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Rene''
@rene
10/04/17 09:24:55PM
1,194 posts

Still wondering and wandering


Empath

Thank you. I think part of the problem is I was never shown forgiveness from my family for being different. Their judgement is so harsh and it’s not because they are right to judge me but it’s because I’m not like them. I don’t have a problem with forgiving anyone else but it maybe because I was taught to just take it. Idk. I would so love to think my family was a loving family. From the outside, we look like it but behind closed doors, no one would believe the madness and secrets. Thank you all for your suggestions, I have already started a couple of them.
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@rene
10/01/17 08:30:48PM
1,194 posts

Still wondering and wandering


Empath

Trevor Lewis:

@rene: Forgiveness is like a meditation. We don't meditate once and expect to be enlightened; it is a practice. Have a read of the article anyway and see if there is anything in there that can give you a new perspective.

BTW:
I come from a space of deciding that I chose my parents. I'm not saying that I always think that it was a wise choice.  There are still days when I wake up wondering "What was I thinking?!?!?"  but it does put me in the space of hero rather than victim knowing that I wouldn't be who I am today if I had chosen different parents. (and yes, I could be wrong about this but personally I find it a useful working hypothesis).



I tried it and will do this every day. Thank you
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@rene
10/01/17 08:29:00PM
1,194 posts

Still wondering and wandering


Empath

Yes, I have triggers also and once I’m triggered, my day is ruined.
@Travor....I just tried it and it made me cry. Silly I know. Thank you.

Thank you all so much.
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@rene
10/01/17 02:35:13PM
1,194 posts

Still wondering and wandering


Empath

I’m going to try all of these. Thank you.
Trevor, i tell myself I forgive him every day but I must be lying to myself. When I feel like I can breath easy, he does or said something about me though a neutral party and it opens the wounds back up. I have worked hard on releasing him. Don’t know what to do. It’s holding me back though.
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@rene
09/30/17 08:47:26PM
1,194 posts

Still wondering and wandering


Empath

Hello. Everyone. I haven’t been on much but I do come back just to feel your energy because it comforts me somehow if I post or not. I am still searching for the reason Im walking this path but I have a much better understanding than before but I have one problem that seems to keep holding my back. Cutting cords to major narcissistic monster. My dad. I haven’t had contact with him in over a year but he still haunts me every day. I have done my best to rid myself of him but nothing seems to work. I do the normal cutting of cords and call of the angels for help but for some reason, it’s not going away. And suggestion on a better way to release him forever?
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@rene
09/30/17 08:31:19PM
1,194 posts

Other people's effect on Perception


Empath

Yes. I can relate. I’m my opinion, even after the awakening, there is steps we go though as our awareness heightens and we step into our higher self which is a more pure form. We start to see the big picture as we balance ourself and people we are use to being around seems petty now with their judgement of others. We seem to see them in a new light. That’s one reason I backed away from most of my family and friends. They things they talked about before isn’t “ok” with me now. The harsh judgement they cast on things and people they don’t know anything about hurt me to listen to. I try to keep my energy high and I don’t like being around negative people anymore even though I’m some cases it’s hard to avoid. I carry a ground stone with me every where. Stay well grounded, and if your grounding methods arnt enough, add different techniques to your grounding process. Hope that helps.
Rene''
@rene
09/30/17 08:13:32PM
1,194 posts

Astral projected? Lucid dreaming?


Dreams

I also remember my thoughts. Very strange and vivid
Rene''
@rene
09/30/17 08:12:23PM
1,194 posts

Astral projected? Lucid dreaming?


Dreams

To start with, I don’t sleep walk. I never remember what I dream, ever, I do astral project from time to time but this was totally different. I just would like some opinions on this. I fell asleep on the couch, with gym shorts and t shirt on. I woke up (or so I thought) and walked into the kitchen and thought “WhY is everything so gray”? Every thing looked strange even though it was normal. I thought I’ll go outside and see why it isn’t dark (it was nighttime). As I entered the hall way I dawn on me that I might be sleep walking so I told myself wake up wake up but nothing changed. I opened the back door and stepped out and it was very foggy and gray and I looked down at my clothes and I had a long white gown on. I thought omg. I’m sleep walking. Wake up wake up. I step off my steps onto the walkway not knowing where I’m going and I noticed none of the cats were at my feet. ( I have stray cats I feed that stays on my back steps). I started down the walkway and a young man in his 20’s appears out of the fog. He was dressed modern day punk. Lol but I could tell when he approached me that he would not hurt me. He walked up to me and touched my arm. I felt it!! I told him I’m sleep walking and I need to wake up. He smiled and helped me back to the steps and opened the door and I woke up, I told him thank you and walked back in the house and got to the kitchen and noticed I wasn’t awake and it scared me. So I walked though the house a couple of times then I woke up on the couch, where I fell asleep at. My heart was beating hard. It scared me.

Ok. What happened? I meditate every day and I have remote viewing so I’m use to paying attention to detail when I’m in a meditative state but I felt him touch my arm.

I know this sounds crazy, it does to me also. My clothes was different and the cats wasn’t where they always are at night.
Did I step though a portal?
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@rene
09/01/17 07:29:51AM
1,194 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

I know the feeling. Empaths are so use to trying to heal the world the automatically look for and attracts people that needs to heal. We are safe havens and we often get our hearts broke because people fall in love with our energy and they are attracted to it but once they are feeling better , our light don't seem as bright to them as it was in the beginning and it's because they have drained our energy and leaves us with nothing in return except excess baggage if we don't know how to release it. But those darn narcissistic keeps giving us hope when they arnt any just to keep us on their side. A narcissist with a Empath friend makes him look like a good person.
What I now do is I step back, no matter what I feel for a person and I observe them. I look how they treat other people and animals and how they treat me. And what they are bringing in to the relationship. I let all red flags fall where they may.

But ...my best advice is to take time to yourself. You have to take time to kind your own strengths and weaknesses and to love yourself. My "me" time comes before anything else. It's how I heal, think and analyze my thoughts and feelings. I have had to force to make myself not message narcissistic people when I'm lonly or bored.
Rene''
@rene
09/01/17 07:16:53AM
1,194 posts

Please Take An Empath Poll...


Empath

Yes and yes
Rene''
@rene
08/03/17 10:10:43PM
1,194 posts

Questioning The Empath-Narcissist Connection


Empath

Both of my parents were narcissist and my brother also. My sister and myself are Empaths but she will bind over backwards to please them. She worries why the don't love her. I use to try to fit in but not anymore more. When they come at me it's like hitting a brick wall. That's why they don't visit or call me. My mom died but she died a narcissist. Never changed. I do miss family functions but it get though them by telling myself "it's just one day and it will end at midnight and I don't have to put up with their energy. It gets easier each holiday. But my sister has joined them now and I'm the complete outcast but this outcast can lay down at night with no regrets. It took my a long time to realize it's not my fault and I can't change them so I leave them be...until the next time they want to cross me. I'm not hateful but these people ruined my whole childhood making me feel I wasn't good enough.
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@rene
08/03/17 09:59:15PM
1,194 posts

Strange vision


Empath

Hello. I do get headaches with strong visions. Someone told me one time it had something to do with the third. I also get very drained feeling after some visions. I have had the same visions twice this week. I was a concrete Celtic cross that was painted pinkish red color. It puzzles me also.
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@rene
07/29/17 10:16:22PM
1,194 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

Bookworm "]
You are making a difference

Much love❤️❤️❤️Hope you are doing well.
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@rene
07/28/17 09:26:38PM
1,194 posts

Eyes-Judgy


Empath

I also see into a person by looking into their eyes. I wouldn't call it judgement, but utilizing my gifts. But, if what I see or feel collides with my energy, I will back away.
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@rene
07/28/17 09:21:06PM
1,194 posts

Selfish people or what ??


Empath

@Tundra2
I spent so much of my life being seen and not heard. It's very sad to have to feel these feelings. Even though I'm more outspoken now, it caused damage. I'm very introverted these days. Just keeping to myself because I can't deal with those kind of people. Plus, I like being alone. So many people has come to me for help and healing but after they receive it, they are back to treating me like I'm invisible. I still help the ones I can but I find myself shutting down when approached by many. Maybe it's a coping skill or I have actually started taking care of myself before I do others now. I don't know.
The world is an ugly place and maybe we was put here to spread love. But the more light I bear, the uglier the world looks but there has to be a reason for our suffering and hopefully we are making a difference.
Rene''
@rene
07/26/17 07:46:21PM
1,194 posts

When the world feels against you


Empath

Hello You know, I do think the negatively will make everything else feel hard. We push and pack back emotions that we don't want to deal with at the moment and it finally builds a wall and you will be trapped inside of it. I understand that you cannot control some of the events in your life but you can choose how you are going to let it affect you. Stay balanced and watch as a spectator and release the emotions and try to stay positive. When things get overwhelming and you cannot change the outcome, then excepted it and let it go. Try to remove yourself from some of the negatively when it happens and go outside and listen for the birds. They always raise my vibration. (Now if I could take my own advice). That was probably a guide in your dream. Just be patient and let the universe work it out in your favor . If it cared enough to send you a message then it cares enough to help you to rise above it.
I have also heard many Empaths saying it is trying times. Good luck and stay balanced.
Rene''
@rene
07/14/17 11:42:17PM
1,194 posts

What Are Your Favorite Empath/Medium/Psychic Movies?


Empath

The 6th Sence is one of my favorites.
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@rene
07/14/17 11:33:22PM
1,194 posts

Speaking in Tongue


Dreams

Hello @ Bill Walker. What a amazing dream. Would that be sweet, a direct line to God.
I just want to say that there is other experiences in other beliefs that is like the Christian "talking in tongues " but of course each have their own name for them. One that comes to mind is a video I was watching on the kundalini awakening. Those folks were an euphoric state doing things I didn't understand. I'm not an expert on kundalini or anything just another perspective. Wow. What a great dream. Hope all is well.
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@rene
06/01/17 12:13:57PM
1,194 posts

Where does our Empath Gifts come from?


Empath

@trevor-Lewis
Hello Trevor. Certainty some good question to think about. Thank you
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@rene
05/23/17 09:37:20PM
1,194 posts

Lifting the Seven Veils (enlightenment)


New Age

I was sure which group I should place this in . If I have chosen the wrong group, please let me know. Very interesting read


http://innerself.com/content/personal/spirituality-mindfulness/religions-a-beliefs/9571-lifting-the-seven-veils-of-illusion-on-the-path-to-enlightenment.html
updated by @rene: 10/15/17 11:49:57AM
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@rene
05/23/17 11:08:33AM
1,194 posts

Any Advice On Overcoming Bad Luck?


Empath

@hop-daddy

Hi. Oh yes, I have experienced much bad luck. I can only share my own solutions. My bad luck, per say, comes in waves or numbers. Of course I try my best to keep my vibrations high but unfortunatel events can bring me tumbling down. Once it happens I note it and start working on it. I count my blessings and think of things worse that could happen. Then I put my intent into it and say, no, your not stealing my joy and lift my vibration back up. I seems that the more I romance my thoughts on the negative, more happens or I look at situations negatively. If i have my vibration up I can move around the problem easier and quicker. No doubt though, I fall in them holes of frustration also. But when it starts happening and I notice the patterns, I nip it in the bud.
Rene''
@rene
05/16/17 12:41:55PM
1,194 posts

Are We Rare?


Empath

I think we are rare. If you sit and listen to someone long enough, their true nature or ego will show though. I have been wrong so many times about people.
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@rene
04/27/17 11:13:18PM
1,194 posts

Men


Empath

First off, listen to your intuition.
I have had people that feels my energy and falls in love with it. But after awhile, they see I'm an actual human and not a magical fairy, the drift away. Then drop back in from time to time to feel my energy again and leave again. I don't get attached to anyone because of this. When they start telling me after one day that they are in love with me. I stop them right there and tell them, no, that's my energy not my everyday human. Lol. I think when we vibration at a high frequency, we attract a whole lot of people that wants to feel us because we feel so light and full of love.

This may of sounded crazy but I have experienced it too many times for it to be a coincidence.
Rene''
@rene
04/11/17 11:51:51PM
1,194 posts

Sound Healer and Shielding


Empath

Which kind of healing are you asking about ,
?
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@rene
04/11/17 11:47:59PM
1,194 posts

Child reoccurring nightmare


Dreams

Yes. We don't let her watch too much tv at night because she gets too wound up. We also don't let her have any sugar before bedtime. She takes a bath and plays with her dolls mostly. I don't know where she could of see anything like this at. It scared me because the last dream the bad baby tried to touch her.
Rene''
@rene
04/11/17 11:43:16PM
1,194 posts

Hello


Empath

You are not a ugly person to begain with. I have cut all ties to a lot of family and friends because of the same reason. Like the saying goes. Don't look back at the past.. your not going that way. You need to start the healing process and decide where you go from here. On my spiritual journey, it has brought me to a point of solitude. I stay to myself a lot and dealing with old emotions I have pushed to the side for years. I'm stronger than I ever been now. You have to forgive yourself for what wrongs you think you may have caused and move on. They lived though it so let's make sure you don't keep beating your self up. Try to stay positive and think about the new person you are becoming. The future is bright and yours for the taking.
Rene''
@rene
04/11/17 12:51:02PM
1,194 posts



I too am an Animal Empath. Yes. You can read animals like you do people. I personally think if it has a soul, I unfortunately can read it.
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@rene
04/11/17 12:47:10PM
1,194 posts

How do you perceive others emotions?


Empath

I had a real problem with this until I started spending a lot of time alone and got to know myself better. Going though all my files of feelings.
The air around people seeps into me and I feel it and return it to the air. It took me a long time and a lot of balancing to be able to do this and I learned not every emotion deserves a reaction. I do try to stay away from people that breeds bad energy or have uncontrollable attachments But ...I do have to deal with the public from time to time.
The trick with any emotion filter is , do not let it attach and become part of your reality. Hard to do sometimes though.
updated by @rene: 04/11/17 12:48:17PM
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@rene
04/11/17 12:36:45PM
1,194 posts

Child reoccurring nightmare


Dreams

Ok. I will try the stones. She is also spiritual at this young age.
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@rene
04/10/17 01:20:42PM
1,194 posts

Child reoccurring nightmare


Dreams

I know a child's imagination is scary to them sometimes but my granddaughter who is 4 keeps having the same one over and over. She calls it the bad baby. It makes people die. At first I just thought it was just a night mare but she has dreamed of it 3 times this week. Each time she tells me about it I instruct her to tell it to go away , and not come back. Last night it happened again so I smudge her with sage and told her she is protected now.

Any other suggestions? The dreams are so vivid. She is very detailed when she tells me about them.
updated by @rene: 08/12/17 02:27:27AM
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@rene
04/05/17 12:29:51AM
1,194 posts

Being afraid to stop absorbing the energy of others


Empath

Hello. I was that way at one time. It was like I needed the connection as bad as they did. I was so use to helping others that I was letting them drain my energy. I liked to feel wanted though. But it got to be too much. I was way off balanced and I had to cut them free. And guess what.. they lived. Lol. And now I feel so much better. I now set boundaries with people. I help as mush as my energy allows without draining myself. We can not help others heal if we are broken ourselves. Our mental health comes first. Just saying.
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@rene
03/24/17 09:47:40PM
1,194 posts

Working readers


Empath

@renee. Hey girl. Missed you
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@rene
03/04/17 08:44:20PM
1,194 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

Ok. Thanks.
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@rene
03/04/17 08:43:20PM
1,194 posts

Consciousness


Empath

To me Spiritual consciousness and Human Consciousness are two different Consciousnesses. For example. I look down at a pansy flower. The human consciousness sees it purple and yellow. My spiritual consciousness see it in every possible detail and more. My mind may go back to when it sprouted to its future There are many different levels on consciousness.
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@rene
03/04/17 08:36:30PM
1,194 posts

No control over incoming info


Empath

I have noticed when I look at someone's photo , their feelings or their fears does not come in right then. I will lay the photo down and walk off and it comes to me. But like while I'm shopping and passing people by I will pick up on their emotions or what they are thinking I hold me imagery hand up to block it and keep right on going. Children are hard for me to read. Their minds are so jumpy and wandering around. Lol.
Rene''
@rene
03/02/17 11:41:47AM
1,194 posts

This has happened to me before


Empath

Let me know if you have trouble opening it.
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@rene
03/02/17 11:39:48AM
1,194 posts

This has happened to me before


Empath

Once upon a time I lost my intuition, or so I thought. I don't know if it left or I had too many issues blocking it.

http://www.enlightened-consciousness.com/8-strong-signs-youve-lost-touch-with-your-intution/#sthash.dHcouNxX.dpuf
updated by @rene: 07/04/17 12:22:06PM
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@rene
03/02/17 08:08:34AM
1,194 posts

Sleep issues


Empath

I haven't been able to sleep with sleep meds in years. I have tried it a few times but I eventually have to go back on them.
Rene''
@rene
02/24/17 09:30:12PM
1,194 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

But. Then again.. there's those days when reality leaves a bitter taste in my mouth

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@rene
02/24/17 09:19:29PM
1,194 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

I would like to fall in love before I die. The kind of love that I can't live without that person. Just once. A true person. I have never felt that.

Rene''
@rene
02/24/17 09:13:18PM
1,194 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

Exactly..
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@rene
02/24/17 09:05:32PM
1,194 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

Rene''
@rene
02/24/17 08:58:55PM
1,194 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

@nikkisixx. We must be about the same age. Love Motley Crue. Wildside!! Back in the day.

Good song. Don't care for the video

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@rene
02/24/17 08:48:20AM
1,194 posts

I'm a free Spirit. (Lol)


Empath

Lol. @nikkisixx. I picked up on you and made a song game post as you was posting this. Lol.
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@rene
02/24/17 08:41:00AM
1,194 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

I don't see the music section any longer so I will post this here. Let's get to know each other better. Name a song that best describes you or your life as an Empath I promise to listen to everyone's song. It's could be the song for how your feeling at the moment or a song that explains you life. Everyone has that one song.

I will start it off.

This is one of many songs about myself.




updated by @rene: 07/13/17 12:06:35PM
Rene''
@rene
02/24/17 08:28:59AM
1,194 posts



No. It's good to be able to filter the emotions of others. we learn to receive those feeling , feel them for a moment and release them. At one point in my life I always used the chameleons effect. Trailering myself to each personality I met so everyone would like me. Not so much any more. I consider myself a good person and if someone don't like me than so be it. It's not my problem. There are those people in the world that's not going to like me because they cannot control my happiness or lack of caring if I fit into there molds they create for their friends. I can only do me.
updated by @rene: 07/01/17 05:42:50AM
Rene''
@rene
02/23/17 09:33:39PM
1,194 posts

I'm a free Spirit. (Lol)


Empath

@calmidwester. You are a free spirit my friend. Hold you head high, there is no other with your beauty.
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@rene
02/23/17 04:03:15PM
1,194 posts

I'm a free Spirit. (Lol)


Empath

I think most Empaths are free spirits after they break away from others opinions. I hope we all can break free..

http://elitedaily.com/life/culture/difference-hippies-free-spirits/1043260/
updated by @rene: 07/06/17 09:46:22AM
Rene''
@rene
02/21/17 06:18:14PM
1,194 posts

Intro


Empath

@calmidwester

Hello Empath. Maybe you haven't heard of us because we are the universes secret Love weapon . Lol. Jk. Research and this forum is the best advise I can give you. Your in good hands here but I have to warn you...about the time you think you have it all figured out..you start evolving and every thing changes again. It just gets better if you embrace it and not fight it. (Never thought I would hear myself saying that lol ).
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