ability.Sure its funs playing with people's emotion and teenagers are really gullible,but it wont make you feel better.It will make you worse and you will just feed off of them and become a sadist.I am going to tell you here and now if you follow that path it will not end well.Try to love yourself and find who you are love is the key to controlling your ability.Not love with others empaths have a bad thing about constantly falling in love don't do that because you are mainly in the love with the person loving you are not you actually loving them.True love is pure and big its feels like the sun is out all the time it is radiant.Hate is the key to self destruction and manipulation it will send you on a downward spiral.

I'm sure everyone wants me to sugarcoat it but I'm not going to.I wish I had people there for me telling me how it would be.Also stay away from drugs big time empaths can easily get addicted to them mainly the males.Do not become addicted to let's say physical activities because that is also an easy go to for empaths. You will feel like there are two sides to you.The you as people perceive you and this spiritual being who is you unfiltered by the world and free.Try to stay as close to that spiritual version of you as possible.That is you with society chaining you do.It will help guide you but you have to do things within reasons of society and what you are comfortable with.

You feel like everyone wants to take and never wants to listen to you.People don't like hearing the truth and they love going to us to take that emotional burden off them.If you find a friend who drains you and always ask for advice and never takes it or always makes you feel like crap.Drop them fast it will make you feel better and keep you out of drama.Practice is key there are a lot of empaths who have these abilities who just don't use them they shield themselves and block others.We aren't here to be that.We are here to be a filter to help those we can do not help those who don't want to be help.They have to start by helping themselves it will only drain you.A lost cause is still a lost cause do not let people take your kindness for weakness.You have to be strong,loving but fair.You have to be fair toy others as well as yourself.You come first help the world and the people as much as they allow you.

This is a big one no one told me.If you have kids 9/10 they will be empaths the girls are more likely to be empaths then the males.Do not hide it from them teach them at an early age so when they become teenagers they won't have to go through as much as you are going to.If you need help with anything send me a message.Don't be afraid to explore your abilities be good and be true to yourself.This is not a curse it is a gift.I said way more then I thought I would :)

Rose3
@soralei
08/27/16 02:33:46PM
49 posts

Reality itself


Empath

Lately I feel society has failed because I can feel it I know it has.As humans we can be far better then we are.But we have become distracted by money and a false sense of security.As empathy it's our job to make the world better everyone is supposed to feel as we do see as we do,but they don't .The world should have a better sense of love and unity but it does not.My heart aches because of this.The world needs to change or it will destroy itself.I feel we as empaths try to change things and give up but how often do we ignore the world for our own sake how often do we try to change it be honest.This is not how reality should be deep down you know it too.We have stunted our growth as humans for money and power and it has got to end with us. If we allow it.
updated by @soralei: 01/14/17 06:58:52AM
Rose3
@soralei
03/20/16 08:18:02AM
49 posts

Keeping a Job


Empath

I think with being an empathy whatever makes you feel best and whatever makes you the happiest is the best thing we can do.
Rose3
@soralei
03/20/16 07:05:32AM
49 posts

Keeping a Job


Empath

There are some places you just can't help because it is so bad.I think it's best you find a position where you work alone there or find another job period.
Rose3
@soralei
03/17/16 05:05:03PM
49 posts

Keeping a Job


Empath

I can't work in an environment that's too stressful or I have panic attacks as well.I will not do customer service.
Rose3
@soralei
03/17/16 12:33:33PM
49 posts

Keeping a Job


Empath

Is it just me or is it hard to keep a job.Like everyone's emotions runs high and stress and you feel it all.It gets to me.I try not to but I just want to know that I am not alone here.It takes a lot for me not to yell at people or just send bad energy their way we work goes bad.I somehow manage though.
updated by @soralei: 05/18/17 04:37:31AM
Rose3
@soralei
03/03/16 05:56:49AM
49 posts

How do you feel about Emo's


Empath

I just learned how to filter really well.I feel other emotion if I choose to.If it's negative I move through it or push it back.Sometimes I purify it.I have worked years to achieve this ten long years.It's like a nice break.Also starting to think some empaths feel certain emotions easier then others.I usally feel depression,anger,and playfulness the most.It's all thanks to my guide never a day I don't learn something new about myself or my gift.As for emo's you have to want to get better.I don't help people who don't want to help themselves.I have done it before.I move on to those who need and want it.
Rose3
@soralei
02/29/16 12:05:27PM
49 posts

How do you feel about Emo's


Empath

Most of the emo's I have met have been like that.Now I understand that emo's can be empaths who are not ready to embrace their gifts.
Rose3
@soralei
02/29/16 07:49:41AM
49 posts

How do you feel about Emo's


Empath

Now that I think about as a teen I was a bit of an emo.I was angry and depressed.I didn't harm myself.I usually just felt anger and misunderstood.Everything felt negative the spirits around me were dark.I waso drawn to people like me but they never found a way out.They got stuck in that darkness and relished in it.
Rose3
@soralei
02/27/16 07:37:12PM
49 posts

How do you feel about Emo's


Empath

I have wondered this since high school.I never understood and most people don't know what an emo is.Most people say it's an emotional person or means emotive.When honestly it's an angsty teen who is depressed and doesn't want to feel anything and is heavily medicated and addicted to drama.Who usually want to die and/or hurt themselves or worse.

In the mid 90's there was a hardcore/emocore movement which was known as Emotive Hardcore.Lead by Rites of Spring as a way to break off and start their own sound.The term was used a put-down for those who listened to it.It was something no one wanted to be called.It was the movement after grunge.

It just makes me very irritated when someone calls themselves an emo.If anyone is an emo it's an empath we feel everything while they feel nothing and don't want to.Granted some empaths can get this way,but I have never seen an emo empath.Which I find very curious I haven't even really seen the words used together.Which I find hard to believe.It's just aggravating me and I need a more peaceful understanding perspective.

Sorry if this post feels bad I have been talking to a lot of teens lately.


updated by @soralei: 02/22/17 01:29:08AM
Rose3
@soralei
01/10/16 09:18:10AM
49 posts

I'm having trouble with being an empath all together. I just feels too much


Empath

Being a teenage empathy is never easy.I thought I was going crazy my grades weren't good and it was hard for me to make friends which made it worse.You need to learn how to shield yourself and weave around other people's emotion.There are classes or you can go to YouTube and look up techniques that's what I did.I also noticed when an empath is happy it is easier to control the emotions and everything around you.If you can tell what will happen use your gift to make your life better.It is a gift but sometimes a curse.It gets better your hormones are making it a bit worse.Just try to be a good person and use your ability for good.I know it is hard as a teen.I abused my ability from 15 until 21.Now I am 24.If you need someone to talk to message me anytime.There are lots of people who have been where you are just ask for help.
Rose3
@soralei
12/31/15 03:46:26PM
49 posts

Manipulating Negativity


Empath

Well I for one think you are a good nice and have a beautiful soul.It takes time to learn all the things you have picked up on so quickly.And yes some people are just that hurtful and mean.I think it may have to do with past lives.

Some people just don't like manipulating hate or any emotion in general.It' something kind of technical and you have to get used to it and if you don't feel just right when you do it it's kind of this negative feeling that washes over you when you try to change the emotions.If you do it right it's like a ray of golden positivity.

Rose3
@soralei
12/08/15 06:58:34PM
49 posts



It's not worth it and people may think you're weird.You have to accept that fact.

Rose3
@soralei
11/23/15 03:14:55PM
49 posts

Thanksgiving


Empath

This holiday is already stressing me out.I feel like everyone doesn't want to cook so they come to my job.And they are angry because they have to cook for Thanksgiving.For Halloween it was a happy feeling the kids were so excited.This holiday I feel angry and frustrated.I can tell my family will argue about the cooking.My sister doesn't cook the healthiest and Thanksgiving is her holiday.Our cousin is in town and she is a professional cook.She cooks healthy I can tell they will butt heads and I will be on the middle soaking it all up.I know alcohol is bad for our abilities but it's an holiday I'm drinking.

I usually love the holidays.I haven't even done Christmas shopping I usually start early.Part of me just wants to say I'm broke not do it this year.I still love holidays but I feel like everyone's feelings are getting in the way of that.It's about family and togetherness being thankful for what you have.

Well Happy Early Thanksgiving and good luck this holiday we will all need it.


updated by @soralei: 01/12/17 11:22:23AM
Rose3
@soralei
11/23/15 07:10:30AM
49 posts

Recurring Dream


Empath

Okay I haven't had nightmares in awhile but evert in I wake up after my alarm or right before and it says alarm silenced or nothing.Ik for a fake I set it on high.It's not the alarm if it is set for any time but 5 to 8 am it goes off.Today I woke right at 6:59 when it turned to 7:00 am.I felt like I had been forced to sleep again.I was on the bed and someone barged in I reached for my gun they hadn't come into the bedroom yet I forced myself up grabbed my pistol and searched the house no one was there.
Rose3
@soralei
11/16/15 05:28:56PM
49 posts

Exploring Who I am


Empath

Your comment really helped me I feel a little better.I just want to know why this gift why me.I don't know if the question will ever be answered.

Rose3
@soralei
11/16/15 05:26:57PM
49 posts

Empaths & Used Items


Empath

I do.I threw out a jacket I had since middle school.House feels better I feel better.Just touching it gave me bad vibes.I cleared the energy off it and donated the jacket.It was gone within 4 hours.Someone else can have a nice coat for winter with some positive energy attached to it.

Rose3
@soralei
11/15/15 12:25:27PM
49 posts

Exploring Who I am


Empath

Since I became an empath and embraced it.I have noticed I am a completely different person then I used to be.I feel like the things I did like were impressions from other people.Same about what I hated.Mainly what I hated.Like I used to like dresses but I never wore them.Now I love them and get every chance to wear them.Winter is coming and I am literally trying to wear a sweater dress with tights for most of that season.Easy to get on easy to get off....

It's like I am exploring who I am.Like for awhile when I was intermediate emotionally overwhelmed empath I didn't know what I like.I didn't have any hobbies, and I didn't know why.It's like I went through a transition strange of hating everything I actually liked because of the people around me.I loved to sing but I hated my voice and couldn't fine it.My ex was a singer and made me insecure about it.Now I just love love to sing and listen to music.The classics of course more soul.

Also I found a group Nightwish their songs from their new singer is hypnotic like a siren song.I have been wondering what it means.I don't even really like the group but her voice draws me in.

It's like an awakening of who I am I feel closer to my soul like I am one step from being who I should be.Like a calling my mission in life.I still don't know what that is,but I know I want to help people.

I had a dream and the word empath came up and watchers.It was very positive.I felt half aware and half asleep.It was weird although the watchers came up again.I don't know what it means.

I just want to know it all.I want to harness my abilities like and angel and a demon.I know bad but that's how I feel.Also I have wondered whenever I feel attacked by and unknown force or emotions I go on the defense.I go into attack mode I don't know why.I have wondered if it is normal for an empath to do that.I just get rid of all the spirits in the room.I don't try to talk to them.I have been tricked before.Now I feel like maybe I should help them instead of turning them into positive energy.Like my intentions are good and I am almost there but I am lost because I am going this all alone.The way I was taught by bad spirits.I have a new spiritual guide very good and he says I should be more trusting and let in the light.I shouldn't jump to conclusions like everyone and everything wants to hurt me.It's hard because I have been there where everyone was using me and taking me for everything.I went on the defense I was the taker.I need to return to being a giver.My body and mind are there,but my soul is still raw.

I control emotion and honestly if it's really bad and I know someone wants to harm me with it.I bring it back to the person.I know bad I should turn it into positivity or ground it but I wasn't trained like that I was taught that.I feel like I am not good enough to be an empath.A better person deserves this gift.I always wanted to be different but sometimes I just want to be normal.Or at least have someone who understands me right here.Not a spirits not a person online.A physical being right there guiding me.I am good at being an empath but I want to be a better me first.

I love this site and I hate it.I can't hide myself from any of you yet I need you.You feel everything through the screen all the emotions the lies the truth the pain.You understand like no one else can because you have been through or are going through what I am.I need that we all do.


updated by @soralei: 02/03/17 03:36:07PM
Rose3
@soralei
11/13/15 04:31:11PM
49 posts

Recurring Dream


Empath

Had the dream again,but this time they told me the watcher will be here in an hour.I freaked out I could hear my alarm but couldnt wake up.I forced myself up just in time to get ready for work.

Rose3
@soralei
11/12/15 06:56:18AM
49 posts

Got it!!!now..any suggestions?


Psychic and Paranormal

White sage helps,banishing the spirit,turning them into pure energy.You can try to help them but most of the spirits I have dealt with aren't so nice.
Rose3
@soralei
11/11/15 06:42:02PM
49 posts

Anger


Empath

Thanks this helped.I can usually control the emotions people throw at me but anger is a little harder.

Rose3
@soralei
11/11/15 05:03:34PM
49 posts

Help my classmate


Empath

Aw I fee for you I could feel the emotion in your post he needs help.I will try to send some light his way.He needs help.I could feel his pain through you.

Rose3
@soralei
11/11/15 05:00:25PM
49 posts

Anger


Empath

I dont know why but today I just feel angry.I got angry for no reason.I punched my hand really hard.I haven't hit anything physically in that way in years.I don't know if it was from being online with everyone energy just tainting everyone or because I was having an argument.I think I have an anger problem since I embraced myself as an empath. Like it's so easy to just be negative and hurt people.I'm fine now but kind of freaked out.I didn't see it coming didn't expect it.Just a burst of anger.I usually just suppress it.


updated by @soralei: 02/17/17 10:33:57AM
Rose3
@soralei
11/11/15 03:56:40PM
49 posts

Is this my past life


New Age

At first I was watching but when she was shot.I was were I felt her pain I pulled out that bullet and I watched the man she loved crying holding her as rain started to fall.I can still see it clearly.At the time I had the dream I was going through a bad relationship with my ex.It would keep popping up until I eventually broke up with him.Now I see glimpses of her in her room with a man happy yet unhappy.

Rose3
@soralei
11/10/15 05:29:14PM
49 posts

Is this my past life


New Age

Okay this has bothered me for three years.I had a dreams about a female standing in the rain.She is dressed in all red in the middle of the street talking when she gets shot.There were 2 guys with her.One the lover the other the betrayer.Well she gets shot in the arm and takes the bullet out of her shoulder it's mushroomed and she is bleeding out.I know for a fact her ex shot her.I don't know how I know this.Sometimes I have flashes of the same female at vanity mirror in her apartment with an army guy.Or three guys who she loved. I also get the sense that I always die for love or get too attached to the idea of love.I really need help.I have asked about this dreams so many times and no more has helped me.Please help


updated by @soralei: 07/05/17 12:13:35PM
Rose3
@soralei
11/08/15 09:12:24AM
49 posts

Denial


Empath

It hasn't gone away.We natural rationalize things but how do you explain the things you feel.
Rose3
@soralei
11/03/15 06:48:06AM
49 posts

Recurring Dream


Empath

It's not quite recurring but whenever I have a bad nightmare.I wakeup in a house not my own dressed in beautiful nightgowns running through the house scared of something.This night I was aware I actually armed myself with weapons while in the dream.The attacker finally came out but kept getting up and chasing after me.This happened after my fianc had his night terror.I fought the spirit off and went I tried to go back to sleep I could feel a nightmare coming on.Instead of waking up in someone else bed I was actually awake in mine.I can tell some spirit is making this happen to my fianc and when I intervene I have nightmares next
updated by @soralei: 01/22/17 07:13:50AM
Rose3
@soralei
11/02/15 08:44:08PM
49 posts

Awaiting for a soulmate or just scared of rejection?


Empath

You will find them when you least expect it.That kind of energy you notice it's unavailable. To me it's like swimming in a pool of love with a hint of lust.Mostly when you look into their eyes and sour gaze you will know for sure.
Rose3
@soralei
11/02/15 08:41:18PM
49 posts

Encountering resistance when trying to help people


Empath

From experience I have learned this.You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped.I have tried they just drain you.When they truly do want help and come to you for genuine advice then the healing can begin.I have noticed the worse thing is noticing something is wrong.For some reason they shy away and trust us less and put up walls because we see the pain no one else sees.
Rose3
@soralei
10/30/15 08:27:22PM
49 posts

Strange Happening


Empath

From my experience some spirits can't be help.Be careful.

Rose3
@soralei
10/25/15 05:49:29AM
49 posts

Struggle with eye contact (Hi, I'm new)


Empath

I had this problem too you know what I did.I looked people in the eye, and learned to filter the emotion. You can't hide from other people or their emotions.You can train yourself to deal with it.Ground the emotion and meditate.
Rose3
@soralei
10/25/15 05:11:27AM
49 posts

Empath as a Filter


Empath

Really because I do that all the time.Usually right before bed.I thought it was just a normal thing we did.
Rose3
@soralei
10/21/15 07:17:28AM
49 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

That's what it was.I got rid of it, but that spirit gave him night terror that helped him with his book...
Rose3
@soralei
10/20/15 08:18:23PM
49 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

The only thing that has really changed is me accepting being an empath and me telling his mom I am bi.Also Aunt Lori came she is an alcoholic and smokes like crazy.It honestly didn't start until after our 4 days was up of vacation.We had to go back to work to our routine...I am so confused.It could be anything.I even tried purifying him.

Rose3
@soralei
10/20/15 08:46:45AM
49 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

I have the bed dreams right before I am about to drift to sleep or when my boyfriend leaves for work.Last night I slept good him not so much.I think my dreams are trying to tell me something.
Rose3
@soralei
10/19/15 06:38:57PM
49 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

Usually my boyfriend has night terrors but since we have been together he doesn't have them as much.I havent had nightmares in years but when I got with him they happened more frequently.

Rose3
@soralei
10/19/15 04:22:42PM
49 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

At times yes I am distracted and I don't know why and it is hard to breathe

Rose3
@soralei
10/19/15 10:44:40AM
49 posts

Attacked in Dreans


Empath

This started happening after I returned to my house after my boyfriend came back from his trip.We spent most of the return time at his parents.I come back to our house and every night I have a nightmare or I am attacked.Last night was different I don't know how but I knew something wasn't right.Like the dream suddenly changed I became raged and pushed it out.I then woke up 30 mins before my alarm.I went back to sleep and everything was fine.I am sick of this every night before bed or when I sleep or day dream.
updated by @soralei: 05/07/17 01:59:36PM
Rose3
@soralei
10/17/15 11:19:57PM
49 posts



They like being able to lie and fool people.Around us they can't since unlike most people we can tell when they are lying.

Rose3
@soralei
10/17/15 10:31:10PM
49 posts

Positivity


Empath

Sounds like my ex I told him it was like he was cursed...Anything that could go wrong did go wrong.I think he killed someone in his past life or something.It was like a darkness followed him.

Rose3
@soralei
10/17/15 08:52:03PM
49 posts



I think it's because you know something is wrong and they hate that.That they can't hide themselves from you.Some people embrace it and talk for hours.Usually this is what I get.They shy away and never want to talk.I do get the few who just talk and talk and want help,then there are energy vampires who take and never solve their problems and use your energy to feel better while you feel drained.

Rose3
@soralei
10/17/15 08:42:59PM
49 posts

Positivity


Empath

I feel like since I have embraced myself as an empath and have tried to be the best version of myself possible nothing seems to be going wrong.My credit which was bad for quite a while is good.I am happy at my job.My boyfriend and I just keep having strokes of good luck and our relationship and physical parts of it is at an all time high.He says that it feels more sensual and intimate feels better.Anyways I feel like we are on a winning streak it is so weird.My ex had extremely bad karma but after I finally let go of his energy my luck has never been better.Is this normal?It's like a light is coming off of me and people are drawn to it.


updated by @soralei: 01/14/17 08:05:32PM
Rose3
@soralei
10/17/15 08:38:08PM
49 posts

I cannot discern this aura


Empath

I got those same feelings with my ex and my ex friend.It is never good when you sense nothing from anyone.Also like he said dark energy was emitting from your post.Good luck

Rose3
@soralei
10/16/15 05:22:52PM
49 posts

Dreams & Nightmares


Empath

Okay I haven't had this dream in ages.I started grounding my energy feeling good and now.I see flashes of the same girl in my dream.Or I will be looking at my boyfriend and a flash of a military guy will pop in my head and then zip start to cry.I am writing it.Some intense things have happened from these moments.I am scared of what zip will feel.
Rose3
@soralei
10/11/15 08:21:17PM
49 posts

Dreams & Nightmares


Empath

I have had the same basic dreams for 3 years.It all started with the first one a girl who I think is me.She is running away trying to catch a bus out of town it's raining.When a car drives up full of men and one of the guys shoots her.She is hit in the shoulder and takes half a hockey puck sized bullet out of her.Her lover is there crying in the rain.Basically carries her to the hospital and she bleeds out.This is the 1940's the girl is wearing a red coat and dress and her hair is pinned under a hat.All the men are wearing suits and fedoras. I have had different dreams same girl some of sexual abuse or relationships with married man, mobster, and a military guy back from war.I thought it was all drears until the sexual abuse.It was so intense I fell to the floor and lost all of my appetite like it drained all my energy. I have seen .I have had other dreams but that one's was the craziest.I just want to know what it means.Is it just a dream or something more.
updated by @soralei: 01/13/17 09:11:51AM
Rose3
@soralei
10/08/15 08:18:26PM
49 posts

Empaths with a connection to Death


Empath

I didn't see anything but it was this intense feeling you don't forget.Like death was there hovering then there was a gunshot.My next door neighbor had been shot.He was fine.Then the next day it happened again.I never saw that neighbor after that.