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Rene''
@rene
12/02/16 09:51:09PM
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Was the person in training ?
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@rene
12/02/16 09:50:23PM
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Wedgie:

I wish to tell my story about yesterday. I did a few tasks with my dad before going to the bank but once I was there, I felt totally different, as if I picked up the disatisfactions of the people around me while waiting in line. I decided to disregard this and go along. The Cashier at the desk took 25-30 minutes time just to make a simple cheque deposit. So I was furious about her unpro attitudes and behaviour. I took the next step and complained to the president of the bank and also have detected that my opinion was not valid. SInce the last few days and weeks, my abilities grows and I am able to discern the BS from people more easily. Humans have so many masks that I consider this world, Not valid. Yep. TRue. Anyway what I have fe;t during my time during the bank was pure detection of  the bad vibes of the people. All of them. I didn't take it personnally but I wish some other empaths here to tell me what was it that happened to me yesterday. I am not sure its all about my patience, which was lost for a few hours. Still this morning I am furious at them. WHile I was being badly served at the bank with the female clerk, no one clerk was available to serve the 10-15 people waiting in line after me so I felt between 2 stressful crowds and to me, now, choosing a bank that has respects is nearly impossible. Someone can relate here? any input?



I like to call it a "Rene'" tantrum. Lol. It happens. Just because we are Empaths don't mean we won't catch an attitude. Those could of been your feelings or a combination of others. I can tell you from plenty of experience that you have to pull yourself back in , cut cords and blow a kiss to them as they leave. After all the bad service you received you can't hold it in. Today's a new day. Was it because she was slow or was it she was nasty to you that got you mad?
Rene''
@rene
12/02/16 09:35:52PM
1,194 posts

Free Emotion Clearing to the first three responders


Empath

I would love one but I would rather some of the others that hasn't had one reply to you first.

****Someone needs to take him up on his blessed offer, you don't know what you are missing out on ***
Rene''
@rene
12/02/16 09:26:30PM
1,194 posts

Free Emotion Clearing to the first three responders


Empath

Hello Trevor...so glad to feel your presences.
I bow to you.
Rene''
@rene
12/02/16 09:24:21PM
1,194 posts

I needed a good laugh this morning


Empath

Rene'':
Jojo:

The best guiding force we can choose is love. Indeed by far the best power to call first allegiance to is love. Live in and perceive through love (affirmation) and you open the potential to live in the truest light of who you are, not influenced by ego (fear). Every action we make is either influenced by love or fear. Any practice (such as a particular aspect of wicca) that serves love is a very positive thing. The thing is though I believe in god and Jesus but I don't go around saying im a christian because it is much less supporting of the truth and others than spreading the word of love. Just look at how Christianity has been interpreted by the fearing. There are many Christians that are anti gay because of their faith. Its very hard to misinterpret love (god is pure love). We are, after all, all light workers as empaths and here to spread the vibration of love. So if you find ways to spread love through things youve learnt from wicca thats fantastic but let love be your first allegiance and guiding force not wicca itself. Let love be the first thing you help someone understand before you speak of something that can be interpreted (and used, although only by the fooled/confused) in negative ways as well as positive (unlike love). All good that comes from any individual who practices wicca has been influenced directly by love. Love is the only thing that can show us the truth. Indeed love will give you the best sense of belonging. You might want to question the clarity in which you convey your first allegiance to love starting with your profile picture (witches hat) which(no pun intended) to so many is a representation of darkness.  Much love dear light worker



I love your truth and wisdom. I too believe in god but cannot look down upon any one for their life choices. I also don't like mind control or fear. I have told many Christians that God put this my mind so I will research it. People have a hard time controlling an out of control spiritualist. I believe all religions do and will play a big part of everything. But the fear some religions put into people keeps their mind closed

I also wanted to add that I don't have a problem with Wiccans. It's the ones that takes the power and uses it for revenge or dark play . I'm all about love. I get mad and envious and all other emotions but I feel them and let them go. I don't seek revenge because once you let yourself fall to that low depth of revenge, you have slipped out of the place where love lives. lol
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@rene
12/02/16 09:19:02PM
1,194 posts

I needed a good laugh this morning


Empath

bunnigirl:

To continue....this is what they feel now I am sure...from an email I received yesterday....that would be ME on the bed! @rene I was laughing on the train over what you uploaded when I closed my email and thought oh this is more fitting!  pitchforks and torches might be coming next LOL

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I love it
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@rene
12/02/16 09:18:26PM
1,194 posts

I needed a good laugh this morning


Empath

Jojo:

The best guiding force we can choose is love. Indeed by far the best power to call first allegiance to is love. Live in and perceive through love (affirmation) and you open the potential to live in the truest light of who you are, not influenced by ego (fear). Every action we make is either influenced by love or fear. Any practice (such as a particular aspect of wicca) that serves love is a very positive thing. The thing is though I believe in god and Jesus but I don't go around saying im a christian because it is much less supporting of the truth and others than spreading the word of love. Just look at how Christianity has been interpreted by the fearing. There are many Christians that are anti gay because of their faith. Its very hard to misinterpret love (god is pure love). We are, after all, all light workers as empaths and here to spread the vibration of love. So if you find ways to spread love through things youve learnt from wicca thats fantastic but let love be your first allegiance and guiding force not wicca itself. Let love be the first thing you help someone understand before you speak of something that can be interpreted (and used, although only by the fooled/confused) in negative ways as well as positive (unlike love). All good that comes from any individual who practices wicca has been influenced directly by love. Love is the only thing that can show us the truth. Indeed love will give you the best sense of belonging. You might want to question the clarity in which you convey your first allegiance to love starting with your profile picture (witches hat) which(no pun intended) to so many is a representation of darkness.  Much love dear light worker



I love your truth and wisdom. I too believe in god but cannot look down upon any one for their life choices. I also don't like mind control or fear. I have told many Christians that God put this my mind so I will research it. People have a hard time controlling an out of control spiritualist. I believe all religions do and will play a big part of everything. But the fear some religions put into people keeps their mind closed
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@rene
12/02/16 09:13:02PM
1,194 posts

I needed a good laugh this morning


Empath

EliseLebeau:

Btw Renee, you can embed an image instead of attaching it and it will display in the post full size.


Like copy and paste?
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@rene
12/02/16 09:07:49PM
1,194 posts

New Feature: Chat with other members


Empath

EliseLebeau:

Can you post something in the chat so I can make sure it works?


I don't have chat for some reason. I guess it because I use an IPhone
Rene''
@rene
12/02/16 11:34:56AM
1,194 posts

New Feature: Chat with other members


Empath

Well darn...I hope it will become available for phones. I could be just chatting away.
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@rene
12/01/16 09:18:10PM
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Empaths and "the holidays"


Empath

I, for one, have always felt so many emotions around the holidays. Money, families ties that have been cut and mostly just not feeling worthy enough to anyone. For me, I've always have had plenty of friends or what some considered friends but I've never been important to anyone. Not trying to be pitied because I don't need any more negativity but it true. It could be my fault for not allowing anyone in my head.
But Christmas depression is a real thing that effects thousands of people each year if they admit it or not. And , us Empaths, feel the full effect. Our depression and everyone else's. I'm trying to keep my vibration high but I'm fooling myself I know.

http://www.thedailyawe.com/2010/12/coping-with-the-holidays-as-an-empath/
updated by @rene: 08/02/17 01:10:33AM
Rene''
@rene
12/01/16 08:39:52PM
1,194 posts

New Feature: Chat with other members


Empath

Is chat accessible from a phone or do you have to have a desktop/laptop?
Rene''
@rene
12/01/16 08:37:09PM
1,194 posts

12/1/2016: energies in world...


Empath

I have had a lot of people complain about this and also a lot of headaches
Rene''
@rene
12/01/16 08:18:04PM
1,194 posts

New Feature: Chat with other members


Empath

Ok. I'm feeling very stupid at this moment. I can't find the chat room
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@rene
12/01/16 08:14:27PM
1,194 posts

New Feature: Chat with other members


Empath

I haven't found the chat yet. Lol.
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@rene
12/01/16 09:55:05AM
1,194 posts

I needed a good laugh this morning


Empath

IMG_7046.PNG.pngWe have talk about on many post about our family and friends not excepting who we are. Just wanted to share this. Lol. Reminds me of what my family thinks. Lol.


updated by @rene: 05/31/17 08:35:33AM
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@rene
11/28/16 04:11:15PM
1,194 posts

Are you a Heyoka Empath


Empath

i pretty much and to the point  with people.  Even though I'm an empath I will tell someone an honest opinion.  Sometimes that's not what they want to hear but it's the truth.  If someones been in an abusive relationship and keeps on making excuses why they have gotten out of it then I don't know what else to tell them but ask "has he not hit you hard enough to knock some sense into you yet?   What's it going to take?   I have to finally stay away from that person because I'm feeling the abuse also.     

Im nice to everyone but I have learned some just wants to vent and not help themselves no matter what kind of resources I find  them  

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@rene
11/27/16 08:49:48PM
1,194 posts

Third Eye Opening Randomly


Empath

Yes.  I experience it daily.    Have you tried to pull your self back in during meditation and centering or imagining the third eye closing when you are not trying to see?  I do it at different parts of the day.   

Another question.   Since it's been happening a lot here lately, you may have a message trying to come though.    Ask your guides and or Angels what this means and is the faces delivering a message.   

Hope that helps. 

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@rene
11/27/16 08:39:39PM
1,194 posts

We as empaths need to unite together PLEASE READ and share your input


Empath

Just wanted to share this one.  Peace and love to all 

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@rene
11/24/16 09:09:55PM
1,194 posts

The dark side of being full of light


Empath

I can relate to some of this now but I don't know nothing about any green juice Lol.

http://www.rebellesociety.com/2015/12/10/robinlee-darksideoflight/
updated by @rene: 04/30/17 12:37:06AM
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@rene
11/23/16 09:13:39PM
1,194 posts

Thank You, Friends


Empath

For those of you in the US I want to wish you a happy and plentiful Thanksgiving . It seems our country is less than thankful at this time with all the Issues at Standing Rock and the election.

I'm sending love to everyone here on this thankful day.

I would like to give thanks to each and every one of you around the world. You may not feel the love I feel when I read your post but I feel it and thank you for always being there with an open mind.

You are loved. ❤️ I hope this day smiles for you. Thank you.





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updated by @rene: 03/27/17 01:14:51PM
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@rene
11/22/16 08:26:50PM
1,194 posts

Ok..I'm confused again


Empath

Lotusfly:

@Rene, Yeah, we're all the same...just the details are different :)

Wicca is all about respecting each other and mother nature. There is nothing bad about it. A very natural, nature-oriented religion.

@pieces-aquarius, The video clip was good. Especially liked how it connects Christianity and Egyptian religions and astrology. We have a lot of history...a lot more than what gets recognized :)

Lot

Lotusfly:

@Rene, Yeah, we're all the same...just the details are different :)

Wicca is all about respecting each other and mother nature. There is nothing bad about it. A very natural, nature-oriented religion.

@pieces-aquarius, The video clip was good. Especially liked how it connects Christianity and Egyptian religions and astrology. We have a lot of history...a lot more than what gets recognized :)

@ Lotusfly.   Yep, Lotusfly,  I really think it's in the heart and intent of the individual.    We choose not to hurt others and assume others have the same heart as we do but they don't.   Power in the wrong hands can be dangerous. 

@pieces-aquarius 

i really enjoyed that video   I did not know how closely Christianity was to those other religions   

I loved it   Thank you 

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@rene
11/20/16 09:42:17PM
1,194 posts

Ok..I'm confused again


Empath

I have come to terms that I am Rene' and I am a spiritual being. I try to love all But I still research everything....I can't help
myself. I am forever researching different religions and practices.
I know that their are practicing witches on here so please excuse my ignorance.
I was reading on a witches fb page , just being nosy I guess and someone ask if any of them was religious and .. to my amazement...other then casting spells ...the were send love and Light and talking about working with energies and please forgive me for sounding so naive but we all sounded so alike but yet different because we work with the light mostly and some of their energy was everywhere.
I know this is not new news to some of you but I'm still learning about other cultures.
It's strange how so many people are so alike but follow different religions and practices but most..not all ..we are the same. I can't say light workers paths is the path for everyone but it is a path to love and Light and it seems our minds stay open more than others and we accept any and all that wonders our way.
But...I did find one thing strange...when I commented on the post (you know I couldn't help myself) no one would answer my questions. Hmm. I wonder why? I ask the question " I notice you all send love and Light but yet you paint such a dark picture of your practices..why? I thought it was a honest question..maybe a little blunt but I was just wondering.
Ok. I'm done. Lol.
updated by @rene: 03/29/17 09:41:53AM
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@rene
11/19/16 10:57:43PM
1,194 posts

Memory Issues


Empath

Oh, this is so funny.  I'm the same way.  When I was younger I thought it was too much partaking of the herb then I out grew that so now it maybe old age creeping up on me.   

I have thought about this and I wondered if it's all the information we take in and researching we do our minds filters though and files it from most to least importantance.  We have all the normal human knowledge then all the spiritual knowledge...that's a lot to take in.  And then the knowledge we have that we have no idea where it come from.   I have carried on conversation with people who has claimed to have worked with me or the same company that I was working for and would have no idea who this person is but they would know an awful a lot about me so it had to be true and I would not have the heart to tell them I don't remember them...at all but I can tell you the mathematical formulation for specific gravity though and I haven't worked with formulas for 10 years.   Sometimes I have a photographic  memory especially with numbers  but not with faces but it may be because I remember the feelings people give me more Than their appearance.    I don't have Alzheimers...I have sometimers...lol. 

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@rene
11/18/16 10:52:39PM
1,194 posts

Survival of my Son's Surgery


Empath

Heavy Rains:
Rene'':

I really don't know if there is a shield strong enough to shield us from our childrens mental or physical pain because that is PURE LOVE  and WHITE LIGHT and we know nothing can penetrate it.   I think that kind of pain and love is put in us to ensure that the earths population does not dwindle.   

Keeping yourself grounded and centered is very important to me   I center myself everyday and when I come across tough situations I can bring myself back to the center quickly so I can think   

I would put protection around you and your baby and seal it with your love and ask for understanding of all future events  and ask your God/universe and angels For protection and guidance.  

Prayers to you and your sweet baby son.   I know how precious they are,  I have two of them.  


That feels so much better to my heart to have a shield which includes him. I am new to this... Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts.

I even cleanse my dogs with sage and put protection around them.  Lol. 

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@rene
11/18/16 10:50:53PM
1,194 posts

Anger...the taught emotion?


Empath

Lotusfly:

Hi Rene,

There's nothing wrong with anger if it's expressed well. This can take time if you're used to holding it in. I suggest letting it out a little at a time by explaining what's bothering you to the person who's making you angry. Like you said, there's a reason you get angry, and the trick is learning to express it assertively.

As far as your father, have you tried ignoring his calls? Have you told him to stay off your property? Have you threatened a restraining order? Some of these suggestions may seem "out there" but not for a narcissist. I can relate because my relationship with my father is similar. My lack of response eventually stopped him from contacting me, because even a narcissist can't stand to be ignored. I live far from him though. Other than a restraining order, I don't know how else you can keep him off your property.

And please don't be ashamed of your anger. It is a learning tool that signifies something needs to change. It is also a survival tool. And all Empaths experience the range (if not more) of human emotions, so no worries about posting about anything negative here, because life is not always a bowl of cherries ;)

Love and blessings~

yes  I have had law enforcement up here a number of times   Even had him committed for a week for evolution.    I have got to get past his energy and let it go   

Rene''
@rene
11/18/16 09:59:26AM
1,194 posts

Anger...the taught emotion?


Empath

Yep, I'm going to talk about anger again because it's the thread that keeps my ego attached. My ego knows , by now, it cannot manipulate my love for others or any living thing. It knows I carry myself without shame or care what others think of me. It knows I do not like others to feel pain or fear. The one thing it has on me is that Anger is not a feeling I deal with well. I don't get angry for no reason , it's usually surfaces when a person has went above and beyond the normal means to hurt me. But what is Anger? What I feel from Anger is the fear of not being able to control a situation that is spinning out of control and I have to say there is one person in my life , that can't control me, they spins out of control and targets me directly or indirectly so they can get my attention. They don't care if this is positive attention or negative attention, as long as they get my attention.

I have tried many ways to "not" get angry but it keeps coming back.
I have been not responding to the Anger but it gets caught bundled up inside and I end up angry on the inside by keeping my mouth shut. When I release the energy back out into the universe it keeps coming back.
I think it's because I was taught this Anger from such an early age by this one person ...my father. It's a hard habit to break. I cut cords to him months ago but he will not stop. Creeping by my house at all hours. Calling my phone. He is a text book narcissist. He is one of those people that's going to get attention no matter what.

I have to say I do not Anger easily but his negative energy enrages me. He's 80 years old and still has not found peace.

He's not a good person and is not allowed around my granddaughter.

I have often thought maybe he has some kind of possession to make him do the evil things he does.

I really don't know why I'm posting this ..I have read some on here says there is too much negativity on this forum but you all are my teachers or the ones I look to for explanations and I'm not trying to bring people down. Just need some suggestions..again.
I found this one article though.
http://www.spiritualityhealth.com/blog/julie-peters/spirituality-anger
updated by @rene: 05/11/17 08:41:00PM
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@rene
11/17/16 09:06:02PM
1,194 posts

Survival of my Son's Surgery


Empath

I really don't know if there is a shield strong enough to shield us from our childrens mental or physical pain because that is PURE LOVE  and WHITE LIGHT and we know nothing can penetrate it.   I think that kind of pain and love is put in us to ensure that the earths population does not dwindle.   

Keeping yourself grounded and centered is very important to me   I center myself everyday and when I come across tough situations I can bring myself back to the center quickly so I can think   

I would put protection around you and your baby and seal it with your love and ask for understanding of all future events  and ask your God/universe and angels For protection and guidance.  

Prayers to you and your sweet baby son.   I know how precious they are,  I have two of them.  

Rene''
@rene
11/17/16 12:07:26PM
1,194 posts

The Abusive Empath


Empath

Cat Whisperer:

I don't want to think I am abusive but I can hold my own in public as well. I am of small and petite stature and there have been times when I have had to..."get involved". I have been told that I get a look that makes me look almost crazy..it literally makes people back off. Been told it's scary but that could be father from my normal nature. I always chalked it up to my colorful past..years ago had been in some questionable areas but always had my tough face on so never got bothered. Now I wonder if I was projecting to others around me unknowingly. 

Lol.  I've been told I can throw daggers with my eyes. Lol.    When I'm mad...everyone knows it but I try not to let those feeling get away from me to effect others. It also completely drains me mentally and physically when I get mad.  I was at that point last night but I got control over it when I realized this is not me.     

Rene''
@rene
11/17/16 12:00:07PM
1,194 posts

Lesson from my mind


Empath

@mommy4   Did you read my post last night , the hateful one, before I deleted it?  Just wondering if you could of been picking up on me.   I had a rage fit for some reason.  I felt like a Two year old having a tantrum.   Don't know what caused it to be so intense.   Had someone make me yesterday (family member ) but the more i thought about it last night the worse it got and I had to force my self to set down and ground.   After I grounded and centered myself I felt so much better but I'm not the kind of person to get that mad , not to that point.  Must of been an energy that was waiting on my to have a bad thought because it spinnent me out of control.     Sorry if it was me.   

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@rene
11/16/16 09:33:16PM
1,194 posts

Happy People


Empath

Sorry for my negatively tonight. It I'm upset due to two narcissist in my family.   I stay away from these two so they want to upset my son knowing they going to get me upset messing with my son    And I have stayed calmed up to this point   I'm going to meditate and they better hope it helps my attitude.  

Rene''
@rene
11/16/16 09:23:29PM
1,194 posts

Happy People


Empath

TigerLily: Few months ago a friend and I had a discussion about people and how negativity just rubs off. That came to mind tonight as I feel like exploding from emotions. We all talk about the narcs, fakes, negative etc. And how they are just drawn to us etc. What about happy people? People who are just happy, positive, takes lemons and makes lemonades. They clearly don't need or want help as they figure it out themselves and life carries on. How do we attract more of them to us? I know they don't "need" us, but nothing wrong with "wanting" to be around us. Must be their confidence. I feel like when I just try and run from a negative person they just chase me more.

I don't run any longer.   I turn and face them   I know their traits but they don't know mine anymore.   If I can help them with something then I will but if they want to manipulate me then game on.  I know that's hateful but if they can make good peoples life miserable then I got something to say about that.   I'm a fast thinker with a fast tongue.   I'm just not taking any longer.     
As we know there are people put on this earth that only eats,sleep and dreams of how they going to hurt some one. That's so wrong.


updated by @rene: 11/16/16 09:27:03PM
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@rene
11/16/16 09:09:57PM
1,194 posts

I feel like I'm going to explode


Empath

lololol.   My boss told me one time I was being too hard on the workers but...I was enforcing his rules!     Lol.    

People gets use to our compassion and they push it too far sometimes   We have limits just like everyone else    Like I told my boss "I am a superwoman but not THE SUPERWOMAN!     
I have had a bad past couple of days with family members. I havent cursed yet but it's coming.

Hopefull things will slow down for you soon   


updated by @rene: 11/16/16 09:12:00PM
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@rene
11/16/16 04:06:04PM
1,194 posts

The Abusive Empath


Empath

I am guilty of using my Empath abalities to "shame someone that is about to hurt someone mentally like "now, you wouldn't someone to treat you that way" or "I can't believe you can say that and it don't bother you ". And I can go into full normal zombie mode when protecting someone or butting heads with a narcissist but I don't normally don't hurt people's feelings but I can see where a person has been abused all their life using this as the only means of protecting themselves.
https://empathicperspectives.wordpress.com/2011/02/10/the-abusive-empath/

One more thing. Empathy is not equal to being an Empath. To my an Empath has empathy and more.
updated by @rene: 03/25/17 12:36:26AM
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@rene
11/16/16 01:23:57PM
1,194 posts

Friends


Empath

Hop Daddy:

I too am a huge animal lover. I have raised dogs all my life and currently have two golden retrievers that emanate such love and joy that just seeing them is instant joy and grounding for me. I can't imagine having to witness and hear a dog howling in pain. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm anxious just thinking about it. But it sounds like thanks to you one of the dogs will survive.

In my mind, dogs in particular are special animals and really are man's best friend. They have such unconditional love. I have heard that through reincarnation we live many lives and come back many times to elevate our soul and learn lessons. And I was told that the Hindu's believe that when your soul has lived many good lives and learned all the required lessons that you come back one final time as a dog. There is no doubt in my mind that dogs have peaceful loving souls.

My  best , wisest friend ever was a Golden Retriever name Red When he passed I think he took the best part of me with him

such spiritual dogs 


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@rene
11/16/16 09:38:30AM
1,194 posts

Mirroring For Protection.


Tools for Empaths

4peace:
Rene'':

@4peace.  Do you use it with or in place of "the bubble or only when you felt threatened. ?


I use the mirror in place of the bubble.  I'm a big star trek nerd, sometimes I say out loud "Shields up." :)

I understand.   I always wanted to be a Jedi ...I'm not kidding.    Lol.   

Im going to try that.   

Thanks     

Rene''
@rene
11/16/16 08:40:05AM
1,194 posts

Mirroring For Protection.


Tools for Empaths

HermesHH:

@rene, Hi rene.

I use mirrors too, most often if I have to go to public places. And then my intention is more of a cloaking device, rather than an active defense. In so far, when used in public I rarely notice people around feeling discomfort, yet most people don't have strong, directed intent.

Using a mirror force-field means I use the white light differently. For white light, I channel it to the people around, and white light really likes it when we channel to as many people as possible. However, we still need to limit the radius to something that our energy channels can comfortably handle. Of course, being the channeler, I also tend to get a share of that white light for myself, so its somewhat 'profitable', haha.

Ok. I understand.   That's exactly what I was wanting to know.   Thank you so much.    

Rene''
@rene
11/15/16 07:25:29PM
1,194 posts

So I'm really struggling...


Empath

This is the feeling I'm getting so take it with a grain of salt.  I feel you are the healing energy he is looking for but your intuition is already telling you this.  That's why he is taking you in doses.  Not committing but staying close.    My question is who will you be to him when he feels healed? A friend , a lover or the love of his life ?   

I have found that , when helping a person heal, we actually get to feel that pure love in their heart and it feels sooo good.  I have felt it so many times.  A hurt persons love is like a peaceful dreams on a big fluffy pillow  while they are healing.   They trust our vibration and lets us in until they are healed and then we have to snap back to reality and realize it was not a physical attraction but a spiritual one.    I'm not saying this is your situation but this is my experience.   A pure heart  is so additive

i can't  say either way what you should do except follow your intuition.   And if it is throwing red flags then there is a reason for it.     But is these red flags being threw due to his intentions or yours?  

I know as Empaths , we always stay a thought ahead of others.   If they are thinking of the color yellow , we will be describing the shade of yellow they are thinking of instead of just the color yellow.    

I feel your unsureness and I think that's pretty normal but if it is hurting you then there is something unsettling about it.   I'm blunt though.  I don't like being kept in the dark.  I would have to ask him "aye" what's going on here?  Am I your first thought or your second.  Am I your buddy or am I your someone special.    And if he thinks you are rushing things then he's not feeling you as much as your feeling him.   But..like I said..I'm blunt and I just don't like living in the unknown.    

Im so sorry your going though this.  You have so much love to give.     I hope things turns out the way you are dreaming of.   ❤️ 

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@rene
11/15/16 06:56:19PM
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Mirroring For Protection.


Tools for Empaths

@4peace.  Do you use it with or in place of "the bubble or only when you felt threatened. ?

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11/15/16 06:53:27PM
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Friends


Empath

Guilty 


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11/15/16 06:36:09PM
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Friends


Empath

Bless you.   Yours words totally enraged me.    Dogs are my heart.  The neighbor better be glad it was you and not me.    

Try not to take it so badly.  Onetime I returned a pitbull female that showed up at my house   She was scared up but I thought maybe she had had a rough life.  He owner claimed her but she didn't won't to go with him , that is when I should of listened to my instinct but I didn't due to I thought maybe I had spoiled her the week she was at my house , so I made her go with him.  I didn't like the feeling the man was giving me but what could I do, she was his dog.  

After it was all over with that evening my neighbor told me he was a fighter and he steals people pets for bait to agitate the dogs and with her being scared up she was probably a bait dog.   I was literally sick at my stomach.  I called animal control and the police and told them the story but they didn't care.    It was unlike me to advertise a found dog. I usually just keep them but I don't know if it was a lesson meant for me to learn in trust or what.  I went by his house everyday for a week.  He lived up the road from me. I never seen Rosie (what I named her lol) again. She was never tied out like the other dogs he had.  I'm still haunted by this.     

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11/14/16 08:21:11PM
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Guardian Angel, Spirit Guide, and Totem


Psychic and Paranormal

Paul:

Does anyone know if a spirit animal or spirit animal totem can be a Mythical Being?

Paul:

Does anyone know if a spirit animal or spirit animal totem can be a Mythical Being?

i would think they are and I say this due to the wisdom involved of the animal.   I feel them as being just as strong as the guides due to my experiences.  I have actually been shown more by animals guides than I have "human like" guides.  The owl is my totem  animal but I relate so much to the wolf and deer.   But I have also seen though the eyes of a hawk while in flight.  

But im closer to animals then I am humans.  I'm attached to them in some kind of connection.   

I haven't been shown much from the owl yet.   But, maybe that's because we are related and I already know what and how it thinks.  Lol.  


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11/14/16 08:11:41PM
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Mirroring For Protection.


Tools for Empaths

I'm not sure where to post this but here we go.
http://www.mysticfamiliar.com/archive/healingcircle/ar_hc_creating_reality_protection_mir_pro_tec_3.htm

https://www.yourpsychicdefense.com/psychic-defense/

I only added these links so you will know what I'm referring to.

Let me start by saying I usually use a moving protection or shield. It's just what works best for my because I'm hyper. I have trouble bring "white light" into a bubble. I don't know why but I do. I have such a vivid imagination it should be easy for me but it's not. But that's for another topic Lol.
I want to know more about Mirroring. Not to hurt people though.
I have some concerns about trying it as a everyday protection because I'm afraid it will reflect the light away from me. Is this true ?
Or do you only use it while under attach ?

As standoffish as I am I really don't like to hurt anyone or any thing so will mirroring put the pain the intended for me back on them, feeling what was intended for me? Then again I don't won't to do harm except if it's an entity that's trying to attach.

If anyone uses this can you explain to me when you are using it. Do you use it as you do the white light protection or what.

I have researched it but I would rather hear from the people that has used it or knows something about it.

Ok, while I got your attention...about me and the white light protection. I can see the light over my head but it don't come though my body like it does most. It's more like a sun rays. Maybe I'm still trying too hard. Idk.
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11/14/16 07:32:40PM
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Constantly Distracted


Empath

I haven't worked in a couple of years now but when I did I worked in quality control but I was actually the quality /psychologist/nurse/peace keeper/mother. Lol.   I worked 3rd shift for 20 years in quality because I don't sleep much anyway.  When I stepped though the door at night people would start calling my name. The 2nd shift seem they could not leave without filling me in on their day then 3 Rd could not get started without my help. .  I knew way to much stuff about the people I worked with.   I knew who's kids were sick and he was cheating on who.  I knew all of this without asking.   I was like a priest in a confession booth. It was way to overwhelming for me for years.   To tell you the truth I don't know how I survived.    So much hurt and struggling.  This people that worked on the floor did not get paid for their worth and the day to day struggle was real.    I felt ever bit of it.  What got me though it , I think, is my high vibration I put off.   But it seemed to attract more people.   They would get in trouble for being in my office.    

The all new I was all about love and they needed to feel that.   They worked so hard try to make ends met.   

I often cried on my way home in the mornings due to all the emotions I took in.   

I would ground myself and pray so hard for them some peace.    

I then receive custody of my little granddaughter and to meet her needs I quit me job.   I missed it so much but I have a three year old that has more energy than a shift of people. Lol.   

I just don't know how to cut it off completely because , in some ways , I don't won't to cut it off because I love people so much and I want to help.   

I meditate daily and I pray a lot.   

I'm pretty much introverted now and I love it but I do miss people sometimes.    But I needed the rest. Lol. 


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@rene
11/14/16 06:11:32PM
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Constantly Distracted


Empath

I have so much to say about this.  I don't know where to start 

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@rene
11/14/16 12:07:21PM
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Differences between Bipolar Disorder and Being a Empath


Empath

Hop Daddy:

This is a great post as I believe a lot of people who are empathic can be wrongly diagnosed with a mental illness. In fact, I had that happen to me. I did not know I was an empath and was feeling overwhelmed by the world and was always stressed, anxious, and often depressed. Things came to a head when I was at my lowest point and I finally went to a doctor. I was given anti-depressant medicine that did not make me feel any happier and instead turned me into a numbed up zombie. I quit taking it after a week. At that point, my doctor didn't know what to do to help me. I started doing some reading online trying to see where I matched up with possible mental illnesses and found an empath website. And I recognized who I was, and the rest is history. Understanding that I was an empath helped me understand that I was not ill and helped better identify why I was having waves of emotions (from other people). And now I'm better able to manage the negative symptoms through grounding (no medicine needed).

The tricky thing is that I don't want people who have legitimate mental illness to think they are an empath and go off their meds. Not being a doctor I would guess a lot of people with an anxiety and/or depression disorder could be empaths. But I would think anything more serious like bi-polar, mania, or schizophrenia etc... should carefully adhere to their doctor's advice on how to manage the illness.

thats why I am reluctant on posting on mental health issues    I do believe some have medical issues   They see things and hear things they may need treatment for and I don't won't my words to stand in their way of getting medical advice ...

im spiritual and the things I hear see and feel is not the same as Schizophrenia or other mental health issues but I do think some are missed diagnosed.   

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11/14/16 11:02:57AM
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Is this the begaining ?


Empath

http://www.27east.com/news/article.cfm/General-Interest-Southampton/501759/Shinnecock-Canal-Sees-Massive-Fish-Kill

Is this part of the price we are having to pay as Empaths or earth dwellers?

I know they may be "only fish" to some but this deeply effects me.
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@rene
11/14/16 10:59:31AM
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Super Moon


Empath

Paul:

Oh @rene the moon was so big yesterday. I tried to take a picture but it was pitiful. I've sensed good things from that. Feeling much better.

I was hoping for one of those moons that took up a great portion of sky but it's wasn't like that here.   

 
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