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jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
09/30/15 12:07:28PM
13 posts

Empaths and Stones/Crystals


Empath

Thank you Rosemary. I Love getting very informative replys they really do help me know where to at least start in my reasearch. Ive always heard sage as a great cleansing tool, that is why I was concerned when I heard otherwise. Thank you very much. This is my first time that I've brought stones and crystals in my home, I now know as an empath I have to be a more cautious. I didnt even think twice before I bought them for my project, I defiantly will now. And I WILL sage my home and verbally let this dark man know he needs to leave. I wil also be saging the wind chime right before I give it as a gift. Thanks again.
jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
09/30/15 08:50:59AM
13 posts

Empaths and Stones/Crystals


Empath

Regarding the dark...energy....it's easier for me to ignore in my waking state but when im sleeping I can feel it trying to slip into my dreams, bringing out internal fears. So its not the being its self that causes fear but my own fears that it trys to use against me. Now that ive become more aware I find it's more of a nuisance and an annoyance than anything. But I worry for my husband and son. Ive even been finding ways to push "it" back out of my dreams....sometimes, still working on that. Id prefer it gone all together. Ive been doing lots of reasearch. Now the stones, I did do a test, I put them in kosher salt water outside. When I walked back in my house, it felt.....different. Initially there were in a completely different room than where I sleep. When I removed them from the house I realized there were actual vibrations throughout my house when they were there. When I left them outside it felt substantially different. Didnt really notice it until I removed them. I thought that strange. So I think I may finish this wind chime outside. I do appreciate the feedback, I learn something new about the cautions an empath has to take every time I get a response. Thank you.
jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
09/29/15 02:01:09PM
13 posts

Empaths and Stones/Crystals


Empath

Hello all, I am looking for anyone who has any knowledge how crystals stones rocks effect empaths. I've recently been making wind chimes for my family member for their birthday. I make them according to their personality and vibes I guess you can say. I'm currently in the process of making a chime for my cousin. She loves rocks and earthy things. So I bought a bulk of stones rocks and crystals. It seems since I've receive them I am have problems sleeping, nightmares. Could this have to do with the stones/crystals/rocks I received? How can they effect an empathy, if any at all? Could they be effecting my sleeping? Also, a dark man has been seen in my house recently, could the stones have brought him? How can I get rid of him? Could he be effecting my dreams and sleeping? Any feedback is appreciated. I could really use some help. I hear using white sage is good, but I am part Navajo and I've been told that it's bad juju to BUY white sage, that is suppose to be given without expecting anything in return. I dunno, I'm at a loss right now. Either way thanks for reading. Good vibes to all.


updated by @jjuniorr: 01/22/17 02:21:23AM
jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
09/16/15 11:02:37AM
13 posts

Empaths and nightmares


Empath

Hi all, So I have a question to thoseempaths who have carried achild. I've been having extremely vivid lucid dreams and very disturbing nightmares. This is my second child and I do not remember having these dreams with my son. Even before I knew I was expecting I was having extremely vivid lucid disturbing dreams. I hope every night that I wont dream or at least have a regular dream but it doesn't happen. The last two night have been horrible, to the point where I am so exhausted the next day. Night before last I dreamt that I was being raped and my husband and son were made to watch, it was horrible. Last night I dreamt me and my son were being hunted down by a demon ghost and I couldn't get out of the damn dream, I normally can but I just haven't been able to wake myself up. I don't watch scary movies as a matter a fact I made a point the last couple of weeks to only reading corny romantic novels and haven't been watching TV. I am at a loss, I can't keep dreaming these disturbing dreams. They are becoming more and more bloody and although they don't always scare me they are causing anxiety in me and sleepless nights. Any feedback would be appreciated, even more so a solution to keep these nightmares away. I've even gone to the extent as blessing my house with holy oil and holy water. I know they can be hormones, but I've always had a problem with dreams, but not like this. It's ridiculous. I'm beginning to get frustrated when I'm sleepy, knowing that I may have another nightmare. Not sure if this can be relevant to my dreams, BUT another reason I blessed my home is my husband woke up one night and saw a shadow manleaning overme, when the shadow sawthat my husband was awake my husbandsuddenly couldn't move and'it' walked over to him. My husband explained to mehe kept fighting to move, when the shadow gotto the end of bed on his sidehe somehow was able to moved and started kicking out to it, and it disappeared. He said he woke me up and told meand that I responded but I don't remember any of it. The nightmares stopped for a couple of daysbut began again so I don't see much of a connection. I know this may come off nonchalant but that kind of this has happened on and off a large portion of my life. If anyone can see or explain a connection and even better a solution I am all ears. Thanks for taking the time to read.


updated by @jjuniorr: 01/11/17 09:10:42PM
jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/23/15 07:32:21PM
13 posts

First time....


Empath

Thank you so much kit Kat, reading your suggestions does make me feel better, your suggestions are possible, somethings I CAN do everyday. It was nice to see there really is someone who understands and has been though similar difficulties and has made it through. Gives me hope. Thank you for that. The needs that empaths have are so true, but I ignore them becuase of my need to put everyone first. I will do what you've suggested and I feel that it may be the right road for me to start on. Thank you again. You made me greatful that I've come here for insight.
jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 11:13:21PM
13 posts



Do "I" think it goes away? No. Perhaps if it's developed on your own it may be diminished but it will never go away. For me, it's blood deep. all the years I've tried to ignore it, it's never gone away. Either way, I believe 100% that is who you are, it can never go away. I can be TOTALLY wrong. But I really think it's just who you are. It's how God made you and it's what make you different from everyone else in the world.

jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 11:04:16PM
13 posts

Constant negative energy


Empath

Sounds like a jacked up situation, but one thing I've learn, just "coping" with something doesn't allow happiness. It's just coping, your not living.

I know you love your pops (we don't choose our parents), but he survived years without you, he will survive again without you. Be brave, be strong and make the best decision for YOU. I know you can.

Ever need an ear, msg me.

jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 10:57:46PM
13 posts

First time....


Empath

Hello Empath Community I am new to this so please bare with me,

I am a born empath, runs in the family. Not always great but it is what it is. Recently I'm finding it hard to find the positive......aspect of my life/sixth sense. Forgive me if I seem a bit pessimistic but, not much good has come from my "gift". As this seems to be a part of my heritage, I feel I should try to learn to understand more on how to control it. Unfortunately my life hasn't been easy and although I always knew (and I KNEW) things would get better it's made me see the negative part of humanity. Once you see that, it's hard to see much else. I'm here to try to find, I guess, like minds and answers (in a way).

Lately, I can't control my overwhelming emotions, feelings, vibes, energies (whatever you want to call it). I find my self working in cubical office to prevent myself from having constant contact with people. And lately I've been almost pulling my hair out because of the energy. I really need to find a way to cope with these feelings. I can't continue going on this way, I have a son and a husband (whom I keep this from) to take care of. Not to mention myself. I've tried meditating, it takes me into a deep place I'm afraid I will not come back from if I give myself over.

I don't know what to do anymore, I'm getting to a point, (please don't judge) where I am smoking weed everyday to cope with it. Dulls my sense, and helps me get through my day, but I can't spend ALL day high. I don't want to.

Please don't give me books to read or links to find, I've read them, I've clicked on them. They don't help, I need a real person to help me. Someone I can feel out, know if their just yanking my chain, or poking fun. And yes, I've had people poke fun, and it's not a feeling I want to experience again.

I know I may be VERY straight forward, but it's me, who I am and what I am and out of everything it's the one thing I WILL embrace.

Any advice anyone can provide, I would greatly appreciate.

I am not a bad person......just tired of sugar coating my words, and I hope this is one place I won't have to.

If I've offended anyone, I am beyond apologetic. Not my intention, just looking for......help.

Thanks for reading, even if you have nothing to add.


updated by @jjuniorr: 01/15/17 10:46:17PM
jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 10:28:03PM
13 posts

Help


Empath

Before I start.....I don't always see it as a gift either.

I understand the need to make it stop. BUT you have to keep in mind it's who you are, what makes you, you. I've made attempts to quite my...........extra sense, but that's all it does. Is quiet it, it will never go away, its a part of you. Fear is what keeps you from embracing it (which I also understand) but even if you find a way to make it easier to deal with, once you stop, it will come back with a vengeance. My advice, is to see what the voices have to say, set boundaries and be strong and remember who is in control, YOU. But fear is what is holding you back. Your strong. You can do it. Have faith........in yourself.

Unfortunately I don't have a book for you to read, but my advice is strictly on MY experiences, which isn't much but a lot at the same time. Do what YOU think is best, because in the end, its your life.

Ever feel the need to chat, message me. Sometimes talking about it, can help, and I'm ALL ear. Well...maybe NOT literally ;0)

jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 09:58:42PM
13 posts

help plz one person making me ill. why?


Empath

Personally, I think she may be an kind of empath herself and not know, and the fact that she is a addict may not help. I have a cousin, (sensitivity run in my fam in one way or another) the ONE time I've tried to help her (she had a migraine) I put my hands on her, less than a minute I nearly passed out, my husband had to grab me before I hit the ground, she literally drained me of my energy I couldn't stand.

I'm not an experienced empath (in any shape or form), but from what I've experienced (the hard way) so far some people who are not aware of their sensitivity can be what I call (my term not technical in any way) psychic vampires. They can unintentionally and literally suck the energy from you, it can make you sick and fatigued.

I'd say stay away but that doesn't seem to be an option. My nino (godfather) suggested a tigers eye stone (protective stone) as a necklace. Worked for my sister.

Good luck.

jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 09:32:10PM
13 posts

Out of body?


Empath

Personally, I've never experience something like that, but lucid dreaming can cause very disturbing experiences. I've had moments where I can't wake up or when I do I can't move almost like someone is holding me down, can't scream, can't speak, can't do anything. Its when I give in and say a prayer, I can relax and stop fighting, I am able to will myself out of it.

Try reading something on Lucid dreaming. Your experience is interesting, but I understand it may be more disturbing for you.

Hope you have better nights. I use classical to fall asleep, it seems to help with my dreams and overall sleeping.

jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 04:57:32PM
13 posts

Trying to find answers...


Empath

I am here for the same reason. I have the same problems, if someone is around me that is sad, angry, depressed or sick(unsure why, but negative vibes are always easier to pick up on)I feel the need to touch them to make them feel better. Its avery overwhelming need. And it makes me feel crazy.I'm not sure sometimes that I want this, but when I help someone I realize it's not about what I want, it's what is meant to be no matter how much I may fight it, but for me it sometimes feel frightening to embrace it. Wish you all the luck in the world, your stronger than you think. Fear is what hold people back, I'm learning that.

No worries, your not alone. There is at least one other person that understands COMPLETELY.

jjuniorr
@jjuniorr
08/21/15 04:48:11PM
13 posts



I understand that completely. Acquaintances, never friend. I've tried to have friends, but I always manage to say something they don't want to hear and well that's the end, never hear from them again, sadly this includesa coupleof my family members. I now try to just keep my feelings to myself. Only person I share with now is my sister, she's the only one that I don't feel like I'm being judged crazy when I say something out of the norm.

Really wish you the best with searching for a like mind that could one day canbe called "Friend"